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The mom and the oldest girl should get jobs pls.
No matter what it is as a job. as long it is honorable. WTH!

It's funny.

In public?

5minsmadness:
You are a christian. Got it.

Under which guidance should your moral compass lie?

That's the point.

My morality should not be the standard for others.
It is based on my Christain morality that I would say yes a gay Christain is commiting a sin.

Taking it beyond that to actively campaign against gay folks being together means I also consider people of other religions who try to force their morality on me as doing the right thing.

The the phrase "the other person" mean nothing to you? Because you're a Christian?

5minsmadness:
Finally.

So, are you a christian?

Good question. I was expecting it.

Yes I am a Christian.

Should the rules of the world be made according to my beliefs?

If you're asking me whether I consider a homosexual Christain as a sinner, then the answer is yes. The person clearly knows his or bible is against.

That doesn't mean because I'm a Christian I should be oblivious to the fact that their are people who don't share my beliefs.

Saying they should be denied their right to be married because my bible that they don't believe in says so, would be the height of narcissism for me.

5minsmadness:
I'm sorry but you havent said anything here.

Do you support gay marriage or dont you?

I do 5mins.

That's what letting other people have the same right to be married as I do means.

coogar:
hypocritical to be excited by the bodies of the opposite sex?

look atew

What happened to their morality.?
Aren't those lesbians having homosexual sex?

5minsmadness:
Hypocritical or not, does it make it right?

cococandy are you for or against lesbianism?
No sarcasm pls.

Hating one and tolerating the other is wrong that's what I'm trying to say.

As per whether I'm for gay marriage or not, I'd say let other people have the same rights as you.
Simple as that.

coogar:
they like it just to see mammary glands & bushy pubes!

Whatever their reasons, it does seem very hypocritical

dinachi:
I have been suspecting you for while now since you claimed in another thread that you have witnessed more homosexual sex in Nigeria than the US.
I just hope you did not indulge in them.

No need for suspicion anymore.
Now you have your fact.

I hear you.

I even have a secret wife too.

dinachi:
Homosexuality is an abomination!
But I have noticed that women in general seem to have carefree attitude about it than guys. They are the proffesional fence sitters.
There are by far more lesbians than homosexual men. The reason is because of single sex schools where the senior female students lure the younger one in through promises of no pregnancy, little or no chance of STIs and some financial gratification. The result is that almost 90% of all girls that attended single sex schools have been involved in one lesbian act or the other. That is why most women especially the young ones like cococandy and co have a favorable opinion for homosexuals.

coogar:
only gays would watch 2 girls make out. the nude bodies of the girls is what interest the guys not the act itself. what possibly excitement can i get from 2 chics rubbing pubes together? it's extremely repulsive to me.

you're one of the different ones then.

But don't be like you don't know some straight guys like it.

crystalsaint:
well...none is okay at all. lesbianism is bad!!!! but to an extent..ladies making out is still kinda better...at least...they have where they can touch.they have vibrators they can use ...but men? its unthinkable!!! I have seen ladies doing that..though I felt somehow but its still bearable..compared to men!!!! I pray not to witness such IJN.

Some guys will pay to watch two girls make out.
It's fun and sexy according to them.

Two girls making out? O la la la

Yet suddenly the heavens will threaten to fall if guys do the same.

It Says so much about the 'morality' clause used to justify homophobia. People just dislike what they are not comfortable with.

They are comfortable and fine with girls on girls therefore that's not much of a sin compared to guys on guys.

crystalsaint:
. well...I have seen that a lot...went to Girl's grammar school..its a silly act and its abnormal .i had friends who were into that when I was in secondary and had to stay away from them..its not normal at all..when guys never finish for earth.

I'm asking this because I've noticed people are more forgiving of female homosexuals than males.
When they even want to give examples of disgusting homosexual acts, it always centers around guys drilling each other.

I was wondering if there's a reason for the different levels of disgust.

naijababe:
Singing 'It shall be permanent' on cococandy's behalf

lol

Chillis:
2pm you are still în bed. Ebi like say oga Don. ...

*CLEARS throat*

So you say wetin again

Hahaha. It's not that . I'm sure.

I just lost my rhythm after two weeks of vacation and eating carelessly with no exercise.
I'll get it back.
I'm almost there.

I feel bad for them.

Poor dad

Poor kids

Deep down, he still knew he had to take care of his kids. That's impressive

Chillis:
Join me and efemenaxy in jogging.
this their exercise might break my waist

I felt like starting today o.

No work. No school. Nothing doing today at all.

Yet It is almost 2:pm and I'm just getting out of bed.

