Celebrities › Re: Photo Of Buhari When He Was In School (Throwback) by cococandy(f): 3:33am On Jan 15, 2015 |
eaglechild: If you like throw it back to nursery school, pictures do not equate to certificate.  |
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 3:32am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Oh it is a fact that women especially black women have surpassed men in the area of education and career in the US red101: I can't stand DUMB topics like this. Nigerian women are formidable hard workers. Everywhere I go, I see successful Nigerian women. In fact, I see more successful career Nigerian women than men here in the USA. We do not depend on men to buy us recharge cards. This thread is DUMB.
Some men want to eat their cake and have it. either you pick the submissive girl and be prepared to buy her menstrual pads and tampons because she is not self-sufficient or you pick the career girl but know that you can't boss her around. |
Politics › Re: Jonathan Commissions Cenotaph For Soldiers Killed By BH Since 2011 (Photos) by cococandy(f): 12:13am On Jan 15, 2015 |
It is a good thing he did |
Politics › Re: INEC Spread Sheet Showing Presidential Candidates And Qualifications [photo] by cococandy(f): 12:09am On Jan 15, 2015 |
You guys keep screaming change now change has come what will you do? Vote the popular guys?
Better look for one unpopular and untried fellow there and give him a try.
We have tried the two main people we already have and while one is not ok for the job,the other will be a big mistake to vote for. |
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 10:49pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Arsenate: I think you are referring to the older generation of Nigerian women. trust me the younger ones now are so lazy; moving around with a sense of entitlement. this is a fact even they can't dispute. stop using nairaland as your bible. Use your eyes. travel around. I've seen more hardworking nigerian ladies and women in the parts of nigeria that I've been to than men. And that is my own fact. I know there are lazy women same as there are men but it not a universal thing in Nigeria. |
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
freecocoa: You took the words out my mouth.
They just make it seem like Naija women sit around all day doing nothing, like duh! Get acquainted with your environments people. in every sphere. Hard working women. I wonder where nairalanders get their facts from. |
Family › Re: Should A Woman Help Her Fiancé To Pay Her Bride Price? by cococandy(f): 10:22pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Where there is understanding, it shouldn't be a big deal. Even if the man can afford everything . If she can find a way to take on some of the list requirements,then no harm in it.
At least it sends across the message that the girl and her family aren't out to milk him but are doing it because they can't side step that's process of the traditional marriage. |
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 10:11pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
The nigerian women I know are more hard working than the men. |
Family › Re: I Need Advice Urgently Before Doing Something Crazy. by cococandy(f): 10:08pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
You don't even love her anymore. Why punish yourself getting married just because your wedding plans are advanced and you can't call it off. So you're just getting married to save face? You shouldn't even have let things get to that stage since you knew you had so much angst against her in your mind. How do you know she agreed to marry you for love? Maybe you're a means to an end for her in certain ways. Is that what you want for yourself? how do you intend to pay her back in her own coin? Cheating on her ? Lol.  Dude that's messed up as you would end up hurting yourself and not her. You don't cut off the ear to spite the head. If she's marrying you for her own selfish reason cheating on her as revenge for what she did to you in the past and what she will probably still do in the near present won't make a difference to her. Just your loss all round. Sorry it is true. If you're sure she's sincere in her promise to change then good for you. If you're not sure about her sincerity, then pls pause and make sure you know what you're doing before you cuff yourself to her but don't enter the marriage with this mindset.. |
Family › Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by cococandy(f): 7:37pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Ilekeh: Woman, do you have a job?! Stop the nonsense about family.
A man that cares for his family won't seek for another family outside of his matrimony home.
Just imagine, the money you make will go towards sustaining his new family while you live in poverty.
Divorce him unless you don't mind being a second wife.
Give him parental rights, but tell your child (when he is grown enough to understand) that his father is a snake. |
Family › Re: Is Life A Blessing Or A Curse ? Or Just Pointless by cococandy(f): 7:15pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
OP life is a blessing as long as you remember to get up every time you fall down.
Time. There is nothing as wonderful as time.
It heals. It repairs. Time will even make these horrible days seem like those good old days when they are gone.
It Is ok to fall but Just remember to stand up once you're done with the self pity and helplessness.
When you begin to get everything you ever wished for, then you won't see life as pointless anymore but it will take time and until then pls do away with negativity. It could actually stop you from getting there. |
Politics › Re: 7 Impressive Ways President Jonathan Fought Corruption (No. 3 May WOW You) by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Flets: Six REASONS TO VOTE GEJ
1) Consolidate on the agricultural policy - If all we can achieve in the next 4 years is feed ourselves alone without significant import, it would be equivalent to 31 trillion naira per annum assuming 500 naira per day for 170 million Nigerians for 365 days. That is a massive market with mighty potentials for wealth to average Nigerians and significant employment.
