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neztar:
stop shifting the goalpost. You are fond of doing that and it's not like you are honest yourself.

SimplyFacts:
That being said, Tiwa should bring the controversial boyfriend to the public. Let people vet him thoroughly. What does he do for a living? Can we really say he didn't orchestrated all this to extort Tiwa, being a public figure?

Fear those so-called big boys!

pocohantas:
Original indeed. I suspect the “blackmailer” contacted Tiwa to pay for the video and if she doesn’t pay, he would sell it to blogs. Tiwa called him bluff and he sold it to GLB. That is how these bloggers get such personal videos. Na insider dey sell am give them. Linda Ikeji had a lot of money to pay for such back in the days, that was why she always had the breaking news.

Maybe Tiwa actually released the video herself through a 3rd party to render GLB useless. Naso GLB vex, start to discredit the video. Say na Tiwa lookalike and she did it for clout.

descarado:
People will not want her to stop making music. Nope. Her single with brandy has millions of views already.
Just few and they will die off. Apology is needed for the brands she represents, her fans and family. It is not her duty to call out gistlover. Its her PR and officially.
Withdraw and let good PR and legal team handle it.
Even if it had happened to a man, that's the professional thing to do.
Even cray cray kemi said that should have been the first thing she should have done. She allowed the chants from fans and some colleagues to get to her head.
(As long as you represent brands especially family oriented brands it's a prerequisite)

Fans that can abandon you any minute.

Magnoliaa:

I'll not add my own voice and judgement to the barrage she's got. And it doesn't even mean I am egging her on, or supporting people posting their sex tapes online.

If her values and judgments are intact, I believe she'll be having some reflections herself and is aware of the things people are saying already. Especially the sensible ones from a good place. I don't believe she's a 'moot' person, that lacks a thinking faculty, hence the pointlessness of my ... 'judgement.'

I wish her well and peace .

descarado:
She started out well by saying she was about to be blackmailed.
I had expected that as soon as the video popped out she will use the same energy to apologise to the public. Rather, she was busy fighting with bloggers, hailing herself while some people were calling her Queen.

She should have apologised, withdraw from the public and work behind scenes.

People are angry because of her arrogance. She is going about her business like nothing happened.

She has a very bad PR.

reddingtonblack:
she gave us the right to judge her cos as a celeb she stands to be a role model, the question is can a woman whu value herself act like tiwa did, if she had sense of pride will she allow a boy not up to her age fvck her n record it on a yacht.
The mistake you so called woke women keep making is you keep comparing yourself with men, thereby failing to realize women are alway @ the recieving end, if we are hypocrite is it right for someone's mother to have a sextape

ethicallyright:


More than 200 reasonable people have liked my adorable truth now

ethicallyright:
This wouldn't happen if Tiwa Savage didn't divorce the one man who really loved her. There would be no sextape if she remained with the father of her only son who almost ended his life when he realized he wouldn't get the opportunity to be by her side anymore.

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Till the end of time, Queen B (Beyonce) will always be praised. When Jay-Z cheated on her with a woman she's prettier than, Queen Beyonce fought the lady and warned her to stay off her legally married husband.

The weeks that followed Jay-Z's infidelity scandal were terrible. Feminist organizations on Twitter , millions of her female followers on Instagram and those who couldn't preserve their Hollywood marriages unanimously encouraged her to dump Mr. Carter.

Queen Beyonce went underground. The next we saw her was by her husband's side. She'd get pregnant with her twins within few months.

Beyonce is finer and more famous than Tiwa but she understood one thing: Men are biologically polygamous and she remains a happy woman today.

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If Tiwa was with her ex-husband, the broke gold digger, whose second motive in the relationship is to brag that he's the one making Tiwa moan, wouldn't be in the picture.

The duty of mothers is to teach their daughters how to be feminine. Submission is the first characteristic of femininity. No virtuous mother on Earth would advise her daughter to leave a good man whose only weakness is cheating. She'd rather her daughter encourages the man to protect himself to avoid STDs.

May God Almighty bless me with more wisdom and give all the men on this forum rich , strong and independent wives who will forgive their shortcomings.

May the Good Lord also give ladies who will quote me the grace to be submissive wives who will forgive their caring husbands who only cheat.

SweetVibe:
I love this

azraeljaheel:
come adopt me! Dnt worry no need for any legal signings

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO

DEMARCO1:
It doesn't make sense to me..trying to be humble but economically foolish..and also being a liar in a polite way belittled the young man..it would have been better she told him about her Car but gave him the Wheels to drive himself home..then takeover from there.. She ain't no wife material..this type would own a Duplex somewhere and be pretending with you in your One Room..

khiaa:
Sweetie, no guy should want a stupid girl like her. The polite thing to do is offer him a ride home in her car. Imagine wasting time, money and her gas on making another trip from the Uber to pick up her car. That girl is stuck on stupid and glued to dumb.

