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Emmadani: haha,u no sabi watin dem dey call hardershot?

Abeg wch one b hardershot? If e dey bring money abeg initiate me into d club sharp sharp

carr101: Ur quite d.a.f.t for a lady

sharrap only a person unfamiliar with UNN admission process to medicine or any course at dt will blive those ur cooked up stories to prove wat i dont know

'u didnt put medicine buh unn gave u medicine n u refusd it bla bla bla...' u no fit pass jamb u no sabi lie plausible lie on top

try not to pass those ur thin brain cells to ur kids

Too young ke @ 27? Abeg no mind ur family members, since u re d baby of d house they want u to remain wit them a lil longer as others hv all gone out, if u were d first nw they will b pushing u to get married by 26 sef

Get married wen u re ready, if u feel u re Emotionally, financially n socially ready to settle then do it, after all 'U D MAN' u dont want ur to-be to bliv ur folks tell u wat to do

for me i dont fink u re financially ready based on wat u wrote above unless u already have a steady paying job here in d country.
As for those asking for money, tell dem 'u dont have' wch is d truth, i dunno y folks back here blive if u went abroad u re loaded, Even wen u traveld to study

pickabeau1: How does one reconcile this with the gospel of equality?..

Women really are confusing

First u want to be equal, now you want to be feted ....

u dont have to reconcile anything, we want them all

take us as u see us or forget abt taking us at all

RedBenson: Are you for real? You sound like one of those parasitic b.itches such as op's relegated gf.

Are you for jokes? you sound lyk one of those Broke AS$ dudes jst lyk d OP

Ngokafor: ...this thread has been really hilarious i tell you...imagine all the hues and cries over 5k...lol!..like my fiance would say 'poverty na bastard'...the op is even doubly silly to open a thread whining about 5k,forgeting how she stood by him when he was a corp member.I can bet u his babe dumped him for some other reasons and he comes twisting the whole story on nairaland,just to belong to the Association of Nairaland Whinners(ANW)..


..@all, as long as you are working,you must spend on your girlfriends whether you like it or not!! or else remain unattached!,you have a choice!!..failure to do that and the op's story will be your portion.

....dating is for big boys who understands the rules of the game and not for little kids.Women the world over LOVES a caring and sharing man you can take that to the bank!.The good ones (like moi hehe)will understand if their man falls on hard times and would even help him stand on his feet financially,but a stingy koko is a big no!...and you wonder why SA women fall over themselves to date or marry Naija guys?..go figure!

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ANW ... Lol babe u bad gan, i didnt know dey were already in an assosciation oo

u see dem all over nairaland whining abt silly amounts of money 5k, 2k, recharge card sef, wahala dey ooo, their are plenty BOYS going into relationships nowadays n dts d problem

Emmadani: u are underating 5k?5k can fetch u 1milla o.

for wia? I for don b billionaire by nw nah

carr101: I took jamb once at the age of 15 and passed with flying colors (268) but when I went to UNN to write the post ume and saw ladies take a sh*t and pee into buckets, I just gave up! I got an admission to study medicine but turned it down! Cos I wasn't interested in the course and the school! ...... Also turned down studying medicine in midrand uni south Africa!....

I chose Ghana cos I got the course I wanted
It had nothing to do with jamb!

chai!!! Dis lies no get part 2

kennytidistar: bros you be maga, mugu, ode, so to say, How could you be paying your girl friend such huge amount of money you be state governor or I no understand, believe me the babe no love you, even if she did at the initial stage, you have spoiled the dancing step by involving money in a yet to be ascertain relationship, even if she ever ask you for money since you've not marry her there is limit to How much you can spare, you see she played you and immediately you can't meet her financial need she left. which means she didn't love you but she love your money, she should be of a helper to you but, o boy open ya eyes joor.

nna mehn, BROKE AS$ NIGGAS beaucoup for dis thread oo, 5k is a 'huge amount of money' kwa? Is it dollars abi naira.
Hmmmm 5k dt cant even comfortably make one hair.

@op abeg dont come here to rant about hw a babe who has been with u 4 2 yrs+ left u simply because of 30,000 whie she hs been wit u even wen u did nt place her on d so-called monthly salary, buh jst some months after u nw placed her on d monthly salary she askd for 30k n she jst up n left wen u cldnt provide it, dis is d same person dt ws wit u wen u were unemployed.... If u truly bliv dt ws y she left then u re jst plain dumb, actually u re pathetic for coming to nairaland to write dis rubbish since u are nt seeking for advice, u re just telling us a story(one edited to make u d saint)... Or u hv jst fabricated anoda nonsense to give girls a bad name n give ur fellow broke dudes smthing to rant abt, wenever a broke dude's relationship fails is always because of 'money' u pple hv found sth convenient to blame ur incompetences n failures on other areas on, "oh she left me cos i cldnt giv her 30k" mtcheeeeeew.. Cry me d lagoon

those who actually blive dis story on d face of it re even dumber than d poster

Gr8 tips, kip em coming...


