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@topic,

There is nothing wrong with girls from single parent homes, stigmatizing them is another one way to force women to stay in toxic marriages, tolerating abusive men so they don't end up making their daughters products of broken homes.


Some girls that come from homes where both parents are present also end up as bad wives because their parents never respected or loved each other and were always fighting, or the parents lived like brother and sister, no intimacy, closeness or affection.

The important thing is the common sense and wisdom of the wife or husband, not whether their parents divorced or stayed together in unhappy marriages.

Romanoff:
No. You're trying to get me to tell you that women are generally materialistic in their choices of spouses but I can't relate cause i might not have a lot of friends but the ones I have are sensible.

So if you attract lazy and vain females or if that's what you see around, that's all on you and not for me to validate.

Bye sir.

You put up very intelligent points in this debate but the thing with arguing with males is that they hate losing to females so they keep taking you round in circles until they wear you out or they change the topic to another one they can defend properly or they start using ad hominens and telling you how you are irrational or untruthful or emotional and so on.
Very difficult and irritating gender.

Wellington123:
Your statement would only be true for a man who deliberately marries and ambitious woman and try to suppress are growth so that she will not be better than him… there are about 4 billion women in d world, a man can find a woman who is not ambitious who is family oriented and just want to birth children, nurture them, take proper care of her husband and in return, her financial burden is borne by the man… and if the man has what it takes, and goes for this kind of arrangement then where is d wickedness in this?… have u noticed that most successful career women are single these days? High value men don’t want them because of the obvious

Please speak for yourself @bolded.

Only evil men with unnecessary pride and power mania avoid successful women.

Are men not funny? If they see a women who is willing to depend on her husband instead of being successful and career oriented, they call her liability or gold-digger. When a woman decides to pursue a career and be ambitious, they still complain.
If the career woman is married the husband starts hoping and praying against her progress so she doesn't end up being too successful and showing she is smarter and more hardworking than him.
In their wicked minds women must be inferior to men in every way possible.

If you had or have a daughter, will you want her to marry a man that outrightly tells you he would hate for your daughter to be more successful him? Answer that question honestly.

pepericozi:
Quoted:Funny enough, i was discussing with my friend on the phone this morning and i was telling him that women are not supposed to willpower, because they cannot manage or control it.

Below is a link, where Wife of DG SSS orders arrest of Kano NNPP guber candidate, directs personnel to kill his aide at Kano airport.

My response
Yes, this is funny and irritating. Women? Even in offices where they are the head. All subordinate are on danger list. Why? Why now? Why are they power drunk?

Anyway, our politicians are intoxicated with power, male or female.

This is very false, I have worked in different establishments where women were heads and they were very kind and cooperative. The men who were heads on the other hand na soso toto and yansh matter full their heads. Girls cannot work under them for one straight year without them attempting to sleep with the girls.

mariahAngel:
Oya, tell everyone what happened in-between the bolded, you deceiver!

Only a crazy woman would want to divorce a husband who's been that good to her.

Don't mind these wicked liars.

Tufia, very nonsense thread. Just look at these demons in human flesh claiming women are not supposed to be better than their husband, As if women are not already doing the job of primary breadwinner in many families today.
You people are lucky that naija women are docile, if I find out that a man I married has this mentality, I will hustle relentlessly to make sure I end up more successful than him.

Make I see whether he go divorce me because his babyish ego cannot handle it.

What a disgusting thread filled with evil minded enemies of progress.

I have always said it that the average Nigerian man is a demonic beast, how can so many of you actively wish for your wives to always remain below you and advice each other to not help her rise in life?

If a random person says they wish their brother or neighbor should never rise above them in life, that random person will be called a wicked and evil person but when it's husband's wishing it for their wives, somehow that kind of wickedness becomes acceptable to them.

Your rubbish pride cannot handle a woman being better than you, that's why you people don't want your wives to rise above you, not because of the nonsense reasons you wrote here, in Nigeria presently, many wives are the ones feeding husband and children and they keep quiet about it to maintain their homes, look at that topic in frontpage about the woman whose husband spends all his money on gambling.


I don't blame you people, it's Nigerian women that love carrying marriages to evil men on their heads I blame.

EdiskyHarry:
Sad.
What was a 16 years old girl doing in a hotel with a man perhaps old enough to be his father?
All the same I totally condemn her killing.

Why are Nigerian men making this country hell for other Nigerians with their incessant crimes and criminal violent behaviour?

Maybe if you men start blaming and shaming men instead of women the murder rates and kidnapping and killings will reduce.

Serves him right, his kind are on Nairaland here, they like claiming 13/14 year old are experienced olosho and it is OK to molest them. Serves him right.

BRATISLAVA:
There's even a recent one where the guy admitted the story he was telling about his uncle/friend was just so that women would get insulted. Even after that, hundreds of them still posted denigrating things about women.

And this is carried out by people who live in a country where policemen can gun them down at any point for no reason, bandits and herdsmen do anything they like to them, politicians no send them and their papa, and uncountable other societal problems, but the only thing they dedicate their passions to is insulting women and girls.

BRATISLAVA:
I wish I could remember the thread.

The stories that hit the FP made by men are fiction. They have a set of touch points in their scripts that indicate it's been created as a female bashing thread.

