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You people always know someone who knows someone It’s never your first hand experience or something you were actually there when it happened. That’s the hallmark of an idle village gossip.

Whether it’s true or not, if you have no way to prove it and if it makes no impact in your life, just mind your business and live your own life

TheSuperX:
We all know women that are making money legitly and this Hilda Baci didn't make her money legitly, I know her friend very well na nah lekki big boys dey smash her, I knew that girl for long before she even bought a Gwagon or Range Rover all of a sudden, you think it's because of her hard work? someone that dosen't have any business and she's driving a car worth 130 million plus, isn't that suspicious? we all know how Foolish some men are, I know a big man, that bought a mansion worth 180 million for his side chic that he's 30 years older than. don't be a f**l by believing everything you see.

When he mentioned cement and the location, my brain told me, that can only be EFFIBABA, my friend of over 43 years.

Dang, I put a call to EFFIBABA. " Are you Hilda's father?" The answer, "Yes bro". I wanted to know his whereabouts and he promised to meet me in my office.

Your friend of 43 years and you don’t know who his children are?

Are you not embarrassed to be typing this? Some people don’t reason at all

They are finally waking up

Acidosis:
Anini's (the notorious armed robber) mother probably spent less than a minute in the "labour room." She gave birth like a Hebrew woman.

and did thanksgiving too

What class are we talking about?

You patronize prostitutes and somehow you’re grouping yourself in a different class from them?

The delusions of some people blow my mind

ChildOfDoom:
it makes me always broke, then negative thoughts come in

Then 'see finish' occurs too.

When Olosho see me in my street, they become chatty. This makes people around gossip me, considering my class and I stooped low

But I can't afford a girlfriend with needs/demands. Not having a fancy life too to approach one

Addictions generally are bad. Betting, women, drugs, dinks etc. One has to look for positive addictions to substitute them

pocohantas:
Just anything. I am glad I am not the only one that noticed that. They will twist in any angle to win an argument. Logical gender...

🤭

JTwelve:
Most men don't care about sex lives of women like that, they're just scared of getting stuck with raising another man's kid. Tuface himself did it, his sons were almost grown before he went to claim them from the sucker cuckold who mistakenly thought he'd fathered them.

If that were true, then body count conversations wouldn’t exist. Y’all just say anything to win an argument

pocohantas:
. They tell too much lies to make themselves feel good.

100%

Acidosis:
Hmmn..... A 65 year old woman is already a granny oo. But I think I get your point

Granny means nothing. It just means your kids had their own kids. It doesn’t change how your body reacts to stimulus

Acidosis:
The report is insightful. I believe environment plays a huge role. You know in Naija, even the children want their parents to stay faithful to a deceased partner.

Yes exactly. The environment is causing them hide their true selves. Not that the desire is non-existent

descarado:
Here, she will even get a relationship if she so desires.

These people are more sexually active than some of us. That's what I've been trying to tell Acidosis and his friends.
Infact, these people know how to enjoy life more than us.

Apparently there are western men who exclusively desire post menopausal women and they don’t hide it.

But a Nigerian guy even if that’s his preference will be shamed into denying it because they’ll call him names

pocohantas:
The only time they agree is when it is negative. Then they will say these older women are fvking around like women always wanted to. I saw one say it is women's true nature to fck around. When it is men, they are polygamous and should be tolerated. But if na woman, naso them go use anger and frustration dey type because woman knack .

I don’t know why it’s upsetting to people. This has to be studied

Acidosis:
Okay. I have to agree with this that older women get more favours (unrelated to sex).

Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Three Reasons why STDs are on the Rise in Nursing Homes
Research by AARP over the past five years has revealed that roughly 80 percent of all Americans between 50 and 90 are sexually active. And these numbers hold equally true in nursing homes and assisted living facilities. Florida ranks among the top five states in the country for sexually transmitted diseases among older adults. This statistic may not be all that surprising, given that Florida is one of the top retirement destinations in the country. However, this presents unique challenges for seniors who reside long-term care facilities. One of the hardest things for researchers to determine is why so many seniors are contracting STDs in nursing homes. Here are just a few of the top theories.
Reason #1: The Safety Myth
One common problem in nursing homes and assisted living facilities is the myth that STDs are for the young. Many seniors grew up in a time when venereal diseases were very rare among the general population. Further, because STDs were far less prevalent in decades past, many seniors may simply not be as educated and informed about prevention measures and condom use. These create a scenario where seniors have a false sense of security when engaging in sexual relationships.
Reason #2: The Pregnancy Myth
Seniors who came of age 50 or 60 years ago lived in a culture that largely rewarded chastity, because promiscuity carried one common threat – pregnancy. Although STDs were not as common, pregnancy has forever been a natural consequence of sex. Therefore, a lot of seniors, especially women, may feel empowered following menopause. There is often a renewed sense of femininity and comfort knowing that pregnancy is no longer a possibility. Unfortunately, some seniors have fallen into a false sense of safety and therefore fail to consider practicing forms of safe sex.
Reason #3: Little Blue Pills
The invention of new medications like Cialis and Viagra has awakened the spirit and libidos of countless men around the globe. This is not limited to seniors living in the community. Every year more and more older adults residing in skilled nursing facilities receive prescriptions for Viagra and Cialis

