Family › Re: Is A 13-year Old Girl Too Young To Carry A Designer Bag Around? by cococandy(f): 4:38am On May 16, 2015 |
You can get designers for your kids. Maybe not the very exorbitant ones.
I don't see anything bad there. |
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 4:27am On May 16, 2015 |
edwife: Papaya and mango puree with a touch of honey. mmm looks good. |
Family › Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by cococandy(f): 2:25am On May 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: Cococandy you see how love is killing this boy A thread I haven't even showed up at Na wa o Di di Nna contact i nu m privately yom ayiyo si m na suga na gu gi Lovu ga ha agbapu kwa gi ara  the thing ehn |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 8:09pm On May 15, 2015 |
steeze: Thank you very much for pointing this out to everyone. I have already stated their stand on this matter.
I really need to be sure of her before taking any concrete step. you know you could try to convince them that you really want this and they may support you if they see how much it means to you. Except you don't really want it. |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 8:07pm On May 15, 2015 |
babyosisi: Did he say so? They want him to forget the baby yea. He said they adviced him to leave the child and the child will come find him when he's grown.  Not good of them but his hands are tied in that aspect. So going with elders is kind of out of the question since no one will go with him. |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 7:59pm On May 15, 2015 |
babyosisi: Instead of him to contact me privately and tell me sugar mummy is hungrying him ,he is using gra gra to express his love He thinks it's every lady that likes the agbero type I like classy men with just a tinge of agbero  I don't like them straight up gangsta   |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On May 15, 2015 |
moca: He didn't know this.
What happened would have been evaded had he gone with his people. Abi he no get family? It has passed the stage of him,his gal and her mum. his family don't support. What is he going to do? He can't force them to like the girl and the child. |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 6:02pm On May 15, 2015 |
Op you've heard. Don't abandon your baby and hope he will come looking for you. Bad idea and too risky. That man will swoop in and save the day as the good guy who stepped up when you abandoned them (that's the story he will be told) Don't let anyone intimidate you and take your child from you.
The lord is your strength. |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 5:59pm On May 15, 2015 |
It is clear you have a crush on Babyosisi.  I can't read a post from you where you're not jerking off to her moniker whether she mentioned you or not  Nna jiri ya nwayo. dinachi: @ Steeze.My guy, you are finally getting the message. Your baby mama and her witch of a mother are on a mission to make your life miserable. Don't let them! Any woman asking you to stick it out with all the trash you have been put through is just a total replica of your baby mamas mother. For emphasis do not for your life pay any attention to any iota of advice from babyosisi. She has wrecked so many homes of gullible people who were stupid enough to pay any attention to her evil advice. The more I read about the life of your baby mamas mother, the more I see the true babyosisi. There is absolutely no difference between the two. Taking any advice from babyosisi is like taking advice from your baby mamas mother. The social welfare angle is a smart move I think you should make. Please hold your head high anywhere you go. Do not let anyone judge you. Your family is right too. I have seen it so many times. The child will always look for their father and will eventually hate their mother for keeping him from you. In the end you emerge the winner. Keep ignoring them but try and be sending money via the social welfare route to your child. I bet you after sometime, she too go tire and start begging. Happy, you got a job now. |
Family › Re: My Husband Beats Me As If We Are In Boxing Competition - Woman Tells Lagos Court by cococandy(f): 5:53pm On May 15, 2015 |
Not igando or ejigbo court this time around. Things are changing  |
Crime › Re: HORROR !!! Jungle Justice In Uyo (graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On May 15, 2015 |
Bluetooth2: What's wrong with the blackman ?
Why not free your mind and tell me about the justice system in Nigeria if it guarantees that the dead man will get his own justice.
If the society cannot ensure justice, nothing wrong if the people enforce justice by themselves. So stop blaming the blackman but your useless justice system ! of course there won't be anything wrong until you're burnt alive for 'doing' something you didn't do. |
Crime › Re: HORROR !!! Jungle Justice In Uyo (graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 3:40pm On May 15, 2015 |
Nigerian are something else. Pukes. What if they were innocent?
