UptownVibes:
Thats it my brother .No time for rubbish.. These ladies thinks all guys are fools for pussy sake.Even though some choose to be fools,we still have some with wisdom.

The sadly reality is that Nigerian girls sees every guy as their potential maga to Bill and manipulate as they like. The moment they found out they can't manipulate (they become toxic and dramatic). In reality they prefer hard guy!

Collect back your gifts! Na your money! Collect it back!!!!!!!!!!

akube34:
u r funny. 95 percent of girls are not loyal, but remember there is a 5 percent and those ones are loyal. See, when I broke, the babe was never a demanding type, years past, I don get small bar, she dey feel the money full time. If she chooses to leave tomorrow that’s her loss, I would pick myself up and find another person. I have bounced back before.

Dude, that she wasn't demanding from you doesn't mean she wasn't demanding from other guys! Dude, she knew you were broke back then and decided not to demand from you. Of course she had other guys she usually collected from and still collecting From them till today, apparently she has offered them her kpekpus and she's still doing that till today. You don't expect her to tell you this! Even if you comfort her Dude she'll never tell you the truth no matter what!!!

Dude, the fact you're spending on her doesn't mean she isn't going out, knacking and collecting money from other guys. I hope you're spending on your mother and sisters too?

At the bolded, before a girl dumps you be the one to dump her first!!!!!

UptownVibes:
If she promised to love you and be faithful to you,then later betrayed you,I see nothing wrong in collecting everything you ever bought for her.. Most especially when you the guy wasn’t the cause of the breakup.. na your sweat, collect am back with your full hands.. Na why I love Timaya till today.. Dude collected the car ,he bought for one ungrateful bitch.. Years after the bitch is still sharing her nude with men

Na my point be this bro!

Collect everything back! It's your sweat and it's your money! You Hustle for it so you have 💯 right to collect it back! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise

akube34:
shuuu there is nothing wrong in spoiling a gf , as longer as it’s not ur last card. As Andrew Tate would say, if she’s loyal and gives you peace, spoil her silly. If it’s an inexpensive gift, you can just free it for her if na she dump you. But if na car or house, u must collect am if she dump u. But if na u dump am, free the gift.

Wrong bro! As you make your bed so you lie ontop. If U Keep spoiling a girl like you said, what happens the day you don't spoil her? She'll dump you ASAP for another dude who can spoil her and the cycle continues.

Dude, understand that no matter how you spoil a girl there's another guy somewhere spoiling her even much more. In fact there's yet another guy somewhere chopping her kpekpus for free. Be rest assured that you're not the only one eating her kpekpus. So why must you take the role upon yourself by spoiling her?

Dude, if you're looking for a woman to spoil, your mother, sisters and your wife are in the best position for that! Take your mother and sisters out and spoil them. Not a girl everyone is servicing!!!!!

MrBrownJay1:
it all depends on A) the type of man you are and B) what that said r/ship is based upon...

there is nothing wrong with giving someone a gift IF THATS WHAT YOU BELIEVE SHE DESERVES, but sadly many men are "forced" upon giving gifts as an emotional blackmail to be in a r/ship with someone.

so if you wake up one morning and say that you want to offer a babe a gift (out of your good heart), then that gift shouldnt be taken back.... BUT if you were forced (under false pretense) that you need to give that woman a specific gift in order for her to be in a r/ship with you, then that gift should be returned when the "contract r/ship" is over.

We all know Nigerian girls is the 2nd option.

They forced and manipulate men into giving them gifts as a means that he loves her whereby she can now accept to be in a relationship with him. This is a criminal offence and obtaining gifts under false pretence and must be returned immediately the relationship breakups

Seun nlfpmod Justwise disguy farano sissy Dominique

Your attention is needed here for wider views

Nasri100:


Wont lie with all my red pill knowledge i almost bought a girl a phone out of pity. Not really love cause i know it doesnt exist. Just pity cause she was bored and needed it for her side business.

Our short relationship ended cause i caught her cheating and i did a rough estimation of everything i spent on her and e noe reach 6k.

Now imagine i got her a phone or did stupid stuffs for her like renting a place for her (I almost did due to lack of funds). I would have been a mess.

How i moved on easily from the relationship months now is what i still don't get

Thank God that period i wanted to do it i was very very broke. Apparently God was looking out for me.

Th heavens rejoice with you for not attempting to buy her that phone. Else she would have dumped you the following day while claiming the phone is her right. In fact she would have still used that phone to chat up and called another dude who will eventually knack her kpekpus hard.

This is exactly why as a guy if you have money, learn never be moved by a girl's pity or innocence! That pity is known as emotional manipulations. She just dey whine you bro. Let a simp dude or her father buy her the phone, it is not your job to do that! your job is to knack her kpekpus dump her and move on.

Never be moved by a girl's manipulations!!!!

Seun sissy Dominique nlfpmod Justwise disguy farano

Nlfpmod let's move to FP to settle the argument once and for all

A foolish guy asked me if it is right to take back gifts you gave to your ex. I said he is asking the wrong question. The right question is, should you give expensive gifts to a girl you are neither married or related to? No!!. Who appointed you as Santa Claus?

Prevention is better than cure. Don’t do it! There is nothing wrong in buying your wife even a diamond studded phone. But why be so stupid as to buy a girlfriend a phone? Phone that she will use to call her new boyfriend if she dumps you? And if you have the audacity to complain, she can even block you with the phone you bought. Dear guys, Be wise. Not nice!!!

Adachizzy:

So, because of gifts, someone shouldn’t leave when mistreated?

No be only mistreated. You found another dick that's penetrating your defence, all of a sudden you realized the previous guy has been mistreating you. Something must be wrong with you Nigerian girls.

