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PoliticsRe: They Have A Case With The Magistrate Not Me: Police PPRO, Muyiwa Adejobi by chrizzyace: 11:01pm On Jul 20, 2022
If these three friends were family to the governor or any top politician would he be acting this way? Na where them no suppose show power una deh wan show.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Salvador, Hundreds Of Supporters Join Labour Party by chrizzyace: 5:20pm On Jul 19, 2022
Okoroawusa:
Hahahaha!

This is very funny
What’s funny about it?
PoliticsRe: Osun Election: President Buhari Congratulates Ademola Adeleke by chrizzyace: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2022
At least you did something everyone clearly seen and shall benefit from. Thank you
PoliticsRe: 2023 Presidency: Tinubu Can Make N1 Equal To $1 – Ayodele Adewale by chrizzyace: 11:44am On Jul 14, 2022
So because of his name it will attract investors?You didn’t state the plans he have that will attract investors.... even South Africa that has a better standard of living than Nigeria 1 rand is still not equal to a dollar. Bunch of day dreamers ... we are wiser now!!! No time for fake promises.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Replies Tinubu Over 'Derogatory' Remark by chrizzyace: 5:42am On Jul 14, 2022
IamWonderful:
Pandora Peter OBItuary
You’re just irresponsible!! You’re not wonderful at all. You sold your Destiny for peanuts!!!
PoliticsRe: Kidnapped Ex-President Jonathan's Cousin, Mike Ogiasa Begs For Life (Video) by chrizzyace: 9:38pm On Jul 09, 2022
OVB123:
Nigeria is fast becoming unliveable because of the activities of boko haram, bandits, kidnapers etc. We are using this medium to beg the FG government to look into the situation with the aim of finding a lasting solution.
The one wey u beg never do? U still deh beg??
PoliticsRe: AY Live: Nigerians In Maryland Asked To Choose Between Tinubu, Atiku, Obi by chrizzyace: 11:38am On Jul 06, 2022
Way to go!!! Hopefully others will follow this trend. God bless AY.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu: Until We Have A Good Credit System, We Can't Conquer Corruption by chrizzyace: 4:58pm On Jul 02, 2022
Na Peter Obi deh ginger all of them. grin
CrimeRe: Dancer Solo Jackson Shot Dead By Bandits Along Okigwe Road In Imo (Graphic) by chrizzyace: 11:46am On Jul 02, 2022
Omo how can people be dying like this everyday yet, everyone is keeping quiet ? No protest whatsoever? Nigerians can really adapt mehn ...
CelebritiesRe: Robert Pattinson The Most Handsome Man In The World According To Science (Photo) by chrizzyace: 11:24am On Jul 02, 2022
Saintmary:
For some interesting reason, only Caucasians are the "most attractive" in the world.


Is it not obvious to you that these people have limited brains that can't process the beauty in other races?


Or where should we place Naomi Campbell, Aishwarya and millions of other stunning beauties sprinkled evenly all over this planet?



Gosh.


P. S. The hair, the nose, the lips on this guy is already irritating to me, even plain brad pitt is a little better.


Where is that Arabian Model's picture, I could have shown you drop dead handsomeness.
They are talking about the Most Handsome man you’re mentioning Naomi Campbell Na wa
TravelRe: Canada Releases Damning Report On Nigeria, Issues Travel Advisory To Citizens by chrizzyace: 4:55pm On Jul 01, 2022
Some insensitive people will still come out shamelessly be campaigning for the same APC or PDP that has wrecked this country to pieces. Ask yourself do you think anything good can come from such parties? Aren’t you tired? angry
PoliticsRe: Buhari Warns Bandits: No Matter The Hole You Crawl Into, We Will Find You by chrizzyace: 2:39pm On Jul 01, 2022
Abegiiii undecided
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Branded Phone Case (Pictured) by chrizzyace: 10:29pm On Jun 27, 2022
Factcheck0001:
We will soon see peter obi branded urine n shit

I wonder what will happen to all these things once he loses out
Imagine the same thing about yourself as well , if your preferred candidate loses out. grin
CelebritiesRe: Jackie Appiah’s Luxury Mansion Will Amaze You, Check Out The Interiors by chrizzyace: 10:11am On Jun 26, 2022
FASTNG24TV:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pEoMETdaTY

Nollywood Star, Luchy Donalds was hosted by Veteran Ghanaian Actress, Jackie Appiah at her luxury house in plush Trasacco estate, near East Legon in Accra.
Would have enjoyed watching this video without your voice in the background!!! Cheap bloggers mrchewww
PoliticsRe: Benin City Residents Take To The Streets To Celebrate Peter Obi In Fanfare by chrizzyace: 2:37pm On Jun 23, 2022
APCnaPDP:
I hope all these razzmatazz transmute to actual votes.
Guy No Sleep No Sleep Wake Up!!!
PoliticsRe: Wike In Closed Door Meeting With Peter Obi As Defection Rumours Swell by chrizzyace: 2:09pm On Jun 22, 2022
One thing I perceive from this meeting would be how Wike will help persuade kwankwaso to join LP , cause that’s what we need rn.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi: Youths With Laptop In Nigeria Arrested, Others Give Laptops To Youths by chrizzyace: 3:20pm On Jun 17, 2022
APCnaPDP:
The battle is between Atiku and Tinubu. Forget the online ranting, on election day, una eyes go open. You guys will know that elections ain’t won on Twitter.
No scream rigging or no referendum no Nigeria again.

