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raayah:
Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.

mostyg:
May you live long for this advise of yours

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Ujoan:
Even if you did sleep with her, you were a child yourself and din't know any better.

OP's husband is a fully grown man, married with kids. There is just no basis for comparison!!!

but Reverend Miller stresses that he is the only person in their relationship allowed to have more than one partner.

Sincere4u:
Seriously my dear lady. In case you have any reservations, i'll give you a brief account of what actually transpired.
It happened while i was still an undergraduate student of one of our federal universities.
I had relatives residing in the city where the institution was located. There came a time a had to spend nearly two weeks with them because of inter cult clashes that resulted in a temporary closure of the school.
During my stay, the minor of about 13yrs of age warmed up to me in no time. Soon after she started making sexual advances to my surprise. She was the last child in their family and i was a couple of years older than her eldest brother and first child.
Each time i went into the male room she came right after me demanding for sex with a kind of desperation that made one think she would die if she doesn't have her way. As her desperation grew she became more forceful and daring.
The door had a lock but i couldn't find the keys. I had to resort to wrestling her off each time. What i felt for her was pity so didn't attempt reporting to her parents.
On one occasion, i was so tired and drowsy that i laid down on the bed to have an afternoon nap.
This girl came in and descended on me massively with unbelievable force. She begged as she wrestled, doing all she could to get hold of my..."you know what".
She was well built and bigger than her age but that didn't mean i couldn't have thrown her off the bed in a second but i was lenient probably because of the way she was begging.
All i did was to keep my "thing" safe from her grip.
Funny enough she still climaxed right on top of me by mere bodily contact. I didn't know that would happen till it did though at a point it was imminent from the look on her face and reactions.
I was eventually able to find the keys to the door and started locking it anytime i ventured into the room. That was what put an end to sexual harassment from a minor!.
I'm glad you were able to come round on this topic Now you see where i'm coming from?. Not all minors are innocent, lady Cococandy.

Sincere4u:
I don't hope to win an argument with you on this.
You were lucky to be endowed with beauty and good upbringing but not every 15yr old is.
Some are already professional prostitutes by that age.
You ladies don't seem to be giving the man any due considerations. The minor may be the one that is far more morally bankrupt than immorality can describe.
She might be responsible for everything but you don't wanna see it that way.
One thing we need to get right is the fact that ladies&sex are about the strongest forces in the universe. They could break or erode any man's defences and the highest moral standards in just a matter of time.
A minor had tried forcing herself on me right under the same roof with me after it became clear there was no way she could woo me. She wasn't even upto 15 at the time and i could've been raped repeatedly if not that i was far older and stronger. In as much as my idiosyncrasies can't allow me get with a minor I will be considerate in condemning my folks that fall for it.
This man had this right under his ROOF. With time it has driven him crazy, he couldn't hold on anymore. He's out of his mind and needs the help and understanding of his wife. Can't you see that, dear lady Cococandy. Don't be
so hard.
I may be lucky not to be among those class of men but that won't make me condemn my folks without considering the circumstances.

Nmeri17:
is this for Thanksgiving or pictures from King Solomon's banquet with Queen Sheba

Sincere4u:
Cococandy, it's either you were so kind as to not wield the magical powers of your beauty while you were 15 or you didn't realize you had them.
Men are men and not God, add a little softness and understanding towards us. If you consider the number of men that try hard to get noticed by you each time you step out of your home, you will understand.
Take a look at your sexy and attractive username. A look at it and one may be tempted to check your profile only to have his mind blown away by what he sees Yet at the end of these tempting processes you still criticize us for developing emotions for you?. Oh please.
If we don't develop emotions who will?. The OP didn't say how long the girl had been living with them which would've served as an indication to how long it had taken him to finally succumb. He may've resisted for a very long time you know. Peace.

Sincere4u:
Fine lady you've made very good points but I think the man is just under temptation. You can imagine bringing home a girl as pretty as you to a man who has flirted so much before repentance and ordination as Pastor. His past could eventually get the better of him. I think the man needs help. The girl is simply too hot. OP should confront him with her findings right away before sending the damsel away with an explanation to the elder sister.

Cherlene:
Good afternoon

Mmmmnam, Can I join?

Cherlene

alwelldinho:
treat a woman right, and you see the best of her

babygirlfl:
Thanks and good wishes to you too.

alwelldinho:
then you have a paradise on earth