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Blunttruth:
If she is repentant and you know you can move past it and not constantly bringing it up , especially if you know you have not been faithful too , forgive her. Try to make sure the kids are yours though. Also learn to keep third party out of your marriage.

Question is how does he objectively tell if she's repentant because pretence is also an option especially if she's back for revenge or something. Thing is, never take back a lady you've discarded. It might back fire trust me

EndsarsReloaded:
Walahi talahi, the North feels disgusted with tinubu. I saw a picture where Adamu was dragging tinubu as if he was a stubborn West African dwarf goat and I almost shed tears

The few that are still with Tinubu are waiting to collect mobilization money for election before dumping him finally

When the man was busy betraying his southern brother who was president, did he ever think the same north would trust him? Forget, the unity of the core North is something southerners need to take a cue from.

terrafella:
Like 30k profit on 100k sales

Okay thanks

Offpoint1:
Perish the idea of ”profits” when your starting a business or in the idealism face.

This is the mistake most small business owners made, with such mentality you'll end up closing up when you face the reality.

How to make the business survive for the first 6 six and how to sustain it for stormy 2 years, should be your questions.

I understand sir but I'm just trying to assess the feasibility on the long term

terrafella:
Someone I knew that set up a Mr. Biggs franchise restaurant in 2007 took a loan of 50m to make it work. He was paying rent in a filling station ground floor building, the diesel generator alone back then was 4m, ice cream machine about 1.5m, very expensive 4 chamber oven about 6ft tall, installed an extractor to reduce heat and smoke at the production area and renovated the building to Mr. Biggs standard plus many more expenses. I don't know if that same amount can make it work in 2022.

Okay thanks. Do you have an idea of what his profits were?

Hi everyone, please I need an idea of how much it cost to set up a fast food restaurant like KFC or Mr Biggs. It's urgent please

But they're nonetheless very intelligent

OkCornel:
Paul mentioned the coming of Christ will happen at THE LAST TRUMPET.

Is there any trumpet after the one in Matthew 24 v 31?

If the last trumpet according to those who believe in pretribulation rapture is before the coming of the Antichrist, are the 7 trumpets in the book of Revelation the “trumpets after THE LAST TRUMPET?”

These questions expose the fallacy of pretribulation rapture doctrine.

The “rapture” is one of the events that’ll happen at the second coming of Christ.

Read that very chapter again in 1 thessalonians 4:13-18, and you have to juxtapose these with events described in revelations and Daniel. Paul says when the trumpet is blown (he didn't even mention the LAST trumpet lolz), the dead in Christ will rise first and then we who are alive will meet them IN THE SKIES (not on the earth). There's a clear difference between the rapture and the second coming. The rapture describes how we meet Christ in the clouds and then the wedding feast occurs in heaven while the great tribulation occurs on earth for 7 years (this is where revelations comes in handy). The second coming of Christ implies the landing of Christ on EARTH with his SAINTS to fight the antichrist at the end of 7 years as clearly described in revelations and Daniel. Now if the rapture was the same as the second coming like you suppose, how can saints who are on earth (as described in thessalonians) come down from heaven at the same time to fight the antichrist (as in revelations and Daniel)? After the antichrist is defeated at the second coming then Christ and the saints will reign on earth for a thousands years. During this period the devil will be locked up to prevent him from deceiving the world. At the end of a thousand year reign of Christ on earth, the devil will be released from his prison, and this time he would go and gather his armies for the final fight against Christ at Armageddon. Of course he'd eventually be defeated and thrown into the lake of fire. Then the new earth will be unveiled from heaven by God as a bride. This is just a summary of the events that would take place till the end. Try to study in details the books of revelation, Daniel, Matthew 24 and 1thesalonians and they'd make perfect sense.
Also the 7 trumpets in the book of revelations describes judgements and sequences of events that would occur on the Earth during the TRIBULATION (after the saints would have been raptured). These trumpets are blown in heaven from the very throne room of God and not from the SKIES of the earth as in the one that heralds the rapture.
Shalom

OkCornel:
As expected emotional outbursts with no scriptural references to back up their position

Perhaps Apostle Paul is a dog of Satan for writing 2 Thessalonians 2 v 1-4. Infact, the entire chapter explains everything so clearly.


2 Thessalonians 2 v 1-4;

1.Concerning the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and our being gathered to him, we ask you, brothers and sisters,

2 not to become easily unsettled or alarmed by the teaching allegedly from us—whether by a prophecy or by word of mouth or by letter—asserting that the day of the Lord has already come.

