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all4naija:
Hahaha... You just want me to post image of what I can cook. You are very curious on how my food would look like. Jeez! I don't have any image of the food I cooked by myself at the moment. I ate everything already.

Can I post Google image of exactly the same food I cooked last?

all4naija:
You are going to coaxing him into realizing he cooks tasteless food. Women like to take the long way out though calm but discouraging. Why don't you say it to him funnily instead so that he can improve on preparing good meal?

I would only swallow little of the stateless food and tell her that I am full. Tasteless meal doesn't work well on my tongue. Harsh...


Yes, I can cook very well now but I have no excuse or whatsoever not to post images on the kitchen thread. Perhaps, the ladies there would be surprised I can cook good food or something else.

Tallesty1:
The man for don die tey tey if to say he married a bad woman.

But God blessed him with a woman of noble character, for her price is far above rubies.

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised.

Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

When Ukariwo’s wife went on maternity a few months ago, he was fully in charge frying akara in the morning and evening couple with getting the five children ready for school in the morning and picking them after classes. “The fact that I didn’t get conventional education will not be a barrier for my children; I will make sure they get the best I can afford for now

amtheone:
Lol. No, but today's cooking is different.

all4naija:
That makes sense. That would look like a deceit to me. He wants to prove something and makes mistakes to cook a tasteless meal. I don't see anything wrong in telling him the truth about it that it doesn't taste awesome. Tell him he should have asked you to show him how to do it better. Must women always be the cook? Jeez! I am glad I can cook very well now!

xoxom:
Hello all

I wanna thank u all for being there for me and my family.
Don't wanna mention names.
U all rock.

I know I won't be difficult to recognize.

Happy holiday and celebration to our Muslim family(hope I'm not late)

Idowuogbo pls come and gist me about ur owambe. The one wey u wear tight gown

Cadamlk:
What do you take African men for?Are we that bad? I still cooked for my family this morning now

all4naija:
Even when the food doesn't taste nice married women would still say it tastes awesome. Women are always afraid to speak their minds!

Ladies, how do you feel to see your husband doing the cooking and serve you at the end of the day?

Phema:
No dear. They took out the medication after several pushing attempts cos I wasn't pushing properly with it. The one in my system eventually wore off and the real deal set in.

Don't be scared oo. Many of my friends used epidural successfully till their babies came.

BlackLeopard:
Stalker, maybe?

Woulda make sense, context

Phema:
My labour experience. . . hmmmmnn

Got into the labour room and was given epidural. I was feeling all cool and dandy, was even taking selfies and sending to friends and family. For my mind, i come dey say "so na so labour be, na him all this women go just dey complain anyhow, making mountain out of a molehill, mstcheeew". I honestly felt they were exaggerating. Time came and i couldn't push with the epidural, so they took it out and I had to push without any pain relieving medications.

Well, let's just say, I went to hell and came back. The 'Hebrew women' went on break that day and left me to my fate. At some point, I stopped pushing and told them I wanted a CS cos I was totally exhausted and out of breath. I was shivering all over and couldn't control it. Told them to turn on the heater in the room, they did but I was still shivering. Mehn, it still remains the scariest few hours of my life.

They were just petting and encouraging me, saying everything looked normal and there was no indication for CS. I wasn't having any of it and still insisted on having a CS. The nurse, in a bid to convince me that my baby's head was close, took one of my fingers and touched it. It felt surreal. I was so happy knowing how close I was to holding my baby in my arms.

That moment, I told myself it is now or never. I was going to give it the final push. I gave my life to Christ . . .yet again and gave it the push of my life. The head popped and they were all shouting to not push again so I don't get torn and that they were going to help guide the rest of his body out. Whether na Igbo or hausa those ones dey speak, i no even hear. I was in excrutiating pain that I just wanted to get it over and done with. I gave it another hard push and everything came out and tore me badly. I didn't care. I was just too happy it was over to bother about how badly torn I was.

Now, I've him and he truly is the most wonderful thing to ever happen to me.

Kimoni:
He has a trend...He follows females with personal pictures on their profile and has multiple facebook accounts.

That guy behaves like a serial something...

ApexTitan:
The records from the US and India as shown in the those links provided have it that this crime is higher in the US. You do realise that the burden of proof is now on you to prove otherwise since you are calling it a lie right?

cococandy:
lol I didn't say your figure in the link for US is a lie.
I said it's a lie that rape is higher in the US than in India.
omo get your comprehension in shape.
Anyways I've agreed with you. So you can rest now.
Funny dude.
#FACTS.

ApexTitan:
Yeah, so when statistics provided by veritable institutions like the DoJ and FBI don't align with your position we are to term them lies? Hmmm

Rape incidents are under reported everywhere not just in India, this includes the almighty US of A with its current high numbers. So if we factor the unreported cases into available records the figures will rise for all the countries in question again even for our much revered America.

