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Okay and?

You will still be quickly divorced by a woman if you mess up. Scriptural times or not. Wonder why you’re getting a headache over things women in biblical times could or couldn’t do.

Women today can divorce you and you will be a divorced man. Okay bye

McDuncan:
I've read from idiots with pile riddled butt and a certain certified moronic, irresponsible redpiler who had no scriptural base contribution to offer but made side jeers from the comfort of their compromised genes.

When we assert that scripturally, women have no power of divorce, we have undertaken diligent research based on biblical accounts.

The only grounds a man has for divorce is if his wife is sexually unfaithful. But does scripture accord women same right? I think not.

Men in that era had always been polygamous. They marry as many as they could. The law gave them that much liberty. Should they sleep with someone's wife or a woman betrothed to another man, the law says they both should be stoned to death (duet 22: 22). But should a man, married or otherwise sleep with a free woman, the law compels him to marry her, subject to the approval of the woman's father(Exod 22: 16) So, naturally, there's no occasion a wife could seek divorce based on her husband's sexual unfaithfulness since the law has made provisions on how to handle that.

It is even lawful for a man to marry his late brother's wife should she bear no children before his demise. Men then simply enjoyed so much sexual liberty. Had women had the law on their side to initiate divorce back then, divorce surely would have been rampart as they naturally would seek to curtail their husbands' polygamous exploits.

In Matthew, like in Duet 24, JESUS was addressing men not women on the grounds for lawful divorce.

Saint Paul sums it up nicely in 1 corintians 7 Vs 10 and 11;
10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the LORD, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

In conclusion, when we say there's no scripturally divorced man, we simply mean there's no man divorced by a woman in scripture, neither was there any provision given for a woman to seek divorce.

Numbers 5: 12-31 even covers mere suspicion as well actual adultery committed by a wife but hidden from her husband. But none, not a quote from the first to the last book of the bible accommodate any provision where a woman can seek divorce.

Redpillar:
From their gbolas.

The glorious ones

Let me guess, you’re the one whose shoes he can’t lace?

That being said, you want us to appreciate men more. I’m appreciating mine. Why is it peppering you?

RightToReject:
Only a pretentious and insincere woman in your stead will deny that her wish was not to have a man that has a good command of his lingua franca, a top-notch professional of international repute, and an all-round healthy and successful man as a husband. I am glad that such a man is among some other equally able men who have been present here on this fine Sunday morning catching fun while making his money on the go. But then, when desirable is not available, available becomes desirable.

There is nothing to be proud about a man that can't command his lingua franca; a man that can't afford to wittingly have fun while making serious money. Lol.

In summary, she, that her husband is not here on this "fine Sunday morning," who chooses to disparage the men who choose to be here should know that her husband can't afford to lace the shoes of one of the men, if not some of the men, here in his lifetime. Bye-bye!

RightToReject:
Unfortunately, that one's husband is not here on this fine Sunday morning does not automatically make him better in any way than any of the men that are here, at least the ones I know personally. One's husband's inability to read and write his lingua franca very well, which has always been the sole reason for his unwitting absence in a place like this, should be blamed. So, whether the ones here are sincerely wailing for submission or not does not matter.

Ah. So grammar is the problem? Lmao

pocohantas:
The luminouz dude no too get sense right from time. Only to be hyping himself as one premium Ibadan bachelor. That is before he proceeds to yarn gibberish on metaphysical.

Smh. He knows what he’s doing because he obviously didn’t say anything to the guy I was responding to but decided to face me.

I wonder why they avoid facing other guys. Na for our body dem get power

pocohantas:
Like they are the ones helping us champion women rights. Even runs girls would take a percentage to buy indomie and share for motherless babies. But not their male counterparts. Those ones na to buy airpod and Benz to once again impress women.

Only woman matter full their coconut heads.

Indeed. They all have foundations and stuff they use to help. At least balance the equation.

No be these ones

pocohantas:
A foolish or stupid person. I think that is Edo language. That is how he does, I know him well na.

Ah. I thought he was misspelling some igbo version of ozugo.

Just negodu the dimwit calling me names.

RightToReject:
Lol, to think that you are one of the most submissive wives offline and your antagonism towards the word here isn't just oxymoronic but also laughable. Once more, just wish us Happy Father's Day and allow us to enjoy the celebration in peace while you keep submitting offline.

You’re not wrong. I can actually be called submissive.

And that’s to mostly everyone around me because I don’t like confrontation in any form. Neither do I like to expend energy unnecessarily. The only type of people that get the strong head version of me are the people that refuse to get sense. If you have sense, you won’t even know I’m around you. We’ll just exist peacefully side by side no wahala.

My husband can’t be on the internet on a fine Sunday morning wailing about submission when there are so many things he could be doing to make me happy and submissive.

I stay “submissive” to loving friends and family.

pocohantas:
That luminouz abi na luminate na very anyhow person. Always looking for who to gaslight, th an hide husbands. Imagine the Ibadan most-wanted calling her Ozuorr. She dey her own the werey go quote am.

Shey you saw? And on top of it he’s asking me to leave him alone

BTW what’s the meaning of ozuorr?

luminouz:
Coco Andy...face your husband and leave me alone.

Today is father's Day, celebrate your Papa and your husband naaaa..


Lemme alone..ozuor!!!

Says the person quoting me .

You could have just ignored my post

pocohantas:
Their fixation is always on women. Create a thread on female abuse and they immediately remember men are abused too. The remaining 364 days, they would NEVER speak on male abuse. They would spend it monitoring toto and single women. They honestly do not care about themselves.