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[quote author=mizzocho.cinco] People will curse and cast others down, forgetting they commit the same iniquities. You cannot possible preach to another about ways of living, morals and value that you do not uphold yourself.

-Some men will call you a sluuut, yet he loses sleep at night robbing or scamming another person. He will preach to you about dignity and self-respect forgetting that there is no dignity in what he does for a living, neither that its say anything positive about what he values.

-Some women will call you a prostitute, yet they sleep with the different men countless time in exchange for love and affection, which its not given by a true heart. They lets their delusions blind them, yet they can tell you what is wrong in your life from A to Z.

-most human beings are quick to label and degrade other human beings, not because they do not do the same thing, but because they feel their purpose or reason for them doing the exact same thing is much more dignified and justfiable. [/quote]sweety u re way too inteligent n cool headed to hv actually meant d hypothetical question u threw u to d internet vampires lookin for whose blood to suck dry.
if u re a lady u've succeded in passing across sm of d mssg u wanted to buh trust me it'll mk no diff pple re just who they re
if u re a guy, i dont really know d reason u'd open such a thread buh watever point u were hoping to mk or watever u were hoping to achieve i hp u achievd it

finally thank u for giving most of these frustrated peeps an avenue to let off steam n dump dia pent up anger n frustrations.

Remain as cool as u already are

Cation: Please sum1 help me! I want to purchase tbill nd I have. Just #150k to spare,which bank can sell for that amount?

Acess bank has 100k as their minimum on all d periods. I think u shld ask ur bank d minimum they accept first, it'll b easier for u to use ur bank where u hv d money in

cluewebhost: "still know of this" funny enough, is the correct thing to use in the context.
Were did I mention building a house or buying a car being goals? They are Bare necessities.

Your case is pathetic sorry to say.

Take your Hormones somewhere else,

You need more school

ooh well i see u hv no other way of spinning it, nuffin else to say? u jst hd to brk down n strt on d name callings 'u re pathetic' ' u need more school'? Lol i remember u once saying u can pass across ur message without dt, guess u re also 'poorly brought up ' n 'ill mannered' or d bitter truth is u hv no more reasonable points to mk, nt that u ever hd one.

I wrote 'those who dont use d internet' sorry to tell u but wat follows is 'still knows of' not 'still know of' bt u obviously still cant figure dt out. U re d one who needs more of that school u re talkin of esp English classes

nxt tym if u want to pass a message type wat u mean or wat those who actually understand connotation cn infer frm it. Dnt type rubbish n say it 'obviously' means anything, nt to talk of d spiritual aspect d op already mentiond in his post of achieving.

If u ever get married n hv kids(cos it cant b easy living in dt 'ur house' all alone(nt dt i bliv u hv one)) n wen u must hv trained them to b reasonable individuals then u cn come back here n tell d op hw those re nt goals to achieve n hw there re more imp things in lyf until then STFU!



Au revoir madmoiselle i'll pray 4 u to turn madame soon enuf

cluewebhost: You spend a week to answer a post and talk of "frequent internet use" there's a big difference between short forms and Piss Poor grammar, I see a lot of the latter in you than the former abi is "still knows of this" "short-hand" too?. Not everyone's ultimate goal is getting married and having kids please, that's stone age idealogy

ooh hw did i miss this! Sweery its 'u spent' nt 'u spend' pls do learn ur tenses

cluewebhost: You spend a week to answer a post and talk of "frequent internet use" there's a big difference between short forms and Piss Poor grammar, I see a lot of the latter in you than the former abi is "still knows of this" "short-hand" too?. Not everyone's ultimate goal is getting married and having kids please, that's stone age idealogy

oooh its nw 'poor grammar' no longer 'poor spellings' awww n 'still knows of this' is bad grammar, i tot u were going to find a blunder, humour me wats d correct thing? 'still know of this'? mtcheeew, first learn d English lang b4 u embark on any correction journey.
its 'ideology' not 'idealogy' n that my dear is nt a typo, d 'a' n 'o' re miles apart on d keyboard.

I wont blame u if u dont know that d use of d internet constitutes other things except d use of nairaland, unlike u nt evryone is a nairaland rat, pple hv got other things to do wit dia tym u kno

Yea ur ultimate goal or any goal at all i suppose is nt getting married or having kids bt u consider buying a car n building a house as a goal.... Well u re even more shallow than d op u were bent on criticizing

lorretta u: except you have very small dyke. Or your exes all had over size vjays,I can categorically tell you that tight punny isn't a rare commodity.

well seeing as u re female, dis ur post is very suspicious n subject to unwholesome interpretations

cluewebhost: You seem poorly brought up. You can pass your point across without poor spellings and insults.

