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GloriousGbola:
This is why guys should vanish like a thief in the night after the hookup

Going to bed with a ten and waking up with a two, what's a man to do?

I believe this is exaggerated to hype the skills of the makeup artists. Because no way !

This is not real. What

gambojimeta:
Musk himself does not have a religion and claimed in an interview that he has no faith in God and does not believed in God. He believes in science.

Ps: Oyinbo like their pikin die. He would still love him no matter what.

When he declares his true political ambitions, he will switch his “unbelief” to Christianity. He can’t claim Muslim because Americans won’t vote him that way.
But if he flashes his fake Christianity in their face, he will get whatever he wants

descarado:
Spicy

Share your recipe. I’ve been wanting to make this cucumber salad.

Truthfulguy10:
With all due respect ma’am , WTF are you trying to say!!
Are you trying to justify the kids actions by saying his dad is a bad person

Come on

No. I mean It’s even possible the kid is using the trans thing to get back at the dad. Not sure what this kid’s history is or how they were raised. Therefore, I can’t say I know enough to justify their actions. Not that there’s anything to justify/not justify. They are who they say they are. Not my business.

But I’m saying Elon isn’t suddenly the model human because he’s against LGBTQ folks. It seems that’s how we qualify who is a good person in these parts of the world.

WhatCanIsay:
he is a bad person because he doesn't support the gay movement. .

No

I’m even worse now what are you talking about?

Also I’m referring to his current politics not even his history.

He’s not going to change into anything. He is buying unbridled power and he will use people’s bigotry to bring them to his side.

RightToReject:
If you of the old, both online and offline, especially during the time you were using your deactivated old moniker that started with "L" before 2014 on this forum, can transform to a bit somehow good person you seem to have become now, Elon Musk, not conceding to your assertion and aspersion here that he is a bad person, therefore has a chance of becoming even a saint anytime.

I can never be caught doubting the inevitability of change with all that I have seen and witnessed in the cause of life in all spheres so far.

Acidosis:
Hate is a strong word. I don't hate LGBT folks (at least I don't hate you )

Hilarious

Udoboss:
He's from South Africa

Who doesn’t know that?

Do you know the history of white people in SA?

Acidosis:
Hate is a strong word. I don't hate LGBT folks (at least I don't hate you )

Very funny

descarado:
All of them are racist coco. None is excluded. An average AA don't like you.

The hate between Africans and African Americans is manufactured. Africans guzzle the model minority coolaid sold to them by white people in order to look down on AAs whereas AAs are socialized to see Africans as less than.
I don’t buy into it. It’s divide and conquer

Acidosis:
You ehnnn

It appears the only thing very very bad people need to do to get y’all’s approval and vote, is to tell you they hate LGBT folks. That’s literally all it takes. It’s mind blowing how easy it is.

I should be the one saying you ehn.

Not to mention he’s a racist jerk whose wealth came from resources his ancestors stole from Africa meanwhile he has no regard nor does he even pretend to have any regard for black folks.

Ishilove:
What aspect of his character is terrible?

Just off the top of my head;

He’s a greedy hegemonic hypocrite who will and is preying on people’s biases/bigotry to propel himself to power? Much like Trump. Only slimier.

MadarasBlade:
Don't say what you're ignorant of. you made a statement, i asked for facts and you're here saying rubbish.

You’re looking to argue not looking for facts. Seems like I made a good decision to not entertain your “fact finding” mission. Because if you really want to know, it’s a click of a button away for you. But you don’t really care to know. So keep it pushing hun.

MadarasBlade:
And how do you know that Elon isn't a good person?

it’s a choice and a responsibility (your choice and responsibility ) to stay updated.

Elon musk is not a good person.

Regardless of how you feel about gay/transgender issues, don’t let it be the reason you root for him.
Even if he raised an army of nuns and priests who never go against what’s considered traditionally normal, he will still not be a person to root for.

Ishilove:
Who is 'her'? You mean Xavier? See as confusion reigns.

This demonic agenda is gaining grounds and anyone that opposes it gets 'canceled', but thankfully that bullshit isn't working on everyone. Elon just won himself a fan. Men becoming women, women becoming men and then trying to force everyone to accept their mental illness. Rubbish

Very well said

pansophist:
Enjoy my guy, But I use God's name to beg you, live uprightly. I know say to live rough de sweet and come easy, but as someone wey don live for the west for almost half of my life, I be like that old dog wey see as young puppy wey dem just recruit go just dey bark and vibrate, until they shoot am. He think say we wey stay calm no sharp, say we no get sense, but na empty can de make the loudest noise, and the first to be silenced

1. Avoid debt. To me, it's the next thing to slavery. You are a slave to whoever you owe. So don't go and collect money from banks because they advertise cheap loans give you, or go collect cars and phones on credit. Don't tie your life as a wage slave just because you want to ball and oppress people, you don't need that. The desire to pepper others usually comes from a place of ego, low self-esteem, and foolishness. So don't go and enslave yourself to jobs to pay monthly debt just to pepper people who don't give a shit about you, and will rather envy instead of celebrating you.

