₦airaland Forum

owukpa:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wwXB3-N3TSs

The Retired Bishop of Makurdi Diocese of the Anglican Communion Church of Nigeria, Rt. Rev. Dr. Nathan Inyom, has stated that in the next 100 years, Christianity Will Soon Wipe Out of This Land while Islam will take over.

He quoted an author, George as making this prediction in his book.

People should learn how to speak positively no matter their grievance. In the next 100yrs Christianity will be more strengthened in Nigeria. African Christians always use their mouth to cause problems for themselves because they don't know the power in their mouth.

See who is talking somebody that the former local government chairmen of Rivers State was paying before Fubara removed them. Why is he fighting for FG to seize Rivers allocation. A man that has no integrity.

Sorry for Nigeria. Just look at what VP is saying.
Nobody says the truth again in this nation.
What about the bourdillon van or whatever

The Nigerian politicians know the right things to do but they will not put effort to do it only if it favors them.

This LG autonomy because it didn't not favour Tinubu, Wike and his camp, it mainly favors their opponents they decided to do the right.

I pray that this state governors that was affected will come up with the right plans that will enforce the right things that doesn't favors the FG so that there will be continuity of progress and development in our nation.

It May favour the APC today, tomorrow it might not favour them. That's life.

Tinubu benefited from the local government when he a governor even to an extent creating city councils in Lagos why now is he trying to reduce the power of the governors.

I see state governors ganging up against Tinubu in the future for trying to reduce their power in the state level.

Tinubu has an agenda to stay in power forever

You wear bullet proof come bring innocent youths to fight for you without any protection.

The curses that was laid on Wike, El Rafia and others for rigging the general election is really working on them just check it out.

Am a Rivers guy but am very happy that these people are fighting themselves. It is their reward for carrying Rivers people's vote to give to one man. God doesn't sleep they will fight and destroy themselves.

Odewaleadesoye:


DAILY POST

This guy is enjoying the grace his fathers have kept for him. If your papa or grandfathers no kept anything grace for you follow this man your own don finish be that.

You see this man will continue to excel whether he is doing good or bad because of the righteous foundation of his fathers he is standing upon. God's word can not be broken.

Another man enjoying the grace of his father in this Nigeria is minister Wike. You see this kind of people no follow them do bad thing if you no get grace or righteous foundation because you go suffer an.

realmindz:
Short story, I’ll keep it straight and simple

It all started last year November. I was actually in a situationship kind of relationship, and just finished one of those quarrels. So I was bored and was going through instagram, then I saw this ladies comment on one comedy skit. I checked out her profile and I found her so cute. Just my spec. I decided to dm and followed her.

She didn’t respond to my dm, I even commented on her picture to get her attention, still no response from her. So let me call her Lady A.

I was going through her instagram highlights and pix and saw one of her contacts always commenting on each others pictures so I concluded that must be her close friend. They shared each others pictures.

I decided to follow her friend too so I can have a means to reach out to her. So let me call her friend lady B

So I dm lady B and followed her. She responded and I was able to sustain the conversation with her. My plan was to keep talking to her and later tell her I liked her friend, lady A.


But you know something about fate, it works in mysterious way.

As I and lady B kept chatting on and on, we moved to voice call and from voice call to video calls. We spoke at length everyday. My initial plan was abandoned and I was enjoying every bit of my moment with her. She was so lively, lovely, sweet, beautiful smiles and so intelligent.

We decided to meet up… I would say seeing her in person was like the day I knew that would be my wife for sure. She was so much prettier than even online. The connection is so strong.

To summarize the long story, a lot has happened since then. I’ve proposed, she has said yes and we have done introduction.

As we are planning our wedding for November, exactly one year after, while she was beside me with those her beautiful smiles, adorable eye, my mind went back to how it all started. I reflected on how she wasn’t even my target but fate had another plan. I was looking into her eyes and she was smiling and told me to spit out what I was thinking about.