3 Don’t let anyone deceive you in any way, for THAT DAY WILL NOT COME UNTIL the rebellion occurs and the man of lawlessness is revealed, the man doomed to destruction.

4 He will oppose and will exalt himself over everything that is called God or is worshiped, so that he sets himself up IN GOD’S TEMPLE, proclaiming himself to be God.



1. Bear in mind there will be a temple of God where this man of lawlessness will proclaim himself to be God. Please where is this temple today? It doesn’t exist. It’s yet to be constructed!

2. Apostle Paul mentioned we should not be alarmed or unsettled. No one should deceive anyone about the coming of the Lord. It cannot happen until the lawless one is revealed and the temple (which is yet to be constructed) is desecrated and the abomination that causes desolation is set up inside the temple.

3. The man of lawlessness who will offer a covenant of peace for 7 years with many as written in Daniel 9 v 27 is yet to be revealed.

I think your point will be made clearer if you draw a distinction between the second coming of Christ which Paul alluded to here as well as Matthew 24 and the rapture (the catching up of the saints with the Lord in the skies) (which I believe will occur at least 7 years before the second coming). Looking at the events happening, I think the rapture is just about to happen, and then the great tribulation.

Hi everyone, please I need an idea of how much it cost to set up a fast food restaurant like KFC or Mr Biggs. It's urgent please

Understand one thing about women.... when they tell you things, they say it on the basis of their emotions at that point in time or how they feel at that moment. So if she says she can die for you, she probably means it at that point in time. But give her three hours later, she'd deny she ever made such promise to you. That's why it's also not encouraged for men to reply ladies word for word in an argument because when she talks she talks based on how she feels at that moment. Few hours later you'd see her come and apologize, that's if you never reacted then. You can buy a car for her now, and she'd praise you to the heavens. But give her next day, she'd forget you were the same person that got a car for her the previous day and Bleep up. Summary of everything is, never take the words of a woman seriously. She reasons with her emotions. Take her words to have meaning only for that particular moment in which she's saying it.

Say no to premarital sex, say no to premarital billing

yomi961:
At a time where over 1million Nigerians have lost their lives because of terrorist activities by Boko Haram and IPOD in the last 7 years of Buhari administration, an estimated 10 million Nigeria haven been driven out of their homes, according UN reports, 100 Nigerians are getting kidnapped every day, daily murder rates have skyrocketed, Boko Haram—an Islamic terror group based in Northern Nigeria has recaptured territory once lost and Biafran insurgence re-emerged, the leadership of Nigeria must change from APC to PDP leadership to end this menace.

And I cannot see anyone more deserving to replace President Buhari than former vice president of Nigeria, Mr. Atiku Abubakar. He is a dedicated civil servant and a visionary. Having been the vice president of Nigeria for 8, that experience will be assets to Nigeria.

You mean the same atiku who was cowed into deleting his comment after the gruesome murder of the Christian girl Deborah? I hate hypocrisy with a passion

maryjames9:
If you were a President, would you have a meeting with a Union that perpetually fight your government at every single opportunity with so much disdain, arrogance and hatred? If you have 2 wives, which one would you give more attention, love and resources to? The wife that fights you everytime, call you derogatory names, blackmail you, openly confronts and insult you you for not giving her enough resources or the one that plactes you, appeal to your ego and sings your praise despite your obvious imperfections?

Using the wife analogy is like comparing apples and pear. The president for crying out loud is the father of the nation. In every family there must be a stubborn child. You don't throw away that child because he's demanding for things that are legitimately his. If the president had interfaced directly with ASUU and even gave them promises, I'm sure they would have called off this strike out of respect for his office and for the fact that the number one citizen had personally intervened. But to have the president still remain this docile is really concerning.

JASONjnr:
The only problem that Wike is having is his utterances..


Also, Since he placed all his hopes on PDP to win the primaries... He forgot to fill in for Senate or HoR... Soon as he's done as a governor... His career ends with him.....

Nobody will ever take him serious.....

