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Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Got Two Job Offers At The Same Time by chocolatelady(f): 9:27am On Dec 22, 2019
Congrats dear! I tap into this blessing. Choose wisely.
CelebritiesRe: Chidinma And Chidiebere: Aneke Twins And Their Top 10 Lookalike Pictures by chocolatelady(f): 8:52pm On Dec 21, 2019
This is what we call identical twins. It’s an uphill task to differentiate between the girls. Nice outfit though ! Pretty girls
RomanceRe: A Nairalander Pre-wedding Photos by chocolatelady(f): 3:22pm On Dec 20, 2019
May God bless ur union. Congrats
Foreign AffairsRe: General Pervez Musharraf Sentenced To Death For Treason In Pakistan by chocolatelady(f): 1:51pm On Dec 17, 2019
Wickedtruths:
This same bastard that killed Benazir Bhutto
I remember Benazir Bhutto, an intelligent and very brave woman who became the Pakistan prime minister twice. On one of her speeches during her campaigns, she said and I quote, “ the past has not been too good ( her father and brother were killed politically) but I have faith in the Pakistan people and if voted I will never let u down.” Only for them to assassinate her afterwards. So sad !!!
PoliticsRe: Muhammadu Buhari Celebrates His 77th Birthday Today by chocolatelady(f): 8:42am On Dec 17, 2019
Asifiwe:
77 Years indeed.
Wole Soyinka was born in 13 July 1934, He is 85 , His minds are still intact and sharp
Chinua Acheba was born on November 16, 1930, Until he died, he never lost his mind and his reasoning
Obasanjo was Born in March 5, 1937, He still retain the Buoyancy of a sane Mind
Alex Ekwueme was Born On October 21, 1932, His sanity of mind was obvious until he died
and several others whose name are known by Nigerians who even in their 80s and beyond 80s were sharp in Judgement and pungent in their opinion

If He is 77 why is Aisha Buhari the one telling us that some un-elected impostors are the ones taking decision in Aso Rock,
Why is he not addressing the Nation on the issues bordering the country
Why is he not in the Public and sorting things out?
The Popular opinion is that he has gone senile and does not have the sharpness to lead

Why does he travel more to be seen as working while either hiding in Daura or Aso rock that Mamman Daura is more powerful than the President of a Nation or Abha Kyari
I doubt the 77 Years old narrative
The Real age need verifying Because the President is no longer as active as he aught
Must u always wail. Today is Bubu’s birthday. Say happy birthday or move on.
PoliticsRe: Muhammadu Buhari Celebrates His 77th Birthday Today by chocolatelady(f): 8:40am On Dec 17, 2019
Wishing u Gods abundant Grace, love, blessings, favours, peace, guidance and protection . May the Almighty Allah grant u more wisdom and good health of mind and body as u pilot the affairs of our nation. Age with grace. Happy birthday GMB !
SportsRe: Anthony Joshua Regains His Heavyweight Titles! Joshua wins by unanimous decision by chocolatelady(f): 11:54pm On Dec 07, 2019
Congrats AJ !!!!! U have reclaimed ur belts. Thank God for His help.
SportsRe: Anthony Joshua Regains His Heavyweight Titles! Joshua wins by unanimous decision by chocolatelady(f): 11:23pm On Dec 07, 2019
Congrats AJ!! U are the best. Thank a God that u were able to reclaim all ur belts.
PoliticsRe: Ope Sowore To Buhari: 'My Children And I Want My Husband Back Home' by chocolatelady(f): 12:24pm On Dec 07, 2019
I am an ardent supporter of PMB from 2003 till date but I must confessed that this is unacceptable. This show of shame by the DSS has to stop. It is purely discretion of the judiciary and it must have penalty for this abuse of court process. I watched the video yesterday night and felt very bad how a human being can be manhandled like an animal. This barbaric act by the DSS MUST STOP !
Christianity EtcRe: Father Uche Ukor Slumps, Dies During Football Game In Delta State by chocolatelady(f): 8:13pm On Dec 05, 2019
This is sad ! Eternal rest grant unto him and may perpetual light shine upon him, amen.
Christianity EtcRe: Onaiyekan Hands Over To Ignatius Kaigama As Catholic Archbishop Of Abuja by chocolatelady(f): 7:32am On Dec 04, 2019
OoniOfIfe:
Happy retirment his grace. May God Lord u served nd is serving always be with
Pls address him by “his Eminence”. He is a cardinal and also an archbishop .Thanks
SportsRe: Katia Aveiro, Ronaldo's Sister Blasts Van Dijk Over Jibe On CR7 by chocolatelady(f): 4:40pm On Dec 03, 2019
Babaheekmat:
It's understandable why people hate ronaldo.