Such is the way of fate, Lady A was never mine, she only led me to my fiancée Lady B…

Congratulations, Nice one.
I like your style.

chokekachy:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/09/18/though-you-have-two-children-for-me-youre-not-my-wife-obasanjo-disowns-taiwo/?amp=1

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7844137/taiwo-obansanjos-wife-begs-obas

Our traditional rulers have no respect again since the government started appointing them instead of the culture and traditions of their respective community.

Today many royal highnesses are occupying the position which they know they are not the rightful people to sit on the throne just because they have connections and money.

So to me I believe him Obasanjo understood the process In which they came on board that is why he acted that way.

murecool:
https://dailytrust.com/fact-check-did-wike-order-demolition-of-jabi-motor-park/

Wike will buy everywhere in Abuja just like the way he bought in Rivers State. Selfish man

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

From all this statements you made It is only your wife that can help herself to make her marriage to work.

Your wife doesn't love you because if she does she wouldn't disrespect or be offensive to you or let you suffer all this.

In the sex part it might be that your wife is circumcised that is why she doesn't like it.

My advice for you try to hold your sexual urge, don't ask her for sex and don't romance her then take your time and show her love like be very nice to her without demanding for anything you see that she will change for good. Thank you

Islie:
“The prosecution has shown that they are not law abiding and have no respect for the court. The court cannot force them,” the judge said.





https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/616550-nigerian-government-has-no-respect-for-court-judge.html

How would they have respect for Court-judge when most of the judges have sold their right for money.

The FG don't trust them they believe that same way they can influence judges with money other people can do the same. So that is why they find it hard to accept some court verdicts.

newsblendanews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IY9V6j4KMto

Popular Nigerian crossdresser, Idris Okuneye, aka Bobrisky, has once again found himself on the spotlight after making an appearance on his father’s burial.

Bobrisky, whose father died in the wee hours of Monday morning and was subsequently buried according to Islamic rites at Ijebu-Igbo in Ogun state, was captured wearing a black outfit, covering his hair with a black scarf and also wearing a pair of dark sunglasses.

It is surprising to see that Nigerian crossdresser did not turn up for the burial in his usual make-up face as he always attend many events.

See how ashamed he is hiding his face. Why living a style that you are not comfortable with in the midst of your kinsmen.

Karen2024:
Can't believe I'm using my new iPhone 14 to type..my boyfriend just got it for me. I'm happy 🌸 I have always been supportive to him, I never knew he could surprise me like this. Men are really good if you play your cards well. You don't take from man all the time and expect him to respect you; you don't possess cheating tendencies and expect a man to stay loyal to you. Women are meant to add value to men and not to make their lives miserable! I will always thank God for giving me the wisdom on how to treat a man to stay peaceful and loyal to each other.

The money for that iphone can go a long way in paying your dowry. Why are you like this. Don't just give your all to a man that you not sure if he will marry you.

Heart break is very really don't come and say Men are scum tomorrow.

Uptownerd:

And some young girls who have not seen life forming feminist want to end up like her. It is good to learn from other people's experience.

[quote author=ijustdey post=124965762]https://dailytrust.com/police-how-lagos-cleric-charmed-us-based-friend-took-over-his-wife-children/[/quot


See how they twisted the story refused to mention Alfa. A pastor can not be answering alhaji. Yoruba Muslims with juju na 5,6.

jaybenugo:
Niger Republic Citizens in Niamey Protest Against Nigeria's President and ECOWAS Chairman, Bola Ahmed Tinubu.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnup47_Q_Hw

Nigeriens protest against President Bola Tinubu Over Plots To Remove The Coupists



https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cvg3ffToW0M/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44

When the process that brought Tinubu into power is illegal how do you expect other nations to respect him.

Rhodalyn:
never in a million years would i do that it's just not right for me

What of If the guy has everything you want in a Man.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://punchng.com/529-foreign-trained-doctors-failed-medical-exam-mdcn/

It is not by theory, give them practical then you will see their worth.

SultanOfPuna:
Religion has turned my mother into a shadow of herself.
Ever since our teenage years my mother was not the churchy type. We are raised Catholics
Back then she was active and bubbling.

all of a sudden my mother left Catholic faith and started messing around with different churches.
This has cause countless rift between us, my dad and elder sister have done everything possible but my mum is too brainwashed by these Pentecostal pastors.

