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xynerise:
Nah!
We dey on strike

i believe you

xynerise:
See am. Keep pretending you care about the sleepless night I will have tonight

I do.

If ejima is the by product nko?

skydeep:
I know where and how to deal with him

Easy o
Deal nwayoly.

xynerise:
Woman, leave my Agbada #Bites her hand

Lol

skydeep:
Crazy things men ask...hypocrisy in 3D

And he's forming innocent o.

99 percent of men cheat. he's only one that doesn't. According to him.

eyinjuege:
OP, another possible scenario and also more common than you think

[/b] 5. Would you rather stay with a philandering man playing the dutiful and long suffering wife, but also start philandering secretly and loving every minute of it?[b] and maybe give him a first some that looks like your old neighbor in the former place where you used to live?

You guys are cracking me up.

This is the reason why many Nigerian men aren't the father of their kids.
Then after 20yrs of playing away match in the marriage, they have the nerve to ask for aDNA test for their kids. As if their wives no sabi that thing wey them sabi.

When their own offspring litter other men's homes. What's the problem in helping other guys raise their kids while they are helping you raise yours? The circle of life ehn.

xynerise:
Because he has not been caught doesn't mean he doesn't cheat

*Runs out sighting someone*

Madam sky bia Biko.
Ejidelem ya na shirt.
He's going nowhere.

skydeep:
Lol. Always want the women to take the final decision because men are immune to taking blames

This Tok boy is foolish sha.
But he doesn't know.

I'll spank him one day.

njokusboy:
Surely you can answer the question without bothering about what the guys would do if you are actually sure of your sef...
Or is what the guys would do a function of what you would do

@bold, gbam. Exactly.

You guys lead. We follow.

If you will stay married to the lady and endure her lover after lover, pray for her to change and protect the marriage from divorce even when the lady can't stop sleeping around, we will.

If you won't, we won't.

I didn't even know this dude was married.

Goodluck to you and your new coming baby.
It will end in praise.

What would the guys do in such situations?
That's what we will do.

Yeye questions.

OP this girl will be your sister in story if you're not careful
https://www.nairaland.com/2596199/he-got-me-pregnant-left

5minsmadness:
We agree?

****checks outside to see if the world has ended...

Mtchew.

When did polygamy become a bad thing in your books?

You should be checking yourself to see what changed in your life. Maybe you received Jesus after all. Lol
Whatever it is, I thank God for that.

Tenk you

ted1741:
Since you said abuse is allowed, I will go straight to it. You claim that you are not materialistic yet you shout aloud how "loaded" this man is, that makes you a materialistic girl my dear. You also said he was willing to settle you in another state and it seems you are also thinking about that option. He is able to settle you because he can afford to, again, a materialistic mind. He took you out of the shores of the country and you jumped for it. How is it that you have a good job, can afford these things and yet, extremely excited at the opportunities and doing all these things with a man you barely knew, someone you met online. You were blinded by the material things he is giving and so, failed to ask the basic questions good girls ask. It took you a while to know he is married because you never asked and you never asked because you were materialistic. How difficult is this for you to comprehend. Most girls ask right off the bat, are you married, do you have kids etc. Am sure there were times when you called and he didn't pick your calls because he was with his family. If you asked and he lied, how does that make him your dream man. He is your dream man becos he has money period. The only reason you're considering the idea of becoming his second wife is he is loaded according to you. You even belief he was forced to marry, lol, you are extremely naive and gullible young woman. Go and marry him and be prepared for a life of chaos, battle, name calling, headaches, regrets, a useless life. If you want to know whether he was forced to marry this woman, give her a call, chat her up. He is decent according to you, yet he wants to get you pregnant and jet out of the country. He took you out of the country and sampled you day in day out and hid such fundamental information of his background from you, yet you call him decent. Decent my foot. Arent you ashamed to call a con man decent. Some nigerian girls and money; you will never cease to amuse and amaze me. I say some because there are a lot of decent, good, God fearing Nigerian girls out there who will never compromise their principles and sociatla norms and values. Ask your mr. right to go and see your parents and ask for your hand in marriage and watch his reaction. Are you demented? By the way, if this man was poor, not loaded, will you be considering this marriage. If he really loves and wants to marry you, why the thought of sending you to a different state instead of keeping you in his family home so that you can bond with his other wife and children and your children bond with their siblings. Do you actually have such a low self esteem that you are willing to go on "exile" for a decent man. I wish I was near you, boil 360 degrees hot water, pour it and wake up your retarded brian from stupor, useless girl. Don't you feel bad that this man actually is using you for sexual satisfaction? Why do you believe his mumbo jumbo and cheap talks. You should be angry with him for hiding issues of his background from you just to get in between your legs instead of talking of been loaded.