My case now needs special motivation.

#singing "I shall rise again" la la la.

Chillis:

howdy.

Just dey jare.

Still peeping through the window at damiso, bukatyne and co.
I'll join when I feel better.

This airport looks like MMIA in Lagos.

Chillis:
That's my girl!

welcome back.

Let the couch hold the remote
Or better still draw up a rooster to hold it in turns

Orisirisi questions.

coogar:
they are all unhappy.....
they are just coping with the situation & pretending to be happy. suffering & smiling!!!

Says the single guy.

Why should I take you seriously?

The writer is on point.

The more you try to impose or force an action on someone, the harder they will resist.
That Mr Cameron tried to threaten his way into it shows he lacks tact.

With majority opinion, the minority should know better than to come head on with their opposition.
Conflict resolution 101.

You win people one step at a time until the minority is a small majority.
then go head on with the opposition and hope to succeed.

Yea well not everyone who's above thirty and single is unhappy.

Stop assuming on her behalf.

coogar:
you are missing the point!
were you 34 when you were single? don't compare yourself to linda abeg. linda is almost 40.

Animals roaming free in the society

Setaje:
The one I went for bad pass this one sef. It was a real wedding. It was quite big o. Only that babe did not wear white gown o. She wore a nice purple long gown. People talked o but after like 2 months we heard she has gone to meet her husband. God forbid that we are suddenly put in such a compromising situation. It's not just good to assume the babe is desperate.

Well her life her choice jare.
I do question her judgment in marrying a picture,
But I don't blame her for being on the defensive though. When Amebo people gather on your matter, you will say anything to save face.

She knows Linda is socially in leagues above her anyways. You can't blame for trying to kick where she thinks it will hurt.

coogar:
you are the last person that should be saying this. read your siggy again & tell me why i should take you serious.

that my marriage makes me happy doesn't mean I was an unhappy single person.
I was a very happy single lady by the way.

Saying that being married shouldn't be a key to judge who's happy or not is, is not the same as saying that married people are unhappy or that marriage is a guarantee for happiness. I don't know why you like to think in the extreme.

All these generalizations are unnecessary. Given that you're single yourself, I would be justified to assume you're unhappy if I follow your logic huh?

You have every reason to take me seriously.
Some people's marriages have turned their lives to living hell while some are lucky to find a balance in their previous levels of happiness and others have been blessed to be even happier based on how the marriage is working out for them.

The reality is not the same for everyone.

crystalsaint:
disgusting!!! two men making out? the sound of the kiss sef fit make me get accident if I were to be the driver.useless oyinbo people sha.mschewwwww..rubbish.

What about two ladies making out?
How would that make you feel?

If you're happy now as a single guy, believe me other single people are happy too.
Except there's something you're not telling us
Are you secretly married?

Anyway Happiness is individual. If an unhappy person gets married, they will only become an unhappy married person.

Saying marriage is the key to happiness is a lie from the bowels of the earth.

coogar:
fulfilment - profession & family!
linda only has one of the two & don't kid yourself she's happy being single. no one is happy being single, that couldn't have been her plans when she was in her late teens.

there's no shortage of men in nigeria too so why is she unmarried? perhaps no sane nigerian man wants to walk the aisle with dan foster's sloppy seconds. what right has linda got to criticise another woman's wedding?

Setaje:
Don't mind this idi0ts that just talk anyhow. I went for a wedding like that and I still have the pictures. The guy is an American soldier and was serving somewhere in d middle east. They kept on postponing the wedding until it was getting to much. They had to do the wedding in absentia. Right now the girl is wiv him in yankee.

Me too I've seen wedding in absentia and it's not usually this odd. This one is more odd because it's a picture.
Let's just say we are not used to this kind of wedding in absentia.

If I was her, I'd do a traditional marriage with one of his family members representing him as the groom. That one is perfectly acceptable in my own culture. As per the belief that you're also marrying the family when you marry the man.

Then do the church marriage over there in S.A since it didn't even take her anytime to get there.

The picture thing is just funny. But who knows she might be setting a trend.

Funny.

Mtchew

Emmahunk:
I think you have more than the problem of the child's welfare in your hands.
For starters, you have no firm grip of your family.
Hear yourself, 'my wife suddenly came back day before yesterday and said she wentffor a job interview'. For crying out loud, what right does she have to go job hunting without you two first discussing it as a family?
Poverty does not mean inability to run your home. It's amazing that in this age of 'baby friendly', a woman with honest intentions will be comfortable abandoning a four months old baby for a job you were not aware of. Obviously, she couldn't wait to put to birth.
Call your wife to order first and other things can follow