But that has to be some type of mental problem because I cannot understand the extreme love they have for running women down, day in day out, even to the point of posting lies and fabrication so they can bash women.
These males are mentally unstable, nobody can convince me otherwise.

BRATISLAVA:
You remember this case. One of the worst cases of men trying to paint women black.

It's the general case here. One even replied me that he changes the story to get a negative reaction from guys (advanced, I think) namely so he can proselytize misogyny and bash women. It's the reason their story lines and milestones are always the same—it's never true. Then the sheep bleat in helpfully and promise to teach the potential sheep how to handle women like sheep do.

Can you imagine?
Jobless, evil creatures.

So malignanthypocrite deactivated after all?

See how lily livered these males are, they can gang up to bully and harass any female nairalanders they don't like but give them a taste of their own medicine and they wilt and dissappear.

Malignant hypocrite is probably watching this thread on his alt accounts while filled with tears and regret.

Is this the new style by now Nigerian men?

First it was driving into onlookers at Calaber carnival, now this. You violent gender people should try and calm down abeg.

I have never seen such disgusting hypocrite behaviour in my life.
My skin actually crawled....
And there are actual males following these people's advice and applying them in real life.

This world would be a much more safe place for women without men in it.

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

My dear it means we are all alike ooo
That's exactly what it means
They should leave us alone and marry women from other countries, you don't need to type anything to console them or discourage them from their bitterness.

Fiscus105:
It pains you, but u said man not gain anything in marriage nah, why are crying again.

Oga, go and amend ur damage life and stop transferring ur tattered life on women.

These ones are just small boys typing nonsense out of boredom. None of them is married.
Their eyes will clear completely after marriage.

Ten06: I know a woman who cater for the husband 100% but still respect the husband.
It is those ones with pride and arrogancy that allow wealth to control them

This is what useless Nigerian men want naa, I said it.

They want to be catered for 100% but also control the women catering for them like slaves.

Hopeless, greedy and lazy animals.

Ayinke93:
Which god? Krishna ,Allah or Jehobvah? or I almost forgot, there are thousands other. Tell me the one I'm contending with so i can prepare properly

Don't mind him. As if the same Bible he is preaching from didn't command men to provide otherwise they become infidels. Why will a woman submit to leadership of an infidel that cannot provide?

Please and please, no woman should support this transgender movement for your own good, the women in the west supported it and now they are regretting. Their system started allowing random men to walk into female bathrooms and female hostels, female prisons in short anything that women used to hide themselves away from male violence is no longer exclusive to females again because males just go inside and molest them and rape them and film them against their will.

All the man has to do is say that he identifies as a woman and the system will allow him go into female only spaces to do as he pleases.

Woman don't support this wicked movement, use your sense this time.

Zeinymira:
See how the men rally round, giving him support while watering down the fact that OP is a cheater and a fornicator. Let the shoe be on the other foot....it will be he'll and brimstone

Honestly, if a woman wrote about "one thing led to another" when she was engaged to be married, they will gather this thread to insult every single Nigerian woman, the Op will not receive any kind of sympathy.

It's a sad world for women sha.

PerfectStranger:
You dessert a man, broke shame him to go chase the bag first while you wh*re around.

Now he’s got the bag, you expect him not to make out for those lost years? Women be thinking they can eat their cake and have it.

What the hell has your comment got to do with the topic?

poshestmina:
A male moniker on Nairaland cheated on "her dear husband with her ex".
.

You all just sit and write false stories , just to discredit women and bring the Alfamails with only soaked garri and salt in their stomach, crawling all over the thread.

Toor!
Mr OP , cheating on your husband was bad , hope your scrotum isn't pregnant with a bastaaaard yet.

LWKMD for this post

Cazzim:
what is this one saying self, nawao so woman know de follow for all those crimes u mention abi?? even as that what this topic and what u are saying gat to do here, some people no get Sense oo, ur type are the ones cheating even with pregnancy

Lol
Continue crying na

The woman is very shameless for having sex with her ex at such an advanced stage of pregnancy.

But it's also funny that the same men that will defend adultery by married men are the ones raising hell here and crucifying Op's wife.

Utanisco:
That's is why I can never marry


Stupid set of nonsense creature

I just don't understand why God shud take out our ribs to create these monkeys called women

Those people can and will never have conscience

God forbid them

Mind u I detest homosexuality
If in case yur stupid mind drives u there


Unam ikot

What about men that are kidnappers and bandits and armed robbers and killers?

Men are the nonsense creatures without conscience, not women.

I hope this Op is not using nairaland to practice creative writing.

First of all unless you are a mad person I don't know how you will demand divorce from your husband because of a guy you met online, have never physically seen, or even know anything about his family.

Then after the guy told your husband that you two slept together your husband still asked for proof?
Typical Nigerian man?
And even forgave you sef after you confessed?

Orisirisi.

Madam, if your story is true, better start sleeping with one eye open oo, Nigerian men don't forgive cheating, they want to cheat but expect 10000% loyalty from their wives. he is planning something sinister for you. In fact leave that house make we no come read your story for nairaland about how one man killed his wife for infidelity because stories like that are frequent nowadays.