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kilokeys:
What do i call this now?

Nice. Very artistic

Pls keep this up.

Goodness gracious!

bellong:
I need an undead non living nanny....

taryour:
Lobatan. Lmao. Why not DEAD and unDEAD.

babygirlfl:

Very funny

I guess they meant live-in.

Cutehector:
Its because young ladies nowadays are hvn this mindset that they should b the only ones to discipline their children... I can never marry a woman who does not ok disciplining of kids..

Of course it's their mothers' faults

@bold,

This too.

bukatyne:
You cannot compare the responibilities in dating to marriage na especially when kids start coming although I agree that a lot of people do not necessarily go deep during courtship.

I think the cultural belief that a woman is solely responsible for building the home while the husband is a sleeping financial partner (never mind that women contribute a lot financially to the home) is a very serious problem.

Rather than look for the next lady to cheat with, why doesn't the husband in the OP really drill down and look for a permanent solution to the problem?

OK, wifey doesn't have time for him because she is overworked/ cannot prioritize/ lays too much emphasis on mundane tasks/ cannot multitask etc.

What is the solution? Take the kids to school myself/get a maid/clean up immediately/ help her prioritize/ pick up some/more chores/ teach her how to delegate etc.

To what end? Spending more time together and having more quality time/sex/discussions together etc.

Yes, some women are Jezebels however how many women will you tell.... Babe, I noticed we don't spend much time together in bed/watching a movie/to talk etc. due to chores and the kids. I am thinking we should stop/I pick up etc. that they will not appreciate?

If he spends half the time he used in courting and nurturing the relationship with his side babe to nourish his marriage, don't you think it would blossom more?

IMHO, anyone who under the guise of 'my spouse is not meeting my needs' cheat is indirectly saying I am no longer interested in this marriage because cheating never solves any problem

I just watched Dumebi and Bitter leaf Cynthia which buttresses my point.

Dumebi wanted above all her husbandman's love and admiration and went about it in funny ways.

Instead of her husband to channel her need into good, he was ready to throw the towel and cheat

Not very Frank will be fortunate enough to meet a reformed Cynthia to do his work; often times, he has to do his work himself.

Apt

tearoses:
Many times its just an excuse for an affair
some men with beautiful wives still have affairs

Looking after kids and raising a family is not easy
And if the husband does not help with any chores then the wife is left to do everything
Then you get some husbands who even though don't help at all in the house still refuse any house helps
there are only 24 hours in a day and the woman is exhausted
Ive seen where the woman is up before 5am bathing kids and cooking packed lunch while hubby is snoring in bed
he gets more sleep than she does
How wont she age and look haggard?
If you want your wife to be looking lovely and sexy all the time, then provide a conducive environment and make her happy
inu didun lo mara ya

Family planning is also important
Some people say they want to have all their kids while they are young
if you have 4 kids under age 6 then you should expect your wife to be tired unless she is Victoria Beckham.

It's just a nice story.
There's no solutions outlined in it.

Very Nice

You stole my place (table) mat abi?

kilokeys:
Okay.. Long story cut short.. My gf and I just broke up..

I got mad.. Walked into a veggie store.. Kado estate abuja.. Picked some items (#200) those guys are my friends.. Spent three hours in total from market to kitchen.. Came up with this..

Breakdown..
I got the apple cutting vid from YouTube..

The goatmeat peppersoup is quite easy.. Curry leaf, scent leaf ( i dunno if its d same as curry leaf o, the ibo woman forced it on me), goatmeat, all kinds of peppers, onions. And the ground peppersoup mix

Then I got Basmati rice 1kg for #850... Added my carrots (diced), green pepper, sweet pepper ( i swear, its nt pepperish at all.. Was surprised and very sweet)
And the remaining..
Lettuce.. And those circular stuff are called radishes.. Not a fan sha.. But its fun to garnish with.

Cost of that meal is maybe #1500.. Which is actually worth it.

At least she's walking away alive.
That's a bonus for her.
She'll recover and move on.

A divorcee is better than a dead person.
Marriage is to be enjoyed. It is not life or death. or a bondage one keeps staying in because of appearances.

I've a problem with the term 'husband's money'
If they were married it belonged to both of them.

But as is pointed out in the story. The judge was obviously biased towards the woman and against the man.

65-35 ke?

What happened to 50-50?

Is it because he allegedly wasted 2million of the family money before it could be shared?

bukatyne:
That was the first thing I saw

lol

Read.

Haba.

menix:
I almost applauded you when u said the pix was not captured by you but an observer nd same observer captured the receipts..

Are u showing us the receipts to praise you for spending

My brother God rewards givers who give with their right hand without the left knowing..


