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Saintmary:
It is not an attempted rape, it's rape.
He should be arrested. Too bad the girl is in love with an animal.

This part below makes it seems as if he tried but didn’t succeed so he left out of anger

she bluntly refused so I had to forced her I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face i slapped her so hard out of anger I didn't mean to and I left the house for afewhours.[quote]While this part does sound like he eventually succeeded.
[quote]I apologise for forcing her

Either way he’s an animal

Flamemignon1:
Exactly, I was just about to point that out

@the bolded... I just wish I could like this comment a billion times. Homophobia and transphobia were truly brought in by the west

Every time someone wrongly says the west is doing this and that to their African culture , I lose a strand of hair. Imma be bald soon

Ishilove:
What the actual fúck is this nonsense I just read?

Biko they are free to take their mental illness elsewhere. We already have enough lunatics roaming freely and we don't need so called trans people to add to the numbers. The western media should also stop shoving this bullshit in our faces. It's getting tiresome

Homophobia and transphobia is from the west.
Shaming people for not covering up their bodies is western and Arabic influence

We had a better culture before they came with their religion and button up suits to demonized everything african including scanty dressing appropriate for our weather.

Now every bad thing the west brought with them, we have learned and told ourselves that it’s our culture and then turn around to call people who are resisting western influences as being “too westernized”.

Don’t fall for it.
The west may be unlearning the bad things they used to believe but we can’t still be champions of their cause while saying others are westernized.

Flamemignon1:
It's not their fault, it's centuries of mental conditioning by the west... They still have that slave mentality

Funny thing is that after adopting all those phobias from the west and western religious influences, they turn around and say the west is shoving tolerance down their throats. I can’t wrap my head around that level of ignorance.

Homophobia and transphobia is western culture!!!

Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

Food

Smh

nnennachiji:
Pizza

looks great

Are you stupid?
So if someone has had consensual sexual relationships in the past, that means they should be okay with being raped?
What an ediot

slawormiir:
If that your sister nor be virgin and probably get two or three boyfriend way dey bang her steadily for Nigeria before she enter uae...why she come dey complain na.....

Of course the DIL is trying to start trouble.
Because what does a baby need money for? And the baby didn’t come visiting so why would she be asking the baby if it came with any money? It’s obvious she’s stylishly referring to her MIL. Some people can be underhanded sha.

Exactly

Acidosis:
If you and your partner decide to save together or open a joint savings account towards your wedding, and then you take a part of the funds to pay her bride price, what difference does it make?? If her contribution is 20%, yours 80%, and the so called bride price takes about 15% of the total savings, haven't she contributed in some way?

So long as your wife contributes towards the wedding, you have indirectly taken from her to pay her bride price. It doesn't matter whether her Naira notes was used in buying yams and colanut or wedding gown or drinks.

The fact is that she has contributed. Save yourselves the headache. What you used her share of the money to buy is needless.

Unless you (the man) is wealthy enough to fund the wedding 100% (from drinks to wedding gown, earrings, food, etc), your wife and every other person that contributed towards your wedding (including your parents, siblings, friends and those you scammed with aso ebi) have helped you in paying your bride price.

Hathor5:
Not this one hun.

okay dear

Hathor5:
I'm as disgusted as you are.

My midwife told me to take a look at it because she thought it would be interesting and I am not an enemy of education so I agreed but I can't go any further than this.

congratulations

Cross dressing isn’t western. What you’re wearing now is western. Don’t be ignorant

richmondefosa:


I saw this tweet and i could only shake my head.

May we not give birth to children who will set us up to be embarrassed in public just to garner cheap likes from strangers who will never give a hoot about you.

The western culture, while it comes with lots of benefits and freedom also comes with humongous disadvantages.

At the end of the day, Freedom, if not checkmated will end up becoming slavery.

Say whatever you like, bash me however you can but i will speak the truth. The attitude and behavioral changes of this boy is alien to our culture as Africans and Nigerians. This should be called out and condemned.

LGBTQ+ and the many other alphabets they may decide to come up with will forever be rejected in Africa.

We will not be bullied into accepting a culture alien to ours.

I feel for his mother. I could read her pain from the chats.

May our ancestors give her succor.

Klass99:
Lmao

Coco wetin happen? I saw ''you are an idiot'' and started laughing.

Like, this is not your usual MO nah!

Some people only get it when you’re direct

descarado:
Is it today you know.
Forget nairaland, the hatred is real and deep.
Go to the North. The awareness just started.

It’s heartbreaking

pocohantas:
A leopard cannot change its spots.

It definitely can’t.

one minute a woman is supposed to be the home keeper as god made her the helper. Then the next minute the title of housewife becomes an insult. All from the same mouth.

Can’t make sense of stupid .

jornwhite:
see full housewife, aint you suppose to be in the kitchen thread

Is housewife supposed to be an insult?
Am I no longer supposed to be a helper living according to my man’s dictates? Why would you then glorify something one minute and deride it the next?

You’re dumb sha. Kai

gssdobi:
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You are a Narcissist inside out.

So the innocent 18years old, you disvirgined and discarded, does not count?

Since, you don't believe in God's Mercy, and promise to forgive and forget our past, you will not go unpunished, for taking advantage of an innocent 18years old probably twice your age.

That’s how illogical all them ediotic virgin hunters are.
Imagine regarding yourself as garbage and whoever you touch becomes soiled. And they are proud to announce the belief to the world

So men are dirt and filth that pollute whoever they touch?

Lostchild:
After I left her, I stayed celibate for about 1 year and met someone new. She was an 18 year old girl, although I was way more older than her. At first I never wanted to, but her continous nudging prompt me to just give it a trial.