Handsome
Self confident
Hard working
Hunger for more
..
Most importantly.. Being the best in the business.. Best ever..


Blatter stated it clearly why he preferred messi. He said he no dey talk (humble)

Ronaldo is always talking and showing his awesomeness.. (pride and arrogant)


Laughing.. Mad peop plenty.

If we are being objective.. Half of the trophy messi has, he won't have had it without blatter..

His trophy cabinet is full of undersveed glories
Gbamsolutely!!!!!!!!! See, Fifa is filled with politics. They robbedCR7 ballon D’or last season so that he will not be higher than Messi and went to give Modric. Modric never won the world cup to say the least. How will they rate Modric higher than CR7 last season. Now where is Modric this seasons ballon dor. Just to show u that it was pure politics. Why didn’t they give Van at least he won championships league. CR7 won three trophies while Messi just 1. Na wa ooh.
PoliticsRe: Buhari And Wife, Aisha Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary (photos) by chocolatelady(f): 8:51pm On Dec 02, 2019
Enwhen:
Thanks chocolatelady , I guess u will be more polite, beautiful and responsible as ur response... Thanks... If u don't mind let me cut out a plot of land for u in my village here in Lao , before Jalingo, in Taraba state..
lol!
SportsRe: Ballon D'or 2019 (Live Updates) by chocolatelady(f): 8:46pm On Dec 02, 2019
[quote author=Mosopzy22 post=84552068][/quote]There is no doubt that CR7 was robbed of last year ballon dor. Apparently, ,they played politics and never wanted him to be ahead of Messi . Cr7 has all it takes to win this year especially winning trophy for his country.
PoliticsRe: Buhari And Wife, Aisha Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary (photos) by chocolatelady(f): 5:56pm On Dec 02, 2019
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Enwhen:
Abeg who be that other woman at the right before Baba huh... Is she the new Ameria huh
Sorry, she is his second daughter from his late wife. The first daughter is late too. The two daughters standing at the left hand side after his son are also children of his late wife.
PoliticsRe: Buhari And Wife, Aisha Celebrate 30th Wedding Anniversary (photos) by chocolatelady(f): 5:53pm On Dec 02, 2019
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wink2015:
What about the children of Buhari 's late first wife?

