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Or they’ll say you have a man but you’re discouraging others from getting one.

How many of them will agree to get married today and wait 3-4 years before having kids?

If they can agree to that, I would encourage them to do so. Because those few years can really help with setting a stronger foundation financially and otherwise

pocohantas:
But this guy dey try na. 6k a day? Is he a Niger Delta militant? I am sure we had one here that was N500 or thereabout.

When you say these things, they act like they don’t see the truth in your comments. Only a few women would get it right once they are saddled with family responsibilities. It works both ways, but they only agree when it concerns them. Otherwise, they’ll accuse you of recruiting evening newspapers. These same people would still complain that Naija women have no dreams or aspirations. We just want men that will deliver our families from poverty.

I pray for my fellow women… I can’t even talk too much these days.

Na so easy to set someone up?

Y’all think a shop in front of the house equals financial freedom 🙄

Nazgul:
Marrying early isn't the problem. A responsible man can easily set up his young wife financially, it happens all the time, most especially if she's submissive. And they'll both live happily ever.

The problem here is getting married to a womanizer. A womanizer can never establish his wife cos he'll feel he did her a favour by marrying her, he'll torture her emotionally, physically, mentally...etc.

Even if she's established financially to the extent that she wouldn't need to depend on any man, as long as her husband is a chronic womanizer, she'll suffer emotionally.

So today is the day they remembered to protect them from terrorists?

That one that said “with one startup and two daughters you’re lucky I even woke up” hit the mail on the head.

I’m sure playing it safe definitely has something to do with it but people sere just generally busier. Not necessarily more productive but busier in all.
Commuting farther for work, multiple side hustles, many extra curricular activities.

Magnoliaa:
I've been to London to see the Queen, dear.


Technically, the King...


Maybe tomorrow...I came across one "bam" Twitter thread. Very sensible and I was just blown by all the takes.

But here's the thread's link for when you come online. We can talk about about it.

You fit go through it: https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1628665213082914818?t=sYG53l5QJxA969uQQkshiA&s=19


I noticed there's been no other discussion(s) except for the last one on permission. 🥲

GloriousGbola:
consensual and enthusiastic

happy belated birthday

The only way to do it.

Aww thank you

PotatoSalad:
He had relations with underage girls. Nothing could save him.
My comment is for men who do stuff with women who are of age.

so then your comment has nothing to do with the topic. This is a topic about R.Kelly. A child molester. Not for men who have consensual sexual relationships with other enthusiastic men and women

PotatoSalad:
Poor guy.
Still one of the biggest, if not the biggest R&B artist in history.
Sad that he had to end up this way.

Regardless of your popularity, if you want to do anything to any woman, make sure to keep receipts. Keep evidences cos hell hath no fury than a woman scorned.

he kept the evidence and receipts all right. That’s what indicted him. The evidence he recorded against himself

Adeneeyee84:
And Jesus wept.....
This is one reason why I stay away from all this kpekus and taking my beers as an alternative

or you could date your age mate

Magnoliaa:
Happy birthday ⚘💐.

thank you gorgeous 💝

pocohantas:
Happy birthday to you Cococandy.
Thanks for the love, support and good counsel when needed. I appreciate you and I wish you all the best as you turn a year older.

Enjoy the rest of your day.🎂🎂

😘

Thank you gorgeous ladies

I’m super grateful for all of you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

Teespice:
Happy Birthday Cococandy. Many happy returns of this day and always.

Big hugs.

Persephone1:
Happy Birthday Coco 🥳🎉🎉🎉

folake4u:
Happy Birthday cococandy. Agba pinkpiller. 💖 Welcome to a new age.

pocohantas:
Happy birthday to you Cococandy.
Thanks for the love, support and good counsel when needed. I appreciate you and I wish you all the best as you turn a year older.

Enjoy the rest of your day.🎂🎂

TheGoodAmerican:
I bought the Vitamix a3500. It came yesterday, right from their headquarters in Ohio. I'm excited about all the cool, healthy stuff I'll make with it. I'm yet to open it; I've been staring at the box in awe and prolonging my excitement for a bit before I open it. 😂😁

Nice

katniss:
It’s funny how they actually passed the board exam without the appropriate credentials

there are rumors some bought test answers. So that needs to be investigated as well. Who on the board is selling test answers? They won’t go there because it implicates their people.

