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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by cococandy(f): 7:56pm On May 18, 2015

bukatyne:
Hmmm! Coco

I agree with you that women mostly champion the barbaric cultures et al against fellow women.

However, I find it amusing that the women who parrot This phrase are not even talking from This POV. It is more like 'I don't want to have a female boss; girls make bad friends' etc. Which makes me wonder who the Good ones are .

yea I realized that's the angle you're coming from.

I think it is silly of them anyways.
I've always loved having girlfriends.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:24pm On May 18, 2015*

jplay:
There're 5 two-faced people in here. They know themselves. She will start posting less dry plates now. Bunch of scattered food on a plate, lmfao.

Enjoy your Monday, folks.

@bold maybe.
Or they just liked your post but weren't among those that told you to mind your business. In that case, they wouldn't be two-faced.

But I get you jare.
This isn't the first time. (Actually,third if I'm right)
Someone will enter the kitchen to look for trouble and their post will get 10likes grin

Who are those liking the posts?

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:55am On May 18, 2015

jplay:
OK Aunty

5 people like my posts because I said the truth. I bet the same people who liked my posts are the ones saying I should mind my business, starting with Coco... . At least you cook stew for your own husband and your food isn't always so dry.

i definitely did not like your post.

I don't like amebo people.

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Family › Re: Things That Bring About Failure In Today's Marriage. by cococandy(f): 5:55am On May 18, 2015

Phema:

I swear, that feminism is bad gan. Kept me awake most of the night nursing my baby. Feminism! SMH

Hope you are doing alright?

doing great darl.

And our little one?

Family › Re: Things That Bring About Failure In Today's Marriage. by cococandy(f): 2:51am On May 18, 2015

Phema:
The only valid point you made is number 3. . . FEMINISM!!!

That is the cause of all the problems in this country and the world at large. From terrorism to corrupt government officials to fuel scarcity, epileptic power supply, bad roads, you just name it. . . All can be traced to feminism.

It's really the worst thing that can happen to humanity. Really. . .

Family › Re: Things That Bring About Failure In Today's Marriage. by cococandy(f): 2:48am On May 18, 2015

You go soon tire to educate ignorant nairalanders always ranting about shyte at every opportunity they get

Moana:
are these not the same women who go around being everyone else's headache when their husband dies and cannot take care of their kids financially because they felt following ones dreams is useless? Will they not be the same women who will expect another woman' s tax money help them take care of their kids when they become widows.
Feminism has never asked any woman to neglect her primary duty towards their children. Why the fvck do you think there is maternity leave if the aim is make sure women neglect their motherly duty?

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Family › Re: Husband Always Chatting And Calling Single Female Colleague by cococandy(f): 12:59am On May 18, 2015

Firstimer:
@ Cococandy, she's sort of an acquaintance. We stay on same street. Just getting to know each other more.
You can still leave ur advice

Well in this case the man is the one who needs advising.
He needs to change because even if he's not doing anything with those lady/ies, it is potentially dangerous for his marriage.
If he lets it go on for long enough, withdrawing will be hard for him.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:04pm On May 17, 2015

EfemenaXY:
Lol! If only....

You ladies are funny sha. Coco: lovely meal you've got up there. Me likely!

thank you

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:46pm On May 17, 2015

smartmom:
How about eating all without losing teeth or visiting any drugstore for any health issues?

that too

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On May 17, 2015

smartmom:
Cococandy, this your food takes the cake in yummicious sunday food o! FRIED rice and chicken with crispy skin. Looks well seasoned too

thanks

If you asked me what my two biggest wishes are, first would be millions of dollars, second would be to eat all I ever wanted without getting fat grin

Family › Re: Husband Always Chatting And Calling Single Female Colleague by cococandy(f): 9:54pm On May 17, 2015

A lady you overheard at the salon?
So are you going to go back to the salon to watch out for her and give her our responses,
do you know the lady in person?
Or is this just ameboism on your part?

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On May 17, 2015

Chillisauce:
at least na only down dem dey hold. Men kill everything starting from their fellow men in times of war, Mediterranean immigration, bombing etc to bushmeats, rats, dogs.
no one holds anyone down except you want to be held down.

true

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On May 17, 2015

Fried rice
Fried chicken
Plantain/beans Moi moi
Coleslaw

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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 9:31pm On May 17, 2015

See Oga's meal while I'm chewing salads and doing healthy oiless soups embarassed

In edwife's voice, "Beauty is pain"

indeed

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Family › Re: Pastor Interference In Relationships by cococandy(f): 7:51pm On May 17, 2015

If you or your spouse don't give any pastor the chance to interfere, they won't.
So don't blame the pastor, blame your guy.
If I were you, I'd say good riddance to bad rubbish.

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Politics › Re: Buhari Has No Problem Shaking Hands With Females (photos) by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On May 17, 2015

He's not the president elect of a Muslim country.
So what is he going to do?

Hug female leaders from other parts of the world who come to visit NIGERIA? Well he has no choice but to give them a handshake.

Good he's realized that early enough.

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Politics › Re: Official Portrait Of Buhari As He Drops General Title From May 29 by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On May 17, 2015*

Why is he dropping the title?
Is he not a general?
We still called obasanjo General even when he was civilian president.
Nothing wrong with his title jare.
No reason to drop it.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On May 17, 2015

jplay:
No offence but your food is always so dry and blah. You don't cook stew for your husband and kids?

