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No correlation to the topic whatsoever.

toujurs:
i wasn't expecting you to agree with me, because i know you never will. You women ditch out attitude and behaviours you can't tolerate, when the consequences comes back, she would start screaming am a woman, because am a woman.

It's not every man, that could be manipulated. Some just ignore the silly attitude.

AkpaMgbor:
Lol we have strong laws indeed. Really? The 1999 constitution it's a joke in itself. Germany has an economic and looming power crisis right now, have you not been reading the news?

So then you’re not in a position to critique them.
Especially since Nigeria’s intolerance hasn’t helped her economically.

I wonder what led to Nigeria’s economic quick sand.

Last I checked, we have “strong laws” that don’t allow for the aberrations of gender fluidity and all the other nonsense our culture doesn’t tolerate.

And tell me again how Germany is worse off for their “weak laws”

AkpaMgbor:
Laws that allow biological men to go to women's bathroom and compete in women sports is weak! Laws that teach little kids about sexuality and sexual aberrations is weak! Laws that forces people indoors for months on a disease that has 98 percent recovery rate is damn weak and anti economy! This is common sense. Funny asking me to be a part of hard times as if we're not already neck deep in economic quicksand in Nigeria as a result of weak leadership and laws..The joke is on you.

AkpaMgbor:
If you took just a minute to actually ponder what I wrote you would have made a more sensible reply. Wars and economic hardship happen because of weak leadership and laws. If the Biden administration had their heads properly in the right place and had the interest of ordinary people at heart they would never have allowed a war to break out in Ukraine. It was cheaper to broker peace and lasting dialogue between Russia and Ukraine than sponsoring a war that has killed thousands and displaced millions .

Like someone said, a time of peace and plenty gives birth to weak men and laws ...such weak men and laws bring forth a period of hardship and hard times brings forth strong men and laws

Volunteer yourself for the hard times so that we can have strong men and strong laws.

And please explain what weak laws have to do with the topic. The laws are not strong because it let’s people be themselves?

Fira09:
Your statement is totally wrong.

mmm okay

This rant needed to be ranted. Lol

ottersberger:
They are mad, and you are good and righteous. Ok.
So, I will, for the first time, say it as I feel it here.

How many German citizens are in terrorist captivity as we speak?
How many German citizens were kidnapped today by German or foreign terrorists nicknamed bandits?
How many German citizens were killed today by German or foreign terrorists nicknamed bandits?
How many German citizens died avoidable death today because of hunger, poverty, deprivation, and lack of medical care?

How many German citizens applied for asylum in Nigeria?
How many German citizens live in Nigeria as refugees?

Some problems I find with Nigerians are their sense of extremism, religious fanaticism, and self-aggrandizement. Some people who are busy claiming sodom and Gomorrah on Germany and others have been severally rejected for as much as a visitor's visa by the countries they are mouthing off on. Let's be honest, who among you will turn down an opportunity to live in Germany today?. None.

Germany, a country that pays every child born in the country regardless of color, creed, or religion, 210 Euro monthly (N133.350) from day one and increases with every additional sibling is evil?.
A country that pays you that money until age 27 if you remained a student is evil?.

This same country that offers a quality free education at all levels, including foreigners, is evil?. But ASUU is still on strike 5 months after the fact and this is following many other strikes.
This same Germany, where violent crime is almost zero except for the recent Arab Muslim immigrants from Syria who are showing their known true colors, is evil?.

A country that guarantees every citizen self-dignity pursuant to the first article of the country's constitution by providing the cost of accommodation and 399 euros (253.365) for food, pays monthly health insurance costs, and contributes to the person's federal pension fund, Pays Public TV dues and additionally pays for the monthly metro ticket on their behalf is evil?.

Or, 1100 euros (698.500) monthly, pay health insurance costs and contribute to the federal pension fund, Public TV dues, and in addition pays for the monthly metro ticket to secure the life and dignity of every indigent citizen and resident, and pays unemployment benefits to every unemployed citizen and resident until they resume a new position or continue to pay them social welfare benefits after 12 months of unemployment is evil?.

This same Germany that will pay many tens of thousands of euros to train or re-train one citizen and resident to gain a new vocation and skills to make them productive members of their community is evil?.

A country where every citizen and resident has access to quality education, first-rate health care, good and safe roads, food and safe drink water, security of life and property, clean air to breathe (you read that right), a society that is highly literate and educated, and where people are civil even in their personal prejudices, have good housing, and mass public transportation is evil?.

Nigerians disgust me. A confused country of nothing but consumers and sharers. You are mostly unproductive. Our women are numerically closet street workers, and almost every youth is a criminal of some sort or a criminal in waiting. You are too weak and stupid to confront those who daily impoverish you and are ready to do their bidding for a pittance. But you have the audacity to criticize others who are wholly equitable and responsible to their people based on your jaundiced, religious, and poisoned sense of piousness.

Most Nigerians are simply hypocrites. Life is not defined based on how many times you pray in a day or how often you go to church or mosque, or the weight of the fraudulent seed you sowed and the tithe you paid to your pastor, but by the tenets with which you live, which is what defines your character.