I give up on the humanity of black people. Beasts! |
Family › Re: Strange Issue About My Husband Pls Urgent Advice Needed by cococandy(f): 3:31pm On May 15, 2015 |
It's not really something to lose much sleep over. She needs to talk to him about it. Not judge him. Because if he's addicted to it and she becomes judgmental, he will withdraw from her and then she won't be able to help him.
If he's not an addict but only a recreational user, (that's what she needs to find it), then she might as well let him be. Most of the things we eat aren't good for us anyway and hemp is one of them. |
Family › Re: Girl 9 Stabbed Herself to death To Stop Being Married Out In Sokoto See Photo by cococandy(f): 3:21pm On May 15, 2015 |
What a waste. |
Family › Re: See Photo Of Nigerian Women In 1922 by cococandy(f): 3:20pm On May 15, 2015 |
What I like is their long-natural hair. Relaxer has killed our generation  Why their face come strong like that? I thought people said olden days women were happier than modern women are  |
Romance › Re: Can Someone Please Tell Me Why Its So Easy To Have SEX With Gals This Days. by cococandy(f): 2:13am On May 15, 2015 |
natas22: Running into conclusion did i ever mentioned i was the one that was having all the fun. So funny it's observations from my male friends. After such acts guys talk about it when hanging out ok stop this your hate speech bro and show more love hate can't and will never take you any where. LoL why are not worried about your male friends that are so easy to have sex with? Silly |
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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 9:24pm On May 14, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Salad. Entrée
Suya and pasta . Main dish.
No room for my dessert. Still waiting for the meal to go down . I had an 0rgasm eating the suya. Yum yum i like the Suya and pasta. Looks yummy. |
Politics › Re: Pics: Another Buhari Supporters Begin Trekking From Biu, Borno State by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On May 14, 2015 |
Very soon the roads of naija will be littered with trekkers  |
Family › Re: I Am Angry by cococandy(f): 6:01pm On May 14, 2015 |
babyosisi: Thanks my dear
I need to get off this thread I can't lose control at work that is a good idea. Reading the thread is even bringing back painful memories for me. I can imagine how you feel. |
Family › Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 5:58pm On May 14, 2015 |
edwife: Lol,see cococandy accusing me....
I am innocent 
Byvan is most likely the culprit.... i miss byvan. Somebody tell her it's time to come back |
Family › Re: I Am Angry by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On May 14, 2015 |
 babyosisi: Woke up this morning still crying I read through all our texts dating back two years The happy new year greetings and the hopes for all the good things that will happen The Mother's Day greetings of 2014 Her last visit and the arrangements for us to meet and attend an event Her text asking me to gist her of my naija trip last Christmas Her asking after after my parents in several texts As I read them I just wept and I will just yell out So you are now dead? You just died nno just like that!!! Then I turned to my husband and said,na so people dey take die ?
Then my last texts,several of them prayers upon prayers which she could no longer respond to because she was too weak  A strong willed go getter that makes things happen ,the life of the party,weak and in bed not able to rise up or speak Chai Ekwensu ogaghi a diri gi nma
my very last text which I asked her daughter to read out to her,I promised her all will be well I prayed my heart out I told her I longed to hear her powerful voice and her hearty laughter and that God will do it
This morning as I drove to work my mind drifted again to my dear friend and I yelled out Chai,so this is it nne m And tears filled my eyes again I called to speak with her daughter and my voice started quivering on the phone,thank God it was a voicemail. If I feel this sad I can only imagine how the children and husband must feel |
Family › Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by cococandy(f): 5:41pm On May 14, 2015 |
I don't see how you've disrespected her. Pls just ignore her if she insists on giving you attitude. How will she complain you're being rude to her if she keeps on giving you the cold shoulder  No be when person show face in your direction you go smile give am? Anyway But don't let it degenerate into something else. Talk to her when you see her and greet her normal. Don't stay away forever. So if you visit again and she's still forming hard face for you, ignore her totally. Abi she expects you to apologize to her when her daughter cheated on you  Maybe she didn't like the way you handled it, but she should understand you were hurting then. |
Family › Re: I Am Angry by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On May 14, 2015 |
 May she RIP. It is So sad |
Culture › Re: Sacrilege In My Village Where Man Lure His Brother And Wife For Cleansing....... by cococandy(f): 5:15pm On May 14, 2015 |
Naija  |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On May 14, 2015 |
You've done your part abeg. So for now don't worry about being an item with her. Just worry about your child.
