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luminouz:
That you even try to justify what annihilation means tells me all I need to know about your mindset on this issue.

This is my last reply. Have a nice day

And you too sir!

luminouz:
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Did you just say annihilation?
Its simple, y'all women want to eat ya cake and have it.

Your post reeks of assumptions. Yes, I know what the word means, and yes, I mean it as it is.
Your marriage may be the one where domination is important, it does not have to be like that.

Before you speak of other nations, maybe be familiar with their statistics. That you don't hear about them does not mean it is not prevalent. You are obviously a product of search engine and social media algorithms. This link gives a brief insight to domestic violence in other immigrant communities.

http://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/userfiles/file/Children_and_Families/Immigrant.pdf

OchoL:
This in itself is a major contradiction.

A man TAKES you abroad, and you call that a partnership?

Gosh I can't with this mentality

Do you dear. I am only saying my mind. You have been expressing yourself since as you should. Keep it moving dear!

OchoL:
Gibberish. Deep down, you yourself know the truth about female nature and will not take it lightly if someone does to your Male relatives what some of these women abroad do to our men.

I apologize for quoting you in the first place. Your history with online arguments have not been particularly favorable. Please feel free to do you and encourage the people around you in your own line of thinking. Have a nice day.

luminouz:
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I dont get the slavery part. I havent seen one. What I have seen is a man taking decisions as the head of his family. If he takes his wife abroad to give her a better life should she make his life miserable by acting as the head? Why not divorce him and pay him back his financial investments? No,they won't. They would rather lie and call the police and act as victims,so he loses his properties to her and gets deported.


If you are such a man, won't you kill that devilish wife? I know you would and even barbeque his balls too

It is possible I used a strong term. Slavery here does not literally mean slavery...a better suited word will be domination, maybe annihilation?

It is one thing to make decisions, it is another to be inclusive and considerate in the decision making process.

Men,

Taking your wives to a civil society means that you should begin to see them as worthy partners. Do not think you can be their master and God abroad, instead, work in a partnership, like marriage was intended to be.

Women, this abroad is for everyone. It is not gender specific. If you want to be in a society that values your contribution as a woman, you can make the move for yourself without waiting for any man that would continue to use that help as a chain on your neck. Do your thing biko.

juman:
The write up is one sided.
Painted women as devil.

In reality its not like that.
A man that went home and took a wife abroad, when they reached abroad the man believed he is now the wife's God.

That's the basis of many problems.

If this isnt the truth!

OchoL:
Empty rants again as usual.

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What you just typed has no relationship with what she said. Let me help you. Once you decide to take your wife abroad, you have to leave behind all traces of domineering attitude as the society there frowns on it. What usually causes friction is that Nigerian men think it is going to be business as sual even abroad. They expect the women to remain as the slaves they were in Nigeria which is not possible in a land of opportunity. It threatens them that their women are now free to hustle and make their own choices. So, maybe begin to see your wife as an equal partner and record less frictions.

Lol. Funny. My female friends come through for me the most. Keep the right circle of female friends and experience peace!

I still have at least 23 hours everyday

Nobody prefers bad boys!

Any lady who would pick a bad boy over a calm, calculative and endearing man is simply setting herself up for a lifetime of heartache and heartbreak. Only immature ladies would do that. Nobody wants stress biko, women sef dey find peace

lawali:
I am still unable to get new appointment date in Abuja after paying new MRV. I am now getting message-Your group size is larger than current allocation. I guess this has to do with my family size.

Hi, you may have to call CGI because even single applicants get similar message. Speak to them to get resolution.

unrulyme:
Hey you guys, so I’ve been following up this forum since I applied for my student visa and got denied the first time in January. I also got denied February and recently in October. I never posted but guys I’m so emotionally and mentally exhausted, I may as well exhaust all my options. I really have no idea what kind of help I can get but...

Maybe you should post your profile and your transcripts so you can get appropraite guidance on what to do

hairbyuj:
Please help

Google your question. There are a lot of samples available if only you Google

lawali:
BigFrancis21,

This appointment thing tire me. I summoned courage and cancel my Lagos appointment and try Abuja. I can’t see Dec/Jan dates again but March 15.

I tried to check available date with new profile without populating other 5 dependents and can still see January 6th .