2. You see woman, run. Unless she is a good one, then stick to her for the long term. Sex is the cheapest thing in the west, especially in America, the headquarters of porn and all kinds of degradation, caging young people who can't control themselves. The US is not like Naija where you ejaculate and evacuate. If she is pregnant, then you go pay tired. I know one fine Naija guy, yellow like Ramsey Noah, get three baby mamas, and effectively a slave in my book. What's the point where you cant see your salary because it has been shared with all your baby mamas? you don't need that kind of slavery, my bro.

3. Focus, focus, focus. The west is a place that reveals yourself to you. If you are lazy, you will know. It's an epiphany really, and that realization is not a good one. Nigeria does one thing to lazy folks, and it is that it prevents you from knowing who you are, since the system is so bad and creates a lot of obstacles on your path. But in the west, even if you are broke like a broken bottle, you will earn if you ain't lazy. So man up, or woman up if you do ever transgender, but focus. Know why you are there, and work towards it. You won't be younger, stronger, and youthful than now, so don't waste it.

4. Lastly and most importantly, don't forget your parents, unless they were not there for you when you are young. Take care of them, don't joke with their affairs, and let them be happy that they trained a good son. This is coming from a place of love, so please please, be responsible. May God bless you, it shall be well with you dear comrade, in Jesus' name, Amen.

twinning200:
It stands on ur erected pinis? I would say no because you are female.

does this make sense to you?

TBH

the man may not even care, he will just ask for his share of the proceeds

Klass99:
I would have suggested you carry the child to full term, give birth and put him/her up for adoption. Collect a substantial sum of money from the adopting parents (as adoption fee) and do something meaningful with that money to improve your life and that of your 7 kids.

This will be a win-win situation for all parties concerned;

1. Your child will most likely be placed in a home without poverty and suffer head like yours, she will be loved and well cared for.

2. A childless couple will walk away with a child they want and will genuinely care for.

3. You will be free of the burden of another human being, you lack the capacity to properly care for and you will have the means to start your life over.

However, since you are not the sole parent of the foetus this advice may not be doable in your case. But, if you think you can pull it off and your husband won't care as you have alluded to in your post, then go for it and if you are successful, walk away and don't ever attempt to look for your 8th born child later on, to lay claim to him/her.

The entire adoption process should be done legitimately and appropriately, with due diligence, lawyers, signed agreements, the full works.

immortalcrown:
Dying for a good course is better than dying for a bad course.

You’re really okay with her sacrificing her life and potentially rendering her 7 children orphans all just to preserve a non-sentient fetus?

Mind blowing

Too early.

We know that in Nigeria, wearing the same traditional outfits to an event usually means you’re family or maybe it’s a specific uniform for that event.

So, you can’t be passing a message that you haven’t both agreed to or are on board with. Tell her a firm no and explain why.

If she can’t accept that, too bad

PDPGuy:
I trust you

Big law.

I salute nwanne

Only to the glorious ones

GloriousGbola:
submit madam to the gloriousgbola!

ahnie:
.
Just ignore him.

I’ll try. Lol

hammer567:
DID U SAY JUSTICE SYSTEM?


I CAN AUTHORITATIVELY INFORM U THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

sad

OP if you need assistant husband I’m available please.

Just weekly afang is all I require.

Congratulations and happy anniversary

Hope the dude and his family sue for damages in addition to whatever else the justice system does to the perp.

Evolutionlove:
Big Woman Gini? Ahnie na Average Pako Woman. Where the likes of Cococandy, Sheybebaby dey. Their likes are the real definition of Classic Ladies. I respect them a lot. Some are even on lowkey here. Those are the kind of Ladies I pray for to marry. Not that Vile Aunty wey no dey respect herself..

Why are you guys always, constantly and relentlessly trying to jam heads together?

Please leave me out of your comparisons. Thanks

Mode4:
I have been thinking why the few peeps I know including some of my distant uncles who spent most of their years abroad came back to Nigeria to live when they became old. Is there something awkward about growing old overseas?

Even my sister in the US, has been telling me that once she gets old, she will come back to Nigeria to spend the remainder of her life. Folks abroad, what's really going on? Is there a harsh reality for the aged over there?

It’s cheaper and the dollar goes a long way

Masala Wings

Aka cooked with Indian masala spices

A business account should be separate.

You can have a joint account on the personal one. You both need to come to a compromise. But business should be business

Adeleketoyin:
My people please I need your advice.

I'm having a lil loggerhead with my Fiance.

My fiance works in a company, which doesn't give him time to come home or live in his rented apartment for long.
I currently run a confectionery shop in my father's house.

My Fiance however wants to have a joint account with me when we get married soon in this my confectionery business. According to him, he'll support me, to help him get free in the future to stop his salary work and probably start another business without affecting the family.

But I don't want to have any joint account or partner with anyone in this my confectionery business. I want my business without any check or partner.
He's insisting on joint account to run the business and its getting into our relationship.

Please what do you advice?