What kind of entitlement mentality is this? Madam leave if you want to leave but return back everything he bought for you. Go and meet your father or your new guy to buy those things for you.

Dear men,

Why would a Sane guy even think of buying anything for a girl he's dating? Men! stop buying things for a girl. It is not your duty to do that! She has her father to do that for her. The only woman God created you to maintain is your mother, sisters and your wife, anything aside this is transactional.

sslcrypt:


You must be ignorant, poor men are even the worst because they want to rich by all means. Technically it's two different sides of the same coin. Also did she state at any point he was into fraud or the type of work he did? We knew a banker that was caught involved in fetish things with women. So it's the grace of God that saves because the heart of men are wicked.

As a lady knowing a guy with sense is very easy, his ability to lead and get the woman involved is what matters. There are minerals under the earth all over, how you utilize the tools in extracting it is what matters. It's a man duty to refine himself from raw form to manageable form before polishing or processing can commence to bring out the true value.

I met my husband at a work seminar, then his job wasn't paying any significant amount but I could tell he's focused because he went out of his way to engage things with little or no money. I supported and now he has gained foothold in the industry and we living happily ever after.

Who's this one? Madam you should vent your anger and your frustrations including your advice towards your gender. Your gender needs this your advice more

Chosimba:


After posting this inside your poverty, nobody will still follow you. You are looking for excuse for women to come and follow you suffer inside poverty.

There are loads of decent rich men.

Just like there are loads of wretched poor men. Like you.

I'm not the cause of your frustration dude. The question is "do those decent rich men want you"? . Dude, everyone is attracted to his or kinds. Nothing go make rich decent man be attracted to a poor broke girl like you with entitlement mentality. E no possible bro. Life isn't nollywood.

Damn!

Team I want a rich made Man. I don't want to work but want a rich man. I am lazy, Only a rich man must come my way!!!! This is what awaits you!

Damn!

EU must be an ipob, igbo and ESN. We the yolubbas will not take this.

Meanwhile "EU report will favour me and my family"

Damn!

We are yet to hear from "this govt will favour me and my family" crew

Donald trump and Putin

Those are two fearless leaders. Donald trump dey give Muslim terrorists extreme organism. Putin no send anybody papa

JagabanBorgu:

If prices increase, u will crûcîfy the government.
It's reducing and it's a crîmè to be happy about it.
Bîttérness wón't take u anywhere.

Are you normal? How much was it before APC took over?

saphiere:
I need a job. I base in PH.

Go and meet a feminist to give you a job

Likoya:
Omo, Nairalanders make Una pray for me oohhh, Client wey I don dey chat with for almost five months now, she don promise to invest 50k dollars worth of BTC with me tomorrow.. God!!!!!!!!

Hit me up now for id.me deal. Bring that client come and if the client can provide details and verify links that will be sent to her phone, then go and price Benz because we'll all be smiling in 2 weeks time.

nairavsdollars:
Anuofia. Seems you are the girl's father. Your anus has been blown open ekwensu

Dude, answer the guy's question if e sure for you.

Can snake swallow 30million naira in JAMB office?

Where were you when porn was uploaded on govt website?

KingDash09:
I be living witness bros😂

You must be a real niggar like me Bro 😂

No be only friends sef, I dey knack even theirs sisters join in the Same hotel room on a different date

Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...

Masturbation don finish this one life.

Dude you better stop masturbating and start eating food and fruits that'll make you fvck. If you still can't fck her, drop your location and her contact, lots of guys here will be willing to help but it's not free shaa

obembet:
All of them are paying heavy tax now.

Nothing is free

The govt no dey favour you and your family again? Wetin come happen?

The Igbos are obviously feeling the heat and are in pains. Only Yorubas have free access to those startimes channels.

This free to air star times station go favour me and my family 😂 🤣 runo ooo

4KNGOATS:

Fkn Igbo girl Dem don take money swaer for una. You people don't know anything aside from money. Love doesn't exist your tradition except the stupid rustle of money.old bitch it's people like you that marries at 50

Dude the idiot you just quoted is a well known troll on nairaland. I doubt she's even an Igbo girl. Learn to avoid stupid people like that idiot

Damn!

Hookup gone wrong

Damn!

We are yet to hear from "this govt will favour me and my family" crew

Damn!

Nothing will come out of this. The best solution right now is for the election tribunal to declare obi president of Nigeria ASAP for sanity to restore back in Nigeria. The election tribunal has admitted EU report. This is a long ride for the drug lord and INEC.

To those "this govt will favour me and my family" gang, I can bet my balls that they don't have a car! Hence they can't understand the reason NBA wants to sue the drug lord

Reality3080:
u igbos go cry tire

As e dey pain u e dey sweet us

Yes o,

the Igbos go cry tire because they're buying fuel for #550. While the Yorubas are buying the same fuel for #85. The igbos are in pains because they're buying it more expensive.

iidiots and foools everywhere! By the time the okpolor eye is done with you Yolubas. Una eyes go clear.

Dialpad:
I have a strong feeling that all the posters above me are from a particular region of the country.

Swears!

Over here in SW region Fuel is sold for #120 while in theirs it's sold for #550.

Una never see anything yet.. continue being stewpid

Damn!

This govt will favour me and my family crew, where are you?

Animegirl:


Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

This is exactly what we've been preaching here everyday. Madam, what kind of entitlement mentality is this. Why can't you strive to make your own money to take care of yourself by yourself ? Why waiting for a man to come and take care of you? Is he your father? If you make money and take of the supposed SIMP, will you die? What is wrong with you Nigerian girls? What kind of entitlement mentality is this Abeg?

Madam, go and heal yourself, men are not the cause of your problems, we all know you're heart broken, depressed and lonely. Pray you heal quickly. My prayers are with you