You obviously don't have knowledge of Wike or Rivers politics. This is a man who single handedly made Amaechi governor even when Odili as a sitting governor fought against Amaechi in preference for Omehia. What has kept Wike going is his control of the grassroots, similar to what has kept Tinubu in control of Lagos years after leaving office. The only key factor you might argue for is the fact that Rivers people are not zombies like lagosians, but I don't see Wike becoming irrelevant after his governorship term. His grassroots control is massive

sshyne:
She's not sorry. She only told you because she got pregnant and sooner or later you will find out. Assuming the date adds up from the last time you both had sex then she won't tell you anything. Send her packing or pack your things out. Forgive her but don't take her back and also make sure you carry out a DNA test on your son.

Marriage of this days ehn. Why will you be married and not have sex with your wife for 4 months wetin happen. She's emotionally detached from you since, you just didn't pick up the clue. Once your wife starts refusing sex then just know the marriage is over.

This is the best comment and advice I've read so far! Forgive her bit ensure you send her packing. Do DNA test on the boy too. Once a lady cheats in marriage, that marriage becomes irreparable, trust me, no matter how much you try to fix it. She's extremely wicked. Don't wait until she kills you.

The doctors they are said to be churning out every year, how many of them have experience? The experienced ones are leaving the country and it will take another years of training for these new doctors to gain experience. Moreover I know a lot of these newly graduated doctors who have started plotting their ways overseas and for those that remain, how will they gain the experience when the multitude of the experience doctors that they should train under are leaving? Nigeria is in a mess

Moh247:




When your opponents start advising you and wailing endlessly then know you did the right thing

When he needed them most fighting for the party ticket, they mocked him and treated him like an outcast... Openly praising Osinbajo, frolicking with Amaechi.. calling Tinubu old and sick even after stepping down to support a pastor for 8years

Now on his own against all odd, criticism, insult, and betrayer.. he consulted with people who valued and respected him, and picked his Vice in person of Shetima that stood firmly by him like a brother.. you still won't let him breath



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You'll soon know and understand that primary elections where very few hand-picked greedy and bribe-prone delegates vote is not general elections where the entire citizens (of varying tribes and religions) vote.

Okealaaye:
That's absolutely presidential, if you ask me. Only the deep calls to the deep. This is way above transactional entrepreneurship that's based on Container and Naira-sharing Economics. It also goes beyond ecumenical visitations and rogue citations and pleas for youths endorsements. The Jagaban Borgu is gradually evolving into what football commentators call Man of the Match and Master of the Game. Only a born leader can play this game. Others would toil and become jaded carrying on their heads a burden their frail necks cannot carry. (I've just spoken about my Hero using what to me are VERY simple hyperboles, although some might think they are superhuman words. But Asiwaju described as superhuman is saying it little! You don't have to curse or abuse me. You too could tell us about your own hero, although you may not have much to say in that regard - and I dare say that nobody can blame you for that.)

Let him start by first congratulating Adeleke. Charity begins at home

kemus:
You have dared God who has the hearts of kings and princes in his hands. Watch God bring it to pass before your very eyes.

He might not even live to see it or he might see it come to pass with his eyes but not lived to enjoy the prosperity that would follow. People should be careful about how they bring in God into every useless joke they tell, just like the king's assistant in the bible who dared God before the prophet that even if heaven were to open God could not overturn a great inflation in foodstuff prices overnight. He died miserably. 2 Kings 7:1-18

Unigrad:
Since she has been expelled from the party, who will then be the party senatorial candidate for Ebonyi south?

Umahi might just win the main senatorial election on her behalf and by the time the courts throw him out (because he'd definitely be thrown out by the courts going by the new electoral rules) she would then take her rightful place in the Senate chambers. This i have seen.

frog12:
you no fit tell us how much a director makes in a month? you sound like you know all

So you why not tell us since you claim you know umahi well. For your info I've lived there for several years so when I speak I do so from first hand knowledge rather than hear say like you. Try to interact with those who live and work in the state and you will understand that all the commendable stuffs you've said about him are nothing but thrash

Coldie:
I believe Umahi 100%. Umahi’s government is the best ebonyi ever had it in decades.

Umahis government that cares so much about ebonyi people that instead of bringing in white people from some ebonyi construction projects he employs ebonyi people, cause he discovered white people inflate their projects alot, that inflated money he prefers to give it to his people than to give it to any white man.

But in some states just snapping pictures with white men is seen as achievement

I laugh because you only talk based on what you hear on social media. Go live in ebonyi and you'll understand that umahi is one of the worst governors ever. This is a man who pays only one quarter salary and claims he pays monthly. Go and ask how much a director gets in a month and you'd be shocked. I think it's better to have first hand knowledge of what's going on in that state rather than praise the man based on what you read on social media

AZControversial:


Could this be Arsenal's season of claiming this prestigious title?
Their organised team play, if maintained, might just carry them all the way!!!

