₦airaland Forum

flyca:
No ma. Hehehehe. Its just a potted plant that we pet. Actually many of potted plants in the lab. Chinese people just love them.

ok

Troll

Old trick.

flyca:
Fellis, the thread has been sanitized. Pls come along. I'm itching to hear your story.

Another other beautiful stories, you are welcome

is that thing on your desk really weed like we joked?

This one is pure rape. There's no other definition for it. I hope justice is served.
@Moca, na wa o.
Were the boys small boys too?

This is so annoying to read.

Have they locked up the rapist/s yet?

babygirlfl:
Thanks. The one am looking for is the one for canning things and keeping it for a long time just like the all American pressure canner in the US.

google is there to make your life easier

SAMBARRY:
Team happily lazy and loving it

is that you? I no know Wetin to believe again.

Lolz.

OP here. Read and digest.

EfemenaXY:
I don't think she's necessarily being selfish, but concerned.
True, her father has the right to live his life and be happy, but he also has an obligation to look after his very dependent children. From what she's posted, he's got 3 of them to look after (financially).
Krisgift: You mention that your dad's retired. So does this new lady (his intended wife) have a supporting means of income? Does she work? If not, how does your dad intend to look after you lot, himself, his wife-to-be, and the kids they might have from the union assuming she's of childbearing age?
You're twenty-one and and adult. So I think you should have a polite (and respectful) heart-to-heart with your dad and table your concerns to him, and hear what he has to say.
I'm suggesting this on the assumption that you've got a good father-daughter relationship between you both?

buygala:
ok....

This is a very very tricky one


On the one hand, Your father didn't come into this world just to make you and your siblings happy .. As a human being, he is also entitled to his own happiness
.....

On the other hand, Your father also owes you guys a duty not needlessly stretch his already meagre and uncertain finances by trying to raise a second family, when he has not even finished raising the first one .... not to talk of the possible family relationship friction which may result from the steps mother's bad behaviour, you and your siblings' bad behaviour, or even from your father's perceived partiality towards his first or second family


Point is... You will have to personally find a custom-made solution which will fit the peculiarities of your family's circumstances. ... No effective solution can be proferred by strangers who have absolutely no idea of the nature of your present family situation, and the disposition of your to-be step-mum and your new 'step-siblings'.

Being an MOD must not be a fun job. Ishilove ndo/kpele.

You guys look great together

I no dey read the case again. Once I see Igando court, I move on. Their wahala too much

@bold jeez. How frustrating and heartbreaking that must have been for him .

bellong:
Amen... Very very painful. To think that if the driver and passengers helped them, they could have survived it. He did try to call for help with his phone but nobody understood why he was calling as the call keep dropping.

@Chillisauce,

Are you sure it is exercise you do on that lonely road or attending meetings with Robin Hood....

I hope the matter has been settled.
Love you Moca
Love you efemenaxy
Love you too sambarry but take your time . Ra ra o

babygirlfl:
I like your person and won't like us to get into an aguement because before you know it, some people will say things and try to turn us against each other. My dear lets just forget it. We are on Nigeria after all.

Ihuomadinihu:
Ok. Let's face the cowards and drop Ika and Igbo palaver.

softysparky:
Eyaaah, happy mother's day to you nne.

thank you

u21day:
I can almost imagine a can of pepper spray in your hand.

I'm that obvious huh?

You get luck. I thought you were going to type one bullshyt conspiracy theory

Ok. Her name is isioma. You know that's a proper Igbo name so I took it for granted that they are Igbo.

But I think you're correct about the different spellings because they tend to use the E alphabet in place of A. When she talks to her sister in their language, I can't understand a word she says but she understand every word of Igbo I speak and speaks better than me even though I'm very good at speaking and writing Igbo.
I just assumed theirs was a harder dialect.

Maybe not so Igbo afterall.

babygirlfl:
I don't know if it is the right way to put it but our language is part Igbo and part Bini. We bear names that sound Igbo but a little bit different like Emeke instead of Emeka. I know many people from there who will just accept to be called that maybe because they did not grow up there or they just can't be bothered with any aguement. Formally there is no such thing as delta Igbo. It's just a name that stayed after being used to describe us for a long time. For example you could never fill any official document as an Anioma Deltan and say you are Delta Igbo.

lezz:
absolutely correct.

what's correct? Na question I ask not a statement.

It's like there's a Mother's Day every two months or so. In my opinion, I think it needs to be uniform.

babygirlfl:
Do you mean Agbor in Delta state, that is not an Igbo town and read your history well because the Obi of Agbor is known as the youngest crowned monarch in history.

i always thought agbor people are Igbo. I've a sis-in-law from there and she passes for Igbo. Even speaks it Better than I do. Hmm. We learn everyday. If people ask me to name delta Igbo regions, i always start from asaba then agbor

Ok so why is their king an Obi if they are not Igbo?

softysparky:
Is today mother's day?

yea it is.

EfemenaXY:
Lovely flowers Coco.
Happy Mother's Day.

same to you real mama

So if nairalanders tell you it is expensive, you won't marry her ni?

Ask you future parents-in-law. they will give you a good idea of what to expect.

Hmmm. Sensationalism.
What's with all the distorted ideas of marriage there. None of them is ideal jare.

Aww. It's all fun bae. Normal teasing things. At least me I'm just teasing you.

Don't get upset about it.
Tell me when it's enough so I will stop blowing the kisses

moca:
I don't understand,why d fuss?
What is the problem?
U guys r taking this too far and I don't like it one bit.

I can't snap. Period.
That I said I cook doesn't mean I did the cooking.
I can instruct while sitting down.I hardly stand.

Efe, even u of all people
Or bc I come online to chat, that makes me very healthy to move around or must I spill everything here?

If hubby is cooking I will be snapping cos I wanna show my e friends?

I said it times without number. I can't snap.
Most times I'm too dizzy and until I finish eating,i won't get myself.

I'm disappointed honestly.

Abeg make una marry una thread.
I need no pressure from any angle.

Chillisauce:
its a great feeling i tell you
awww so nice. Love the flowers.

Happy mothers day.

happy Mother's Day dear

@bold exactly

ifyalways:
I don't think 100K per month is too much however I think the OP believes it's much/ the wife is not prudent solely because the wife is NOT working. That's the truth boy!

That feeling of resentment is gradually building up, it would do your wife a lot of good to get up and find a job.

100K a month
Foodstuff, including children's lunch pack : 60K
Herself : 20K
Petty stuff she won't ask u: 20K

EfemenaXY:
My sister, na so na...and yes, you are right. It does take it's toll on the joints. The knees to be precise...so that's why I alternate the days I run. Once every two days. The days I don't run, I do Scola Dondo's intensive workout dance videos. All three of them - twice in one go. I end up sweating so much, I suspect I burn even more calories from this than running!

So that, then later in the evening, my sit-ups and lower abs workout.

It is addictive, especially when you see the pounds shedding off like kilodey.

@bold, so true.

I'm on a diet that made me lose 5pounds in just about a week or more and I'm feeling like "ha it's working. I don't Want to stop." Now I feel guilty about eating what I really like or forgeting to work out in a day. It is an now an addiction.

Chillisauce:
so you dont eat eba and your run 12miles?
I doff my hat. Where is that energy coming from? pls dont say cucumber

Don't mind efe. I drive about a little above 12miles to school.
I can't imagine someone running that distance. She wan turn to Chioma ajunwa

moca:
Nne,i no try?

you try cook am. But not sharing is not fair