Acidosis:
It's okay to say that women become less dependent as they age. I'll agree.

But to say that women look better as they age is flawed. No man will touch a 65 year-old woman with a long pole, except her husband and ritualists. Many simply retire to face their children.

Oh honey. You will be surprised. Hehehehe

That’s all I have to say

juman:
Use your sense.
He could not live without his wife who was source of his money.

Despite he left her house with three CRV, he still could not maintain it and live his own independent life.
But continuously became sick and sick till he died.

You’re creating your own narrative now

jamesversion:
Nobody died na. Afterall, some women are catholic Nuns. The most important thing for women at that age is to eat and live healthy, be Godly and manage whatever amount of sex they get from their partners. They have almost practically run their sexual race, it’s time to watch and pray. The aim is to make heaven.

I hope you get, preach the message.

Are the men exempt from making heaven?

Or does God have separate rules for them?

I feel like I should ask. How many 19 year olds almost became your step-moms ?

jamesversion:
Yes, All the men I know. And I'm towing that line. The past 8yrs, I've only had things with 19-24yr old ladies. And I'm in my mid 30s.

Ah. My condolences to the women in your family

jamesversion:
Given Nigeria's sugar daddy culture, a 50yr old woman will most likely get lesser sex compared to a 50yr old man. Most young actively seek out sugar daddies.

And that your women peak sexually in their 40s is a hoax. After menopause, women's sexual drive goes downhill. They become less attractive and more irritant. Who haS time to fvck such specimens... Well, everyone doesn't have same standards.

So all the men you know stopped sleeping with their wives as soon as they turned 50 and started sleeping around with 18-25 year olds?

Yes or no

I’m not the one who made the comment but I’ll answer your question

Who knacks 50 year olds? Their husbands/wives if they are married. If not married, then willing sex partner/s. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Also women peak sexually in their 40s compared to men to who do in their 20s. Now don’t respond if you don’t understand what peaks entails

jamesversion:
Maybe i need to remind you of your comment where you insinuated that when a woman comes of age (early 50s upwards) she gets an unprecedented amount of knacks.

I'm asking you as a woman who knows the workings of the female category to explain why you feel you're in season in your 50s as compared to fresher, juicer 19-25 year old ladies.

Who knacks you at that age, your age mates or small boys. I'm only asking to know. Don't take my comment personally.

How do you know he was a gold digger ?

Smh.

juman:
Oh oh.
He was a gold digger.
He died because he could not live without living with her madam.

Our beloved actor was an idioott.
While there were hundred of thousands of ladies that would be ready to marry him.

If you die because of a woman, thousands of ladies would walk over your grave.

People divorce everyday, non of them die.

But even the sisters are the ones releasing statements to say the wife isn’t responsible for his death. imagine if such lioness sisters can say that about her, why would I even have an opinion? me that doesn’t know them.

I think the only reason why I even commented on this issue is that I saw how scarily easy it is to create a narrative and have people jump on it and everyone begins to swear it’s the truth. This person that started the whole “she killed him” thing only said what Saint Obi allegedly told him before dying. Now Saint is dead who’s to verify that information? And just like that everyone ran with it saying she killed him. I’m like wow 🫠. It’s that easy to get people to believe anything?

descarado:
That guy has loads of sisters. If I can remember correctly, he was the last and only son among 8 sisters. Wish I can grab some of his interviews where he stated he pity his wife to be cos of his sisters. Upon his popularity, he married late cos nobody want to enter that family as a Mrs. Didn't even know he got married at last. His sisters were so protective and obsessed with him, choking the life out of him, he laugh at interviews on why he is still single but that was a suffering man. Imagine marrying into such family. They never gave him space.
Only if that woman can talk. No matter how I love a man, I'm not gonna dig my grave with such marriage unless dos and don't are specified and signed by the court.

jamesversion:
I'm interested in knowing who knacks old cargo women when a plethora of young 19-25yr old ladies abound.

