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If she were a black woman, he would probably have disgusting names for her. Nothing to see here

armyofone:
Coco, what is the beef meal by both side ?

Chinese beef and broccoli ?

Yes. But my version of it. Made with Japanese bbq sauce and mixed veggies from Costco

Another day another group of men causing untold harm and suffering because of land/resource tussle.

Let’s not try to intellectualize it to seem more complicated than what it is.

Anytask01:
Our today women will tell you there's nothing wrong with it but it's very very very wrong.

Women are fighting very hard to destroy this world

Just say you don’t have sense and keep it moving

It’s a bit weird going completely nude in front of your kids they are no longer babies/toddlers and especially if they are of a different gender.

They can learn the truth about body changes without all that. My kids start learning about the importance of privacy when they pass toddlers age.

how can a parent teach them that if a grown adult who’s their father or mother is completely naked around them all the time?

They need to learn boundaries

omoharry:
I had an argument with a friend who told me she and her husband have no problem undressing completely in the presence of thier 10 and 7 years old children ( A boy and a girl ) and they see no problem walking around the house in that state .They are base in the UK and she is surprised I am against it ..they believe with thier style of parenting Thier children would easily be aware of the changes in their body when they attain puberty .

I am not really cool with this and I believe children can be made to understand their bodies still when they attain puberty without parents exposing themselves completely naked in front of them, especially when they are above 4 years old and they are beginning to understand Thier environment. Maybe I am too conservative about this but I would like to hear from you ..

So, guys , at what age do you stop exposing your unclothedness before your kids ?

kkins25:
That serving tray looks great.. classic.

Thank you !!

Nairalander248:
Most of them doesn't know the implications... They see it as fashion

akin33:
Yes, you are not far from the truth. All the ladies who use leg chains and leg beads are from where they worship marine spirit. The leg chain is their identity. Men do not go near them, they will finish you.

ZKOSOSO:
Very true.
Most gals 👧 💓 on cowries are water elements.

If you like don't believe me.....

LARRYOBRAIN:
Ogbaje, Mami water pikin.

you people are so brainwashed.

victorclean:
Birds of same feather. Please educate me on how to identify yemoja/Osun/Mami water people?

It’s traditional igbo culture. Don’t be xtupid

Leftovers. Yum

This style of recipe is the truth. Lol

kingxsamz:
Make sauce with all of the ingredients and mix with the cooked spaghetti. Chop the sausage, carrot, fried fish and cucumber in small pieces and mix with it.

biina:
So na mental instability shrink his penis - smh?

Hear me out. It has always been shrunk. He just didn’t want to exist in reality

Dinner with friends

Jollof is a must
Meat pies
Cold pasta and chicken salad
Guac and chips
Spring salad
Green bean casserole
Beef and vegetable stir fry
Paneer curry (made by my Indian friend)
BBQ chicken
Macncheese

biina:
then please explain why a well dressed grown man would suddenly strip naked in the middle of a busy market, with a prick the size of a toddler's, crying and asking for help (not money) or directions to where they can help him?

Because he’s mentally unstable

naijapips04:
The victim is lucky. He would have been lynched due to stupidity

this part

The thing is l, if she had come to you asking you to do right by her, you would have started yanga & playing her emotions. Now she’s showing you that she doesn’t need you, your ego can’t handle it. It’s not really because you want a baby that badly

Ladyhippolyta88:
Guacamole.

It looks nice.

Thank you

Offpointng:
Actually, so far, you've rather made me more depressed than have helped

good!

koolaid87:
Most women are just evil by nature. Irrational beings being driven by emotions.

Na dem go beat house maid to death

Na dem go treat step children with hatred

Na dem go tell their partner not to do for people

Whoever let a woman lead in his domain is a dead man walking

ITbomb:
After your morning prayers, stay a little while and fear women

Any excuse to be a misogynistic troll

Ishilove:
Thank you, Aunty folake

Happy birthday ishi 💝

ShaqFu:
for noticing in Nairaland Romance section? The place where you have boys without pubic hair. Seriously. 🙄🙄🙄

Romance section?. You mean a thread and many more like it on front page for everyone to see?

Not to mention, will those “boys” not grow into men?

Not you trying to gaslight me into agreeing with you that misogyny is only present among immature men in romance section. You can stay entitled to your own set of facts. But the facts are there for anyone to see. Tis present in all aspects of this forum and beyond: get real

I never said I know you mom. Don’t put words into my mouth. You said she didn’t agree but you were gonna do it anyway. So what’s untrue about me repeating what you said?

Me Giving women a special place? If you don’t think women are already special, then I can’t help you.

Offpointng:
It's funny how you happen to know my mum so much than I do. Just for the record, I don't and wont have problems nurturing my kids myself since you're making yourself feel it's a hell of a thing to do, giving women a special place.

I don't really have to remind you there are single fathers that are doing just great and have raised responsible kids and heaven did not fall. Funny enough, you take a stat of most Irresponsible kids out there and on the net and you'd find out, 90% of em are a product of single mother parenting whilst the single father kids are quite more responsible.

Dint have problems catering for my lil sis when she was young, what gives you the impression I've lost the capabilities

Guac.

The Mexican grandmas said to leave the pith in and of course top with lemon juice to stop oxidation. It’s so good.

I use pop corners because I don’t really like regular corn chips.

Offpointng:
Of course she'd not agree but she still won't throw away her blood. Our now Parents will never agree with you the then Love and Marriage of their time is never the same as what we're experiencing now.

I see.

