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Akposy:
yes.....i placed egg in d stew overnight so it would absorb nutrient and colour...lolz

Akposy:
My breakfast. Semo with stew and okro

Coco....hmmmmmmm...i hear u ma

donodion:
I agree with you Coco to certain degree.But should one particular partner always sacrifice his/ her happiness to his/her detriment in order to keep or maintain a unionWould that not lead tobl becoming abused??
Please read the confessions of men in the link provided to see how untrue " happy wife/ husband, happy life" verses turned out eventually.

I think there must be a time to strike a balance in "been happy in a union" and just "existing in one for the sake of it."

Brandnew2:
And you can travel to Dubai on a 100k budget.


Ask me how?

moca:
Hi babe, fine o but my little one has been battling withh cold for sometime now.

I don't know why all d cough syrups don't work. Terrible at night time.
Will go edwife's route(have already started).
Shea butter and palm oil.
If I had remembered since,
No sleep and as usual,only d two of us though his dad came in yesterday.
How r u sweetie?
Hubby and school?

Thanks.

MymothersKeeper:
Only evidence I have is the bank transfer no agreement on paper, he's a wayo guy and he can't report of his items missing. Even if he reports which he can't, It will be a domestic issue not criminal (there's a reason I said this) .
I just im not the type to take others property but I feel he shouldn't get away with cheating and stealing from me. It's such a huge blow really disappointed and yea it's a lesson. I can't even trust a man again

babyosisi:
Chai and look irresponsible

chibic:
and the man accepted the child? This is one thing that can kill a man faster. Women sha..smh

kilokeys:
hehehehehehe.. i laff in dutch..

no babe can try that with me.. i have this very unique large head , if my acclaimed baby is born with a tiny agbalumo head.. i know that child aint mine.

i wonder how pple accept other pple's babies.

Shiningmama:
Thanks dear, God bless you.
I didn't inform anyone I want to leave, it was when the mum noticed we weren't doing as we used to that she asked him what happened. And he said I can't stop him from chatting with his female friends, though he had affairs with them one time or the other but he can't say because of me he will stop chatting with them.
I expained to the mum thaat all what I need is for him to just respect me once he is at home. He should postpone the chat till next dayy at his office when I won't be there. Atimes, these women will send messages, maybe if he didn't reply on time, they will call to tell him to come online, I will see the name of the caller. From there I was able to get their names and no. I saved it on my phone. Whenever he is online on whatsapp, they will be online too.
He got upset when I told him in the presence of his mum to respect me when he is at home by not chhatting with them. He said and I quote“ in that case, then you have to leave my house becos can't becos of you stop chatting with them. What do u have to offer me, they have lots of things to offer” end of quote
I then asked if leave what of my children, that was when the mother replied that I didn't bring children here bla. Bla bla

Akposy:
i see oda food i eat as trash and street dog food....am serious....its no fair oooo. Herzumpther come and take me 4 dinner ooo

donodion:
A compelling read i say.In a situation such as this, could the saying ," Happy wife Happy life" be applicable?

Shiningmama:
Did I hear you say going to any length to get him to like me? God forbid. I am done with him. The marriage is dead already, I am just hanging here becos of my children. He feels embarrasd with the greeting sef, let me just do that becos of his mum. She wants me to treat him like a king.
I can't leave without my children. His mum made it clear to me that I didn't come with children and I can't leave with them.
I believe one day, my story will change and I will have peace of mind. I am very very ok now compared to before. It was terrible then.

Akposy:
cococandy....na wa oooooooo.
Dis food has given me food blindness nao

Shiningmama:
I have gotten over it sinceeee, I just see him as my room-mate now. Come and see the respect I dey give am now. I kneel down to greet him as if I am greeting my daddy. I relate with him as if e be my Uncle.
I am hurt with low self esteem. If I have to compete with single mothers for the love of my husband., too bad.

Kachisbarbie:
lols.
It turns to constructive criticism.
Sometimes I wonder if some NL guys are normal, the kind of hate in them is alarming.

If it's not how females are materialistic, it's how they are 'cheerful givers'. Makes me wonder how many their female loved ones have given, or are they exempted from the stereotype?

bukatyne:
I realise Some ladies with that crazy mindset are crazy themselves. There is a difference between Shade is evil and all women are evil (apart from me and my family members ).

Years back, I was discussing with a friend and her colleague and the colleague be like 'you know How ladies are now... cheating et al. I looked at her and told her... I don't know How ladies are like; I do not cheat neither do some.of the ladies I know.' Later got to know she was cheating .

Another thing is that sometimes people say things they have really not thought aabout.

A lady is working hard at building a career and will still say women make terrible bosses... tell me, is This lady thinking of resigning when she is ripe to be a boss or is she immune to the wind of evil bosship blowing?

How about a lady married with kids doing one or two certifications, very Good at What she does and still say it is not possible for a woman with a family to build her career. My question then is What is she doing?

FrancisTony:
Men naturally have overbloated ego.

for example, different men have been ruling Nigeria and we are not getting it right.
Many male politicians, loot and commit all atrocities.

Just mention Okonjo-Iweala and Allison-Madueke, they'll give you 1,000 reasons why women shouldn't be in power forgetting good deeds of Magareth Ekpo, Oby Ezekwesili, Dora Akunyili.

When they err, human beings are imperfect.
When women err, women are devil.

Oloun maje for hypocrisy!