She left them behind because she has kids and they didn’t? Is reproduction an achievement? Especially in this literal and economic climate?
Maybe you can tell them what other ways she left them behind which might make sense but having kids isn’t one of them. Almost anyone can reproduce.
Always trying to hide behind “thinking for myself” “the white man yen yen yen” to say things that don’t even make any sense.
And the only time you want to talk about the white man leading Africans astray is when it’s time for 70 year old men to sleep with 18 year old children.
Move jare
hammer567: Congrats to Regina. All those forever young back then discouraging her decision on basis of age, Regina never leave una now?
She has left you behind. See her beautiful children.
I bet you dont feel so young now, after just 3 years addition.
Maverick777: If all you can do, is give the exact thing you frown at getting, doesn't that make you a weak hypocritical person..? can't you be the mature one? I think you can and should do better, for your own sanity sake. Your words/utterances have a way of defining your life.
Bye.
Use this energy and call your bros to order instead of expecting us to be the “mature ones”.
Y’all can and should do better for your own sanity too. No be only you sabi craze
Maverick777: Was your last paragraph really necessary? why do you people like to display extreme lack of training every time? can't you drive home your message without throwing vulgar languages?
All you guys do on a daily basis is find new ways to insult women in whatever words or manner available to you. Then you expect some sort of kindness and respect in return.
olabrinks: Why would any married woman go on her knees to beg her husband to hang out with her ex? Naira land and lies sha. Even if she want to hang out with her ex, is it you that she will beg? Na wa oh
WashingtonK12: When one is in love stupidity and foolishness shouldn't come into play especially when you know where you re coming from before getting involved and where you are going when you re in. I got married to my dear wife 4yrs ago and ever since, it has been fun, happiness and everything beautiful going well for us untill very recently my wife woke me up from my beautiful sleep after a wonderful love making session. I woke and went straight to the bathroom to wash my face to enable me remain awake and hear my wife out. My wife went down on her knees pleading with me never to be upset with what she is about to ask of me. Judging from the way she was earnestly pleading with me, I had no choice but to assure her that I will not get upset but I will also Grant her request. After she had succeeded in extracting a promise from me, she went ahead to make her request and guess what gentlemen and ladies on this platform; my wife pleaded with me to allow her hang out with her ex boyfriend. I was so shocked hearing such stupid request from my wife with whom I have two lovely children. Immediately I gave her an emphatic NO response. She pleaded for hours but I refused. After much begging I told her I will oblige her request on one condition which is for me to go with her but she refused. At that point I told her to choose between me and her ex boyfriend. We are still on this same issue till the early hours of today. It's very appalling that a married woman could be craving to hang out with her ex without any sensible reason. I am ready to kick her ass out of my home should she go ahead and hang out with her ex. No matter how strong and deep my love for her is. I will never be stupid or allow love to becloud my manly sense of reasoning.
GoooodHardDick: Seems you didn't understand what I wrote.
Get a baby Mama who will give birth for you, collect your child and Send her out so she can continue with her oloshoism and her hoeing life. It's very simple. Instead of keeping a woman who will be living in your house and stay be cheating around
I think you mean a surrogate. Because you’re not “collecting” any child from the actual mother. You’d be very very surprised when you attempt to.
Just find a fertility clinic where they have embryos for sale, pay a surrogate who will carry, build and birth the new human for you and walk away for an arranged amount of money. That’s your best bet.
Remember when she hushed everyone who came to her aid the last time she cried? She told them to leave her and her marriage alone. Something about the devil something something?
Well even if she’s dying now, no one will dare intervene.
GloriousGbola: And you Americans and your health care aren't helping
There are subreddits featuring people jumping off ambulances because of the insane billing
Americans
You mean congress not Americans. They are the ones with actual power to change things.
Trust me every reasonable American even the nonsense republicans would love affordable healthcare.
Only problem is liberals want affordable healthcare for all but republicans want it only for white people. So they consistently vote for candidates who they know will suppress accessible care for all especially marginalized communities.
They are just a very loud and obnoxious minority. They don’t represent every American.
Singlelover: for about two weeks now, but fast growing.
if they have good appetite, feed as much as possible.
supplement with formula if mom is not producing so much milk. It gives their little livers the necessary energy to break down the bilirubin. That little champ is working hard. so, needs extra boost.
Singlelover: we have gone to the hospital, and the doctor said i should be placing him under the early morning sun for about 15 minutes daily with i'am doing.
