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alutacontinua:
kiss me

lastpage: Marriage is a commitment, by TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PEOPLE, agreeing to live together, with the understanding that they are not perfect, will annoy each other, will fight, will disagree, will occasionally get frustrated with the other but come whatever may, will be open to "discussion and shifting-ground" for the purpose of reaching a compromise governed by the simple rule that "TOGETHER IS FOREVER" and "One person must blow cold, when the other is blowing hot".

There is not perfect marriage but the moment you both decide independently and individually that NO MATTER WHAT, WE WILL STICK TOGETHER AND RESOLVE OUR PROBLEM WITH LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER, THAT YOU ARE BETTER TOGETHER THAN SEPARATED,.....You will eventually mature to overcome your challenges.

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Gerrard59:
The problem with that is most Nigerian men don't like to see a single working class lady being successful at her given career.
We have persons who have been coaxed into marriage thinking with all things are possible and they will easily be happy. Men enter marriages and still sleep outside their matrimonial home.
Same men who forced, persuade, mock women into marriages would later come and vomit out that variety is the spice of life.

Like I have always been a saying, Marriage is not everything and marriage cannot be compulsory. Live your life the way you deem fit, as long as you're happy with your life, anybody else opinion can go to hell.

justwise:
No woman should settle for less in the name of marriage. You get married because you are In love with somebody and share things in common, you don't get married because the society wants you to.

In Nigeria we make women feel guilty and unwanted because they are not married at our own time and when they got married to a wrong man because of pressure from the society and the marriage ended in disaster we call them 'second-hand'

Let's allow people to make their choices at their own time and live with it.

freecocoa:
Dey there na, her husband used to beat her na so she was scared of him, she was even begging us to let the MIL do what she wanted.

I have seen what abuse can do to people, that's why I don't joke with the matter cha cha.

aisha2:
Rumours around here is he infected her and abandoned her to marry her friend hence she committed suicide

ileobatojo:
Wait, is there really someone on here that said he will murder any gay person he sees? To cleanse the land? And then goes about quoting bible verses?

God please deliver us from these kinds of 'humans'.

freecocoa:
I don't think grandma cut out any part of the baby's but she was still circumcised, I remember my mum said there was a way people did it with bare hands, something like really pressing the clitoris real hard and then using hot water on it, I'm not sure I got all the, details but yea, they still try to circumcise female children without outright removal of the clit.

Funny enough, many people(especially from Abia and Imo) still practice this barbaric nonsense till tomorrow, I know how much a cousin of mine and I, had to say, to save another cousin's baby from this evil, my cousin's MIL circumcised her(my cousin)1st daughter and wanted to do same to the 2nd but luckily for the infant,we were around and refused, it wasn't easy o because the baby's mother was like "my husband would be angry o, I don't want trouble" bla bla bla, in the end sha, the girl was left alone.

It's really a pity, they sha never born person wey go try that nonsense with my child.

Phema:
Road trip? Hope you had fun?

Oh, I do owe you big time.

Cheers.

SAMBARRY:
I JUST TAYA FOR HOW RE-TAR-DED SOME PEOPLE CAN BE

bukatyne:
I didn't know you have talent like this

I have definitely missed a lot

Manny4life's list looks good and Herzumper looks like it (not sure , don't know her outside NL apart from slim (not sure the picture I saw of her is slim) but then Manny can review the slim part).

We don't know if Manny fits Herzumper's list.

Phema:
Lol. I'm in far away Phoenix ooo.

Hope you're good? Hubby? Regards.

moca:
Noo!
He is a handsome young guy. I attest to that but d prerequisite no dey small.

He must be wondering who I am by now

freecocoa:
I can't take it anymore, feck you all round mutter, you are just so stup1d it's annoying, like what is inside your brain box for crying out loud? You are disgusting, tufiakwa gi.

moca:
Matchmaking indeed

Cococandy, dont waste ur precious time as regards manny4life.
He is to selective
Very very,i tell u.

CFCfan:
As if he's the one getting married

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o!

This kitchen is getting hot as in smoking hot.

Pls can it be requested for the sake of openness that all toasting be carried out in plain, but simple Queen's English?

~ Herzumpther vs Manny4life

~ Datalossvictim1 vs 735i

And their chaperoning matrons a.k.a cococandy observe this golden rule?

Tenks!

#Signed, Sealed, & Witnessed by all cooks in the kitchen.