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Bro, from a man to a man listen to people telling you to leave her alone. Please dont wait to find out. Run.

You could wake up this time next year. All you have, all your prospects gone! It will feel like a dream.

Women, sex, pussy is how 90% of great men get destroyed. Its real bro.

Please listen.

FreeSpirited:
You are very right with your submission. Many of them are for the money, they may not tell you in the beginning, some don't want to talk abt their family issue but only enjoying the attention you are giving them..While we have some who are just for the fun...it depends, it's left for the guy to know what he's doing. And it's not as if I go around looking for married women...I'm just saying from little experience, and from other people's experience.

African men & myopia.

What you are saying happens but its not always like you put it. Most times the woman is using you to meet the financial needs of her family.

A lot of you when your female friends ask you for help, you give miserly. Once pussy is on the table, you became so generous. Its a trick, before long you're paying for school fees, upkeep, rent etc.

Of course, she adds pecks & sensationalises things to tickle your fancy. She tell you she doesnt love her husband anymore, doesnt enjoy sex with him bla bla. Haha! Most times its a wash. She's working you.

Before you know you're spending humongous amounts on a married woman with 2, 3 or more kids. Something you'll never do with a younger lady. The day you cant pay anymore she moves to another man but is still with her husband.

You'd be suprised that the husband is aware she's cheating, he may or may not know you but he's helpless. He looks the other way & grieves silently in pains.

Is this really your idea of fun & enjoyment

Once cultists witness a mapping/hit they feel rugged & stronger than JUs - a false sense of superiority. The same with when they handle & fire a gun but there's no big deal to it.

Its the same way you felt wiser after the first time you had sex. Its the euphoria of the experience thats created an illusion that can lead to a delusion if not properly processed.

Another thing is, it takes away your innocence. Innocence is strongly linked to peace of mind which in turn impacts on mental health. A lot of cultists have mental disorder due to things they've been exposed to - beatings, deaths, killings. Their psyche is messed up. They go from 0-100 in a blink & can be very irrational & unreasonable.

The more you know, the less peace you have. We cannot stop knowing but we can control the things we're exposed to. Thats why its never a good idea to try a bad habit or vice.

Cultists are always jealous when they see clean, bright JUs living their lives in innocence & peace of mind. Something they have lost forever.

What needs fixing is how you may be out of Nigeria but reason like one who's never left Nigeria.

NerdyRudeGyal:
Lmaaaaaooooo!! Fixed.

Sigh.

To be a cultist is to be utterly stu.pid, or how else can one explain this?

Now I'm certain the initiation was to flog y'all senses away.

In your own case they didnt even leave small sense for you, they must have really flogged you.

God4071:
wow!!!! see advertisement opportunity oo, hahaha just joking.
I repeat I'm not hyping or whatever u think.
nbm no be SEC or SVC wey dey force people, looking for members by all possible means, dem no dey tell person.
To be honest what's my own business with who bam and who no bam. if u have been reading o didn't attack even the OP sef, its just a few misconceptions I wanted to clear but I give up.
forget oo....make we rest

God4071

No insult from me can be worse than the darkness hovering over your life as a cultist, that should be your worry.

Enough of the "all my guys are ballers" bla bla bullshit. Please itemise for the benefit of this thread what cultism has helped you achieve & how you wouldnt be where you are today without cultism.

This is a unique opportunity to sell your NBM positively, gain support for it & even recruit men for your movement so please give it your best shot.

As it should be!

Nezzjnr:
I blocked some Bastards on whatsapp yesterday

I was shocked to the bone marrow.... Even people I thought were sensible were busy posting this 7/7 trash

No matter how we're both close... Once I notice any Cult trait in you even if you're not one.... I'll kick you out

This is usually someone who has never been out of Nigeria...Lol

Get a passport first.

NerdyRudeGyal:
The 20 dumbasses who liked your post must be males. I wonder if they would do the same if this your gf who you slapped and flogged with a belt was their sister. As for you, OP, Mr. Abuser, you're lucky you're in Nigeria because you sure can't try these in other parts of the world.

Apt!

They dont look at the facts, they mostly go by sentiments.

They may not like it but the truth is that the Ndigbo suck at politics.

Igbobywife:
And u think APC will be stupid to zone it to SE..

Even Atiku and Obi didn't get enough votes in all south east like they got in south west..

Pls go check the votes again and Coman argue..


SW pdp even votrd Atiku and Obi than South east

These south easterners are at it again, proving how bad they are at politics.

No easterner can win any election in Nigeria without federal might & the north. The idea is for pdp to present a northern candidate, knick the next election & have him hand over to a SE person after his tenure using federal might & northern appeal. Makes absolute sense!

If the SE goes against this arrangement, then another part of the south will get the slot after the northerner is done & SE are back to square one.