In case you want to know, I've all 3 apart from Children & I don't need those right now.

My comment meant obviously there is a spiritual emptiness we all have to fill no matter what we've achieved.

awwww insults; sweery if i decide to insult u, u'd simply runaway from dis thread never to visit it again, as for poor spellings, i do not blame u, even wit free mbs nt evryone is opportund to use d net frequently so wen they see frequently usd e-shrt hand they get confused, wen u begin to use d internet often i bet u'll learn dese e-shorthands ooh
but if u re referring to d typos den ur case is even more hopeless dan i imagind, dose hu dont use d net still knows of those

yea u hv a house u bought or built wit ur money yet u dont wanna hv children yet, u prolly dont wanna marry yet... Puuuuleeeez dis might be d net buh choose d kind of lies u tell wisely nxt tym

find d meaning of obviously cos ur post doesnt 'obviously' say anything

Adios

Heck: Op. Am already growing white hairs that my wife started clothing biz without consulting me first. Her sis in US has been sending them. I have had nothing to do with d biz or the clothes so far. Meanwhile I have been foolishly open to her, even faithful to her. Because of God though. Still thinking a reaction. Yours is a tougher call. D catholic church is dying by d day.
Prayer is not enough. Forgiveness is out of it. If it is me, divorce cannot be an option because of d kids. Not sleeping with her is easy but not eating her food is a real tough call. Eating her food is invitation to known death. Will you have your own kitchen. For how long. Sending her away is licensing her into promiscuity. How about bonding with your children. If you are a jealous kind, then d untimely death you fear will still come. Women are Devil we cannot do without. Am yet to hear sorry from my wife lips. But I can bet it, the one your wife said is acting and premeditated. Remember too God is interested on how you handle this matter. Your ideas are good.

May I suggest this: visit her father or whoever represents him if d dad is death. Go with an elder in your own family. Do not plan the visit. Go to him and say what happened. Do not say your plan to anybody. Do not entertain discussion on the matter with anybody thereafter. As you have requested, the documents must be given to you before any further talk until then cut her off your life. If any of your kids is up to ten call that one and explain events. When the document comes sell off the building & give d money to charity. It is not foolishness, that is the condition for the marriage to go on as though nothing happened. If she is like my wife she will refuse & say over her dead body. Then grow up & rent a place without her knowledge & move her things there. She on her own may repack to wherever she wants. By this you have not divorced her. You have separated from her. Keep her off your home. Your kids can stay wherever till they mature. But harden up to face any man that comes close to her, the priest inclusive. Take care. A tough call.

op i hope u do not listen to this man's advice or any other one here for that matter pple will b quick to giv u tough calls u hv to make or decisions u hv to take wen d prob is not theirs; but in d same situation they bcom meek lambs. I hv hd friends advice me to leave a bf who slippd cos if he did it once he is definitely alwys going to repeat it, one of them ws engaged to a guy hu hd 2 side chicks wch she knew of wen we found out we told her abt it(as caring friends) n she said 'men will b men n he is doing his last gigs b4 marrg'
of course i left my bf evn b4 her own case came up bt i did so nt because of dia advice bt because dt ws wat i felt ws right deep in my hrts, dt ws wt my intuition/guts told me to do.

U only knows wat to do cos u alone live with ur wife, listen to ur intuition, ur heart it will neva mislead u, it always hs d right ans, if u choose to listen to wat pple say esp on d internet, then i'm smh for d decisions u'll take, cos even wen they re the right ones u'll always wonder 'shld i hv taken their suggestion' 'was it d right tin to do' cos it didnt cm frm u

its gud to consult pple yes, bt u alredy hv d answer or advice u re lookin for within u. So take it

PasD: By the grace of God, and by the virtue of the position I occupy and my kind of job, I have come to see a lot of things as regards the removal of 'unwanted pregnancy'.

I went into study and critical reasoning and believe me, I found out that there is such thing as 'unwanted pregnancy'.

The Imo State government and the Clergy men recently had a brush over abortion law allegedly passed by the State government. But then, in an interview with the Imo State governor Owelle Rochas Okorocha, he explained thus;

"We are not passing this law to encourage young girls to prostitute and abort their babies, rather, our focus is on married women and eventually unfortunate young ladies that get raped".

Everyone somehow has a reason to every action they take and the decision they make.
In developed countries, for instance, where the government approves of abortion, who will be punished? The doctor who can be sued for denying a young lady her right? Or the government who have a very strong reason for approving the act? Or the young 'unfortunate' lady who one day finds out she has an 'unwanted pregnancy'?

Let's judge this both from a strict and a wide sense...