This Arsenal team is so much improved. I love their attacking style of play and cohesiveness. My main concern is that Arsenal has proven over the years to lack CONSISTENCY. They mostly start well in the season and then crumble when you least expect them to, especially at important stages of the competition. Hopefully they would be consistent this season. It's consistency in winning games that makes the likes of Liverpool and Man City to always remain top title contenders every season.

This was really a poor idea by this guy. The value of naira has so depreciated from the time he began saving. He should have rather thought of investing than saving with naira.

ictplotter:
I thought u understand Nigeria politics. At today no politician is more popular and powerful in term of grassroot politics in North west Nigeria than kwakwaso. If kwakwaso can agree to work for Atiku nobody need wike and his noise. Wike hav nothing to offer he is just intoxicated with power and few months for now his eyes will clear.

Hey you've still not answered the question which is the bone of contention in this page. How has PDP primaries got to do with kwankwaso who was in nnpp at that time? What you're talking about has no bearing on the bone of contention which is PDP primaries. If atiku is disqualified from the primaries on the basis of wike's arguments, how then will kwankwaso work with atiku at the general elections? You're just running faster than yourself and not addressing the issue at hand which is the manner in which PDP primaries were conducted, which has nothing to do with kwankwaso who was in another party. Truly, this is how people fail exams. They're asked one question and they answer a totally different question for themselves and think they would get a good score when they answer a different question which they set for themselves rather than the question at hand

ictplotter:
Wike Is just funstrated politically, PDP is his holy hope and he has be defeated and sideline. He has no plan B, it's just doing initial gra gra. If has plan B he will not be dancing naked in public places. It really sad our southern politicians don't know how to play national politics. All Atiku needs is Kwakwaso support, the deal is sealed.

Lol what's has kwankwaso's support got to do with the issue at hand which is the way the PDP primaries were conducted?

MikoB:
Actually it is against the convention rules that a contestant should mount the podium twice after his or her opening remark, this was exactly what Tambuwal did, he made his opening remark and he also came back again to ask his delegates to vote Atiku, but where technicalities will come in is that, how would wike differentiate the number of delegates that voted Atiku that were meant to vote Tambuwal in the first place? The best that can happen with this case is for the Judge to annul the convention in totality, since the actors did not follow the lay down rules.

I actually thought about this until I read where it was said voting had already commenced when tambuwal asked that his votes be transferred to atiku. If this is true, then PDP is in for shit.

zeuss:
@Lastborn0074
sorry about your home....but are you providing all that is required to run d home? clothes for her and d kids?
if you r providing the she has no excuse.....if u are not then is is covering the void .....be objective in your judgement.

There is nothing that justifies her cheating on her lawfully wedded husband, whether he's financially capable or not! If she's not comfortable with his financial status then she should seek a divorce and after that she can awhore herself with as many men as she pleases. That's more honourable than shamefully doing such within the marital cover!

Golden rule ...Never take back any lady that cheats on you, no matter the reason or who she is to you, if you really want to live long! Cheating to a man is different from cheating to a woman. They put their emotions and all into it and can kill you if you prove an obstacle to them. Never forget that golden rule if you want to live long, no matter how much tears she sheds before you or her ancestors, never take her back. You can forgive as a Christian but NEVER take her back. End the relationship or marriage at that point and stop her from having access to you or sensitive things that concern you e.g your food, from that moment. Don't listen to all these people telling you to give another chance. That next chance is what she'd use to perfect your elimination.

Kobicove:
You have no right to snoop through another person's phone without permission!

That's invasion of privacy!

And the mumu guy even went ahead to call the girl's sister and inform her, like as if he's married to the girl as her husband. Inasmuch I hate lesbianism, but I really don't see how it concerns him if she's legally not married to him! The guy overstepped his bounds and acted so immature and childish with the whole thing. He's lucky the girl is ignorant of her right to privacy laws

Kobicove:
You have no right to snoop through another person's phone without permission!

That's invasion of privacy!

And the guy even went ahead to call the girl's sister and inform her, like as if he's married to the girl as her husband. Inasmuch I hate lesbianism, but I really don't see how it concerns him if she's legally not married to him! The guy overstepped his bounds and acted so immature and childish with the whole thing. He's lucky the girl is ignorant of her right to privacy laws