2) Sustain the automobile policies - With five car assembly plants nearing completion as at Dec 2014 and another 10 targeting completion by Dec 2015. We can commence and sustain car assembly. By 2017, the car manufacturers will commence manufacturing of the spare parts in-country. and with the re-invigoration within the power sector and ajaokuta steel plant, this industry will be the soul of manufacturing in the whole of Africa. Nigeria will become a car export country for the region in the next 5 to 6 years
3) Ensure continuity on power roadmap en-route constant power - Nigeria is few years to constant power, with lots of power plants nearing completion already, the ongoing gas assembly plant in Delta state, the ongoing investment by the private investors and the bids in hand for foreign competitors that will be introduced in 2016 .... we cannot afford to distort any of these ongoing plans. The story about constant power will soon be history
4) Ensure true democracy is further entrenched into our society. 4 more years of freedom of speech/ information and free/ fair elections will deepen our democracy for better years. Autocracy, intimidation, press bondage and unfair elections will be alien to us come 2019. And any government afterwards can only continue or better the process because the foundations would have fully solidified
5) Ensure that our infrastructures get the desired attention including our roads, railways, airports etc and sustained for the long term. Ensure that the oil and gas sector is deregulated through removal of subsidy to allow private sector participation with the consequent emergence of numerous refineries and petrochemical industries. Continue set up of the right institutions to fight corruption like the e-wallet system for fertilizer scam, biometric registration for ghost workers scam, pension reforms for pension scam etc.
6) Ensure that our northern brethren get some education through a sustained alamajiri education system. This will further make them productive and less vulnerable to violence and destruction
SEVEN REASONS I WILL NOT VOTE BUHARI
1) It will be a blow on our democracy that we distort a pleasant Nigeria future for a man who ended our nascent democracy 30 years ago
2) The name Buhari is globally associated with Dog, baboon, blood, sharia crusade, death, anarchy, coup plotting, tribal high handedness etc and this cannot be the best fit for Nigeria in 2015
3) The man Buhari has not shown any plan for Nigeria, so far its been a campaign of paying 5000 naira to 25 million Nigerians which is totally laidback and unsustainable. Stabilizing crude oil prices by buhari as promised is also not possible. Feeding the school children is not sustainable and not what Nigeria needs at the moment..... No concrete plans for the Nigeria future
4) Unfortunately, a man that has Obj, Atiku, tinubu, Amaechi etc who have wrecked the Nigerian society as his support base cannot mean change in 2015. He cannot jail the hands that fed him meaning jailing by Buhari can only be sectional and based on favouritism. Buhari is also not open to setting up the right systems and institutions to make corruption in the various sectors almost impossible.
5) It will be a disgrace to Nigeria that a 72 year old retired general who showed open disdain to the Nigeria army for fighting Bokoharam and threw his weight behind bokoharam (http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/buhari-military-offensive-against-boko-haram-anti-north/149256/) will be the president of Nigeria where other nations are joining forces to fight terrorism all over the world
6) How can we have a president whose educational qualification is in contention in 2015? Would it have been easier and better if the requested certification is shown to the electorate?. Even if the certificate exists, calling the bluff of the electorate for whom you beg for their votes is the height of insensitivity on the part of the general at this time.... much more when he is power
7) In this period of Nigerian growth, we cannot go for uncertainties. Though I do not consider this a political point, but a reaction to a Buhari's presidency in the SS through resumed militancy will pull all our growths to a halt and the economic suffering will be unprecedented. Four more years under GEJ will ensure complete diversification of the economy through agriculture, automobile and oil&gas downstream after which an uprising in the SS will have minimal impact to the country's economy |
Politics › Re: 7 Impressive Ways President Jonathan Fought Corruption (No. 3 May WOW You) by cococandy(f): 3:43pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Firefire: [size=18pt]Only the people that can open their eyes will see that Dr. Goodluck Jonathan is the best that can happen to Nigeria at the moment and NOT any Octogenarian. [/size] if not Boko haram menace,GEJ's record would be almost 'relatively' sterling. But the truth is a 21st century nation like Nigeria with her position and wealth should have crossed these levels we are celebrating now. I only give him credit for trying. Continuity is the problem. No incumbent continues from where they other stopped. If they did, our progression would have been a lot more improved now. |
Family › Re: Meet The Nigerian Woman Who Married At 43, Gave Birth At 60 ( Photo ) by cococandy(f): 1:35pm On Jan 14, 2015*. Modified: 4:57pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: The people in the Bible got hundreds of years old, didn't they?
The question is whether it is responsible to have kids at this age. It is not ideal but life is not perfect. At least if she's looking at a normal life span, the child will be over 20 before she(mama) dies. the child can take care of herself then. |
Family › Re: Rates Of Divorce At Its Peak,why. by cococandy(f): 1:09pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
lilmax: When people learn not to involve anyone else in marriage then divorce rate will decrease |
Family › Re: This Got Me Confused by cococandy(f): 1:04pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
What's wrong with what the pastor said? Oh you went hoping he would tell you you will be rich?
