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crackhouse:Exactly, so far the wife has been taking her drugs, a point will reach when the viral load will drop significantly and she will not be able to infect anyone . It can even be negative at times when her blood gets tested in th lab but that does not mean that the virus is dead . It is still living in her but at inactive stage. To the OP, I must say that this is a trying time in ur marriage. Pls do not make hasty decision. Hand it to God in prayer for direction on what to do. That u are negative does not mean that u did not sleep with other ladies without protection while in school. Its just by Gods grace that one is negative after all these hassels. If u are a catholic or even if u are not a catholic, I advice u to approach a catholic priest. He will counsel u on the way forward. Though what ur wife did calls for divorce becos she hid her status. Catholic church cannot make that kind of mistake becos u have to go to their own hospital for test before u are wedded in the church. In this way, u cannot bribe anyone most especially if the lab attendants are Rev. Sisters or Rev. Fathers. So sorry about ur predicament but that is not end of the world. I pray that God will give u the grace to go thru this and I believe u will come out a stronger person. Pls go closer to God more at this time becos He alone can solve this problem and wipe ur tears. Trust me u can become negative for life. Pls do not think of divorce now as ur wife might want to do something terrible. I am sure it is becos of the stigmatization and fear of losing u that she hid it from u. I am not holding brief for her though. All the best. |
This is a trying time for the OP. My honest advice to u is for u to beg God to give u the grace to swallow this hard pill and wisdom so as not to make mistake. Never u leave ur hussy becos of this. In marriage, temptations are abound to happen but the ability for the couple to tackle them makes their love life blossom. I really understand the pain u are going thru right now but pls stand by ur husband becos u are one and not two. Do not allow this to scatter ur marriage pls. Anybody that have not sinned should be the first to cast stone. I am not saying that what ur hussy did was right but the bitter truth is that the deed has been done. Ask ur husband to tell u the truth that u are willing to forgive and stand by his side no matter what. I am sure that he will tell u the truth if u promised to be by his side becos the man is afraid that u will leave him if he tells the truth. Concerning ur niece, I advise that u allow her give birth to the child. Then do paternity test to confirm if the child is actually ur hussy 's. If the child is his, plead with the girl and her family to allow u take care of the child and promised that u will be a good mum to the child. Again, this is not easy at all becos as a human being, the child will always remind u how ur hussy cheated on u but u have to beg Ğod to give u grace to overcome it which I am sure He will give u. Pls do not advice ur niece to do abortion. Abortion is murder and a grievious sin against God. Pls do not listen to those advising u for ur niece to do abortion . God forbid , if she has complications and die in the process. The guilt will never leave until u live the palnet earth. Take heart my dear, I believe u will come out of this. MAY GOD BE WITH U AND UR FAMILY AT THIS TRYING TIME, AMEN. |
Honestly this dude wanted Osibanjo and the presidency to notice him at all cost. He want to be another Sowore. Osibanjo should not dignify him with a word. Let him continue to rant till he gets tired. No more loop holes to steal money. Imagine after he left apc, he was still referred to as former apc deputy secretary meaning that he has been floating ever since just like fani kayode that was sidelined by pdp. They did not belong to anywhere. I used to wonder what actually went wrong for him to leave apc ? I repeat, Osibanjo should not dignify him with a word. Let him wail till he caanot wail again. Bunch of jokers looking for who will arrest and detain them to claim that they are been punished becos of their outcry against the government. |
jkendy:Its laughable that he said that he was taken from selling firewood in Jada to civil service , then corporate and public service. Good to hear that. Just like u said, how many poor children are studying at ABTI Yola ? Thats the irony of life. I served in Yola and have been to ABTI, both the secondary and university. If u see the land mass that he acquired for the university, u will weep for his people. How can such a person rule this country. Greed is synonymous to the ABTI land. I am yet to see the poor children in Yola or Jada that can sfford the tuition of the school. U see alot of foreigners in the school both lecturers and students. Why not make the tuition fees affordable or give scholarships to ur people for they say that charity begins at home. I am not a fan of Atiku though. I still find it difficult to comprehend how he managed to be this rich from Custom as a civil servant. |