My favorite one is when they blame feminists for not championing men’s rights. Make it make sense

Anyway happy Father’s Day to all the men who are not on the internet crying about submission

Ladies if your man is not one of these monitoring spirits on the internet, get him something really nice today.

pocohantas:
I was thinking I would see them creating threads to celebrate their fathers that they claim are forgotten, but they won’t do that.

Let it just be mother’s day and you would see them shouting about how everything is about women. Now they have the floor, na submission be their happiness.

I don’t even understand it myself

RightToReject:
The least one had expected from you is to wish the responsible fathers like us Happy Father's Day and allow us to enjoy the celebration in peace. That is not too much to ask for.

Ezigbo nwaanyi nke nwere obi oma; zuokwanu ike obere!

This thread is not for your Father’s Day apparently. Because if it was, y’all would have focused on that instead of dragging women into another useless submission debate.

On your Father’s Day you’re invested in women’s submission instead of focusing on yourselves

luminouz:
Back to sender!!!

Today is father's Day. Shut your piehole and let us enjoy it in peace. Cho Cho Cho from you even on sunday?

Coco, biko, what exactly is your problem naaaaaaa?

Hopefully one day your enjoyment won’t depend on anyone’s submission.

You’ve seen women enjoying Mother’s Day without demanding submission. Yet they manage to have a great day. If you don’t find who to oppress, your joy won’t be complete. Too bad for you.

luminouz:
It's father's Day, mudafucker!!! Yet you won't let the men enjoy their own day?

You already had 6 or so mother's days this year alone yet you won't allow us enjoy a day in peace?

Dem swear for you ni? Hoop jumper!!!

This thread is where you’re enjoying your Father’s Day?

Go let the people you’re “fathering” celebrate you.

And why does your Father’s Day have to involve women’s submission? You can’t have a good Father’s Day unless women submit to you? Ode!

You should be able to have a good day regardless of what women chose to do. Otherwise it’s pathetic that your happiness/enjoying your day is dependent on who agrees to submit to you or not

We4all:
He doesn’t own a mansion and he can’t get more than 2K monthly rent. So, what fortune are we talking about?

Real investment is a good investment in Nigeria but not in America if you are not a Citizen. I say what I know.

Have you tried to rent recently?

Very funny

sanpipita:
If indeed submission isn't slavery or weakness why do men avoid it?

They are going to jump through hoops to avoid giving a direct answer

twinning200:
Dont be harsh, 75% includes 2 million rent, childrens school fees tuning up to like almost a million and the half a year, groceries, clothings, outing spending, weekly feeding, though she spends her majorly on kitchen too, when I say 75% i know what am talking about.

It’s still 75% based on your family expenses and as such my comment still stands.

Facts have emerged how a 34-year old man, Andrew Ogabor, allegedly lured a young lady into his apartment in Lagos State, drugged and engaged her in marathon sex raped and thereafter recorded her unclothedness and posted it on the internet.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the incident happened at Kayode Adeniyi Street, Bariga area of Lagos, where they reside.

The suspect was said to have inserted sedative drugs into the drink he gave to the lady. She then slept off and he engaged her in sex raped Thereafter, he recorded every part of her private parts before the lady woke up. She was shocked over what happened to her and went home dejected.

Unknown to her, another shocker was awaiting her. When she returned to home, regained consciousness, her attention was drawn to a particular video online; she saw her nude video on the internet and was devastated. She then confronted the suspect, Andrew and he threatened to even kill her for having the courage to ask about the video action on the internet.

Language matters

bukatyne:
Interesting.

This is also a Yoruba proverb.

Turns out it’s a popular saying in different cultures.

Persephone1:
[i] He's my Cinderella oooo.

is that where the title came from?

When I hear Cinderella I’m always wondering how and why?

BuT gloBal waRming is a liBeral hOarse

RightToReject:
Don't mind her. Common a small heartbreak that was not even a result of an orchestration, she has failed to overcome it in good faith for more than two years, Lol. Her way of seeking closure since other means have failed is appropriating almost every moniker on Nairaland to him, especially any female moniker viewing or commenting at the same time he made a comment and campaign of calumny against him.

Na only you date all the nairaland notable ladies. Come break their hearts join. How hot are you? Hot cake. Most eligible bachelor.

Please make it believable.

Akposy:
I made Chicken Pizza on Sunday but anti-spam bot banned me from posting here twice since Sunday.

Seun, kindly call your staff (bots) to order abeg. Thank you.

This looks better than store bought pizza

seunny4lif:
Good evening oooh

. Very nice

FERNANDEZISBACK:

lol

Ribs for the adults and brownies for the kiddos

Kingozymandias:
ALEXREPORTS using his alternate account to post more underbridge Prostitute empowerment Pageant works here for us to see.

All these ugly wasted retired Dubai poop eating dames come home and he creates one road side pageant award for her...then posts it on Nairaland..

Lord knows how much he charges then for this service

hater

McDuncan:
And you must have come away with the understanding that 'clean up' is the application of water and tissue.

Simplistically naive of you!

That’s not the come back you think it is

If he’s handling only 75% of the bills, he should gladly handle 25% of the household care. That means on Sundays and Mondays, he should happily cook, clean, care for the kids, do laundry etc in those days.

Don’t be surprised his 75% contribution is the rent that he pays, not knowing how much things cost in the market. Meanwhile his wife is probably spending more to feed the family than they are paying in other expenses.

emmanuelbrown26:
When somebody is handling 75% of bills, automatically d person should be in charge of d affairs of that institution.
U didn't mention d husband's first annoyance.
U didn't ask d husband for long it has being going on like that?
For d husband to come on nairaland and say things like this, shows that he has seen more than what he wrote.

McDuncan:
long after the party, long after he's gone, you're left to do the clean up alone.

You don’t clean up after?

The things some of you brag about. Eww