If PDP fields an SE candidate in the next election, it may end 3rd. Even against a SW Apc candidate, the Pdp wont stand any chance. No serious party will like to lose an election before its conducted.

Ndigbo must do away with sentiments at this time, face the hard facts & scheme intelligently.

People are scared cos they are robbers, rapists, murderers etc. If it was a progressive association, it wouldnt be so.

The akara part got me

Please which area is this?

bigseank:
Please anybody with any news and update on anything that happened yesterday. Everybody just dey shout 7-7. No Okada worked for my area, shops closed very early.....the painful part was i no chop sleep, iya akara sef close run go house. The fear was just too much. the hatred for cultism in me multiplied yesterday.

Peacebeuntoyouu

To be honest the guy is really unintelligent. He sounds quite young & immature. I was only trying to see if he can still be saved.

Great.

'/' is not 'and' its more like 'or'.

The writer put both words for a reason -to cater to your preference. All you need to do is pick whichever appeals to you & get along.

You need not go on & on about your choice. Be a smart reader.

Also respect & fear can be related & could be interchangeable depending on the context. Its not unusual to see one who's been disrespected say:

'You have no fear!'

angelfallz:
i like your bae's dad quote, "be loving but firm" many men need to understand this. Although i don't agree with my woman fearing me. respect me, yes! but fear me, no!
Anyway different strokes for different men

If my brother was killed & I know who did it. I'll make sure the law takes its course.

If u kill ur bro's killer (x) cus u're Aye. X's bro who is Eiye kills u. Ur AYE goons go after him...& so on. Is that not chaos?

Forget the IFs, if I also had 'legal backing' there'll be no cultists.

God4071:
I'm actually surprised at ur response, o was expecting lots of bible quoting and curses from u....lol and no we haven't conversed b4,

I respect ur right to bliv we av no right to go after anyone, but can u answer 2 questions 4 me, my views are different from urs bit trust me I'm up 4 a way forward.

if we are given legal backing by govt it automatically bcoms a good thing right? wait 4 it...lol
according to what I read I see u give much importance to legal backing

and also if ur brother or ur loved one (4 example, don't take offence) was killed and u know the killer and he's going scot free what will u do, and even if u can't do anything what will u wish u can do.

I know who you are, we conversed on this thread recently. Just like you I know alot of folks active on here are cultists too. Most of them have bowed to superior argument, some are waiting for an excuse to pounce on the thread.

Listen, only the entities backed by the law of FGN can go after crime & criminals. No matter how good your cause is...you have NO right whatsover to go after anyone, infact its a crime to do so. If you suspect any one or notice anything illegal or untoward going on, report to the authorities.

This your attempt at image laundering for NBM & BAN is stu.pid, deactivate.

God4071:
first of all u complained of me mentioning sec and SVC,then u accused aye of election rigging and now u are complaining because he mentioned buccaneers, and u say u be ju. I wonder why person go join wetin he no fit proud of.
show urself,no dey disguise 4 me Abeg.
if u be ju then its OK,u are correct

I'm not for abuse either. If you read to understand you'll get me even if you dont agree.

I cant keep going on & on.

Pious101:
if at the age which I have clocked I haven't learnt my lessons then something must be wrong. We are not discussing women leaving a man because of a slap but rather abusing a woman. These are two different issue. I really do not see what the girl did in this situation to warrant an abuse, d guy have d option to walk away while being annoyed

I get the sarcasm, its nothing. Do a thread and let men here tell you how often their spouse physically, verbally & emotionally abuse them mostly over 'nothing', you'll be amazed.

As a man, you just tolerate & ignore but there comes certain situations when you must be firm as a man & stand your ground.

As much as her place in the home is irreplaceable, valued & respected, she must never lose memory of who is in charge.

pocohantas:
Very true. Don’t leave any partner for slapping you. Stay with them and fight it through. Love isn’t easy o, a little slap here and there fortifies it.

Ordinary slap? When it is not that she stabbed you? Toor!!

I'm not applauding him, he just highlighted something alot of men out there are missing.

Dont worry, we were all once like you. Experience will teach you better, I pray you take your lessons before its too late.

Any woman who leaves you because you slapped her was going to leave you anyway, she was waiting for an excuse.

Each to his own but whatever you decide let it be your own choice, dont live your life for any woman. It will end in tears...premium tears.

Pious101:
to be frank with u I am amaze at the kind of comment I was reading from this thread. Applauding an abuser of a man. No woman deserve to be abuse, if u can't take it walk out and stop trying to claim one alpha nonsense. I have a mother and sisters and would not support the kind of things I read here. Ur ability to handle situation makes u a man and not ur ability to use ur strength on a woman. Ur strength are meant to protect her

With how much of her friends & her experiences you're privy of, you seem to know she was deep & dark but it didnt matter to you. The coochie must have been real drippy.