You want to force something your mom didn’t agree with on her. You anticipate that when you have the kids and their mom is not there (by your design) you would have backed your mom into a corner and she won’t have any choice but to do it. The back breaking work of raising kids all over again after she already did and paid her dues.

All because you want someone to raise your children but think getting married to the woman who birthed them would be too much of a commitment for you.

I get it. Women don’t bring anything to the family except to actually create the family, nurture and raise it. something you obviously can’t do but feel like marrying someone who can do that for you is giving too much.

Because you have SOME money?

Just another day on boy math internet

Yep the misogyny is not the problem. I’m the problem for noticing it

ShaqFu:
well I beg to defer. The section I visit often doesn't really say anything about women, in fact the peeps there don't even give a damn about your gender, it's basically just talk about movies and box office earnings.

So, if you find yourself in a section where women are being talked about in a nincompoopy way (according to you), then may be you have yourself to blame. Why visit such a section

Okay but she didn’t disrespect you so why are you creating imaginary problems?

Before you begin creating more problems for yourself, ask your mom about it and get her express consent that she’s going to be responsible for raising your kids. If she agrees , then you can carry on. I suppose

Offpointng:
Take for a moment you marry a man you're bout 6years older than he is? How long would the respect for him go for? how would you rate his reactions during arguments?? let's not even talk bout the Medical aspect now.




My mum would be more than joyful to do that. You obviously can't relate the joy of being a Grand parent and how much they always need their grandkids around. Besides, I'd also be there. my mum's just gonna give em the mothers touch.

ShaqFu:
men the guy's post really touched your nerve . Lol. Beside, him telling his mum she's stupid doesn't hold water, because his mum isn't looking to get married and birth babies.

It did.

It’s just so common & perfectly acceptable for any/everyone on this forum to open their mouths and talk whatever nincompoopy thing they can think of to say about women. Just another day. No big deal. 😒😒

Ask him to defend his stance on what makes women stupid , he’ll start blubbering like the bumbling buffoon that he is

What do you need kids for?

Oh the tangled webs we weave.

So you are scared of getting married because of the potential of someone taking advantage of you for your supposed wealth. But when you found someone who fits the bill for what a good woman is in your books, you passed on that because you’re more concerned about what your dude bros would think about you marrying an older lady (Let’s face it that’s what the issue is).

Instead, you’re opting to bring kids into the world purposefully with the intention of depriving them of their mom. As if all your mom in her 50s possibly going on to her 60s wants to do with her retirement is to start raising babies all over again.

Why not do it yourself?

Offpointng:
I actually don't got plans ever marrying again. imma just look for a way to get one or two children and continue with my life with my mum helping out (Thank God she's still in her 50's)

cuz just like Ednut1 said "There's no true love for a man who is financially stable" everyone want to pretend they love you until life happens.

Offpointng:
Never told you I still have her with me

But you’re still thinking about her and you will end up marrying someone else knowing very well that your heart and preference is somewhere else. Good luck sha

If that’s how you truly feel, Go and tell your mom she’s stupid.

CaveAdullam:
I agree.

1. Men shouldn't settle for less. Which is an appropriate method to apply since women aren't settling for less.

2. Relationship in our contemporary day is more of economics than love and romance. In such cases, men must be pragmatic and extend this romantic economics to cover and protect their interests.

That's, as a (rich) man, date like the people in charge of empires and dynasties. They don't marry commoners and peasants. Follow the same route.

3. It's fine if women want to play the same game. It's an open field. However, each side - male and female have a lot of compromises to make and a lot of quid pro quo to enhance their game and optimize their wins.

4. However, men date low. While women date high.

So, a rich man would rather have a harem of broken beautiful women (which most women prefer to be in a relationship with instead of a broke poor man) than be in a relationship with the daughter of the richest man in the world. Both strategies have their pros and cons.

5. Being married to a harem of broke (beautiful) women grants him the ability to live as freely as he desires. No woman can limit his urge except he chooses to.

But some rich men who are blinded by romance allow their "idol woman" to restrict them. She becomes his god and he, her follower.

Being married to a rich woman limits his authority in the home. And even proves difficult when said woman is from a wealthy home.

Considering both sides, his compromise is predicated on his short and long-term interests.

6. In the real sense, it's women who see romance as business. Men see romance as romance accompanied by plethoras of sacrifices.

But we're in a bastardized world. It's foolish to reward those who weren't loyal to you due to your low performance, penury, and shame.

7. A rich woman will always play higher. She's winning already.

Poor women have lower chances of winning even though they can also play the game.

The best is to hustle for men with a relentless pursuit of their desires. Ambitious men who dare the devil at his gate. Men who would rather die than settle for less. They must bear with these men in love and hate; joy and sorrow; pain and pleasures.

These are the men who wouldn't treat them as trash when they become part of the high table. Yes, they must compromise their fertility + youth for such men. The risk is lower compared to being classified as a leech. During the process of struggling together, she can establish her stakes.

8. But women are too emotional + stúpid.

They rather trade long-term goals for short-term goals, wanting men who treat them as trash and in the end, come up with a series of woes, lamentations, and regrets, full of resentment and developed witchy attitudes.

Like I said earlier, the relationship these days is all about economics. Fake people. Fake love.

Offpointng:
Truly speaking I've also got fears of dating/marrying a 30+ ladies not even this one that'd be like 33years by the time I want to settle. That's not a risk I'm willing to take

You should have stopped wasting her time from the beginning. Excuse yourself please

Thanks.

The one that astonishes me is when you are trying to buy something from someone based in Nigeria and they are telling you how much they want to charge you for it IN DOLLARS. Erm excuse me!

Offpointng:
You really can't understand

. Mmhmm