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Offpointng:
There's just one Lady like that I've met during NYSC who I swore then I would have married if I made it. well I did made it but Bro she's way older than I am. she's 6years older than I am

But Mehnn this girl cared for me when I had nothing, respected me in that stage despite being older and would always do anything I asked if she really can do it. but that was the only coma , she's way older than I am. I'm thinking of opening a shop one of this days just to appreciate her. May God bless her.

I just wish I can marry her tbh.

shortgun:
Dear OP,
I've carefully read your post and it's unfortunate to see that all your conclusions about this man are drawn from subjective opinions and intuition.... it's all in your head

I strongly recommend you meet this man first in person before making any decisions that might lead to conflicts with your family.Dont listen to many commenter who want you to call your mother's bluff, I urge you not to dismiss the concerns and considerations of your family, particularly your mother. No mother would willingly lead her child into a life of suffering, especially a girl.

The age gap between you and this man should not be a cause for concern, there are countless happy couples with age gaps exceeding 30 years. An older man will bring tolerance, understanding, and experience in dealing with a women's emotions. Girls keep making this mistake of I am too young or he's too old until she becomes too old and he will still be eligible, the biological clock of a man and a woman is not the same.
At early 20 you are at your prime as a woman and the man is at his prime at 40.

It would be wise for you to give the man time to address any lingering issues with his first wife or baby mama. It's not uncommon for men to make bad choices driven by naivety and inexperience in their early relationships.
Furthermore, it's important you understand that time may not be as abundant as you believe or made to believe. You're not as young as you might think. Soon, you'll be approaching 30, and that age brings a different set of troubles and pressure, It's not unusual for girls as young as 17 to be managing households.
The path you want to tow or pushed to tow has played out countless times and the girls usually didn't come through as winners.
..........shortgun

Nengiraw:
how can I like someone I’ve never met? I don’t like him. I’m just being open minded, hoping that if I see him in person, I could change my mind. His red flags right now are too much for me to handle

Nengiraw:
Thank you!! I felt the age gap was too much and he was already coming for me in a weird manner. if I missed his calls. When I call him back, he starts being mad that I missed his calls, and it was not just normal calls, it was video calls, and I told him I didn’t like video calls, yet he will be blasting my phone unannounced with it.

Kobojunkie:
Most likely but the reason this continues has to do with the fact that Nigerians are divided as far as what they truly want and that division is what continues to embolden them.

jimcaddy:
Honestly some men don't have sense walahi. Must everything be all about sex?

etrange:
And someone is on there supporting him. He said it's a harmless question. So they should sit down and starting discussing if she has had sex? Honestly, the way some of these guys think is just irritating. They are all over Nairaland hiding thier perversion and obsession behind thier anti-women comments. Morning, afternoon and night, they're thinking of women; creating ridiculous threads left, right and center. Very promiscuous bunch.

Kobojunkiee:
So, this woman, formerly Mrs. Obayan, abandoned her former husband and father of her 4 kids to marry Mr. Prince Abua Obi, who has now adopted her 4 kids? Na wa ooo!!

Kobojunkiee:
That is nearly impossible for a whole lot of them to do.

Teespice:
I had to laugh too.

I dunno if my state was cursed with useless governors.

Varunpulyani:
Kaduna Refinery.

Step 1: Locate refinery far inland, 850KM away from nearest oil producing area and lay 2,000KM of pipeline that will cause environmental devastation.

Step 2: Configure refinery not to specialise in Nigeria's Bonny Light crude.

Step 3: Profit!

MTNnews:
Hate will not kill you igbos.
To the well meaning Nigerians that think oh os only hate Fulani Hausa Yoruba you can see that Delta n Akwa ibom weren't spared in this clown bigoted criticism.

If I list abandoned project in Igboland I will still be listing till Jesus return but I rather not be consumed with endemic n irredeemable hate like the OP.

The Eko Atlantic you badmouth tomorrow igbos will claim the built it that is how despicable a pig the OP is.

Varunpulyani:
Owerri - City of Statues

What happens when you pay N500 million for a pregnant white elephant and she gives birth to quadruplets. A Rochas special.

TMKsouth:
What's so difficult to understand?

I made it clear the friend should have advised him to call in sick - that way passenger lives and the pilot's job are saved. Thats how true friends behave instead of ratting u out at the first opportunity.

Is this what you would've done to your friend - he's now fired and faces a lifetime ban in his career?

descarado:
Hello ladies,how do you view hexclad products.
I noticed vloggers and chefs use them a lot. Even Gordon Ramsey swear by them.
I actually noticed one Chinese lady use it to cook a lot, like 2 yrs ago, then korean and chefs here.
They call them hybrid.
Ordered the wok.