It’s true. The schools were in Florida but many of the their “graduates” work in other states because they moved to New York to take the NCLEX. New York lets you take it as many times as possible so they kept doing it for years until like 30% of them passed. I think their low pass rate was what triggered the investigations

But I believe there must be other nationals involved as well. But trust they will use the immigrants as scape goat

[quote author= post=121062022]According to the news we read last week about this,
The main culprits, (the founders of the 3 school involved have all be arrested),
We are sure all the almost 8000 involved may not know the schools where founded fraudulently with mischief.

We are sure the students not involved or do not know anything about the frauds of the owners of the school will be set free in due time, BUT they may lose their licenses and all the almost $20,000 we heard they paid.

Cc : Cococandy, heard any thing about this news?[/quote]

His two sons have the same name? the same name?

Say Sike right now!
So he technically replaced the one son by the other.
What’s wrong with him

BRATISLAVA:
She has some strange revelations, but if true his silence is the tricky type some very vindictive men employ, as it makes them look peaceful and unconcerned when in fact they are the actual vipers. Such men know that their host of supporters will not evaluate facts but focus on their silence. The fact that he named his next son with the same name indicates he has some serious issues. What man wants two sons competing with the exact same name?

What sort of condolence message is that anyway? The receiver didn't even respond.

That’s genius actually

GboyegaD:
Dinner:

Moin moin and garri with peak powdered milk.

The moinmoin was made by madam using parchment paper and foil to make the leaf consistency.

Leoniine:
Thissssss is it.

Tonto is really controversial.

Very.

So it's like the whole thing is muddled up. You cannot speak against the actions of Churchill without it seeming like you're defending her.

Even in ONE single thing where she is not in the wrong and you try to defend that isolated case, people will have none of it based on some past events around her.

Well said. And I used not mind being seen as someone who was in her defense even though she and I couldn’t be more unalike. But the moment she started all those her “Churchill is a 2 minute man” shenanigans, I couldn’t do it anymore. That was just too much. Even for me.

4th wife? Shut the front door!

It’s like he doesn’t like relationship things. Just straight to marriage.

Well one thing about society is that once they get tired of hearing about you (especially if it’s in a negative light), they turn on you even if you didn’t technically do anything else bad.

Tonto was usually in the news too many times for clout purposes. People who didn’t like her for that will never give her a chance to correct that impression no matter what the new issue is. And these are the correct reasonable people o.

The rest na the default association of women-must-be-blamed international. Too bad she alienated both the sensible folks in addition her natural enemies. It will be hard for her to win in the court of public opinion.

faithfull18:
This is 2023, things don't work like that.

So, he comes online to wish the son he doesn't care about offline. Lol, eye service.

If the man was that good, he won't be with his ex-wife's friend of all the women in the world plus the person he is presently with is his 4th wife.

He has other children and according to people who follow them, he doesn't deem it fit to wish his other child online as well.

That guy is a manipulator and the lady isn't someone to keep quiet in the face of deceit. If she understands the game he is playing, she is suppose to ignore him totally as he isn't worth the attention she keeps giving him online.

Leoniine:
He does o.

His "ex-ex-wife" and Tonto are buddies.

Lol of course. Ex wives association. The enemy of my enemy things. Why’s this so funny and unsurprising?

He has a daughter? Since when? Never heard of her

Leoniine:
Apparently, he doesn't...



Tbh, and then the demonise her and make her into the bad person.

Another crazy thing is, this man has a child from another marriage o.

If it's not that he loves getting high off the clout and fame of Tonto, why does he never celebrate the other daughter? I don't want to know how bad that first wife was, but she nor fit get choco for head pass Tonto , yet na her son e dey always wish once in a year and he goes pim.

Yes, he's free to o, so is the other daughter not very much his child as a responsible father?

He should continue. He doesn't know the tide of "my son will come and find me when he's old enough" is changing.

Is the sole caregiver's role a joke to you, lmao?

Ishilove:
Perhaps he decided his sanity is more important than his kid.

That’s what I figured too

albert2512:
There is a part of the story that she said that they had to beg her for the child to do 1st birthday with him. If you read in between the lines, you will notice she was indicting herself. Don't expect her to be *completely* truthful .