Mind your business
Mind your business
Mind your business or post your own...
Mind your business
Mind your business
Charity begins at home

grin

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On May 17, 2015

Bukatyne here's example of what I'm saying.
I'm on one disgusting thread angry

and a foolish girl on there thinks a woman raped by her husband until she had a miscarriage has no case.
(He's your husband. The head of your body. Crappy kind of comments)

Now she's probably not the only one who said something similar to that, but hers is the most annoying because when some guys say it, although it is annoying, your annoyance will be diluted with the knowledge that they don't know what pregnancy is like or what being penetrated forcefully can be like.

A lady (even if she may not have been pregnant before) has had periods and probably had sex before and should know that being penetrated by force is not funny at all nor is pregnancy a walk in the park. That's a perfect example of why it is worse when women lack empathy towards other women than when guys do the same.

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Family › Re: Wife Loses Pregnancy Of Two Months After Rape By Pastor-husband by cococandy(f): 5:31pm On May 17, 2015

Jambsupport:
Let me lecture u as i discuss d topic. When u hear that husband is d head, he's d head ova u, family and even ur body. For every reaction, (complete it) a man if not insane can't just forcefully hav sex wit his wife. What u don't know is dat d wife must hav been arrogant due to recent happenings in OP's story or d wife must hav rejected d man several times and so he had his way. And again in d context of marriage, there's notin like rape. He's her husband not a stranger. I'm sorry i was not thinkin like u because u are simply bias and ignorant. Don't pay for ds, it's my lecture to ignorant ladies like u.

@bold, he Had his way AKA did it without u her consent also known as rape.

Did I hear you say he's not a stranger?
So only strangers can rape a woman?
Do you know more than 70 percent of rape victims were attacked by people they know? People they know enough to trust and be in a private location with?

You're even a bigger doofus than I thought.
Nne you owe me brain cells. I've lost quite a few reading your disgusting posts.

So a man is the head of your body that's why it is ok for him to rape you until you bleed and lose your pregnancy. (I don't even want to go into the other details of this their own case where he made her abort his kids because he didn't want to be a dad)
But of course that is ok too by you since he's the 'creator' of her body which she has no rights over. undecided

Madam lecturer. see lecture grin

Thanks for educating me.

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Family › Re: How Do I Tell Her That, She IHow Do I Tell Her That, She Is Not Good In Cocking? by cococandy(f): 4:14am On May 17, 2015

If you can do better than her in the kitchen, then cook sometimes too. I'm sure she may feel inclined to improve if you always present better meals than she has to offer.

That and catering school are your options.

Family › Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by cococandy(f): 3:38am On May 17, 2015

Another pained * on the loose.

Shey feminism is also responsible for the legalization of gay guy grin

since it is responsible for lesbianism?

Nairaland and asss arguments.

Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by cococandy(f): 12:15am On May 17, 2015

I think what that phrase means is that it is worse when women pull each other down than when men do.

How will you talk about women empowerment and hope to be successful when it is women that will still run the idea down because of some pseudo-goodism? Probably done to impress men who most times don't give a hoot.

Talk about many culture that are oppressive against women and you will find that it is women who are also the champions propagating such practices.
Who are those that are first to advice abused women to stay and fast and pray? Women.
Who are those teaching growing girls to value themselves so lowly that sharing one 'blokkos' in the name main chick is ok? You guessed right. Women.
Plus many other annoying examples too much to type here.

So in general, women are part of the circus holding themselves down.

But it is worse because it is women who should be less judgmental of each other.
So if you have two enemies and one of them is yourself, the worse enemy of the two is you.
Because you have to first make the effort to help yourself before anyone will listen to you.

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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On May 16, 2015

opemipo9:
@EfemenaXY thanks for the compliment. The before pics was the year I gave birth to my second child(2013).and the after pics was taken on Friday.

yea you really did great.
Inspiring.

Family › Re: Wife Loses Pregnancy Of Two Months After Rape By Pastor-husband by cococandy(f): 8:26pm On May 16, 2015

Jambsupport:
How difficult it is for u to understand just letters? Leave me abeg.

Lmao. Nothing to say?

If a man can't rape his wife, it follows that this man in question didn't rape his wife. No?
He has committed no offense then according to your theory of rape not being applicable in marriage.

There is rape in marriage.

Now you know.
Next time don't be typing nonsense on a public forum. angry

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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 8:08pm On May 16, 2015

ladygogo:
Its actually quite filling compared to the cup of tea I usually have in the mornings.

so which one you dey? cheesy

Trying to lose or maintain weight?
I saw your wedding pic and if I remember correctly, you're quite slim.

Family › Re: Wife Brutalized By Her Husband (picture) by cococandy(f): 7:58pm On May 16, 2015

She will still stay and pray for change until the next scheduled beating which may not only paralyze her like he promised, but kill her as well.

No pity for her.
This can't be his first time hitting her.

If that's the life she wants for herself, good.

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Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 7:52pm On May 16, 2015

ladygogo:
Breakfast. Had this with a cup of tea(with skimmed milk and brown sugar ) and large flaky oats.

this is one lean breakfast cheesy

Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 7:40pm On May 16, 2015

I now have a large collection of flats.

Won't make that mistake again.

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

Coco, keep shakara aside when doing your runs. Bustling between terminals, catching the tube, trying to beat the early morning / late evening rush on your way to work/school and back home is best done with flat pumps. I tend to keep my high-heels in my bag and leave home with very flat shoes. When I get to the office, I take them off, place under my desk, and carry on with my high heels. They even last longer this way sef.

Lucky you didn't hurt yourself though.

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