₦airaland Forum

Hassanmaye:
You talk too much

Amtrak:
Why didn't she knock?

slimmax:
Here we go again, Emotional blackmail is what women use to hold a man. Men with 2 or more wives would be hearing Std nko, emotional wailing

Faith07:
Cheating without remorse is the worst

countryman13:
D best thing to do is to walk away(although it might b a bit difficult) and pretends as if nothing happened to see if d husband will come up wt d gist. She has no biz wt d woman. I have had a similar experience like ds although not in d act but were both caught on d same bed. D woman walked out sadly but eventually became an object of worship for d husband.

femi4:
Walk away and discussed later. Not enough to cause separation. Divorcing him will only put the strange woman in total control of her home

culf:
it's both ways my dear and like you said, it does alot to the other partner but unfortunately so some men see it as anything, release and go, more unfortunate thing is women are beginning to do worse.

Unless someone that fears God, if not, this era of couple denying each other sex, cheating will continue to rise.

God will help us

Rexymania:
Should she teach op English?

tranxo:
Is she still standing there watching both of them?

Omoawoke2:
I blame civilization, a man should have as many wives as he can. Women have become too greedy and proud and think they should own one full man to themselves. Women are supposed to share one man.

Jewessgratitud3:
I know many women find it difficult to leave their marriage owing to the points you made above but I still believe it's better to damn these assumptions and leave than battling with a deadly disease for the rest of your life..

I know a woman, the husband is dead now while she struggling with her health and left to cater for three children all by herself. Something that could have been prevented. Now husband she no see again, sound health, no way.. just living a painful life.

Abeg it's not worth it. No useless man is worth all that trouble.

djon78:
Exactly

Women married to cheating Men are going through a lot

Some Men don't even hide it again
It's so part of there Life

While some women cheat back and there husband's no send

While the jealous ones when they find out sends the Wife away

One big man I know
A chronic womanizer
Who wasn't touching the Wife
Claim she cheated and sent her away
But what saved the woman was she born all the children for the Man
6: 2 boys and 4 girls

My guy was telling me recently
Three of her daughter's living in the US moved there Mum to the US

While there Dad brought an advanced old cargo woman out from her husband house claiming she's his wife now

But the two sons no one hear that one
They don't recognize the woman
And the big man knows but he can't do anything now

The sons don mature hold there own money now

cornelman:
No dey reason am o. Run from anybody who doesn't get angry or complain about anything you do. When you come across people like that, run for your dear life. The most dangerous people are like that. They'll make you comfortable doing your shit and keep quite or even cheer you on such that you think they are no threat. It's called smokescreen. They wait for the prime time (it may take years) when their revenge will be absolute, and strike just once. There's no come back with them.

abbeyd2:
She should walk away from the scene. Let the man come and explain himself. I know he will lie, let the woman give the man a break. And how long have they married.

johnjose68:
Sorry madam, so you actually met your husband on top another woman.
Take heart and do not attempt anything you will later regret.

Do not seek advice from i.pob element like racoon and taylor 88,92.

Do not do what the wife of Obi Onwubuasi and Ekpa would do in such situation

Listen to your heart.

Come back here and give us feedback.

BRATISLAVA:
Poison him?
Walk away?

Poison him.

Fiscus105:
If they post about single mother in Nigeria, you won't think twice before you use ur leprosy hand to say all sorts of derogatory on Naija woman.

Indeed I salute Naija woman in the hand of several beasts in Nigeria.

Powerhouse5050:
Nigerian women don't know how to walk away.

Nigerian women don't like to walk away

The title "Mrs" means much more than life to them.

Nigerian women would always search and find reasons to stay.

The biggest, ultimate achievement of most Nigerian women is to be married.

Thus walking away is not an option.

Pootle:
you are the one, jus file for divorce

djon78:
This is true

Society even gives excuse for a cheating man

It's not really frowned at unlike woman own

Ola9ja23:
Mumu
Na so it easy?

My wife once caught me about 6 years ago. We kept it within ourselves.
Though it was a difficult one year before she regain her confidence.

Now I work in another state and go home once in two weeks and no issue since then.

It happens but she has to give him a second chance

Jewessgratitud3:
What's there to discuss? No need to even fight any of them. It is over!

The woman should just make arrangements and plans to move out and file for a divorce. commiting adultery in your home. That is the height of disrespect that no man or woman should condone. Just free the idiot.

I know some will have a different opinion like "it can be resolved and things can still work out" balderdash crap. Please shove it down your throat, I don't want to hear it.

Many that continued with a cheating partner are now living in regrets after their randy spouses infected them with HIV. Today they are down looking like skeleton, tomorrow theyre back to vitality that only last for a few weeks.

An adulterer should be divorced right away!

slimmax:
And so.
Are we not in Africa, A man cheating has nothing to do with you. The baby gotten from the affair has nothing to do with u, but if a woman cheats , she will want you to take care of what is not yours, I make sense.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
The man is a big idiot
.yes I agree that we men are polygamous in nature

But we should always do it with sense

Like me I will marry one wife and have many girl friends outside
But I won't be that foolish to rub it on the face of my wife or disrespect my wife by bringing those girls to the house

Reason I like the husband of my elder sister

The man is a womaniser but he has never disrespect my sister my rubbing it on her face or bringingany girls home...and his womanzing nature doesn't stop him from his responsibility towards my sister and their kids.
Infact as I'm typing my sister is driving a venza car bought for her by the husband...the kids are well fed and taken care of... Their school fees alone for each one is about 1.2 million and there has never been a time he doesn't pay it

Mindlog:
Is that not what many men want, a woman who would not confront their infidelity?

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Zonefree:
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By calmly, like, she should make them to sit down, make a cup of tea for them and ask them politely why they're engaging in immoral act?

Kajaard:
She should walk away and decide her next line of action from a safe distance.