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Swaelyf:
the same brother you claim moved to a 1 bdroom because things were difficult, the same one you claim sold his car and students reduced in his school. This shows you guys never tried to help him and as a human being its understandable he probably went into depression, know this and know peace your brother stopped getting close to you guys because you guys gave him no peace. it rather feels like whatever goes on in his life you guys bring up the wife you never wanted him to marry

Can you imagine? Are these problems not enough to make him depressed and get BP from thinking?

Those of you who are outraged don't know that since the beginning if time, inlaws and men have been taking out frustration on their brothers wives whenever things go wrong in their families.

Cases like this Op own are not a new thing, women are really collecting shege in Nigeria marriages. At least in this case, the mumu OP decided to announce his foolish plan to avenge his brother's demise on his wife so people can advice him and save the wife.
A lot of men like OP will just follow through with their evil plans without telling anyone.

budaatum:
Remove the men and there will be no nuclear nor any war at all.

True 👍

JOACHINpedro:
Don't be in a hurry dear, Global warming and Nuclear war will do that for us

Who is going to fight nuclear war?

Farfalla:
Thank you Folake, though I'm a bit late to the party. I celebrate you too. I always imagine a very pleasant person behind your moniker. 🤗

Happy International Women's Day to all the women given mention (didn't want to quote the entire post). Peace and good health be upon you all.

I also want give a special mention to and CHoccolaTE. May your days be merry. 🥳🥳

thanks dear

thanks for the topic siofra, I believe Nigerian women will get there one day.

many women unfortunately don't understand that the average male does not see them as equal humans deserving of equal respect as men.
some know and they don't care because they have been blinded by worthless dirty penises_ or by the money men give them.

one day, women all over the world will follow the examples of south Korean women. let us crash global population and make humanity extinct. since males have refused to acknowledge that females are equally valuable members of society.

Majority of Nigerian men are so obsessed with sex, it's very disgusting. Just look at them blowing hot and making threats on front page because of sex. The depraved creatures will not direct their energies to developing their nation, or holding their governors and leaders in general accountable.

Hopeless gender.

I thought they said men can cheat without emotions? 🤔🤔🤔

reddingtonblack:
On a more serious note who gave Adam apple ?

You clearly are not in the league of Op's logical males if you believe that religious junk about talking snakes tempting humans to eat forbidden apples.

BRATISLAVA:
If they don't blame women, they have achieved nothing.

From the very first post on the thread, you will notice the emotions and high level of illogic, the refusal to read anything from perceived females. It's how they keep up their hate and delusions.

This is not a thread made by a newbie misogynist. It is a hardened misogynist starting a new online life. The thread is for proselytizing and reinforcing their red pill talk points. They all began like this. Writing long reasons why females are inferior. Yet no proof they are worth anything.

I have known that about males for a long time. They refuse to take accountability for anything and always blame women whenever they can.
@bold,

I don't know where these niggurs get their confidence from. The entire write up of Op's post is dripping with emotions and sentiment but he is at the same time claiming to be logical and more intelligent than women. What a joke.
The internet is really amazing you know, all the nonentities and nobodies in real life can come online and claim to be intelligent and superior to women just to feel good about themselves.
Wow, internet is good ooo.

shaybebaby:
Just wondering how this gender can be the more logical yet over represented in crime statistics?

This is one area they hate to address or when they do address it, they engage in hilarious disingenuity
Men are by nature, more prone to committing acts of violence and engaging in criminal activities. Their excess testosterone is the reason for their inability to reason like civil humans and avoid acts of violence that lower life forms carry out, acts like senseless murders and wanton killings, starting fights based on ego trips or excessive pride. So many lives have been lost because men could not control their emotions and started violent fights/wars.
So many women have been killed because their male partners were too emotional to address the issues in their relationships logically and chose to assault or kill the woman they were angry with instead.

The thing is that women's emotions does not cause massive loss of lives, destruction and carnage. Male emotions and irrational responses to problematic situations has caused so much harm and damage to this world.

shaybebaby:
Then they must take responsibility rather than hate women for their own weakness.

Men cannot take accountability for anything. They always find ways to blame women.
ALWAYS.
So called superior and intelligent sex.

shaybebaby:
The fella quoting me again after 11 years. Better not to engage them as you can see, 11 years later and no single evidence of growth. May that not be our portion.

Don't worry, I know that guy very well. You gave him the perfect response 👍

gard9ner:
Chocolate, why are you so pained huh? That’s exactly what the poor guy is saying, everything you spewed reeks of emotions, nothing makes a person sound weaker and unintelligent as “emotional” expression void of appeal to pathos.

You’re out of line, no one is talking about crimes, besides no particular gender has the monopoly of crime ok; women rob, kidnap, rape and brutally assault men and other women alike, pls don’t insult me just find the pony. It’s a social issue and the pendulum of social opinion swings left and right.

