₦airaland Forum

ramaju:
I think peace of mind should be the ultimate goal of every relationship unless you hate happiness or you are the mercy of your peers and hormones.

Not for the typical NL man. The ultimate goal is light skin with yansh and breast. Even if the lady doesn’t like them back

CountVersailles:
Why are you taking the picture like say na the whole house? No be just that one corner you rent? Quit giving an illusion of renting a big house

Kelechi009:


Rented a shared room with shared bathroom and posted it like they owned the house, Nigerians and fake life.

Smh

No don’t go for peace of mind. Simple find an ogbanje and fvck up your life. Come tell us about it few months/years from now

Aurielfinizu:
God bless you bro..

Am facing same thing..

But now this innocent lady love me so crazy without asking anything..

But I feel I don't feel crazy to her that much..

It's like I pity ..
But am sure of peace of mind with her..
What do u think,?

mmsen:
Most women don't like men.

If they could survive economically and socially without men they would.

it’s the other way around

Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want.. Has happened to me twice..

That’s the problem most of you have.

you see the ones that like and want you as cheap girls. Because they didn’t play hard-to-get for you.

Messed up mentality

Teespice:
Me too ooo.

This one na late night gbas gbos.

she’s just excellent at handling some people’s rubbish

I never wanna be on your bad side. Cos damn girl!

pocohantas:
Lol. There is no comparison between my brain and yours. Anyone can take shots at my brain, not you Jornwhite. Stick to sharing NEPA BILLS. I like to think you did a good job of it. It doesn’t require much brain power- just knocking on doors and shouting owo mi da? like an NURTW intern.




There is nothing to learn from your babe. I mean, if after riding my man he still spends 11yrs trolling an evening newspaper? Maybe the pussy ain’t got grip.

descarado:
Try this one day and see if you will like it
https://youtube.com/shorts/VBVegf6q1fo?feature=share

it looks good but I’d rather someone else makes it so if any try it.

descarado:
I don't blame you na.
U ommited my name cos I will ask for my share of the spoil

Una happy independence. E don pass sef

For this place wey I dey, every holiday is bank holiday so I no dey know which one is which. My concern is double pay if I'm working that day

double pay is where it’s at. hehehe

Every accused person is innocent until proven guilty.

May that innocent baby girl Rest In Peace

Jeez!! What a horror

loveymom:
Made crepes for breakfast and I did not take a picture too. We had a neighborhood parade. It was great, the kids enjoyed it.

How lovely.

I always love when the kids get to have fun

Fira09:
Show more pics.

When I cook more I’ll share

gloryhomemaker:
Ukwa Porridge (breadfruit) recipe: Step by step details.

https://www.nairaland.com/7145308/ukwa-breadfruit-recipe-special-someone

One of my favorites ever

loveymom:
Happy 4th of July Armyofone, Cococandy, and GboyegaD; what did you guys cook for independence day?

Thanks my sis. I just made omelette for breakfast. This one is mushroom omelette from few days ago. Didn’t take a pic of today’s breakie.

We’ll be dining out for dinner. maka nwanne gi nwanyi cannot come and go and kill herself.

Happy birthday America

pocohantas:
You done see am na.

I feel awful for this sister in question.

But I’d bet that give OP 2-3 years from now and he encounters another lady who went through the same thing, his response would be

1)what was she wearing?
2)why did she go to his room?
3)maybe she’s been eating his money as the good neighbor that he is
4)maybe she’s proud and disrespectful and doesn’t greet the neighbors

The list and ways to find how to blame her would be endless. .

I hope I’m wrong and he’s different

DJperdurabo:
Subtly and subconsciously, the average Nigerian lady is getting used to being touted as a strumpet, irresponsible money-chaser and a homewrecker. The truth is eternal.

When we let insult and degradation fly, it becomes the norm. Everyone has become so ingrained with misogyny (women included) that the kinds of things peeps say about women would never fly if they said it for men. Not even half.

Women who claim they love and respect themselves will still shine teeth and laugh with people who constantly degrade their gender. I could never!