Nothing is heard about that matter.
Look at the second daughter of the first wife by PMB side. The first daughter is late. The other two standing by the left hand side are also daughters from the former First Lady. That’s one big family. The only son of the first wife is late too. So in all, PMB has 7daughters and a son. Three daughters from the first wife and four from Aisha .
EducationRe: Mekowulu Precious Chibuzor Had First Class In Law School by chocolatelady(f): 10:47pm On Dec 01, 2019
Congrats dear
RomanceRe: A Nairalander's Traditional Wedding Pictures With Ghanaian Bride by chocolatelady(f): 6:18pm On Nov 22, 2019
Congrats, May God bless ur home
EducationRe: Osanyinlusi Titilayo Mary: Graduates With 7.0 CGPA From University Of Ibadan by chocolatelady(f): 11:32pm On Nov 19, 2019
Congrats
RomanceRe: Nairalander (Humbleservant) Weds His Beautiful Wife by chocolatelady(f): 10:16am On Nov 19, 2019
Congrats, ur wife is beautiful !
Christianity EtcRe: Sinach Welcomes First Baby Five Years After Marriage by chocolatelady(f): 8:08am On Nov 19, 2019
I am so excited and I thank God for you . Congrats dear!
PoliticsRe: David Lyon Declared Winner Of Bayelsa Governorship Election by chocolatelady(f): 7:03am On Nov 18, 2019
The road to success is not easy no matter how u look at it. I never know anything about David Lyon of Apc but when I heard that he was disqualified by the court, in my mind something tells me that this candidate will win this election. That the disqualification was just a temporary setback. Appeal court later reversed that decision and ruled that he is qualified to run. He defeated the Pdp candidate even in GEJ ‘s LGA with wide margin. This is to show how the Bayelsan wanted him.
Congratulations David Lyon! May u govern your state with the fear of God. U really have a lot of work to do becos Bayelsa as a state is in urgent need of infrastructure. It baffles me how a state with just 8 LGA and an oil state failed to be developed after 20years. Tears almost fell from my eyes when I saw voters queuing on a very swampy ground just to cast their vote. I ask myself what exactly did Dickson did during his 8year rule in the state.
Please David, u have to get down to work immediately after swearing in. Ur people wanted a change and handed u their votes. Pls work tirelessly so that they can say they made the right decision in choosing u as their governor.
May God bless and give u the needed wisdom to rule Bayelsa to an enviable level,amen.
Congrats once more!
FamilyRe: 22-year-old Lady Gives Birth To Quadruplet After 3 Years Of Marriage by chocolatelady(f): 2:26am On Nov 04, 2019
Our God is a Great God. Congrats dear. I tap into this blessing and also for all the women all over the world looking for the fruit of the womb, the Lord will bless u like this woman. Just have faith!
RomanceRe: Akasi Andoh Wedding: "I’m 35 Years, A Single Mum, Fat With Stretch Marks" by chocolatelady(f): 9:51am On Nov 01, 2019
Congrats dear ! May I and all the single ladies out there receive theirs in Jesus Name, amen
PoliticsRe: Atiku, PDP Loses Appeal At Supreme Court by chocolatelady(f): 2:16pm On Oct 30, 2019
CaptainMeks:
Probably one of the swiftest rulings ever given by the Apex court and it shows how nonsensical the petition was and how stupid the PDP lawyers who led Atiku to the guillotine were. They knew he would lose yet kept on fleecing him with their lies of hope. Atiku is indeed a FOOL
After listening for 8hrs to Justice Mohammed Garba led panel dishing out the verdict , I said that Atiku challenging this at the apex court is a pure waste of time. Garba spent a lot of time explaining the reasons for their verdict on the appeals filed by PDP. Atiku's lawyers feigned ignorant and stll carry rheir useless and hopless server claim to the supreme court. Sorry, better Atiku ask for refund from his lawyers. These lawyers in their deepest heart know that Atiku does not have any case but still pushed him to the gluttoine. For those saying rubbish about CJN Tanko, u people are just being petty. How do u expect only the cjn to have a say on the case led by 7man panel? The man has really shown that he cannot be cajoled into doing what is not morally right by the PDP and CUPP pettiness. Imagine, they shouted that the appeal court president should recuse herself becos of her husband affliation with the apc but refuse to understand that Mary Odili and Ngwuta will not be allowed to sit in the panel becos of affliation to pdp. Pdp forgets that what is good for the goose is equally good for the gander. That CUPP president, Imo Ugochinyere should be careful with the way he is playing his politics. If DSS arrest him now, my dear nothing will happen. He should not give them the impression that he is untouchable otherwise they will look for one of his crimes and nail him. That time, nobody will save him. He will be totally on his own. If he doubts these, he can ask Sowore.
HealthRe: Today Is Stella Adadevoh's 63rd Posthumous Birthday by chocolatelady(f): 12:23pm On Oct 27, 2019
Tears fell from my eyes as I remember what this lady did for us as a nation. She paid the utmost price with her life. What a selfless personality? She averted the danger that should have befell on us even when pressure was so much on her to release the late Patrick Sawyerr. She stick to her word that she will not release him . In the process she contracted the deadly virus which eventually lead to her death. Great woman, the Heroine of our time. Happy Posthumous birthday and continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord. I pray that the FG should immortalise this great woman one day.
CelebritiesRe: Davido To Sue Susan For 30 Billion Naira Over False Pregnancy Claim by chocolatelady(f): 4:42pm On Oct 23, 2019
Good script by Davido. Both of them are jokers. One was pregnanted by Davido and now Davido wanna sue the lady for N30billion. The joke of the century. Imagine sueing a jobless lady that want to trend for 30billion. No be only 30B, he would have sued her for 30trillion nah. Make the lady go sell all her family both maternal and paternal. Yeye people.... Lol
Christianity EtcRe: Femi Fani-Kayode Reacts To Pastor David Wilson's Sex Video by chocolatelady(f): 2:24pm On Oct 19, 2019
Biritiko:
Did jesus eat pussy?
If u dont have anything reasonable to say, read and pass to other thread. This is ur statement is not only meaningless but delivish and satanic. Why bring in Jesus into ur dirty mind ? Beware, u will be judged according to ur thoughts and words.
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor Celebrates 35th Birthday In Style (Photos) by chocolatelady(f): 12:13pm On Oct 15, 2019
ursullalinda:
35 ke..... ifa hear, wen my aunty said she is her classmate. HBD to her but she should pls increase the age a little so it will sound real
The age is somehow funny but I am not sure that Cossy said that she is celebrating her 35yrs birthday today. If that is the case , it then means that she finished secondary school at age 9 which is laughable. I was in the same hostel with Cossy during our secondary school days. Cossy cannot be 35yrs this year.
PoliticsRe: Meet Uzoma Asagwara, Nigerian-Born Canadian Lawmaker by chocolatelady(f): 8:30pm On Oct 12, 2019
Congrats dear ! Nice one,
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Mercy Wins Big Brother Naija 2019 (Photos) by chocolatelady(f): 8:24am On Oct 07, 2019
Congrats Mercy !
FamilyRe: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by chocolatelady(f): 4:46pm On Sep 27, 2019
misterme:
"In sickness and in health remember"huhhuh