Uwa Mmebi Philanthropist....

armyofone:
Lol, mama watched a bit too much of nollywood. Who wouldn't be motivated to drink minutes maid and eat Mr. Biggs after watching Patience Ozukwo enjoying peri peri
Anyway Op, DIY. You should help your wife, take turns to sleep at night and caring for the baby. Caring for a baby us not one person job.But both of you can do it.

those nollywood people.

Spoiling reality for us.

Does she even have your best interests at heart?
If she won't come, let your own mom come.
C'est finis

Hehehehe
I no talk am?

Jelos bois

sinaj:
I dnt hate his approach coz it's normal nd natural to appreciate tinz dat are appealing to ur eyes


I just noticed d bashing nd av replied him tho


[Those same guys bashing him are the same ones sending me pms which will all enter d the Trash Bin

Danfuster pls reply my mail

I don't see what he did wrong.

came to church and during prayer time, she took the condoms out and handed them to my assistant asking if they were okay to use when her husband returns.

I saw nothing wrong in her using them with her husband after two years of absence. Who knows what he was doing there so it is better to be safe.

When I prayed for the condoms, some women came out and wanted to have them.”

Danfuster:
Appreciate a beauty when you see one... You don't always have to be an a55hole

Pls don't mind those insulting you.
Shey person no go toast woman again

C0ckblocking enemies of progress.

Wey that girl self. She must agree today.

Sinaj sweetie. Don't let those jealous boys discourage you. They wish they started hitting on you first.

smartmom:
at Coco a good friend of mine who could cook anything just didnt know to make eba without it turning soggy too. But the secret of pap is to make sure the cold mix is really thick and pour in the hot water quickly shikena! Tranxo abeg no laff dem o. There could be one simple thing you may NOT know how to do.

Yea I've got it now.
Then I didn't just know how to mix it

tchidi:
Enyi, take a look at all the things I've posted and tell me if anyone be you like wetin indomie generation fit cook.
I don't know why but my akamu never comes out thick, so I don't bother myself again!

you're not alone.
It took me forever to learn

So he's cutting off his head to spite his ears.
When does cheating to repay cheating ever work?
If he can't forgive her, he should kuku break up with her and find happiness elsewhere.

How long can he keep it up? Until they are both old?

tchidi:
Nnem, yes.

oh dear.


Very nice and fresh looking soup. Welldone

Ifu Ka osi eme mu Na-ahu this side ehn.

tchidi:
Tranxo, abeg carry pounded yam show o! Ofe a digo ready!

Is that fresh uha

Too much movies dey worry you.

davide470:
Little is known of Ibeto Cement and their huge import rate of cement and other goods..

.Their corporate governance structure is hard to come by

.They are not listed on the capital market and from the look of things; they won't even get on board. They dont care.

.They have never raised capital through any private placement ever, as such, they have no shareholders.

.Their directors (Executive and Non-Exec) are from one region of Nigeria.

.They could as well be dealing in cocaine and no one would know.. Just saying..

Then, have you watched Narcos..(The story of Pablo Escobar). Just saying.

Must you add 'fat' ?

bukatyne:
The first wife seems happy with it....

That's what matters most.

Afterthought....

What possessed a 19yr old to marry a 60yr old fat man currently married?

Send her away to where?
Is the home not hers too?

Unless she's abusive thereby putting him in danger, he should stick to her and work out their marriage.

No issue after one yr of marriage and he thinks she's to blame already. Why not go seek medical help together?
Your friend seems hard to please.

Walesadeyemi:
I'm ashamed that you even exist........you bring a whole new meaning to LOW IQ
I'm a man just like you and I can't believe the magnitude of garbage coming out of your mouth, please don't go fishing in any these rivers or ocean Coz you would kill all the fishes with the toxic waste coming out of your mouth.
Na this kind people dey join bokoharam sef #horriblementality#

Nairalanders!

bukatyne:
Splendid and you?

awesome

bukatyne:


I was about to ask if she couldn't say no.

Hey buky
What's up?

freecocoa:
Lol, I can understand, I guess I'm lucky sha as my body doesn't experience that and my lip gloss stays on, I don't worry about carrying it around.

I like the atmosphere during this time, I find it very romantic and it induces nostalgic feelings a lot for me.

Same here.

misspicy:
wicked

but seriously it will take a long time for Nigerian men to realise that sex is not their birthright...eg a guy can freely talk about how many sexual partner he has had but a lady is supposed to be mute about hers and if she mistakingly blunt out her body count then she is seen as a LovePeddler.....

this mentality is what makes some ladies feel that they are doing a guy a favour by givinng their body to satiafy his sexual pleasure even if they enjoyed it too

@bold, exactly