Obviously some only care if it’s them or their loved ones

Sucre6:
This is hogwash, dont ever sit in front of your phone to dish out advice without putting the person u are advising in your shoes, if it was your sister or daughter that was raped, Nd the evidence are obvious, hope u will still hear both side of stories abi,

Weak men everywhere these days

JASONjnr:
Shouldn't be anyone's concern.... She literally did that cause she's weak...


Weaklings take their lives... The rest of us surviving are survival....


To her now, she wants to go and meet the girl and ask her why she died? Or go there to take care of her?

okay strong man

Ugh. I get it.

So sad

65 and 23?

He married someone that was born when he was 42?

He’s lucky na only leave she leave am.

Weyrey man.

WrksOnMyMachine:
Lots of this happening today with Nigerian women; home and abroad.

This guy talked about a 65 yr old guy who married a 23 yr old lady. Got her to the states, she turned her back on him once she got on her feet.
It was inevitable. Relationships; women only judge them by benefits. Not your looks or strength in the bedroom. It is always your position in the society or what she can get from you. Someone said, to consider the evening newspapers; cos these days they know men won't take shit as they never wanted to get married to a woman in the first place


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l12vuOuL-wU

chocolatee:
Please share the honey sesame chicken recipe

I just marinated my chicken as usual. You can use any seasoning of your choice. I’ve made it a few times and seasoned the chicken differently each time and it was always good.

This time I used tiny tiny salt, pepper, paprika, ginger and garlic paste, chicken powder seasoning from the store (has rosemary and other herbs in it) you can use any poultry seasoning you find in your store and then rub into the chicken with olive oil.

Then air fry for 15 mins. Remove from air fryer and coat it with honey bbq sauce, Trader Joe’s honey sauce and sprinkle sesame seeds on it. Then air fry for another 10mins.

This one below I didn’t sprinkle sesame seed and it was a bit different but it was great too. So I’d say don’t skip the sesame seeds, honey bbq sauce and Trader Joe’s sauce. Everything else is negotiable.

Go lightly on the sauces too because they have sugar in them

Okobola146:
see as you dey moan. The thing too long and touch you for throat ni?

mumu

That’s how your village people moan?

Kollins11:
Madam, that's my low budget food... You can't compare my low budget food to yours. "O wrong na" them no be mate at all

If I cook my high budget food ehh... You go worship me.

Who dey breath!!!!!!!!!!!?

mmm

Who is bitches?

Kollins11:
By the time he discovered that he's a man and need to hustle hard and leave food matters for bitches, I'm sure he won't enter kitchen again... Don't worry, I want you to quote me in the next 15 years and tell me if he still enters kitchen to cook everyday.

BTW, why my food is so nutritious is that.. You need to have a taste of the meat. I seasoned it so well.

Is like God wants me to be a Chef and not a yahoo boy... E be like say I go open restaurant soon.

Thank you

Newborn27:
Cococandy- the way she dey carry her self....#classy
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NigerianAngelo:
It may not be so at all. I think you are using your experiences to judge them. I think most of them grow their children all by themselves unlike Nigerians.
See all those funny baby videos online. You do not see any third parties in the family life.

Umm you don’t expect people to record their workers and post online. They’ll sue you if they didn’t consent to that.

Engage your spouse in child raising.
Use Nannies and babysitters.
And don’t work everyday of the week.
That’s the only way I’m surviving.

Even then, It’s still tough.

The colorism in Nigeria sha

GloriousGbola:
Coco has gone from boyziimen

Always been.

And contrary to what people believe, I actually LOVE manly masculine man. I just require equal respect. Dasall

Saintmary:
If you don't buckle at the knee on setting eyes on him, you're not female.

Surprisingly I don’t find men like this attractive. He’s good looking that’s for sure. Just not attractive to me. Looks like a pretty boy not a handsome man. Dunno if that makes sense

This shows attraction is really different for different folks.

Give her a date to come when you’re at work.

Let he finish the chores and lock up the house before you come back.

Or alternatively like a mature human, tell her “thank you and don’t worry about it”. Since their gratitude is enough.

Y’all complicate even the simplest issues

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

AkpaMgbor:
So because Nigeria hasn't gotten it right means I can't critique another country? You get sense. Oya clap for yourself for that brilliant statement.

Because your criticism is based on the wrong thing.