This is now a meaningless debate because the facts aren't helping advance your position? Too bad. I must admit this has been a fun exchange for me but of course you reserve the right to retreat. Cheers

Herzumpther:
Cococandy. Kimoni I'm deactivating. I wanted to say it when it's close but I guess I have to leave now.

My we...ddin..... Is very close now. I need time to prepare, hubby has asked I stop nlding too. Will miss u both. Will resurface with a new moniker when Hubby's head cools down. ...thinks I'm addicted to Nl.

Glock8 I'm not a bad cook bro.

ApexTitan:
Tsk tsk tsk

You with your previous comments asserted that India which is more conservative than the US had a higher rape occurrence. I have shown with statistical evidence that you were wrong and that the reverse is the case, the US and indeed several other first world countries have higher incidence of this crime.

This is important because you were hinging your whole argument on the notion that the provocative dressing has no bearing whatsoever in the motivation for this crime. What you claim is a contradiction - my statement of admission that neither me nor anyone else can say conclusively that the high rape occurrence in the US ALL had to do with dressing is by no means a contradiction! That old wool-over-the-eyes trick won't work here.

Bollinger:
Made efo riro yesterday. It was kinda hard getting the ingredients, but it was worth it. I got it right finally; it was drip free. Boys, word of advise; learn to cook and your woman can never do yanga for you.

ApexTitan:
The use of statistics on message boards like this can sometimes take on the appearance of a blood sport so unless I 'chop belleful' I tend not to go that route but since I have hope from the guys celebrating Sallah tonight I can talk a little ... if you look up available records on the web you will see that the US with a relatively smaller population than India ranks higher in reported rape cases. In 2012 alone, according to their National Crime Records Bureau there were ~24,000 cases reported in India. For that same year in the US the FBI puts the cases reported at ~ 84,000. (see https://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/2012/crime-in-the-u.s.-2012/violent-crime/rape#disablemobile and http://ncrb.gov.in/CD-CII2013/compendium%202013.pdf [pg 79]) This site http://www.wonderslist.com/10-countries-highest-rape-crime/ even ranks the US as number 1 in the world.

I know the argument can be made that a lot of rapes go unreported in places like India, well we also have to realise that same also goes for the US. The US also has a broader definition of rape and this may skew impressions but the trend is the same if you look through as many records as you can find.

Again I will stress here that I am not in anyway implying that the high rape numbers in the US is the result of slutty dressing; I have already stated in an earlier comment that the motivations of rape are varied; I'm no criminologist or psychologist and do not give any such pretensions.

My point is that dressing provocatively cannot be unconnected to sexual violence and that slut walkers who claim otherwise are making a sad error. The whole rape argument is just a ruse for a much broader agenda which I have mentioned earlier.

Akposy:
Yes! I love gifts....... Cococandy too..u hardly post food dis days...why?

ApexTitan:
Still, like I said, let concrete evidence be provided that provocative dressing has nothing to do with rape.

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This whole slut walking thing is just using the rape argument as a Trojan horse to advance a much broader objective for the feminine imperative - and that is the unencumbered right to openly pursue its mating or sexual strategies.

Today's modern woman wants to be able to indulge to the extreme her sexuality without recrimination from society, she sees scanty dressing as a right and is oblivious of its effect. So there is this erroneous push that sluttiness has nothing to do with sexual violence, that sluttiness should be promoted and celebrated. Any resistance to this idea is seen as the evil patriarchy trying to hold her back.

ApexTitan:
Your question presupposes that rape incidents are low(er) in countries that are not as conservative as Nigeria or India. You will find that the USA with an estimated 300,000 rape crimes (according to the US Department of Justice https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/210346.pdf) ranks among the top 10 countries where people are likely to get raped, and they occupy that position with several other first world countries like France, UK and Canada. Go through any of the many stats available online and see for yourself.

I am waiting to see anyone prove that provocative dressing has no link or effect whatsoever on whether a person gets raped or not. And till that time the present call for women to throw caution to the wind and dress as skimpily as they desire, because they want to feel empowered and liberated with their sexuality, will continue to draw ridicule from people like me. I always find it interesting that any effort to encourage decent dressing among today's modern woman is immediately seen as a curtailing of her rights.

justme16:
. He can't take care of the child and his family knows that. His siblings were all by side when the marriage was not working and they are still behind me to make sure he carries his child responsibilites but he is not co operating. They even told him the child will not stay with them cos they have their own responsibilities and the child won't stay with their mum too cos she is old.

SAMBARRY:
I just went to read the thread but you sef you wicked

see as you trail and bully am till he ran

I suspect the guy is an Internet fraudster and he just took pictures with the girl who the mother is oblivious of his intent to snap picture with the girl and make up a story. @cococandy that guy is even following you

SAMBARRY:


otibinu

oya sorry na

SAMBARRY:


then what