Hahahaha

Look at who is calling me emotional spewing irrational bullcrap about "women commit crimes also"

Keep lying to yourself dear

aestake:
Men commit those crimes to please you.

No, they commit crimes because they are irrational and illogical creatures seeking immediate gratification.

shaybebaby:
Saggyazz, except you have tradesmen knowledge and skills, you have nothing to impart that is of relevance to me.

All this noise up there, you don't like women, don't respect , blah blah blah, that's your problem not mine. Your life, your choices! Eff all to do with me.

OP,
I hope your fellow male robs or kidnaps or brutally assaults you or commits any other violent crime that males are known for doing against you, so that you can truly appreciate how logical men are when they are done with you.

Jobless and frustrated entity forming woke.

Rubbish. I blame nairaland mods for moving your asinine topic to front page.

emmanuel596:
Mtcheeew.... nonsense stories....

She wanted to go eat money she saw the red flags including a public beating and disgrace but she still went ahead to marry as she no see money chop you are coming here with sad stories.....and this is just your side of the story and you narrated it in a way you'd win public sympathy..... you deserve what you got.

She didn't go ahead to marry him because he had money, she was already pregnant. Make una dey try read before rushing to bash women.

1Sharon:
A greedy girl marries an asshole

Please dont join the males in typing misogynistic nonsense.
There is nothing wrong in wanting a husband who can provide in a situation where the wife has to quit her job in order to be married to him. Even the men here criticizing her will also look for a woman who can provide before marrying her.

Magnoliaa:
But looking back now, I feel it is necessary to mention so as we are all seeing the ******* comments, it'll be strengthening our resolve as Feminist Sisters.

Yeah mehn👊👊👊
Feminist for laiveee!!!, ✔️✔️✔️

Some may; some may not.

A lot of them definitely like it. The feminism movement is strong online only ojare, I have heard so many girls/women make statements that indicate they want men to 'dominate' them.
I will not knock it, it's their choice 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
Every adult is free to choose the kind of relationship and lifestyle that best suits them ✌️✌️
But for women that want to relate as equals eg myself, it's necessary for us to remind men that all women should not be forced into subjugation because some people like it. 🍷

One thing just is certain that- conditioning runs through in all of them.

Most definitely 👌👍

You must have kuku seen some redpillers, bragging with this fact that it has turned to a circular self-fulfilling prophesy.

The women that are currently with bad boys will be used as examples of why bad men get the women, then more men start acting bad and new ladies in turn go for them because they believe those kind of men are the best men.

I really have nothing against the ones that don't like feminist lifestyle, life is not black and white and everyone cannot like the same thing ☯️✡️🕉️☮️

Choii, all these Emojis go hear am for my hand for this nairaland ✈️✈️✈️

Magnoliaa:
Lemme mention Cococ. andy, Hatho. r5, and CHoccolaTE here.

I am GLEEFULLY eager to read their takes.

I wish I know some other feminist monikers off the top of my head easily to cc here lol.

Magnolia well done oo, you have succeeded in raising my BP this night ,
see the kind of annoyance I was feeling while reading the mumuish comments about taking permission those women were writing.

Sometimes I wonder whether some women actually enjoy being dominated and treated like crap by men. Maybe they actually like it, maybe they are attracted to men who have no respect for them because I cannot wrap my head around this kind of foolishness.

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Like Poco typed our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Reading posts like this always gives me joy, so much intelligence and so eloquently written.

Nigerian men make terrible husbands, they have over inflated view of themselves and have no respect for women, I hate them.

I no go even sugar coat am, they irritate me with their extreme misogyny and I hate them. I don't want to hear about how some are good or some are different or any such rubbish, the vast majority of Nigerian men are like that and I will generalize all of them.

If the man is wealthy, just forget it. That one will start to see himself as some sort of demi god. The fact that women have been brainwashed by religions to see marriage as an institution where they have to submit and obey like zombies is not helping matters.

I have a lot of negative things to write about Nigerian marriages, I can even put it all down in this thread this night.

Klass99:
Choco choco, the scarcity of your posts always makes them a pleasure to read, as well as the undertones of sarcasm in it.

Thanks
I also love reading your posts.

kozmokaz:
you took this 2000 personal dear

Is that your birth year ?

I was just trying to let OP know how outdated his question is, more outdated than year 2000. More like 1954.

kozmokaz:
This is 2023 not 2000

Not 1954

Romanoff:
I know this too well. It's why I know how to stand my ground and stay on my own point.

I admire guys here who can argue intelligently and civilly. Them no reach 10 for this forum.

Honestly, the mindset of males on this forum makes me pity Nigerian women. These are the men they are married or have to tolerate at the office, compound etc.

I wish I can stand my ground when arguing with them but I have a short temper and I am likely to start using rude words when they spout nonsense, which always ruins the debate.