Abeg leave the correct pastor alone. He understands the realities of life. Not the con-men kind of pastors who only preach 'this week you shall have financial breakthrough' 'Come sow a seed to make it work'
No wonder some of them only talk about wealth. they obviously see that's what people want to hear: |
Family › Re: Meet The Nigerian Woman Who Married At 43, Gave Birth At 60 ( Photo ) by cococandy(f): 12:55pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
It was her time. |
Politics › Re: Abia Traditional Rulers Disown Monarch Who Bestowed Title On Buhari by cococandy(f): 12:51pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
You should have stopped at the first sentence. That was all I needed to know. The rest is political jargon. What makes you think I care who wins what? In this Nigeria that ALL politicians are die hard corrupt you think I've time to tear my shirt over them? samibode: Owelle Rochas Okorocha has a lot of titles from the north and west same with ngige. U think its wrong to give buhari a title yet u see no problem crowning stella Oduah just immediately she was removed for stealing i can really see why buhari doesn’t fall in the category of title holders. tribalists dat there is d reason why d presidency eludes you. As rochas is der u call him a fulani cockroach that he is an housa man now and yet this guy is d only one closest to taking u guys to the seat of power or u think an ibo man can make an ibo man president without fulani or Yoruba? Did gej make himself president u guys should think man else in 20 years time all u will still have gotten would be enough reasons to keep mumuring and hating other tribes. |
Politics › Re: Abia Traditional Rulers Disown Monarch Who Bestowed Title On Buhari by cococandy(f): 7:00am On Jan 14, 2015 |
Someone pls educate me .
Do Hausa or Fulani or other tribes give title to other tribes the way Igbos Rush to dash titles to different people from all walks of life?
I've not heard of an Igbo man being crowned a special title by a Fulani or Hausa monarch. |
Family › Re: Jilted Wife 'chops Off Husband's joystick Twice After Catching Him Cheating by cococandy(f): 6:55am On Jan 14, 2015 |
 The woman get strong hard mind sha. It is not worth it. |
Travel › Re: 37 Pictures That Prove Australia Is The Most Dangerous Country on the Planet by cococandy(f): 5:34am On Jan 14, 2015 |
Ewwwwwwwww |
Crime › Re: Woman Jumps From A Building And Her Butt Implant Explodes! *viewer Discretion* by cococandy(f): 3:25am On Jan 14, 2015 |
Really sad. What could have driven her to jump? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:15am On Jan 14, 2015 |
CFCfan: I was making a joke in reference to the FP thread  oh. I get it now. Lmao |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:58am On Jan 14, 2015 |
CFCfan: Ok. But I don't expect them to pound yam for me.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:21am On Jan 14, 2015 |
CFCfan: Does Subway count as fast food? yes now. What is it again? Just that it belongs to the healthy class |
Celebrities › Re: Stella Damasus: “Why I’ll Never Put Condoms In My Man’s Suitcase” by cococandy(f): 12:16am On Jan 14, 2015 |
Perfect |
Crime › Re: Ex-Banker Forces His 9-Year-Old House Maid To Have MouthAction With Him In Benin by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Jan 14, 2015 |
braine: I would cover my wife if she did such! Even if it comes out to the world eventually, it won't be through my doing.
I am absolutely against children being molested, but I just don't support the attention the woman garnered to the situation. mtchew |
Crime › Re: Ex-Banker Forces His 9-Year-Old House Maid To Have MouthAction With Him In Benin by cococandy(f): 11:48pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
braine: What the guy did was wrong, but it already happened. A situation can not be so hard/bad that we use a knife to cut it. Now that its all public over the media, family and friends. What is the achievement? Does it solve the situation?
When the family of the Unilag guy that raped a girl heard of what he did, they went and tried to settle it amicably. And not aggravate the situation over the media.
I still maintain that the woman is shameless. If every wife/family is like her, what do you think the news would be like? All molesters should go to jail. There is no kid gloving them. If all wives were like this woman many molesters will be in jail now and our kids would be safe. I ask you again would you cover such evil if your wife did it? You think her image is more important than the safety of the kids? |
Crime › Re: Ex-Banker Forces His 9-Year-Old House Maid To Have MouthAction With Him In Benin by cococandy(f): 11:28pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
braine: A wife covers her husband's asss, no matter the situation or how horrible what he has done! Thats like a primary objective. She may scold him internally but not to the extent of calling his family and a pastor, to the extent of it being carried by the media. My opinion tho. a child molester is not a husband. Pls stop supporting evil. So you will cover your wife's assss if she's found to be sexually molesting and underage boy in your neighborhood or your house help? Gosh. Pls don't say this outside again. In fact go and ask for forgiveness. @ bolded is an outrageous thing to say especially since we are talking about child abuse here. So to protect her husband's crime the child suffers for it ? |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Covers Blanck Magazine - Pics by cococandy(f): 11:24pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
Cool photos |
Health › Re: Five Things You Must Not Do Before You Sleep by cococandy(f): 11:22pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
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Family › Re: He Has Changed.. Almost Completely by cococandy(f): 11:21pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
edwife: Abi o.... 
Anyway,as long as i enjoy my course no wahala... Have a great night....  You have a great night  . I'm still in my afternoon  |