Klass99:
Lol, I don't know why folks are even shaking head for him. Traffic has become a "normal" way and part of life in this city. It's a given!

Like him, I don't live close to my office but mehn I love where I live to pieces. My colleagues keep suggesting I move closer to our office for traffic reasons. I tell them power and water is 24/7 where I live amongst other nice things, I won't give it up for this job.

Moreover, when you see really nice/decent accommodations with the facilities I currently enjoy, the price is cut throat and for expatriates, baby girl cannot deal o!

I often decline hangout invites because I like going home to my crib after work. Ask me wetin I dey rush house go do? Nothing o, other than to turn on my TV and AC to relax after a warm shower.

Born2Succeed, if you like your new crib and you are feeling it in your soul (like I do mine) move and forget the traffic.

Nilon:
I'm pretty sure you won't talk like this if it involves a male celeb. smh

Grayoso:
I don't slander people. I have just known Tiwa about town for a while and what she get's up to. If you're in that lifestyle you'd know.

Tiwa is cynical, calculative, impetuous and irresponsible. She just does not think anything through before acting and does not consider the repercussions of her actions.

In no way am I saying Tiwa is a bad person who is out to hurt anyone deliberately. No. She is like a lot of women and men who do not give their action deep thought before going ahead.

It's not okay to be that way at 41 and the mother of a young, impressionable and vulnerable child.

All these Celebs praising Tiwa are not her friend. She needs really wise and calming influences around her who will help her manage her recklessness not exploit it.

Grayoso:
I'd give other ladies, like Niniola or even Yemi Alade, the benefit of the doubt but not Tiwa. Trust me as someone in the know about Tiwa's antics about town. Lol.

Like you, I admire her for her music but I just happen to know, unlike most of her fans, that Tiwa is not a very sincere, responsible or morally upright person. That's the truth.

You will see that more damaging revelations will come out from this act of selfishness from Tiwa.

Grayoso:
That's the whole point. Her face showing is done deliberately for the purpose Tiwa needs the tape to achieve.

Deji clocked it and is shading her subtlely by saying she's always acting a fool for doing a video with only her face in it and not that of the other Party. People should forget this talk about "leaked" sex tape with her 'boyfriend'.

To me that is likely one of the 'roadies' Tiwa is screwing and casually decided to use to do a video she wants to give her a Kim Kardashian 'rebirth' even though it will backfire because Tiwa is a 41 year old Nigerian mother while Kim Kardashian is an American who was in her twenties and the world accepted her for being young, loose and a celeb groupie.

The guy's face being hidden from the camera id part of the deception and that is what Deji is saying. This is all part of Tiwa's attempt to scam the public and trend through sexual notoriety because she knows that is the hottest gossip amongst men and women in the world.

Especially in Nigeria where most men and women are glorified oloshos and promiscuous rats and whores.

Nilon:
Call a spade a spade. Stop rationalizing immorality for once. You You keep doing this thing all the time and you are somebody I admire alot

Farfalla:
The same man shouting "support your man when he's a nobody" will be eyeing one gold digger and even sell his kidney for her as soon as he gets a little money.

These things happen because men crave for gold diggers. They always have this dire need to prove to themselves that they are desirable to gold diggers. That they can get them. They have nothing to prove to Proverbs 31 women.

They curse gold diggers all over Nairaland simply because they can't afford them, but as soon as they can, they'll go for them and will usually go all out to please them.

OP, I'm sorry about your predicament but such is life. Your father messed up and the consequences are now being faced by you. I doubt there's anything you or your folks can do. You can however get a lawyer and see which loopholes she can use to circumnavigate or twist the law to your favour, but don't hold your breath.

As you can see, the "she" above is in bold. Kindly get a female lawyer because once a male lawyer senses your stepmother's gold digging instincts he'll be drawn to her and outwit you off your father's property just to please her.

Good luck though. You'll need it.

pocohantas:
Lol. Maybe he is somewhere on Nairaland telling us he can’t marry a non-virgin. Whereas he is married to a woman with 4 kids. She was a SM before his dad. She had three for his dad. Now she has one for the new husband.

Some women are hot o.

WriterNig:
Hmmmm..... I'd play safe and not take her to the alter if i were Ronaldo. He already has everything he needs in life.

Women are very predictable.