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pyyxxaro:
I learnt that you can give your wife 5 stubborn rounds if you eat and rest well

Benzgang:
Start asking her about her friend and put more interest towards the said friend,while acting like you don't care no more about her.
She'll start to wonder what the friend has that she lacks and will want to come closer to find out.
There and then my friend,you've got the chicken at your disposal.
They always lose their minds when you do this.
I call my ex all the time to ask after her friend whenever I'm bored and feel like making someone angry

trutht828:
Clicking that nonsense before commenting here doesn't make me a Muslim and doesn't make me believe in what you guys profess.

Simple birds are having fun on their own and someone that loves to fool himself think they are doing tawa.... something.

You guys love to fool yourselves sha.

How come we don't hear stories of "spirits" writing Arabic on stone in Osogbo anymore? Someone will just goan write Arabic on a stone and you people will be saying it is mysterious. What's mysterious about writing on stones?

Rashduct4luv:
Whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is on the earth glorifies Allah. His is the dominion, and to Him belong all the praises and thanks, and He is Able to do all things. Qur'an 64:1

femi4:
Bush girl

nasirope:
No doubt female circumcision is totally bad and condemnable. Thankfully, it is now outlawed and only being practiced illegally by some uninformed part of the population. It is our duty to educate this people and also expose them to law enforcement agencies since the now recognizes it as acre against the girl child.
However, I think that we should be careful to make sure that we give only factual information even while trying to pass correct message. I mean we should avoid some myths if we want all part of the poppulation to take us serious.
For example the saying that if a lady is circumcised she would have to prepare for CS during child birth is not exactly accurate. Most people above the age of 30 including many of us, our sisters and relatives were circumcised and they give birth normally.
Complcatioms during child birth can be due to several unrelated factors.

HOWEVER WHAT IS BAD IS BAD!!!
NO TO FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION!!!
BUT SPREAD THE MESSAGE IN A WAY THAT WILL APPEAR REAL .
THANK YOU!!!

internationalman:
I didn't read the long story but all I know is whoever brings their problem to nairaland to get solution always ends up getting comments that will compound the problem..


Most of these people married folks are seeking solution from online are merely 17 year olds

BOYLOVABLE1:
I only worried about my relatives and my Christian life, am not in any relationship

dangotesmummy:
oga I am not a moral police.lets clear that first and even if the parent puts parental control for TV? Shey she go put parental control for parties in school or she go put parental control for music wey dey blast for streets.be realistic, musicians have a lot of influence over the youth than even pastors,imama or parents and one of the reasons the society has Lost it is because of musicians that ram ass,poosy,sex, drugs alcohol in our ears everyday not minding polluting the minds of kids.their songs penetrate everywhere even if you lock your kids at home all the time

For example how will broda no manners be singing "Omo naija fefidi pami" and you know 5year olds WIll hear stuffs like that

What is bad is bad,stop sugar coating it.NIGERIANS SHOULD ACCEPT AND ADMIT THEIR FAULT FOR JUST ONCE

it's because of abosi there's so much societal menace and decadence in Nigeria and all over the world

YolobaMuslim:
Yes, my fellow Yoloba moozlem.
After killing Iranian general like a stray rat, they could only attack an empty building after begging the American occupants to evacuate and waited for hours to make sure no one is in the facility.

Check it bro, from your comments are we Yoloba moozlems not inheritably stupid?

daddytime:
Hmmm

These usual war-mongering tactics. Their defense budget needs to be spent and ammo needs to be tested.

War is an annual budget for the US.

Iran will respond in kind, directly or by proxy.

The battleground remains Iraq and Syria plus Afghanistan.

If only our leaders can take advantage of the boom in oil price that would accompany this latest brouhaha, and allow her citizens to enjoy the benefits therefrom.

LagosEconomist:
A girl like that should not settle for ABU.