[size=28pt]Xtupid girl .[/size]

It's not mandatory.
It's just one of those social aspects of conformity that many of us adhere to for no particular reason.
Except that we think it looks good.
There's no particular benefit to it. Health, social, spiritual or otherwise.
You're also right she can choose for herself when she grows up but both you and your lady need to agree now. Find a middle ground.
Or choose one ear each like freecocoa said

As for me, I'll give my daughter two on each ear. She's free to add more when she grows up

I was even upset with my mom for giving me only one on each ear and I had to endure the pain of getting another pair later in life.
It wasn't funny because I can't stand pain.

: “It further underscores my belief that women of high integrity and proven abilities should be given the opportunity to directly contribute to national and international development. This is consistent with the global thinking that women who excel in their various professions should be encouraged to participate in governance.”

One of the reasons why I love GEJ.

He's not one of egomanic buffoons.

ayyoshert:
A colleague travelled home to Badagry for sallah break, he has siblings who are into fishing, gave him some dough to help get sea foods and also dry them, can't wait to have them calm down inside egusi and vegetable soup. What he got for me and sent through whatsap are:

That looks like a shark.

Lucky you. See plenty sea food

If they tell some ladies to have self esteem and self worth, they'll think you're their enemy.

Shouldn't you have walked away from this no good marrafoka earlier before things got to this point? Eating shyt equals asking for more shyt.
You should have dumped him when he beat you and sent outside into the rain so he could bring in another girl for the night.

No lady with self respect will continue dating such a man.

At this point you're still asking what to do.

Pls stay there o.
Don't go anywhere.

Herzumpther:
Been a while.

Cococandy and kimoni I miss you both.

Okotv I'm fine and I've spoken to pineapp too.

Nwa Oma.

See that delicious looking soup.

How are you dear?

stellx:
breakfast things on point......hmm deLiCIous....unripe plantain porriage

Wow.

crowns2:
Hello People,
For those living abroad, please how do you prepare pounded yam? I mean the real yam not the processed one. I read you can use a blender or food processor. Please will it still come out very nice? Without seeds? I am thinking of travelling with my mortar because i dont eat the processed poundo but i am scared of paying for excess luggage because mortar can be heavy. Please help a sister

You can find mortar to buy. Instead of lugging one from Nigeria.

Food processor works too.

Nonsense birthday.
He should go and pay his workers.
Silly man.

7 months and counting in the health sector. I don't know about other sectors. And he's turning another year.

You will reap your just reward Rochas lucifer Okorocha.

Saudi Arabia proposes to build 200 mosques in Germany for the "incoming" refugees.
http://www.ibtimes.com/amid-muslim-refugee-crisis-saudi-arabia-vows-build-200-mosques-germany-2090905

Oh the nerve.

Love this. Will try it.

saiprojects:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0R3lx4C2aNE

Happy birthday R231.

Chillisauce:
Steak and eggs ?

Yes na.

This one una dey query me like this.

If Muslims could keep their religion to themselves without disturbing the peace and freedom of others, many people wouldn't share Ben Carson's opinions.

Don't buy it.
Imagine his tone self
Na so dem dey take ask person for something?

So how has he been traveling all these while?
So they couldn't detect a forged passport any of the times he's traveled to the UK in the recent past?

Bollinger:
Weird. Might as well eat garri and scrambled eggs.

steak and eggs is like rice and beans.

You're the weird one.