makewetalk2:What a fantastic analysis u shared ? Thumps up and weldone! |
U will never lack the good things in ur life Mr. Onyema. The Lord will always answer ur prayers and lift u higher than u can ever imagine. Thump up ! |
einsteine:U dey mind the guy. I have told him to remove the late. I was very shocked when I saw it and was wonderiing why I did not hear about it. Went to goggle fast to check and found nothing of such . The guy must be high on osogbo and benin weed. |
YorubaKing:Can u pls remove the late u put for Pele . Are u the one that kllled him ? |
Why are people like this ? What did the court rule in the case of Adeleke, the dancing senator in Osun state? Adeleke never sat for waec yet the court ruled that he is qualified. This man that I am not sure went to secondary at all talk more of a retired army general that went to many training abroad, still u guys are saying that he does not have certificate. Mtcheeeeew....... Pdp always wail when the law did not favour them . What happened in zamfara state is a clear case of how pdp are. Why didnt they reject the ruling since they did not even score up to 20% pf casted votes in the governorship election? Yeye people! PDP.... Cry me a river ! Cry me a Lagoon ! And finally cry me an atlantic ocean!! |
helinues:Their mumu no be here, lol ! Effect of loss at the tribunal. Their hope of returning to power and looting the country dry were dashed yesterday. I dont know why they keep on deceiving themselves saying that a whole General in the army does not have certificates ! Tufiakwa ! I sat quietly and patiently yesterday listening to Mohammed Garba as he ditches out his ruling and I am yet to understand how pdp thought they will win the case when their lawyers provided evidence that was ruled in favour of PMB. No wonder Wole Olanepekun, one of the smartest, inteligent and experienced lawyer said that there was no need for apc to bring witnesses knowing fully well that pdp lawyers have given him the much evidence he needed. I have said it before and I am saying it again, Atiku lawyers scammed him big time and they will continue to do so until he tells himself that he does not have any case against PMB. His petitions were dead on arrival that none of the 5petitions was ruled in his favour. I dont know whether they want Garba to rule on non evidence before him or rule on their so called sentiments and impulse of the nation. I am not a lawyer but I do know that judges do rule based on the evidence before them even if they know and watched on the tele that the election was massively rigged or vote was bought by the candidates. They can never rule infavour of the petitioner if he did not prove beyond reasonable doubt of such rigging or vote buying. Atiku lawyers should go and plead with Wole Olanepekun for a course on how to gather evidences on a case or better still go back to law school to learn past election cases that were ruled by the court. I wonder why his lawyers never review past cases or even know our electoral laws becos the issue of server or transmitting result electronically were not in the laws. Why didnt they advice Atiku to stop quoting that there was server. Now, Ozekeme still want to swindle the man by saying that they will go to supreme court and I ask them, "to do what exactly" ?To save face or to keep on giving Atiku hope that he won the election. Let me make it clear that they are on wild goose chase becos Garba ditched out his ruling citing various cases that was ruled by the supreme court and other courts. I really commended the Garba led panel for the thorough job they did which lasted for 9hours . Atiku lawyers , na wa for una ! Mumu lawyers !!! |
hammerVJ:If u listen to Mohammed Garba ditching out justice to the petitions filed by Atiku, u will understand that Atiku has been scammed by his lawyers. Can u imagine their own evidence was ruled in the favour of PMB. Atiku should go and rest. No need going to supreme becos his lawyers lack the required skill and competence to win the case. Imagine, they did not even go thru electoral laws to know what and what are stated. How then can they prove their case when they did not know the electoral laws at their finger tips. No witnesses called. Infact they are bunch of jokers and scammers. Atuku should demand a refund from them becos they failed their home work as SANS and LAWYERS. |