The world is her oyster. She or her parents should get in touch.

kowema:
You need to be careful with whatever decision you want to take, what I perceive here is selfishness from your girlfriend, she can't offer you anything in Abuja, all she wants is the intimacy you guys share, and take note, your stay in abuja might be regretful.

I'm here wondering how Abuja is more lucrative than Lagos.
The most available job in Abj is Civil service job. You can say Abuja is a lot more peaceful, but definitely not more lucrative.

victorian:
No need getting angry at him.
He's saying the mind of most Nigerian men.

A typical Nigerian men detest marrying successful women ,it's a well known fact people rarely talk about.

Imagine a suitor telling me last two weeks, I should promise to give him all my earnings in my business. Because he said earlier I won't be submissive in marriage with the way he sees me in his spirit and giving him everything means I will be a submissive wife.

I laughed so hard.

I was like really? Don't worry I will even hand over my company to you, so u and your spirit will become satisfied I'm submissive enough. Don't worry that will be your wedding gift from me to you.

Ole! Come carry o! Because you were there when I was suffering and building my career up. Na you and your papa train me for school and gimme capital to start afterwards. Nonsense!
Smhhhhhh
That part "aye ma Nika o" got me laughing.

Aye ma ni ka o!

SaucyBenks:
good... At least, lessons learnt.

guinea1:
It is more than 18yrs bro...i guess he started teaching after his master's degree programme in 1996/1997...the rumour then is that he step on toes but i dnt really know what makes him to be stagnant and their is another person in that same department with the same issue...Mr Jokotola. All is well

Brunel:
now this is becoming fishy.......are you sure the man didn't kill himself out of frustration from UI politics?
He's been a lecturer II and his juniors have gone far ahead of him in the following years.
Even if Dr. Jeje is also passing/passed through such persecution I believe he came out stronger.
Light and love to the family of this algebra guru.

Countersam:
The decision solely depends on you, and please all you critics should suppress your sarcasm. Everyone has their unique situations and require best options considering everything involved. If you have only 200k now doesnt mean you will remain like that or cant have millions tomorrow,even if you go ahead and marry. Ask how? Unique individual-unique situation.

Am talking because I don't have even up to half of that amount in my account but i am getting married in less than 2months from now...

;DCome to my wedding and yab me or dare to stop it.

DZTech:
invest in a small washing machine.
dettol, bleach and nappies will save u money in 1 year.

Acidosis:
..but why would you marry someone who isn't madly in love with you? BTW, no one is emotionless, they just haven't found the one they love. Love do not obey certain human principles, e.g. privacy. Love should make you go out of bounds sometimes.

Two things are involved here; first, your wife is still crazy about an ex she couldn't marry due to family issues, genotype, and other external, not personality differences or infighting. Second, your wife has never been privileged to fall in love with a man.

While the first option spells more doom, you still have the power to turn around the situation. You can make absolutely any woman fall in love with you. It is never too late to change the situation.

You have used attention, incessant gifts, and obsession and nothing has changed. Have you tried withdrawing, making yourself unavailable and giving her the impression her love is unimportant? Women are wired in a different way bro. You need to withdraw the expression of some feelings and act of loving to get her attention. If you made her picture your wallpaper, delete. Remove her picture on your dp and don't upload any for birthdays, anniversaries, etc. That's how you get her attention and put her emotions to work.

LordAdam16:
Some IDIOTS would not read the interview comprehensively before commenting.

She was talking about her failed marriage to Paul Odekina.

OAP Freeze's name is Ifedayo Olarinde.

Had to drop this before the religious scammers start their nonsense.
People don't really comprehend passages this days,let's blame it on our present economic hardship.
-Lord

Usernamefornl:
see mumu. Perhaps ojukwu too will rise up to cause his own storm.

Usernamefornl:
see mumu. Perhaps ojukwu too will rise up to cause his own storm.

Usernamefornl:
see mumu. Perhaps ojukwu too will rise up to cause his own sto
rm.

Vivere:
Oh, Abaribe has seen the light! How interesting!