Why the sudden panic

I suggest you pull yourself together & figure a solid way out of the mess you put yourself. Else you'll be the next person drinking poison...thats if they dont bathe you with acid.

Nuel4:
she saw the girl dipping her finger in her bottle when she left the table. She drank from the bottle and the drink almost almost burnt her tongue. Then she was vomiting when we got to my place. I'd really appreciate if you can edit these mentions and delete what I posted because I want to delete them. I no understand anything again

Even if truly one cultist decided to wed today, some of them are crazy like that. It will still end like most people have stated...drinks, drugs, sex.

Your girl may not smoke like her friends but there are other aspect of their livestyle she aligns with. Most likely she's a prostitute. Even the make up artiste. Its only a matter of time before they fully evolve.

Nuel4:
her friend lives in my compound, that one 100% a cultist. She said they've known each other for over 10 years now. That her friend kind of have over 20 girls that normally come to her place they all smoke weed together but this my smallie no dey smoke. It is not like she is a good girl though but quite different from the rest. There's another girl here that I can swear is not a cultist but she's following them. She's a make up artist so I was kind of thinking maybe they truly have somewhere legit they are going to.

Sorry man. Either she's a cultist & definitively her main bf is a cultist or she & the others have been tricked.

If its a trick, they'll be initiated tonight. What that simply means is that...they'll be drugged & fu.cked to stupor by dirty lowlives all night. If she's a cultist she'll still be fuc.ked to bits.

If you know their rendevous (location), put it up here. Who knows...there may be someone here with law enforcement who can spoil it for them.

Like I always say...you never know who's reading.

Nuel4:
sorry can you enlighten me on this 7/7 shiit? One of my side chick just travelled with a lot of girls this morning they said they will come back tomorrow and that they are going for a wedding. Who does wedding on Tuesday? I normally suspect them of being cultists but I just didn't care enough to probe her. Do they party /club today?

This thread is filled with inexperienced & immature people who have no business commenting on a thread like this. You lots know nothing about anything but are so loud especially the guys. I pity your souls. Women will run circles around you till you die of dizziness.

Bae's dad, a respected judge once after settling a minor dispute told her to go & her knees & apologise to me. I didnt like the idea but he insisted. Later when we were alone, he urged me to be loving but firm. If she doesnt fear/respect me, she'll 'finish' me & bring shame to him.

To clarify my position: women are no punch bags but in some cases, sometimes (which must not be every year), you must be ready to exert yourself as a man - with caution & moderation. Its the dirty job in marriage...

Curiously, most of them didnt post sh.it on their father's birthday but guess who be running up & down when they get caught with that shameful, rusty thing they call a gun.

Wetabix:
7/7 my WhatsApp status don filled up with their differnet post.

I lost my joy a long time ago.

Goke7:
badt guy

For today, we would appreciate anyone who'll do an elaborate expose on 7/7 & how its usually celebrated.

jmaine:
My correct bro.... Na just small bants... ......

Jmaine & Peacebeuntoyouu

I enjoyed reading from the both of you. Quite refreshing to read from enlightened minds. I want to read more but in a way thats productive to the thread.

Kindly sheath your swords. You two should be friends if it was up to me.

Asa in Yoruba means 'hawk'

sheyishemba:
Don't mind him it sarcasm asa means eagle in eagle in Yoruba

First time I encountered them was in the early 2000s. It was at Liverpool bus stop in Apapa, I was on my way from the Folawiyo Plaza.

Two walked up to me & I turned them away. Then, they came in droves, holding my hands, tugging on my clothes. Obviously to embarass me & force my hand, I smiled.

I found the biggest amongst them & gave her the first knock. As the others were getting theirs, I noticed a woman who appears to be their mother/guardian walking ferociously towards me, just what I wanted. I nudged them off me & started walking towards her.

She stopped in her tracks & said something to them & they all made for me. Just then a soldier man came out of nowhere with his belt. He had been watching & heard what she told them to do to me.

They ran off but his strokes caught a few & they really didnt enjoy it.

Everytime I passed for 2 years, the women would curse under their breath but the children always gave me a guard of honor.

About 40% of those online right now are on this thread...talk about hot & sensational news.

I'm telling you. That they even think its normal & a part of growing up is sad.

Hathor5:
And the psychopaths are crawling out of their holes.

Lol, Kalu the irredeemable dolt.

You made a little sense on this one. I see with your constant stalking of my posts a bit of me is beginning to rub off on you.

Good on you btw.

kalufelix:
Dumb question from a cheap attention seeker.... When you walk continuously for 12hours a day with little break periods in between... You'd be covering hundreds of kilometers in two weeks... It doesn't matter if you are a sane person, a lunatic or a zombie that is high on tramadol trekking for buhari's victory...