I later saw that, she was a virgin and no man has ever touch or kiss her. She was spiritually and physically clean and not polluted. She was the only person I have ever dated that I have peace in my soul.

I prospered again and I continue to prosper when dating her.

After 1 year of dating her, I parted ways with her because I was so tired of her hot temper. (anger)

I parted ways with her out of fustration and met someone new. This time I was and I am a lucky man to escape with my Life from this new girl.

She was a street f'vcker.
She was commission to destroy men.

It was God that save me from this daughter of Jezebel.

This new girl almost killed me.

After my escape, I gave up in dating and stay celibate

You are 100 % correct.

I will be a lucky person marry a virgin as a wife.

Too loud
They won’t like this.

Hyerin:
I agree with you but the reason why women internalize misogyny has alot of layers to it that needs to be unpeeled. Culture is no doubt a culprit. Religion is another one. These two are majorly shaped by men and for men and are powerful forms of indoctrination and because women lacked any form of power in the past, they simply went with the dictates of patriarchy which still persists today..

Lmao

Karleb:
If I had a gun, I would have given you a head shot.

Rabid, unhinged and emotional.

Karleb:
Since you've decided to be suffering from self induced dyslexia, I will explain to you like a kid.

No sensible woman would expect her husband to wash a baby's napkin because they are always full of shit and men hates washing shit generally, unless of course the man insists.

Likewise, no sensible man would expect his wife to lift heavy furnitures because women generally hates it due to obvious reason, unless of course she insist and I expect a sensible man to say no to that anyways.

I believe I speak for my sisters when I say we don’t enjoy washing shit either.
We do what needs to be done because we are expected to.

Yes indeed. Misogyny and the patriarchy cannot be sustained if women weren’t helping to uphold it.

cayorday89:
You are right but not entirely right, it is not man's mentality alone but also of the female gender, in the form of mothers and even young ladies of your generation, in other words it is a societal decision which some both male and female will adhere to and some others will not go against, the problem now is finding who fits and have the same mindset as you.
Now, how many mothers will not raise eyebrows if they visit their sons and see him doing doing house chores on a regular just to help the wife out, imagine what will be of the wife from the mother-in-law's reaction. HUSBAND IS WILLING BUT YOUR FELLOW WOMAN IS AGAINST IT.
2nd point, some ladies of your generation(can't say your age and generation but you get the point), many of them will carry themselves by going to their boyfriend's house to spend the weekend and the only thing they show to feel accepted is to do house chores willingly in a bid to feel accepted, God help her she visits the family house and she does the little she could do, it is the females in that family house that will still accuse her of not been responsible. FELLOW WOMAN IS ENSLAVING FELLOW WOMAN FOR THEIR SONS AND BROTHERS TO FEEL APPROVED.
Personal experience, in school I lived in a hostel where we have only one female amongst 11 guys and we only have one toilet, this toilet is always clean but she traveled one time and by the third day it was getting dirty, I think I noticed on the fourth day and I washed it, when others came they were just saying I knew it is Kay(me) that washed it. When she came back she also said she knew I was the only one that can wash it, in my house I have never washed toilet before, but my dad does together with my mum and elder sister, a woman came to our house one day and saw my dad washing it, she asked why he was doing that when my mum is at home..
WOMAN QUESTIONING A MAN WHO IS HIGHLY DOMESTICATED.
I am the only son amongst three sisters, but yet I am highly domesticated, can do all what the society called female chores, helps my mum out in her shop which is in front of the house especially when it comes to thorough cleaning, women see me, they compliment me and say my wife will enjoy but not without ending it with, what about your sisters are they not supposed to be the ones doing that.
In all, many men are willing but won't do because their manliness will be questioned by women.

You’re really using the word “terrorist” to mask what you really want to say which is that you really want every igbo person to die. Because to you anyone who’s igbo is a terrorist. You have no way of knowing that these soldiers were even attacked much less by the people in those houses.

You’re a just hateful slowpoke and you fool no one with your choice of words.

When your wishes will come for you, it will leave you no mercy.

plaindealer:
So, ipob terrorists shoot soldiers from inside the mud but, make the soldiers no fire back? You must be crazy..

They should have burnt the whole place down, that's how Israel deals with terrorists, they kill them and bulldoz their houses.

Good riddance to terrorists, they can all rot in hell.

The fact that there are people supporting this is mind boggling to me. Y’all’s hate for igbo people really makes you irrational. It’s saddening

Solosolojohquay:
In Africa women are thought to be submissive is not about if the husband work or not a good wife can support the husband for some time till he is stable without outsiders knowing she is the breadwinner my uncle wife is the sole owner of their house it was part of her entitlement at work the money was being removed from her salary but my uncle still command and acted like the landlord and the wife still respect him

@bold, why is this necessary? Why is it taboo for a woman to be given credit for her labor?
Why does she have to minimize herself so that outsiders (whose business it isn’t anyway) can assume the husband is the one doing what she’s doing?

Acidosis:
Even if you're the crowned Prince of patriarchy, you should know that your newborn deserves all the attention.

Prince of patriarchy. Lmao

Hyerin:
Now that those days are largely gone and won't ever come back, they've embraced being perpetually stagnated and angry at the world now that their characters and behaviours are questioned thus, highlighting their inadequacies and deficiencies. They can no longer run under the cloak of "protector and provider" for shield since women work now. They can no longer make it a personality; they now have to actually develop one and this has left them shattered and disillusioned.

The barest of minimums.

Couldn’t say it better even if I tried