Am I missing something? Pls I need help. Thanks

Is this for study visa?

To be honest, I can see a lot of desperate acts leading people to even more compounding problems. If you are looking for appointment dates, instead of moving from one location to another, just chill. Check the platform at night, join groups with people of like mind, keep your ear to the ground, watch and pray. Don't let your perceived urgency cause you to spend unnecessarily without even getting solutions. I know tempers are high and I understand, but just strategize and chill.

donmattalayo:
Slimmy2005, how far?

Is the embassy in Nigeria open or it's still closed against your kiddos?

Congratulations to all those who got approved, against all bad vibes. ✌️

Looool... I don even forget that guy sef

Sugarxx:
My interview is on Tuesday. I tried to renew my passport earlier (sometime in August) and I was told that I can’t renew if my passport is not expiring in 6 months... meaning the earliest I can renew is by February 2021 or I claim my passport was stolen. I don’t then know what to do now ��

Are you in Abuja? I renewed mine before 6 months. I can give you the contact of the person

Dikewilliams:
If u have two ds 160 how do u manage it

Update your preferred Ds160 number on your cgi

Sugarxx:
Okay. That’s what I thought too. I just watched video on YouTube and the babe said if your program is 2 years make sure your passport is valid for 2 years �‍♀️ I was confused and decided to ask. Thank you

It will be wise to renew your passport before you go though that way you don't have to go through that struggle again

Sugarxx:
Sorry I meant my passport expires July 2021.

You have more than 6 months validity as stated on the website, what exactly is your fear here?

Sugarxx:
Hello guys,

I have a quick question please. My interview is next week and my passport expired July 2020. I am unable to renew the passport as you can’t renew a passport that is valid for up to six months at the time or renewal. Please is this an issue ?

Looking forward to hearing from y’all

Thank you

So, you expect your visa to be issued on an expired passport? Yes, you can renew even before that 6 months, and July is such a long time, how come you never renewed it ever since?

[quote author=babes123 post=96188795][/quote]There were December dates available today which meant that if you paid your sevis and appointment fees, you could have gotten a date that would enable you interview and leave in due time. I don't know the earliest appointment date available though. You can still request for emergency appointment.

Go through this thread and study interview transcripts as they are the best simulation of what an interview looks like

Only your department can advise you on the implication of deferring, no one here can tell you that

BrTune:
Please does anyone know if passengers travelling from Nigeria to the US are required by the Nigerian govt to get covid tests?

You have to check the airline you want to use and the airport you intend to land in for their requirements. I doubt the government has any strict regulations for departure, though I may be wrong

pascal2young:
Good afternoon. Is there anyone who's visa got approved and is going to ULL?

Read back to the interviews for October 30th, there's a guy going to ULL there

Lete:
Please any link here to pay sevis fee?? Please it’s urgent. Thanks

Walspring

tarantino1:
Please someone should kindly help me concerning this. I’ve posted it Three times now without any response

You have used your hand to answer your questions. You know the requirements for emergency appointment, you know that you don't qualify yet, what other answer do you want?

foxtrott:
Hello House,

I just got denied in Abuja. I would post my transcript soon. How soon can I apply for another student visa and please what is the possibility of getting a date and my visa approved before Jan 15th ?

I do not think anyone can give you any certain information. You can only hope and pray a close appointment date comes up.

Dudun007:
Happy Sunday guys,
Those that had their F1 visa approved in Nov 6, has any one of you been able to pick up your stamped passport?

I am worried oo, my flight time is close

I did three days ago

GreatMage:
Is it true about the difficulty in gaining admission and entering the USA universities?

Like most organized processes, there is a way to go about it. Start reading this thread from beginning to know just how to go about it.

SeunTol:
Wow. But is it possible for someone to create another account with another email to fill the DS-160 and pay another MRV fee to get emergency slot for Abuja. Can that work?

No, because your profile is differentiated by passport number. It is kinda locked in. Whatever issues you have, you might want to resolve without opening another account.

crisycent:
Good morning all. I need help on how to upload my “civil documents”. Am I (applicant) to upload the documents or it is the petitioner that will upload?

The petitioner also cannot see anywhere it is indicated under the Affidavit of Support section. Please I need help urgently!

Are you talking about study visas?