Thanks for commenting

i see u conveniently left d man who impregnated d lady n askd her to go for an abortion out of d equation of those God will punish; by what they write we shall know them...

cluewebhost: Education, house, car, children... Really?

what re u yapping about? Re u saying that these ones re not achievements? Hw many of the listed abive hv u succeded i doing? Mtcheeew pls If u hv nuffin to contribute just keep mute biko


@op if u hv succeded in trainin up ur children in a morally upright manner to become responsible n law abiding citizens; then u hv really succeded where 60% of nig parents hv failed n dt is a gr8 achievment. It is now time to give back to d society, nt just money but ur wisdom n knowlegde abt d way d world works, make sure u also do smthing for ur country b4 u die.
If ur kids on d other hand are still small, then u still hv a long way to go, a person can only term his children as his success wen he hs succeded in training d person to be an upright, responsible n useful citizen, d father of a 419er hs no right to call himself a successful father cos he faild in dt department

I must commend d work of mazi for being d best referenced n arranged essay. His sources re well cited n his citations well arranged.

kudos to u

@contestant 11 ur Essay is gr8, very convincing n hs a lot of persuasive e.gs kudos to u on that i especially luv d fact dt u acknowledged d role of genes but went right ahead to give us reasons y it is not d determinin factor- dt takes away d power frm anybody who will luv to oppose on dt ground
I also know u didnt get all these ur examples from ur head or manufacture them, these are real facts of real pples lives so i wonder y u failed to cite even one of ur sources, ur Article is gr8 bt an article without references n citations dnt really hv much impact n will nt pass d test of a good essay
Again u shld always proof read b4 submittin ur work

finally ur essay is quite educating

physise: blocked tweak

do u know any other tweak or code that works, d thing is frustrating

@contestant 17, ur command of d English language is poor. Ur sentence constructions re bad; ur tenses, n ur use of some expressions re very inappropriate n u got some of dem wrong e.g its there is no gainsaying nt there is no gainsay
ur intro is quite bland, nt captivating enuf n it didnt flow down to d body, u didnt succed in giving us at least 3 reasons y d strike is d wrong approach; tho givin d history n formation of ASUU is a thumbs up to u, bt that is nt really any reason y strike is a wrong approach; u shouted a lot of NO's without trying to convince us that it is a no.
Ur ending is quite bare, every gud essay shld hv an outro dt leaves a lasting n convincin impression on d minds of d readers
I didnt see u reference any article or site, n where did u get dt ur definition of strike from? Writing an essay without any reference tells us u blive u hv it all in ur head wch u dont, u shld give accepted definitions frm existing works nt just anything u feel is d def from ur head, u cld giv in ur own words bt dts after giving an existing accepted definition.

finally this is a step forward n u'll get better with time kip it up n work on ur English

I observed that some contestants didnt proof read dia wrk b4 uploading; i dont know if they are allowd to modify their posts bt it will b nice if those spellings wld b corrected.

I giv it up 2 elliotwiz for genuises re born not made(supporting) he did his research n dt example of d 4 yr old cant b beaten by anybody hu claims genuises re made

OAM4U has it on genuises re born not made(against) tho ur begining was kinda off, but u came back on track wit convincing n extensive examples
@samtolly b mightful of d examples u use, dt messi example wil easily backfire cos messi was a football wiz @ d age of 5, he hd talent over n above those of his peers, nice work though

to those against strike as a wrong approach i noticed u guys jst say there are other effective methods without actually naming these other methods wch is bad; i must commend illuminatus for giving us some alternative ways.
In this category tho Davo93 carries it, d beginnin n end of ur essay were well packaged; tho lyk most pple u left out d other ways but u gave d benefits of d strike Only if it wrks nd ur reasons against d strike action ws extensive

for (opposing) strike as a wrong approach... For me its a tie btw infoscope n mazi omenuko they both gave convincing exmples why strike works; tho they glossed over its adverse effect like it ws unreal n minor, nd d intros were just gr8, never knew dia ws stryk action in d bible lol...

Finally all those who contributed to d makin of dis competition u guys are just gr8

WOW I knew it!!! A lot of kids on dis forum, only kids N young youths use 'SONGS' as their Ring tone

lertee: Students should stop lazying at home. They should go an learn something good,tailoring,catering,carpentry and many hand creativities. They can learn trade as well.
This government is not ready to listen to the problem. It is a pity.

My dear students are not lazying at home as U seem to Imagine, N unlike u fink they hv considered all d suggestions above, what u seem to forget is that d time the strike will be called off is UNCERTAIN, so U could pay to learn tailoring as u suggest n after 2 weeks d strike will be called off what will u do then?... N u can't luk for Jobs except is construction cos most employers can't hire someone who might b goin back to school nxt week

Lol.. some lawyers sef n attention-seeking, what's his locus standi? Meddlesome interloper!











And I didn't know University Education has bcom one of the Rights of a Nigerian Child...