What most of you call virtuousness is, in reality, quite the opposite. Our people, among others, are sinful, vicious, deceitful, crooked, and wicked. I dare say that a good number of us have none of the good values we pretend to possess. Do you know how hard it is to find a 13 or 14 years old virgin in Nigeria today?.

So, Germany and how many times they changed their name and whatnot, is not the reason your life is miserable. They did not make your depraved and shameless politicians in whose footsteps you will gladly step if the opportunity beckons, and who have turned you into undignified slaves in your own father's land.

One of you even claimed that the average Caucasian is a very confused and demented human being. Between una and Oyinbo, who behaves demented and confused, abi how pesin go dey curse themself by themself?

Nigeria is richly endowed with gay men and women. Because they do not yet have the effrontery to publicly come out of the closet does in no way mean that our society is bereft of this nature's fait accompli. We are a nation of criminal pedophiles, both private and official, veiled around religion.

I will not stand idly and watch a country that invested a better part of 150 million naira. Yes, you read that right. Over 150 million naira by my last count, in training me to become a professional in my field being pissed on by people who have no balls to confront even their thieving local government chairperson. Nigeria will never do that for me, just as the useless country has done nothing for you.

So, we are better served as a people to get our priorities right. The religion, fake morals, and shameless hypocrisies that are the life of an average citizen of this country will continue to lead the people to stagnation and more suffering, and only God knows what is next.

If Nigeria were to become a functional country such as Germany, 80 percent of your pastor's prayer points will become obsolete in a heartbeat.

And by the way, I am highly Obidient.
Vote Peter Obi for president in 2023.

GloriousGbola:
All you need to ask him is relate that bs to Nigeria. Hard times simply produce harder times

funny to see them regurgitating everything they hear. Whether true or false. Applicable or not.

GloriousGbola:
Most of Europe is way more progressive than the US. But us movies from childhood had everyone looking at the us at the lead Good guys and everyone else as supporting role good guys.

During covid we expected the US to be the us of independence day, but instead we got the US of idiocracy, without a president who still understood his limitations

True that.

All this nonsense communism chants that emanates from the right when we talk about updating policies to make America more inclusive to the poor and marginalized is what holds us back.

They fear “communism” so much they conflate everything with it.

AkpaMgbor:
Like someone said, a time of peace and plenty gives birth to weak men and laws...such weak men and laws bring forth a period of hardship and hard times brings forth strong men and laws....is it any wonder that today the USA is crying of a possible recession and a steep rise in food and gasoline that has never been seen in over half a century?

Do you think you should sacrifice yourself to die in a needless war so that we can have strong men. Since war = strength? Orisirisi

Germany is way more progressive than the USA yet people don’t talk about them often like they do USA

descarado:
I am jealous
Really jealous

Come join

ahnie:
Bukatyne just corrected me,that it was a blogger that said so.

Oh okay. I was wondering if she actually did say it. Cos I haven’t read the full story.

I saw the one the blogger said. Didn’t know if she said it too

Funny how some of start hyperventilating when women treat you the way you’ve been treating them

ahnie:
I now see the reason why funke akindele said...jjc grills wasn't submissive.

did she say that?

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toujurs:
You didn't see where i typed love portion abi

come back when you’ve developed some level of reasoning appropriate for this conversation.

So then women are no longer loved unconditionally?

Because if all it takes for you to start sleeping with ekaette is that your wife didn’t cook for you, where’s the unconditional love we were just talking about?

See how you are shamelessly contradicting yourself?

toujurs:
Should a man tell a lady to look beautiful, is tgat even a condition. Common sense should tell her she needs to be neat and take care of her self, not looking for some one to extort money from, to take care of her own body, Ordinary transport fare most girls would still ask, isn't that being bitchy.

She would be peeping into the guy hand, to see how much he is holding.

Even during outing, most ladies can't for just one day take her man out, baby oya. I want to take you out, lie lie. Okay pay for your nose mask. Hell No. Them do una with selfishness.

But if it's to eat another person money, she would open her mouth like a cow, to consume.

Being submissive? Should someone tell a lady to be submissive, it's only greediness that would make a lady date two guys.

Who keeps the home if not the man, who solve family problems. No one if not the man, same person still provides.

To cook is not by force, by the time ekaette, Begins to cook different kinds of food for the man both in bed, in different styles. It is common sense that will tell her to get into the kitchen and cook. How can a lady even be at home, and find it conducive for a house help to cook for her husband, what if the maids puts in love portion.

It should be a pleasure to a lady that are husband licks the plates she fed him with, he is already helpless and vulnerable where she is.

The wife material list is definitely inexhaustible.

Talm bout women are loved unconditionally.
Where? On which planet? In which universe?

Cracks me up

GloriousGbola:
Ah coco this your list has k leg oo

I was looking for a Saint in the streets and a freak in the sheets / halal in the streets haram in the sheets

Abi na only cooking you take tie Mr coco down?

The fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach which enthusiastically riding on his deek

Please update your list oo. Oza room skills are among the conditions

Seun won’t listen because this is what drives traffic in his forum. Been noticing these for years now and it only gets worse with time.