How can someone be attending Christ embassy and winners chapel?? I Heard she wants to join mountain of fire but changed her mind.
Everytime church, church, church
Yet she never gain anything from it
I have been sending her money for her for upkeep since November last year only to come back home February this year and discovered she donates everything to different churches


I feel she might have a mental disorder and I don't know how to save her.
She literally spends all the money in church donation tithe and all those craps. And those pastors always calling her to come for one program or the other. I don't know what to do

You are not happy that you have a mother that's standing in the gap for you and your family.

Many people are praying for their parents to do this for them you are here shouting, go and see how many families are been dealt with and struggling because of evils going on around them.

The best legacy parents are supposed to keep for their children today is spiritual lagecy which we call grace built in righteousness and holiness through their services and followership with God.

Check many young youths succeeding today in their respective field they all have righteous parents that have built grace for them because of how they served and follow God.

If you understand I will advise you to support your mom in serving God but this time she should stick to one church because it will be a great benefit to you and your family.

Person just dey, dey invite trouble for himself.
Mr lover boy





uote author=Bolt458 post=124319589]I am not writing this for religious people to come with their funny talks, I am just putting this out here to hear from people who might have tried this methods or who heard about this methods and still proceeded or did not. I want to hear your experience. I have been dating someone for 5 years now, it happened that I began to see her as someone I would want to spend my life with. Last year we did our genotype test and we were both AS. Now , I know some of you will say this should be the first thing you ask when you meet someone but c’mon, would you say people in university that are dating now, would ask their sef that question? That theory is only feasible when you are single and ready to get married and want to start a new relationship, then you can always ask, but we all know some of our relationships started when we no Dey even see marriage in the nearest future, all of a sudden you just see them as the right person and you take the bold step. Now, I had to meet my family doctor here in Canada, I explained to him my current situation and he referred me to a GENETIC COUNSELOR. I am trying to take the necessary steps cause I am not ready to bring in a child with Sickle cell to this world, and I am not leaving anything to faith. A fone appointment was set with the counselor and we spoke at length. She told me that in every foetus, there is a 25% chance that we can get an SS child. Now , how do we mitigate this percentage to the barest minimum I asked as I am not even ready to bring in a sickler to this world. She gave me three options, I would rather say two because the last involves test when the baby comes, and that is out of the question.

Option 1:
A) CVS: They take a sample of the fluid in the womb through her vagina, at 12 weeks to test, if it’s good then fine, if not we have to terminate.

OR

B) At 16 weeks, they take the fluid using a needle directly from her womb, and if it’s SS , they terminate. Both procedures are cover by the government and we don’t need to pay a dime.

Now, she assured me that abortion is a very safe procedure if done properly, and it is even a bigger risk that one can die from a penicillin injection or carrying a pregnancy to term than any harm during an abortion.I know many people would come here and say abortion is this and that but let us be frank to ourselves. If you were told that the child in your womb would have cerebral palsy, or Down syndrome or a neurological disorder, would you still keep that pregnancy? Is there a 100% assurance that two AA people would give birth to a healthy baby? I have come to a realization that pregnancy is just a risk that people take, cus you really don’t know how your child would turn out.


Option 2:
PGD. This is just like IVF, where they would select the genotype before they insert back to the womb. She told me the government doesn’t cover this, and it could cost between $10K- $40k. However she mentioned, just like IVf, it is not guaranteed as it can fail and your money is gone.

I discussed this with my girl in Nigeria and she said she was fine with option 1a. I then asked her, that if the first, second are SS would she still remove it. She accepted. I would not lie to you, this girl is everything I want in a woman. I am not just looking at just love because I know love fades with time, but she is a really nice person, and has a good character. She has always been like this from my days in Nigeria because I was with her before I moved outside. Now after finding out our genotype, I tried to get into a relationship with AA. The first one Dey nigeria, she is a nice person, beautiful, but I just didn’t like her or feel attracted to her. She got tire and we just free ourselves, the second one is here in Canada, I just don’t like this one . Please note, I never slept with any of these ladies because I feel it’s not fair.