Well it doesn't work like that. I was a Catholic for many years before I "decamped". One thing I like about the Catholic Church is the clarity of their doctrine (even if wrong at times).

The Catholic position on this is that any marriage contracted under any kind of deception (especially the type that bothers on sexuality and reproduction) is null and void. In fact in situations like this, they say there was no marriage abinitio. That means even though men (priests) erroneously join you together in the physical, there was no marriage spiritually and before God. God does not recognize it because it's foundation is falsehood and deception.

If the offended party discovers the truth later in life and decides to end the marriage, the Catholic Church will dissolve the union because there was never a marriage in the first place. The Catholic Church does not believe in divorce, can never grant divorce and has never granted divorce. The may grant separation if the couple come to a point where they believe they can't live together again. As long as they were properly married (no deception, no hidden secret capable negatively impacting on the marriage later), the Catholic Church will not grant divorce.

But its a different ball game if there was deception. The church will say there was no marriage in the first place. Thus there is nothing to dissolve. Examples of deceptions capable of leading to what I have discussed above include (but not limited to) hiding a known disease condition capable of impacting negatively on the marriage, children or partner in the future, hiding or changing your genotype in order to marry someone whose genotype does not match yours, hiding the existence of a previous properly contracted marriage, hiding HIV status (if you are position), belonging to a dangerous secret cult or society and not disclosing same to your partner.

Cases are judged on their individual merits. Each situation is adjudicated in a Canon Court (Catholic Church Court) by competent Canon Lawyers and Judges (usually Catholic Priests who have degrees in both Church and secular laws). It often take years to get through this process. And the final approval to end the "marriage" comes ONLY from the Pope (who would have received briefings from the Canon Court). A relation of mine went through this process and it took about 5 years for her to be "extricated" from her former "husband". She is the ONLY person I know who wedded TWICE in the Catholic Church
As a catholic , what u said is correct. Catholic Priest never like to divorce married couples except on rare occassion like this one the OP painted. But still the priest will continue to counsel the couple to forget divorce . If there is no way for living together. A letter is sent to Rome whereby it will be decided by only the pope based on the judicial court set up to investigate the case. If the pope find it ok to seperate the couple, he gives the go ahead order. But bros, I must say that the process is not easy at all. It take years and during those years , they will be waiting to see if there is any reconciallation from both parties. If not, the seperation is granted and both parties are free to marry and wed in the church.

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