Good luck
Guy if by now u think online rant has no power! Then you’re not part of this country when the endsars event occurred! If u never tire abeg kindly japa go abroad go deh observe while we change the narratives of politics once and for all! If we don’t get it right now. Especially now that the president is neutral! It’s our only chance. So go get your pvc and do the right thing bro!
PoliticsRe: Governor Umahi Wins Ebonyi South Senatorial Ticket by chrizzyace: 3:02pm On Jun 10, 2022
This same old dead and forgotten pattern of politics in Nigeria is still being practiced in Nigeria it’s a big shame. This was obviously why they were all stepping down for their demi god to be the flag bearer.

2023 will be our year of Liberation...
PoliticsRe: APC Presidential Primary: I Won’t Allow Imposition Of Candidate - Buhari by chrizzyace: 6:55pm On Jun 06, 2022
helinues:
The media just dey enjoy themselves

grin
Lol it’s their time.
PoliticsRe: Outcome Of Buhari's Meeting With APC Stakeholders by chrizzyace: 7:20am On Jun 06, 2022
In summary buhari doesn’t have a preferred candidate. He wants delegates to chose their best candidates that will not bring destruction to the party but unity etc. Let the best man win today we are watching.
PoliticsRe: Kalu Urges Buhari To Pick Lawan As Successor, Says He'll Stabilise The Country by chrizzyace: 1:55pm On Jun 02, 2022
Babaken:
You a MUMU man
I swear! 70 years old man..
PoliticsRe: I'm Counting On You To Beat APC, PDP - Peter Obi Tells Youths, Market Women by chrizzyace: 12:49am On Jun 02, 2022
God1000:
I wish you all the best, though you disappointed your supporters by switching over to another party

I still believe Mr Obi is better than so many deplorable aspirants on the campaign Train
He wouldn’t have won the primaries oga.
PoliticsRe: APC Presidential Primary: Tinubu Lands In Cross Rivers, To Meet Delegates by chrizzyace: 6:33pm On Jun 01, 2022
SOFTSKILL:
God forbid! City boy direct
Peter Obi is my first choice Osibanjo is my second choice.
BusinessRe: FG Clamps Down On Online Money Lenders Over Breach Of Customer's Rights by chrizzyace: 6:32pm On Jun 01, 2022
NwaEzefuNaMba:
https://www.thecable.ng/sokoloan-okash-fg-cracks-down-on-digital-lenders-over-customer-privacy-violation/amp
See that Sokoloan!! I knew my curse on them will never go in vain. Very foolish and useless money lender.
PoliticsRe: APC Presidential Primary: Tinubu Lands In Cross Rivers, To Meet Delegates by chrizzyace: 3:38pm On Jun 01, 2022
God1000:
Where's sowore and other young aspirants from other parties?

Why is no one talking about them?
Peter Obi is the man of the people right now..:
PoliticsRe: Buhari Lists Characteristics Of APC Consensus Candidate by chrizzyace: 10:23pm On May 31, 2022
I will never forget the day Mr President said these words “I am for everybody, and not for anybody. It’s clear now
PoliticsRe: Hilliard Eta: We Will Disgrace Goodluck Jonathan If He Tries To Come To APC by chrizzyace: 5:58pm On May 30, 2022
FalseProphet1:
Tinubu will not emerge as APC presidential candidate.

This I have seen.
I agree with this prophecy.
RomanceRe: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by chrizzyace: 11:15am On May 27, 2022
NLElder:
First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.

The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.

The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.

So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.

I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.

So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.

We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.

Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.
The fact that I actually took my precious time to read this long epistle is second to none cause I rarely do when it comes to relationship issues, but in this case. I’ll advice you cut all means of communication with her, Facebook WhatsApp Ig text calls etc. Focus on your own home, find a solution to the problem that led you into this act. Rather than being obsessed with a lady that has moved on with her life like nothing happened btwn u two. If you wanna live long. Better go back to your wife and fix the loopholes. I wish you all the best.
PoliticsRe: NNPP Offers Obi Vice Presidential Ticket - The Nation by chrizzyace: 8:54am On May 27, 2022
Egein:
Dear Jimoh Lateef Adewale. I need you to know that the internet is not as anonymous as you may think. Everyone has your phone number, address and phone number - 0703 072 5869. There's nothing good about bullying strangers on the internet.
God bless u for exposing him. He go learn by force.
PoliticsRe: NNPP Offers Obi Vice Presidential Ticket - The Nation by chrizzyace: 8:53am On May 27, 2022
lathrowinger:
Pandora will still leave the party and join ipob party.


Werey dey disguise


Ritualist in human form....
It’s like u have smoked ur regular Ukwani weed this morning cuz what u just said is so out of context no correlation to the the topic. Seek deliverance my friend.
PoliticsRe: Wike: Atiku Is An Elder, I Am The Most Experienced Of All The Aspirants by chrizzyace: 10:14pm On May 26, 2022
I’ve actually been wondering why Dele momodu that has been traveling all over the states to visit delegates is not on the media but to him he’s 100% confident to win the primaries. Does it mean that he’s just wasting his time? grin
PoliticsRe: Wike Blasts Obi: You can be the best Economist, but you don't have character by chrizzyace: 9:44pm On May 26, 2022
So Na him come get character?? Abi presidency Na to deh bash anybody... he should rest and focus on his ambition.

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