don't let that man steal your child. Still reach out and insist on being the dad. Nna your child is your child and since you didn't abandon the child to grow up without you, you have a right to him. A right to be a part of his life if that's what you want.
Don't let anyone intimidate you. I see that's what that guy is there to do. |
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 4:13pm On May 14, 2015 |
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Family › Re: After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her by cococandy(f): 4:04pm On May 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: I started it and byvan picked it up
CC: Ngokafor oh see the culprit  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:02pm On May 14, 2015 |
Chillisauce: That's the best soup in this world. kalabari native soup could wake me up from the dead sef  you will forget your calorie counting and dive in abi?  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On May 14, 2015 |
I remember this soup. Naija got cuisine sha. Nice one. robosky02: How To Make River State Native Soup
Below are the ingredients for making the popular native soup in River state Nigeria, the ingredients would serve about 6×2 people, you can increase or decrease the quantity of each ingredient depending on the number people would be eating your food.
You can make this soup as simple as possible, if you can’t find the ngolo and prowns where you live, you can leave them out. I can’t find the english name for Ngolo, is it clams?
1KG of meat 10 pieces of stock fish ear (nti okporoko) 2 cups of sliced uziza leaves 2 medium size dry fish Cocoa yam as thickener (see image) 15-20cl of palm oil 2-3 cubes of maggi or knorr 1-2 cups of periwinkles 1-2 cups of ngolo 1 cup of ground crayfish Salt and pepper to taste. two handful of fresh prowns 2 spoons of ofor (alternative thickener)
How to Prepare Nigerian Native soup You might wanna start by parboiling the shrimps, wash and parboil with a small pot, add half cup of water, a cube of maggi and a pinch of salt, allow to boil for up to 5 minutes, remove the head and set aside in a clean plate.
STEP 1 I like to start by parboiling the meat with all the necessary ingredients, most cooks forget that parboiling the meat and obtaining the stock (water left after parboiling) is an important part of Nigerian cooking process.
I like to parboil the meat with just 2 cubes of maggi, 1 bulb of onions, salt and maybe a sachet of onga classic (a very popular Nigerian spice for soup). My choice of meat is hard to cook, takes about 50-60 minutes before you commence with the rest of the cooking.
Step 2 Use this time to prepare the other ingredients; wash and slice the uziza leaves.
Soak the stock fish and dry fish with boiled water and wash thoroughly to remove sand and center bone. Grind the crayfish and fresh pepper also, you can grind together or grind separately.
Step 3 Add the washed dry fish/stock fish in the boiling meat on fire, after about 30-50 minutes of cooking just the meat. Once they are soft and the water is almost dried (about 1 cup left) add about 5-7 cups of water, palm oil and the ground crayfish. This step was visually demonstrated in the video below, so if you like watching better than reading you can scroll down to see the video.
Allow the soup to cook for another ten minutes before adding salt to taste, a cube of maggi. Maggi is a natural food sweetener, used in making almost all the {foods eaten in Nigeria} you can refer to our ingredients catalogue for an in-depth understanding of all the ingredients used in making Nigerian foods.
Step 4 Add the washed/cleaned ngolo, stir, add the cocoayam, allow to dissolve in 8-10 minutes, if it is still very watery you can add a spoon of ofor, cook for three minutes before adding the periwinkles, prown and sliced uziza leaves which is likely the last ingredient while making River state native soup.
Allow to simmer for another five minutes and you just made Nigerian’s most popular native soup. |