Do you have any older married couple in your life?parents? Uncles? Etc. Why not ask them?

Did all the older adults you know leave their wives to slept with 19 year olds? Because y’all say anything on this Beyoncé’s internet. If I ask you to present this question to your dad now you’ll start vexing. Okay na

I’m not holding brief as to the character of his wife. His death is the first time I’m even learning he’s married much less divorced.

That being said, even if all these occurred and he got divorced, then that means he escaped a bad marriage. He no longer lives with her. How did she have access to him to kill him? I’m talking empirically. Measurably. Because y’all can accuse someone of murder when they physically couldn’t have done it.

Can you emotionally kill someone? That’s wild. Yes one can be emotionally abused. But after they’ve left the environment where the abuse occurred, how did said emotional abuse cause him to undergo 2 surgeries and then die?

It’s one thing to say his friends hate his ex wife maybe because she wasn’t a nice person. But to say she killed him when they aren’t even together is wild. That’s the only thing I’m looking at in all these. Because people keep repeating the she killed him thing and I’m wondering how?

Odingo1:
Don’t you know that you can emotionally kill someone by the words you tell them or by your altitude towards someone, the person will be heartbroken and cannot sleep at night, mental illness coupled with depression will set in, then the person become sick and die. Haven’t you see people that commit suicide because of bullying.

One can cause someone death indirectly through their actions towards someone.

You are asking what the wife did, the wife allows his brothers to constantly come to his house to beat his husband. They are from rich family so the husband was bullied to death.

maasoap:
Only men dey grow old and become dependents in marriage, women don't! Lol

That’s kinda true tho

Rubbiish:
Truth is it is good for a man to have little traces of ruggedity in him. Saint obi was a weak man is what I see in all of these. What happened to him is same thing that happened to Paul of p square, but u can see dude is living his life. It is pure weakness for a man's life to center around a woman

Any logical brain can deduce that he had an illness that hasn’t been revealed yet. He didn’t die from weakness. He died from the illness. All humans must die. Unfortunately he did.

However on top of being sick, he might have been missing his family which is normal. Not a sign of weakness. And he confided in his friends and what did they do? They used that information to chase clout when he died.

TheMostComplex1:
His problem was that he couldn't do without the luxury he has experienced hence he refused to go back to acting and when some producers were trying to relaunch his career he was demanding for 10m

how do you know this? So many speculators.

So his marriage broke apart and he got sick because of it and as such his wife killed him?
People shouldn’t get divorced to prevent the other person from dying? I’m still waiting to hear what his wife did specifically to kill him. All the accusations being levied against her yet no one can say what she did.


This poor man might have confided in them that he missed his family (as most humans would) and they turned it around to blame the wife for killing him. I saw the pattern creeping up when I saw all the clout chasing posts and accusations without any specifics

This one has come again with his subpar reasoning

And to that I say, As long as the feeling is mutual. Let’s not care about what each of us are doing outside. In as much as we carrying out our responsibilities at home. Hehehe

chidiokay:
How about give a man an impression you don't care what he does outside in as much as he carries out is responsibility at home, not only will he lose interest outside he will do everything to rekindle the love he thinks is missing

So you’re even atheist. Meaning you’re not team “pray for the man”. Why are you here? Lol

kkins25:
@bolded: Nice try. Hopefully, you haven't used that 'trick' to your advantage in financial matters!


OH common COCO, you had two comments that I divided into mutually exclusive statements,

I was only making a comic of point number 2.

However, I love the tales of demons, since, after all, the search for demons, I could say, paved the path to my atheism. So, I may be able to tell you about why "demons" possess women more. Unsurprisingly, I can argue that it's the same reason women flood churches more than men (to put it in a lighter manner ). There is indeed the science to prove it

That’s why I have ZERO sympathy for them when they get dealt the same hand they’ve been dealing others. Let the virtuous ones form mother Mary holy nweje in their defense. They will be treated the same exact way when their time comes.

Give a man the impression that you’re okay with certain behaviors not only will he do it shamelessly, he’ll even begin to resent you to having such little self esteem.

pocohantas:
Annie the virtuous woman.
Chioma Davido is Annie Idibia Version 2.0.

Look at both women and you would understand what a brazen cheat can do to a woman. They both look psychotic and restless.



Amen my love. From your lips to God's ears.

May the daughters of NL redpillers marry men like Tuface and Davido.

What a hypocrite

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO!

Na the "Talking off point" one for me.

yep. so much deflection and running around the point without addressing it