@ bold, I don’t. That’s the nature of broken relationships. Everyone tells it their way. But some things can be observed. Such as if he were involved, a few people would have seen him do it.

GloriousGbola:
She was trying to run oyibo divorce game in naija environment. Western women have really weaponised kids in divorces and between them and lawyers men get really fked over. But this is naija.

But how can she run oyibo divorce in Nigeria when he doesn’t even have restraining order against him. There’s literally nothing stopping him except her drama. If he disregards her dramatic ways and insists on being a part of that child’s life, no court will stop him

ShaqFu:
If all what Tonto is saying, I wonder why he can't prove her wrong by showing all the payment he's been making as regard the upkeep of their son.

No matter how he feels about Tonto, he still has a responsibility to his son, especially at this tender age the boy is in.

Period.

Or even visit him. Money isn’t everything in this day and age. Even though it’s important

Ishilove:
She was all over the place. She first said he won custody and forgot the boy, then she moved on to saying she blocked him from having access to the kid because he is extremely diabolical. If she said more I don't know because I had to stop reading at a point as she can't seem to get her stuff together and is ranting nonstop

So she doesn’t let him see the boy.

Left to me, as a father even if she has sole custody, I’ll fight it in court to get visitation rights. Nigerian courts will grant a father visitation rights if he’s not found wanting. I feel like if he wanted to be part of that kid’s life, he would.

This is not me saying that she is or isn’t problematic. But as a parent, no one can take me out of my child’s life. Especially if I’m a man in a patriarchy. If he wanted to, he would.

Does he make efforts to be part of the son’s life and tonto stopped him? If not then he has no excuse.

You’re being too logical. We can’t have that

1Sharon:
If they truly valued virginity this woman will not be on the dating market up till the age of 33.

Men in her past likely wanted to have sex with her and she refused. There are also other traits that are important aswell besides virginity.

The same men that dumped her in her past are now somewhere asking where the good women or virgins are at

You must be drunk or something because I don’t know what this has to do with my post. Rushing to comment. Never slowing down to comprehend

hammerT:
THE BOTH OF YOU ARE PRODUCT OF WESTERN MISEDUCATION.


THE ONE PROBLEM YOU BOTH SHARE IS 'I KNOW IT ALL' MENTALITY, WHEN ALL YOU DO IS COPY AND INCAPABLE OF REASON.(THINKING FOR YOURSELF)


AGE IN TERMS OF NUMBERS IS IRRELEVANT HERE, ALL THAT MATTERS IS THEY ARE BOTH AT THE SAME STAGE OF LIFE.


THIS IS THE SAME PRINCIPLE BY WHICH THE LAW OPERATES, IT IS NOT HANDING OUT SENTENCE BASED ON NUMBERS OF AGE BUT STAGES OF LIFE. I.E. ADULT.



THIS WESTERN IDEAS YOU LOT ARE HELL-BENT ON INSTITUTING IN NIGERIA, WILL CAUSE UNHAPPINESS AND INCREASE MISERY/SUICIDE, AS YOU HAVE IN THE WEST.


THIS IS NOT OUR CULTURE AND WAY OF LIFE.


LEAVE PEOPLE TO PURSUE LOVE INTEREST AND MUTUAL AFFECTION. (MAN AND WOMAN)



TIWA IS LOOKING SEXY, EVEN FOR HER AGE AND GUYS WILL BE INTERESTED, BOTH YOUNG AND OLD.(NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, UNLESS YOU ARE A MEMBER LGBT CREW HELLBENT ON TURNING THE WORLD UPSIDEDOWN.)

WriterNiig:
Tiwa Savage is giving off predatory vibes, the age gap is too much. Like she's grooming him or something. Doesn't sit right with me.

would you have this issue if the gender were reversed?
43 year old man and 25 year old girl? Just be sincere

This one na loot? That’s literally just one house in middle class California. They should be honest and return the full loot amount. It’s most definitely In millions. I’m sure he has properties too. They are being honest by half

BreconHills:
This is just animalistic jungle justice. Something has snapped in the Nigerian psyche.

it’s been snapped a long time ago

hammerT:
YOU AND CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE HAVE ALOT IN COMMON.


MISLEADING WOMEN, WHILST ENJOYING YOUR MARRIAGES AND SUBMITTING TO YOUR HUSBAND.


FEMINISM MY FOOT.

okay