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Onegai:
Sorry Team July members, I'm afraid I've checked out.

Mummy's little Rockstar was born today. She weighs 6 lbs 4. We are both doing well and my little girl had great lungs (perfect for when I take her swimming in 6 months time).

All the best to the rest of you. It will surely end in praise.

armyofone:
Ummm where is the gentleman Ness if he told the cashier not to ring up her purchase? ? That was plain and slyly rude plus embarrassing. There are better ways to prevent your wife from buying something. Not saying what she did was right but guys know your woman personality.

He made a statement that he would meet other girls when he is back on his feet and flaunt them to my face.

BoboYekini:
Slut shaming is what women do to themselves. It's either you let us have an adult relationship( if you've ever had in the past), or you be a child, lock up hold your panties in your father's house until you get married. You don't get to tell me 'the girl is good' after you 'been there, done that'. Can't you see? It's simply illogical.
P.S. She's only a slut if she won't have sex with me after having with others before me, after me. You see the difference?

bukatyne:
Ishilove If you can, please frontpage or make it stick permanently on the front page

With kanwulia's permission

babygirlfl:
Makes a lot of sense. While most people I have met outside nairaland have been nice and pleasant, one person who I never met but got friendly with by replying his pm has ended up awful. Op is right about secrets. People don't know how to keep secrets even though they will be the one to ask you to keep theirs. If a nairalander knows anything about you and you ever disagree with them, that thing will be revealed and used against you. You don't even need to insult them or anything. You just need to disagree with them. It's a shame. Though not everybody is like that, some immature ones are. Just one awful person can make you scared of making friends with nairalanders outside Nairaland. It certainly did for me.

bukatyne:
FrancisTony oya come and read

BoboYekini:
stop swearing so much. It's unbecoming.
And yes, I belong to that school that says it aint a relationship if we aint fucckin. Fornication shmunication.

Youngpo413:
everything is wrong if the lady is not a virgin.

5minsmadness:
Ah but I'm not gonna be as lazy as you na I already wash clothes without a washing machine, iron them, pound yams without a yam pounder, and pound my ladies harder Musa won't be needed in my case

I can't say same for your oga and ekaete though

bukatyne:
You did not see where he said he can sleep with the househelp?

5minsmadness:
You're right my dear
Ekaete can even help you in the bedroom when oga is disturbing u too much
You know say all na stress

5minsmadness:
Coco you dey hear so?

Omg I don't know why I find this so hilarious!!

chineloSA:
Ingredients
Water
500g Calamaris
Garlic butter ( optional )
Olive oil
1 red onion
1 green pepper
1 red pepper
1 yellow pepper
Garlic
Ginger
Maggie cube
Green chillies ( according to your taste )
Salt ( optional )

I choose to boil by calamaris until soft.Just to remove any bacteria which may be in my calamaris.When the water is about to evaporate, add just a table spoon of garlic butter and shallow fry the calamaris just to seal the garlic taste into them.
Then in seperate deep saucepan, fry onions, garlic, ginger and all your peppers and your green chillies. Add your maggie cube. Stir until all soft. Add calamaries and contiinue frying. ( I usually add a little water for frying when my olive oil disappears in evaporation ). Lastly when all the ingredients are sealed, add a can of chopped tomatoes. Bring to boil until there is no water.

Add any herb to your liking.

Then this takes me to the plight of millions of African children facing this exact predicament just because of people allowing superstitious fear to drive their judgement. This kids are maimed, beaten, starved, mutilated, burnt by the society who had given them an unwarranted tag witch, ogbanje, mami-water, demon and so on... and imbedding this nonsensical superstition on our young children that they too at this tender believe and fear this nonsense is very disturbing to me and it makes me wonder if our generation will ever rid this society of this stupendous belief.

These children are none of these exceptionally stup!d concepts people tag them with, these children need love and acceptance by the society to fit in, they shouldn't be discriminated against or mutilated.

There is nothing wrong with them, they might appear different and act above societal expectations but everyone is not meant to be the same. their difference makes them unique and a wonderful asset to the society if people will understand that all they need is love and acceptance.

My personal experience with linda was just one out a million cases that happen all over Africa, and i hope people will step up and save these children when ever, where ever you find them. what the society are doing to this children is totally wrong and Africa need to change this very archaic superstitiously stupendous ideology.

Audray:
what i said is no oxymoron. Homophobic people are always quick to use God and religion as a reason for unneccessary hate. You seem to forget; slavery was perfectly established and taken seriously in the Bible, it was seen as "normal". In the same USA it was rife then fortunately abolished.is the abolishment of slavery not also "a direct opposition to HIS divine vision"? Due to the fact that God Himself ordained it? And as for human rights, i guess ur seeing them as "man made" and "direct opposition against His divine vision". Id advice u sir to do urself some good and rise against unreasonable hate and stop being God's spokesman. He is GOD for goodness sake....

chineloSA:
Spicy calamari and just plain rice

ifyalways:
Lucky you . I know one or two staff, time to call them and " pre-arrange" for me and mine
No, I have never done timeshare. The only time I got close to it was some years ago; timeshare by Marriotts. I pulled out cos the cost was as good/bad as staying in a Marriott hotel itself so it didn't make sense to me. With my kids in tow sef, timeshare is not an option if I must enjoy the vacation.

keni315:
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keni315:
we ladies get prob sha all the guys that commented didnt point out mistakes

baby,you are sha helping your wife

Kimoni:
The above is a process, and realistically speaking, I don't expect her to stop in a day. Old habits die hard. So while the resolution is still a work-in-progress, what should he do anytime she nags?



My advice again - nagging will not kill him. Rather than hit her back, he should learn to ignore. Concurrently, he should address the root of the problem. I propose reducing her idle time by getting her a job or establishing her in a business. If she refuses and continues her nasty behavior, the next steps are entirely up to him.