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xynerise:


It should have auto corrected "Life" to "Love" as well

FrancisTony:
You forgot that nature made you that way and it's your world.

xynerise:
No be "Spice" of life again?

xynerise:
Be the 7th. What is/are your reason(s)?

Imanuelle:
No be small gbam you yarn.

In my own house, guests are royalty. Even if its for like a week.

When you try to sweep, you're told to go and rest, but if you insist, then game, if not, no one holds it against you.

How can a guest jump into a family kitchen in less than 2hrs after arrival?

I hate pretence, and that's why its not even encouraged in my house.

breadplanets:
The guy's mother should have made her displeasure known right there and then na. Instead of laughing and gisting with the girl like all was well and then saying what she said after they had gone. I remember when i went with my fiance to his uncles house for the first time, his wife brought out garri and correct oha soup and i said no o that i have eaten. The uncle's wife there and then said that i have failed her own test o by refusing her food. Nna na so i swallow 2 balls of garri o just to please her. So here now the babe might not have thought about the implications of her action. Anyway mothers in law should just take it easy abeg. Their own daughters will also go to another woman's house and probably make 1 or 2 mistakes. Its not the end of the world.

Bowaley17:
True she might not be hungry. But she's supposed to go help her MIL in the kitchen.

babyosisi:
It's almost as if I read you

Idowuogbo:
awww...your diy looks good.

BABE3:
Everyone is doing really good. I'm super impressed.

Cococandy (sorry for calling you out), please don't waste your money on "fitness or diet programs". Those things are useless. Plus you can find everything they're selling free of charge online.

I've never spent money to gain fitness knowledge; everything is know is from free knowledge on the internet and from people.

We all know what is healthy; it's just the discipline to go through with healthy living that we lack.

look at babyosisi now, she wants to tell us she doesn't know that diet coke is poison. ?

Bollinger:
Yep. Posting for the sake of it. This m.oron forgets we are not dealing with a loving wife but a troublesome wench. Drastic times requires measures. Nowhere in my post did i say lay a finger on her. Just psychological manipulation to correct a deficiency. Let me guess you are going to suggest loving her till she changes. Newsflash, that's how the OP got into the mess he is now. And this mentality that once you are married love alone will solve everything. Good luck with that. Being married is like running a company, as much as you use your heart, you also use your head.

MRBrownJ:
my account MrBrownJay was deleted by someone who i still dont know who that was. could have been someone who had access to my pc but, at the time i received a BS email from NL spammers, and the next day my account was gone. never was sure who did it and couldnt be bothered to email Seun etc. so i logged into the secondary account i had, MRBrownJ (used whenever i was banned), to see if someone was using the 1st one or not, but it wasnt so i just let it slide as i thought it may come back eventually. after a few months, decided to use the secondary one, although i'd rather have MrBrownJay back.

5minsmadness:

moca:
Ntorr
Carry ur cross alone
They have not yet arrived o!
Kikikikiiii

SAMBARRY:
If a man did this it won't be news so why is this news?




aren't there a lot of cases where a man is married and he still takes another woman to his mother for approval and wedding goes ahead.

I think I saw something like that on nl recently. So why all the rants



I guess the teachers are impacting knowledge which they are seeing the results

Chillisauce:
Pls can someone tell me the difference

5minsmadness:
Omg!
Fantastic post bro!
Manlove! (no homo)

Chillisauce:
Nice one.
Good thing the son did but one should always prepare for the worst in case you don't get what you want.
Whether we like it or not, on one knows the future of their kids but they can hold the government responsible for their future.
Home for the elderly should be made available in Nigeria. They get to mix up with their agemates while the busy children visit during the visit days. Better than dying alone in a village somewhere.

They are taken care of , Have extra curriculum activities, date again etc.

The world is fast moving.
Private investors in this is also welcomed.

Medical practitioners, be first to create the trend.

Chillisauce:
going behind our back and paying 400USD that you would have shared for the house .

If you want to know how much cal you require, Google it and supply info based on your age, height, weight and activities. It pops up. No money charged.

For cal counts, Google each food you plan to eat. Voilà.

Oya Pay my own 200USD sharpaly

bukatyne:
Sure the kids would like it?

@OP: Lovely family like babygirl said

@Leaving parents: It is very possible to. It takes conscious effort not to especially when they are working states apart.

icedbeatz:
Nooooooo! someone didn't marry him rather a special, wonderful, amazing and graceful lady married him unlike you dumb, telemundo mofokas we see gallivanting and ranting about everywhere. Let me tell you something that lady is a rare gem because she has the qualities of a wife or a lady that deserves to be married.

1. her level of tolerance is adorable..
2. she loves unconditionally (like only a mother would)

3. she is caring to a fault which I and almost all guys would want in a lady.

4. she has a sweet heart that forgives so gracefully and that makes her an angel.

5. she's not vengeful like most of you mofos,

6. she knows/understands how a man's mind works (she truly thinks like a man) consciously or unconsciously which makes her a TRUE AFRICAN QUEEN,

7. Shes well trained because a lot if you would have killed that nigga or shower him with insults that are out if this planet because most if you are inventors when it's comes to insults, e.g here on nairaland.

8. she has a very strong mind and essence because after all she went through she didn't let it define who she is.

9. She's secure because she knows what she wants like her husband and most importantly HOW TO GET IT, which most of you twerps just don't and because she didn't leave the guy just to prove that she's "secured" (insecure people always want to prove that they're not insecure)

10. I can go on and on but lemme stop here she's wise unlike most ladies that walk around with HALF BURNT BRAIN CELLS from the saloon drier.

@freecocoa ihuomadinihu bukatyne evegreen

Chillisauce:
N'a here you hide?
Pls I'm waiting for my 200USD You are owing me

Bollinger:
Good. At least you have had a discussion on this issue. Step number one complete; communication. I will give you a tip on how to restore normalcy. It will be hard, especially if you love her but it is something that needs to be done.

You have to start being aloof. Don't offer or give any kind of opinion or advice on any issue unless she asks. If you give your opinion on an issue and she contests it, don't go into a debating contest, just concede. There is nothing worse than giving a semi silent treatment and one line response to your spouse. She'll be dying inside. But, here is the trick; you need to start stamping your authority on other issues, like when you want your dinner, how the food needs to look and taste, how your home needs to look like etc. These are non negotiable standards that you must be disciplined enough to institute and enforce. These are just examples. I don't know you, so you need to find things that you need to implement and enforce. Contravening any of your rules will mean a sit down with her. Make a big deal out of the smallest thing. I don't mean go into a shouting match, but discuss what you did not like and how it must not happen again. I guarantee you, she'll start watching everything she does around you so as not to piss you off.

babygirlfl:
Lovely family. Good wife, good son/husband and good mother.