I’m sorry to say it but I don’t see it happening anytime soon. They say report them, but then they only get a mini ban and come back with an alternate. If people actually got an IP ban that stops them or makes it harder for them to come back with another account, he might see some improvement.


His is not the only forum in the world but it’s one of those that thrives on the freedom to be dangerously misogynistic without repercussions.

So it’s become a safe haven for those who don’t mind seeing women harmed. And you can’t do much except tackle them word for word.

WhisperedNoise:
You noticed it too. Nairaland is complicit. Seun and his mods are complicit.

Jobless guys who are at home because of the ASUU strike write up trash about women and a silly mod has the guts to push it to the front page.

There's nothing left of Nairaland other than misogyny, tribalism and religious wars.

If Seun and his minions can't manage the website anymore, they should just sell it off. This is becoming an international embarassment.

NotKnown:
Any job that exposes them to many men.

The worst of them is any woman who hawks on the express.

You see those ones that hawk bottle water and mineral or bread or biscuit? Infact anyone hawking in lagos traffic cannot listen to a man at home.

Right. Women should be locked up. No exposure to men at all.

All these responses are evidence that if left to men, women would be locked in a dungeon only to be seen when the man wants sex.


For all those “I’m not a feminist” ladies, just know that the mere illusions of freedom you have today have been fought for by feminists so that doofuses like these won’t satisfy their fantasies of subjugating you to a life of misery in order to safe guard what they consider their property which is your body.

killmods:
Any girl that wants to be promiscuous should go ahead. I'm done looking for a good girl sef. Worst case scenario I become a baby daddy las las but will be very active in the life of my kids so they won't leave me lonely when I'm old. The time and attention given to all these women threads has become too much here. E done do

Oh now E don finally do?

No you people must continue

beautyhd:
It’s ridiculous that 60 percent of topics on nairaland is about women and 40 percent of them make it to the front page.

A jobless person will just sit and make up some nonsense post on women just for likes.

They don’t have anything to discuss but women

Stallionhorse:
Even Satan dey fear Nigerian girls..
They have turn hookup to one of the most paying industry in Nigeria.. Truly if you can't work hard then fuckkkk hard.

You sef use your own tools and make your own money. Leave Nigerian girls alone

GloriousGbola:
an aspiring artist who i follow came up with it

I’m intrigued by the images they chose

toujurs:
Men love women unconditionally, i can't say same for women. Who looks for rich men, while coming from a broke family and being broke. .

.

What hogwash!

So a woman doesn’t have to be beautiful
Doesn’t have to be “submissive”
Doesn’t have to be faithful.
Doesn’t have to know how to “keep a home”
Doesn’t have to know how to cook.
Doesn’t have to be anything on the long list of wife
material that y’all keep making up everyday?

She’s loved unconditionally? Really? None of those are conditions?

But because she expects you to have money to fulfill the only thing that SOME of you agree is your duty in a marriage which is to provide, suddenly you’re being loved conditionally. You lack self awareness.
Just regurgitating nonsense you heard from the podcast bros.

Whenever I hear someone repeat some nonsense that these podcast bros spit out on the daily, I already know it’s someone who lets someone else tell them how to assess their environment.

toujurs:
As in ehn,

You can imagine, what a woman could do if she was incharge of the family. Men are actually saints.

So men don’t “throw” their wives out?

It’s more evil now that a woman did it?

GloriousGbola:
surprising how the point flew over the heads of our logicians. no self awareness whatsoever

oya oo eyin team pinkpill - magnoliaa, pocohantas, cococandy - food is ready on a friday morning - with bitter alfa mail tears to wash it down

Pinkpill?

Lmao

Honey sesame chicken

You must be very xtupid

Fatah1212:
Killing is the result for those who commit blasphemy, why Christian can't do without insulting Islam and prophet Muhammad in the first place? Is it that they lack ideas or knowledge in all manner to make Christianity thrive?

My question is why don’t “moderate Muslims” speak out vehemently against this? Since you claim they don’t represent you?

hammer567:
OLD MUMMY USELESSING THE LIFE OF YOUNG GIRLS WITH MENTAL ILLNESS..

Also who’s the lady in black bikini, she’s drop dead gorgeous

Nothing to add.

You got it down to a T!!

Magnoliaa:
You should know some of them
can be fuulish, no need for long talk.

The same Regina they were shaming for being a gold-digger and ol*sho then is who that ediot is coming to use to shame older women.

They don't love none of us, no. But they specifically pick a demography of women as they find convenient to shame another. They'll move on again, shuffle the list, pick another group of women and use to shame yet another group of women. So they can pick both young and older women at different points and use them to shame each other while declaring their love for either one and hating either of them as well.

They are sweetly left out of the mix and they leave the stage in satisfaction of the rumble they think they've caused. Just anything to make sure that whether you're 15, 18, 25, 35, 40 or 60 as a woman -- you're constantly making sure to fit into their expectations while avoiding getting on their blacklist.

So it's not really about your age or experience or ideological leaning or career or independence and expertise or a lack of them - it is simply only about you being a woman, to them. Finish.