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pickabeau1: If you have read the thread from the start..Islam says the girl must be mature

if the imams or whoever conducts the marriage rites are strict adherents of islam,then they must have a different definition for mature that much is obvious

They don't think it is best
I think they do. No one forces these men to marry the girls. So it must be the best in their opinion. I know a few muslims and they sort of have this unspoken consensus that 20 is TOO OLD. One of my muslim friends during nysc kept asking me why I was doing shakara by not accepting some prosposals coming my way then.he was truly flabbergasted as to why an OLD WOMAN like me (early20) was still not desperate to marry. Even with his education,he was waiting to get a job and go back home to pick a teenage wife.


I am curious as to why the practice is widespread myself

the reason is simple. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.
give their women a voice and we'll all see changes. When the wives have known such domination all their lives,they have no option but to prepare their daughters for the same.do you know how many women wish they had a chance to live the life they wanted? It's bad enough that many don't even dare to hope or plan or dream. Just be born and accept whatever life your father was magnanimous enough to give you. If he wants you married off,off you go and continue the slavery in the harem of your oga.if you run off and marry who you chose,you can be killed by your father and brothers to purge the family of the SHAME you brought them. I know that's not the case for all. But it is for the majority. And it is sad

pickabeau1: Lawd.. back to religious hate....

SOmethings never change

Cant a debate be devoid of bigotry..

Can this rest now... in the old days.. jewish maidens were married 12-14

They have moved on...

The issue now is why is Child marriage still in practice

moca: Lori nwa, even u
Abeg don join me o!

Sexxy name. How did u coin that?
Infact, I will change this one to something very sexxy
Hope body and soul dey together?

And u will never stop aprokoing
Nobi u and ur gang
Forever aproko babes

moca: Hi everybody
Howdy

Don't even know d meaning of this name.
Abeg no explanation o!

Naijababe, so sorry.
Accept my condolence.

Where r the aprokos
(Efe, chillipepper, lorretta,lynda,edwife=no sane person should join their group o)
To d good ones, hope body and soul r together?
So nairaland crashed? Isoryte.
Deactivated b4 d crash.
So so busy. Still very busy. This life eeh.
I envy singles o.

Where is my brother?
This week is our new yam festival at ituku
Just to let u know that u will lead our new masquerade parade on saturday o, so prepare well.

To all d roaming single guys,
Who is d lucky babe?
My gele practice continues............
*muah to everybody*

babyosisi: Have you seen any Muslim condemn this marriage?
You will never get that answer
The marriage of a child is halal in Islam
The Koran talks about divorce and categorizes women into grown,captured women and those who are yet to see their menses
Meaning that Islam recognizes the marriage of prepubertal girls as exemplified by the marriage of prophet Mohammed himself
I have gone at this with them at the early days of NL
Condemning child marriage is condemning prophet Mohammed and you will never hear a true Muslim go that route
They will always justify it by telling you the 6 year old was happy and wanted the marriage some will even deny Aisha's age despite Aisha's own words,some others have told me the desert climate makes the girls turn to women faster
If all fails,they will change the topic to focus on something else

donroxy: I mean to write lesbianism !

As for Guy on guy ... I think such originates from isolation of males from women folks !

Na think I think na!

babyosisi: He just told you 6 year olds can be ripe for marriage
What else are you looking for?
They speak too many words hoping to confuse you,when you corner them,they start looking for similar examples in America
Islam is cruel to girls
Tingtingz just made a post I quoted earlier to buttress the point.

He is not in support of forced marriage and the same mentality tells him a 6 year old can consent to marriage
How sick is that?

beeevan: Shouldn't that be masculinism?

Godmystrength: Maybe o.

andromida:

tintingz: Force marriage - I'm not in support, my religion doesn't allow that.

about child marriage I'm only in support if a girl is "matured" and marry the man of her choice.

TOYNEX: Tx swts

donroxy: I always tell people Homosexual is simply unnatural , I even review the background of this illness and it has feminism written all over it !!!

She just have to see a psycologist to clear her head from the supporters of APC implanted in their by her cousin's friend !!

Feraz: Dead or not, the husband may have every right to be worried. IMO, it's somewhat like sending a subtle message that 'if this guy weren't dead, I'd have been married to him and our first son will have junior attached to his name (the dead ex), so therefore be grateful I married you!'.

The husband should look past
it, forgive her and should also call their son by his second name since he may likely not be comfortable anymore with the first name. I only hope it doesn't lead to resentment. My bad! Thanks for that. I meant to say some.

Ceasar1: .

TOYNEX: ****happy mood activated****

TV01: Men hey? Why the upset?

Just because everytime he calls his sons name he is reminded of the man that first shined, polished and buffed his wife's congo, the one who popped her cherry. The one who pillaged and plundered her virgin territory. Who plucked it like a guitar, flipped it up, turned it over, positioned it and turned it around. The striker who worked his way into her box and scored. Repeatedly! Header, back-heel, nutmeg and volley. The tap-in, long range thunderbolt, half-volley and penalty strike.

A permanent reminder of another player - who may have been better. Someone he'll suspect he's "substitute too" and not a "replacement for".

And he can't actually do anything to prove otherwise - this guy is immortalised and a legend - as his wife will always have this romanticised ideal of loffaboy in her head.

Such treachery - that's why he's refusing to play! Name change, transfer or substitution .


TV

ramdris: Wao! Dat just got me crying now. Need ur wrapping arms baby.

babyosisi: What do you expect the eediotic man to say
Do you want the dead man's family to demand he returns the goats they gave him for bride price ?
The father is most likely a polygamist With no real attachment to those kids
See how he proudly told us he married his 7 girls off at 14 like it were an achievement
They are just a bunch of revenue fetching commodities to him

Why don't we hear from her mother
I bet you the mother will tell the real story

dotmanz: A lot of extraordinary thins happened that I hate to say out for any reason, due to some people's faith and believes. There are ways to know when a man is going through some emotional abuse, such people are always the first to get to the office, and always the last to vacate the premises for the day. I can remember vividly, I was always awake praying it get dawn on time to enable me shoot out of the house.. And when others are happily closing with anxiety to meet their loved ones they've so helplessly missed, I start thinking again, how would I enter that house, what cld happen upon entering the house again.. Sometimes I sleep for hours, resting my head on my table, start going home around 10pm. Just to limit the time spending at home. A friend of mine who had a similar problem like mine, not as much as mine anyway, a navy officer, I was at Zarria when I got a call from a friend that his wife collected the guy's military weapon, (knife) used it on her husband and all effort by doctors to save his life was fruitless.

This is a guy I knew very well.. He was being mindful of what the society would take him for, if he decided to break out of marriage that hasn't lasted 2years. Most time we share ideas and experiences. Together and console eachother. That was how the woman killed the Naval guy and flared..

A lot of men have lost their lives to this barbaric act from women but it is never publicized..

moca: Simple arithmetics, Efe failed woefully.
Where is my cain?

New monikers here and there.
Okay o. Will get used to them. I even typed ypepe,imagine that?

Hello everybody
Even those wey dey peep, I dey troway salute

Let me start with d catholics.
Ndi nne maama!
Isokwe!
How august meeting be for ur end?

I dey come.............

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