Well that’s the only approved home remedy as far as I know. If it’s not working, you might need to go back and have them do it under controlled bili light. Or the doc can refer you to another facility that has more options like IV therapy
thorpido: If your child has jaundice,that child should be properly taken care of. You should run a blood test to check the bilirubin level.Your child also might need phototherapy. Jaundice is not something to joke with in a new born baby.It could damage the brain and give the child cerebral palsy. How many days old is your baby?
They’ve probably been recently discharged and are they afraid to accumulate new hospital bills.
Because most people will just go to the hospital before coming online to ask
Sunlight helps too as it breaks down the excess bilirubin that’s causing the yellowing but I’m not sure how much is too much and the baby is too tender to risk sunburn. If I tell you to leave the baby under sunlight, it might end up very sun burned due to over heating.
So a controlled temperature under the bili light in your hospital should do the trick.
However….……if you absolutely cannot afford to go to a hospital, try 30 mins to 1 hour during the early morning sun when it’s not too hot. And please make sure there’s someone supervising the baby AT ALL TIMES!!!!
Keep it hydrated too. Breast milk or formula. No water. Thanks and good luck
duchaB: It doesnt mean you are tired of the "nonesense Amerika" cos if you are, you would have considered moving countries back to your Imo, to cultivate your Akpu farm...
Life in the country is fun, very peaceful and cost of living is less...
Main looking at the school, one would think they are paying their staffs well. My expectations were high because the school is well co-ordinated and that was the reason I applied for a teaching job at the school.
I'm certain that 45k would be the salary of H.O.D or any old staff in that school.
GloriousGbola: And this school will be charging over 150k per student per term. In addition to wayo on school uniform, feeding etal.
Nigerians ehn, masters of exploitation. The man fit ask you for kidney join sef.
Sorry about this.
You can always take it to hold body for the next job If worst comes to worst
Thing is you can’t really hold body with a job like this because it takes all your time leaving you with no time and energy to truly canvas for the job that fits you. It’s appalling
BRATISLAVA: Female privilege, he says. Someone that wants feminism. When it favors him, of course. What is she bringing to the table? I want everything that I want.
Well he does agree that men can/should submit too which is why I don’t see any issues at this time with his opinions.
ReadingIsWealth: Feminism by itself is just that women and men both deserve dignity and mutual respect as equals. Some women do act closer to a "female supremacist" but thankfully this is rare. Though it is tempting, try to not let this "vocal minority" - that being female supremacists - define the label of feminist. Technically speaking, feminism just means equality of the sexes and no supremacy can exist with this definition.
Feminist women make good partners and are typically more intelligent. There is nothing like a woman with a body AND mind that excites you. Intelligence and humor are so strongly related and I thank God my wife makes me cry with laughter from her wit!
As a country we are very far behind rich and powerful nations when it comes to gender. Feminism has made the western countries rich and hold back so many ones like nigeria. If more women were career oriented here instead of just baby-machines, maybe we would not have a terrible population boom that will cause so much tension and instability in the coming years.
Ishilove: I wish her recovery as well. A lot of people are hung over the fact that her father is a politician, but may God forbid I join them in throwing stones at a person who is already down and in-between life and death. I will never use Ill health to condemn anybody.
Personal or family ill health really puts you in a mental state that you can’t imagine or wish on your enemy. I’ve seen families become shadows of themselves and seen the eyes of defeated parents already mourning their kids they know they are going to lose soon. It can be unbearable and cause irrational desperation. Hence I pity the man and his wife.
Okay then. Let’s say I confused you with someone else. Because I don’t disagree with anything you’ve shared in this post so far.
pansophist: Na wa o, and I thought my preaching was clear enough.
You can be a feminist and be submissive, the two do not compete or conflict with themselves, a good woman is both.
By being a feminist, I'm not referring to the toxic version that is common these days, but true, organic, and humane one. A woman with a sense of responsibility towards herself and me.
My understanding of submission is respect. A woman that respects me and respects herself is a submissive woman. She can't be one without being the other, it's the opposite side of the same coin.
As per your last paragraph, that exactly what I've been saying here since, that men should go into an equal relationship, where she can do things you do for her.
The kind of tackle I get from moniker like Iyaebe and UyaiIncomparabl is well known. iyaebe particularly called me stingy and not deserving respect from a woman because I expect her to bring something to the table, not her body. Or uyi that says it's a man duty to provide, hinting that he should expect nothing from a woman.
So perhaps, hope you aint confusing me with someone else sha, or just look for previous post where I argued the opposite. So you see, don't make a villain of your imagination. I'm your friend.