Now my question is for those who knew all this and still proceeded, how did it work out for you?

I repeat, don’t come here to tell me about how abortion is this and dat. Cus I know if they tell any of you that your child would be abnormal, 90% of you will go for the abortion[/quote]

ijustdey:
Bulkachuwa asks court to stop ICPC from probing him for ‘influencing wife’s decisions’




https://www.thecable.ng/bulkachuwa-asks-court-to-stop-icpc-from-probing-him-for-influencing-wifes-decisions/amp

If they are innocent, why are they afraid to be investigated.

fergie001:
SOURCE



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What this man did in Rivers State despite that he is a son of a pastor. Anyway God is watching his cup will get full one day then he will regret all his evils.

He is still the governor of the state for the third time the other one is covering for him.

Cooly100:
https://punchng.com/just-in-heavy-security-as-pro-tinubu-protesters-storm-eu-secretariat/

Just imagine!
Now what will the protest do, will it make them to change their report.
This evil Nigerian don't know that they are exposing their rigged election the more for the world to see.

Amb1045:
IF we say Y0ruba peop|e are dirty, even though there are many neat Yoruba, it is an acceptable fact.
IF we say hausa peop|e are not educated, even though there are many educated hausa people, it's an acceptable fact.
Therefore, if we say Igbo w0men are the worst set of women to marry, even though there are few sensib1e Igbo women, it is an acceptable fact.

Igbo women are toppers in paternity fraud in Nigeria.
36% in Igbo families.
24% in Yoruba families,
19% others.

¶ Igbo women are the major reason Nigeria ranks number 2 in the world when it comes to Paternity fraud.
The same tribe that collects fortune in the name of bride price , breeds the most irresponsib|e set of women in Nigeria.
imagine paying over 2million for an overused vag1na with a higher body count than the popu|ation of Ghana.

¶ 2 Million abort1ons occur in Nigeria every year and Igbo states and south comes highest with 0.44% while the Westerners (Yoruba) comes second with 0.41%.
Igbo women prove that bride price doesn't determine the va|ue of a woman.

¶ 1gbo women are gullib|e set of du||ards. They constitute 97% of Angela Nwosu fans, 80% of Ponzi scheme victims. From MMM, to racksterli, to Chinmark and Ovaioza.
A new Ponzi scheme will come up and 1gbo women will still fa|| victims.

¶ Among the 3 major ethnic groups in Nigeria, Igbo women own most properties they didn't buy. [Allahkaduna dropped this statistics last year, I lost the screenshots]
That is, Majority of them are liabi|ities and pest that depends solely on the generous act of a simp.
Only igbo gir|s will tell you "Jè chub'ego'. while her brothers are job|ess.

¶ Igbo women makes 70% of the Feminists in Nigeria.
If you count 100 b1tter Femin1st online, 95 are Igbo w0men.
A tribe that Pampers the fema|es. A tribe which the husband wear rags so the wife would adore herself in gold and classic outfit.
A tribe which the husband places the wife on monthly salary because he doesn't want her to work. A tribe which the man sponsors the education of the woman he wants to marry.
A tribe with the highest number of s1mps in Africa.
Still these women want equality where they're clearly at advantage.

¶ N1gerian women top the African charts in the aspect of Vio|ence on women by women.
This includes the ill treatment of house ma1ds and domestic workers. Igbo women tops Nigeria in this aspect.
IN 2019, an 11 year old from awka, Anambra state was assau|ted and fed with human dungs and cockr0aches by her madam before she was rescued by an activist.

IN the year 2020, during the Covid-19 lockdown, 19 year old benue maid , Joy adole was tortured to death by her Igbo madam in Lagos by hanging on the ceiling after claiming she stole a pack of noodles.
IN 2021, a 10 year old enugu-based nneoma escaped death after being tortured by her madam with a pressing iron. She also inserted pepper into her pr1vate part.
The shocking part is, her madam drove nai|s into her head twice and locked her up in the toi|et.
Only an Igbo woman would claim be a feminist but her housemaid no dey go school.