TMKsouth:
With colleagues like this, who needs enemies? Check as she fishes for info and responds with one liners while Cheating Mike is pouring his heart out 😂

TMKsouth:
I get it. But as a friend you also cover for your buddy - as him to call sick or something, if that sort of excuse is acceptable in the air industry. Unless if the friend is sick of the infidelity and reckless lifestyle the pilot lives.

Mvnster:
Nigerians are very emotional people, easy to sway with propaganda.

Bluntguy:
How I miss Goodluck Jonathan.

Acidosis:
Really crazy. From N700 to N1,050 in 6 months!

Acidosis:
So no investor is listening to the shege banza's investment opportunities at N1,050/$1??

opamoses1:
Nice one by the Nigerian Airforce. Bomb those cockroaches.
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Jewessgratitud3:
The way he put it was what made it funny not like I was laughing at what he said in context.

Jewessgratitud3:
Everyone is just beating about the bush even though the reason is obvious.

Once a woman starts having kids, she loses her attractiveness as a result of all the body changes that come with child birth. This puts the man off or gradually makes him lose interest in her especially when he still sees young girls with perky breasts, plumper and firmer bodies out there. This is the whole truth.

A married man used to disturb me some time ago and I'll always shun him. One day he saw one small fine girl that came around and told me to him talk to the girl and I asked him what of your wife and he said " that one na condemn property now" .. chai!!! Laugh wan finish me that day. This is a man with 5 kids o.

Belial06:
We know the.story

To those readimg let m tell you. Rivers state is a cursed state , they have allowed culustsm eat deeply into the state. Their traditional rulers are just a bunch of useless criminals.

Several.yeaes ago this dpo when posted to.rver shas always been an honest good man. He can and fought these cultists to a stand still . So what did the community do to repay his kindness? They worked with the cultists and massacred how family . I cired that day. He was holding hsidead wife's body soaked in blood. Bwifeemmy very eeye he dipped his hand in her blood from her torn belly and licked the blood and swore never to revenge and kill all cultists in rivers state

From that' day he have wore shoes whenever going on missing and he has sent hundreds of culists to the great beyond. This man deserves a movie

Now the same community have betrayed him again and almost 10 years after he is dead

See never ever trust. Rivers man! You see how Wike betrays all who trusts him? That is their nature

As your all know me well here I am also a Niger Deltan and a Bini man but you see we don't support evil

Goto Edo state and ask. We would never betray the family of our vigilantes or officers . Rivers people are demonic that is why they are like that

I still mourm this great dpo . I wish he had never gone to rivers state..he was such a good man

You see rivers people? Run from them. You think Asiwaju is stupid to relegate wilke to junior minister status?

Never ever in your dealings trust a rivers man . They are satanic ....

Doubt me and.live to regret it !

This is why upon all the oil workers none of them ever buy property in rivers state .

Goi there work and run! Do not marry or settle down there. Run for your life ! Your are better off with bokoharam or unknown gunmen than with rivers people.

They are so uncivilised and barbaric . Look at how Wike behaves. That is their true nature. Forget how odili or ameachi behave those ones are pretenders , half mixed or married to none rivers people.

A true rivers man or woman behaves like Wike! Uncivilised barbaric vile wicked demonic hate filled

AJSfan:
Since the agreement was that he should come on 23rd and work didn't allow him till two days later, did he at any point call to inform the police? That might be the cause of the problem... Him going two days later means the criminal was going to be in custody for the period.

emmykk:
Get a lawyer and charge the matter to court but I strongly believe maybe you have not paid all the money you were asked to pay before mobilization .That 150,000 may be part of money you were ask to paid before they go for the arrest


That they now have the thief in their custody does not mean you won't pay that money or raise false alarm to tarnish their image agreement is agreement.

If they asked you for 170K to start work and you only give them 20,000 first and they were lucky to get the thief that does not mean you won't pay the balance.

Police are corrupt but that have not be so corrupt to the extend you are painting them.

There is no way they will put you in counter when you are the complaints if you are not guilty in your dealings with them

lildush:
Ashawo vibes

thesilentman:
Any Nigerian woman that puts on waist beads is either loose,a slut signaling for clients or her man fancied it...This is the statistics=70%-for slutting,even laced with juju.30%-Husband/man wanted it that way.In any case,majority of them can still be bleeped by a third party,even if they are seemingly taken...and to cap it all,waist beads don't have any fashion value except/ until the wearer exposes it,wittingly or unwittingly...
on a lighter note,the last mw i banged,i took her waist beads with me as a souvenir of our escapades..and then later gifted it to another mw-such is the level of my badness.