I have been following this court proceeding since 10am and I must say that the Justice Mohammed Garba led panel did a thorough job on this case ditching out the deserved justice where it is needed. Refused to agree that Atiku does not qualify to contest the election based on being a camerounian and also refused to disqualify PMB due to waec certificate. Claiming that the above are pre election matters and that his own is to determine who was validly elected and not pre election matters. Infact I want to ask Atiku lawyers the following questions: 1) Is it that they did not study the past election cases as always referred to by the tribunal in any of the cases they ruled on today ? 2) Is it that his lawyers did not study the electoral act before heading to the tribunal to present their case? Becos the issue of server or transmission via electronic means was totally alien to the electoral laws becos I was patient enough to listen to Garba as he list the ways the result will be collated and transmitted as written in the electoral laws. 3) why are the lawyers dozing off during the court proceedings ? 4) why did they deceive Atiku that he has a case when it is evident that he did not have any case. This is because all their petition has been stuck out except the one APC claimed that their counsel Levi Uzokwu was not listed in the supreme court as a SAN to practice in NIgeria and the issue of birth of Atiku ? 5) why didnt they present enough evidenvce and call witnesses to prove their case? Garba kept on saying no witnessed called to prove the case. I wonder how they think they will win without proving their case beyond reasinable doubt knowing fully well that it is difficult to remove a sitting president via court in Nigeria. 6)Are the lawyers helping Atiku win or they just want to collect their own share? My sincere advice to Atiku, pls go home after this tribunal , rest and go back to drawing board and figure out what next to do , whether to contest again or support a candidate. But I advice u not to contest again , its better u support a viable cqndidate. Do not listen to any lawyer that will tell to go to supreme court. Such lawyers are after ur money becos they did not even do a simple homework of revisiting all past election cases ruled by the court. Tufiakwa ! They did a very shabby job. Pls go home and rest ! |
My heartfelt sympathy goes to all those that lost their means of livelihood due to the massive looting in their shops. As u guys have agreed to come back home, I pray that the FG will not abandon u people, they will not only assist u people with their empowerment programme but also give u money to start ur own businesses as well as providing shelters for those that will be homeless in the city. May God touch the SA government to compensate u guys in anyway they can to alleviate ur losses. And may u guys be of good behaviour when u are back in the country. Pls do not try to do "the get rich quick sydrome" becos it may ruin ur lives. I also pray to God for journey mercy on ur behalf. All these I pray for u people today thru Jesus Christ our Lord, amen. Safe trip ! |
Mutemenot:I guess its becos wine is more expensive and to share it requires having to bring in loads of cups to the altar to put the wine becos u cannot expect the whole congregation to use one chalice to drink the wine unlike the Holy communion that is simple to share by the Rev. Fathers. But in the case of receiving sacrament like Holy matrimony, the priest do give the couple wine to drink. |
Congrats |
evansjeff:Amen. Nice one |
Congrats . May God push u higher to greatness. Go girl !!! |
brainhgeek:FIFA can and will never be tired of either CR7 or Messi 's performance on the pitch. If any of them deserves it more, the person should be given and not giving it Van if he did not deserve it. |
Olamsoh:Are u not biased, why didnt u include champions league in ur comparision. Oh I forget that u will always prove that Messi is better in local league and not champions league. |
Officialgarri:All these ur gibberish cannot change the fact that CR7 has won champions league with two clubs . Why cant Messi try that, he should come out from his comfort zone. Without that CR7 is better than him. At least changing clubs and winning champions league will end this comparision also winning the world cup as well. |
Congrats |
I admire ur courage dear. Its very good to speak out . Had it been u swallowed it , they will continue to harrass, extort and intimidate Nigerians. Imagine coughing out $500 u never budgeted for. Thank God that their Immigration Boss was a God fearing man for him to apoligised and returned ur money back. I also congratulate u for ur honesty in saying that the money in the envelope was much more than they collected from here. Thumps up for u OP! |
Congratulations. Thumbs up for u sir. |
I give it to C. Ronaldo. He won with club as well as his country. Up CR7! |
Congrats dear ! The sky is ur starting point. Go girl!!! |
Rest in peace bro! May God console ur parents, siblings and loved ones. The security of this nation needs an overhaul. Change of the service chiefs should be topmost priority! |
Happy birthday Wizkid. God's continous blessings and favours on u. But try and go back to school and finish up. |
Happy birthday Wizkid. God's blessings and favours on u. But try and go back to school and finish up. |
Rest on MJ. May God bless ur soul. |
Congrats ma. It's not easy at all. |
Paperwhite:Is this how u are going to cry for the next 4yrs. 4yrs is too far ooooh. I hope u have gone to Emzor to buy loads of paracetamol be cos u will need them for the next 4yrs ooh. lol!!!!! |
[sub][/sub] Paperwhite:Is this how u are going to cry for the next 4yrs. 4yrs is too far ooooh. I hope u have gone to Emzor to buy loads of paracetamol be cos u will need them for the next 4yrs ooh. lol!!!!! |



