₦airaland Forum

biafranqueen:
I am telling you and a new set of twin girls are with him as we speak can that be possible? This is too disgusting!

freecocoa:
Nne lekwa o.
Mehn! This one don pass being useless without marriage as far as I'm concerned o, this woman needs to have her head checked.
Why did she decide to leave now?

ayyoshert:
Seafood sauce- crab, octopus, big prawn and fish all dry, taste so good.

freecocoa:
This woman is very stup1d, what is wrong with these type of women?

teasel:
Aren't Nigerian guys tired of this bullshit?!
Can't you guys even advise each other instead of wasting your time whining about women on the internet?
Don't you guys even feel embarrased?
So pathetic.

Akposy:
Wow.
What is fettuccini?
Is salmon d only fish in d USA?
Nice presentation

Idowuogbo:
This combo don't go oo...fettuccine with plantain ke? You are meant to have this with cheese or any butter base sauce na. Or is this the Nigerian way of cooking it?

SAMBARRY:
Cocandy come and comment . What do you have to say about this

nnamdiosu:
my dear we r in Nigeria o. anything goes. wat can we do?

otiigba1:
So why is some one sitting on a badly injured man? Nigerians really are barbaric, try that Over here and he will be the one going to jail insted of the thief

nnamdiosu:
yes o. its necessary. or u want make the man collect the second Okada?

We are all responsible for our own actions (and despite what we have been told, violence is NOT the response needed for marriage issues)

Look inside. We have all grown up in various dysfunctional systems and unwittingly imbibed beliefs that are inimical to our progress and detrimental to our relationships. There is no shame in this. The real shame is accepting it as the norm . NO! There is much better.

Sagamite:
After 17 years of marriage and no baby coming.

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/10/01/23/2CFD08EB00000578-0-image-m-116_1443738181879.jpg


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZDwLgyOW6M

ronald4lif:
Rightly said. The OP write up is faultless. In Nigeria, the message every parent and the society passes across to their daughters is how to become good wives, submissive and obey everything a man says whether right or wrong. Hardly do they train their sons to be good husbands and how to treat a woman fairly . When a couple are having feud and the wife narrates her ordeal to her family or in-laws the advise she get is to apologise to her husband. They say things like don't you know she's the man regardless of if the man is at fault. This is wrong.

MizMyColi:
Nne Lekwanum ooo
I kuku left the thread for them.
I seriously thank heavens I don't have a large circle of friends.
Is this the kind of mumbo-jumbo they will be filling my ears with?
Such unrepentant egotistic insecurity!

Okay, let's take Sister Philomina as an example (permit me to explain one last time, Coco...I just have this urge to)
No man dey look her face at the mo. She really doesn't have anyone who fills her ear with "I love you"
She is 29 going on 30

Wait, is she supposed to cry her eyes out always in her closet and envy married folks like Coco.
Even if she desires marriage and a life-long partnership, should she always carry it like HIV/AIDS in her handbag mind that she is an incomplete and incapable woman who is only worth any penny should a man knock on her father's bamboo door, thereby stopping her from seeking higher grounds and ideals, dreaming, attaching herself to worthy causes, and Just being?.

LMAO
Make I stop here abeg.
I cast and bind all spirits of epistle following me around on this thread.

dearpreye:
There's a whole lot to life than simply getting married.

Our system is skewed against the women, and it appears they can do very little about it.

You hardly hear two or more women discuss self development, or other areas in which their improvement will bring great joy to their future husband. ...It's a ll about marriage and marriage.....

I agree with the OP almost totally.

The issue can go both ways, but it's worse with the women folks. It seems they almost only exist for marriage....very sad.

I can recall when my woman used to journey that path. I had to encourage her to look beyond the marriage and pursue her natural calling.....She didn't need to compromise her individuality because of me; she must maintain her uniqueness.

thelish:
Thank u ma'am.
My parents are trying to make it look like I commited an offence by sending him out.

Idowuogbo:
You don't have to look you know? I mean I know no be everybody wey dey view this thread fit afford the luxurious food cococandy and co dey post; but y must thou beef the privileged ones? just pray to God Nd list your heart desires inugo? It is well even in the well.

nickibarb:
just to clarify something, when i say i'm staying for the kids, what i mean is, i'm staying to have them in my life cause if i leave now, he and his family are sure to get custody of the kids (i mean we are in Nigeria). When i'm in a more civilized country, I can expect justice so for now I have to suck it up so I can have my kids in my life.

nickibarb:
i'm not covering nothing. Yes, i said it, i'm only staying for 2 things: the kids and the money. if the money ever dissappears, i'm outta here. You can't be broke and be an asshole at the sametime. I used to love my husband but he's a totally different person from the man i dated, marriage brought out his true emotionally and physically abusive nature.