¶ Even our fema|e celebrities keep embarrass1ng a whole lot of us.
from Regina Daniels to Jane Mena, To Korra Obidi, To Tonto dikeh, To Genevieve Nnaji wey go act porn, To Nkechi blessing, To Blessing okoro , To Korra Obidi, To Maria BBN etc.

¶ Many of them are mascu|ine in character and in physique.
Always demanding authority with zero responsibility.
Only in Igbo land you'll see a w0man with beards and musc|es, feeling like Rihanna and wanting you to grant her some princess treatment. Lol She-Hulk.

¶ This is a social experiment. Go to Gistreel or Yabaleft news page.
IF you see any controversial topic about divorce, or a woman maltreating the husband or a story of a woman cheating on her spouse. Read the comment section and observe what the Igbo women say. You'll come back and approve this post.

Many 1gbo men wi|| never experience true feminine affection until they marry from another tribe.

Marry this generat1on of Igbo women at your own Peri|.

Why tribal war?
This post is not good at all.
Why would nairaland approved this post.
Stop promoting hates and tribal war!

[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote]After all these yes and yes they still go to cheat on their spouses. Wicked souls

HonNL:
Supreme Court STRIKES DOWN Biden's $400 billion student loan forgiveness: Justices rule president does not have authority to cancel debt of millions in another landmark ruling



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Even in America where things are going well still the students could not afford to pay the loan talk more of our Nigerian students that have no good platform to secure a job after graduation. I pity who go take that loan.

siofra:
I understand this is Nigeria where people are crazy about connections. People think that because you're from their village, you're supposed to give them a free pass. They won't go through the normal process, and when you refuse, they start to hate you and spread rumours about you.

It is happening to me at the place I work. It's becoming too much because I won't budge. Sometimes I feel like crying. How do I get around this? Why won't people just do things the right way I've never expected anything from anyone because they are from my village or because I know them.

I feel like I won't be able to stand my ground any longer.

If it is in your power to help them and they requested for It help them, there is not wrong with that. Like they said charity begins at home.

If you don't help your people now that it is in power to help, who will. One day you will retire from that job and return back home, how will you face them if you didn't impact on there life when you were in the position to do so.

Candidlady:
We the quiet ones

You a quiet person?
Somebody that is not quiet in nairaland.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

Brother, you are too weak.
That girl is not loyal to you.
Suspend anything marriage with her.

siofra:
It's not negative to be single. There's nothing negative about being single. Even our Lord Jesus Christ was single until death. Walking in his footsteps, is not a bad thing, mokop?

I like you because you are intelligent and always have something to say.
To be single is negative if you don't have the intention to be a reverend sister which I know you will never think of that.

The vision of God for Man and woman is to be joined together as man and wife in other to multiply the earth.

The mission of Christ here on earth with yours are not the same you can not use that as a justification.

Have you tried to find out how men and women who did not get married and with no kids how they feel in their old age. They were lonely and very depressed no one, no children to assist them at their age. I will advise you never to wish yourself to be single in life.

I had an aunty my father's younger sister very pretty light skin woman, a no nonsense woman (feminist) in her time men were coming to seek for her hand in marriage but she kept rejecting and bulling them until she gets aged and never gets married.

In her old age she thought she can use the children of her siblings as her own but the children of her siblings never cared about her but were busy going about their own business. So she got depressed and fell sick because of the abuses she gets from people in the community and died at her late 50s without husband and children.

Singlehood is not good am telling you, it might not be fet at a young age but in old age that is where the regrets come.

But I just want to believe that all you are doing here is just for a cruise, that it was never your intention to be single In your life time.

siofra:
I'm not capping. I'm serious. Better to be a single woman in Nigeria, than marry.

Please mind what you say, what you say might be imposed on you In the future because words are so powerful. Human words have a way of manifesting in the future. You might think it's nothing because you are still young.
No matter how much you hate men please stop saying negative things about yourself or marriage.
There's power In our tongue.