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tommy589:
We knew something was wrong when my nephew was offline his Facebook page. Few days after We heard hé was killed at metele. The army has not acknowledge his death since 2019,to them hé is still a deserter. I pray God's protection over your friend and the rest of the boys fighting book haram

Deserter? What an infuriating tragedy

Akposy:
Happy birthday to me! Another chance to rewrite my story

wow

Happy birthday to you!!!
Awesome

Christmasdon:
At night or during day time you may be wondering why should a responsible man of such high magnitude and elated gentle man be poundering his wife at home . my dear please check well the woman have gone on hell bent refusing to give the man his conjugal right. sex/conji don't know if you are a very gentle man in the society or not. so before you conclude why this man beating up his wife it may be the woman is denying him sex.
From my own experience.

So you typed this, read it and thought it was okay enough to post?

descarado:
I really want it to be like those days again.

same

descarado:
Those days of fun has gone.

But they shouldn’t be though. We have the power to change am for dem

I know everyone means when they tell him to be careful and it’s because they’ve seen what trolls can do with their troll accounts. I personally believe that if most people give trolls hot hot energy like they do when they are trolling people, they will wither away.

Anytime I see someone sharing a cute moment and someone comes along to tell them to take it down so as not to receive negative comments, I always think “but nobody has even said anything negative yet”. We are empowering them by anticipating it and telling people to act with fear of them in mind.

Maybe we can disempower the mean people by being more positive and encouraging people to share their happiness.

It doesn’t have to be marital woes and family problems all the time. Lol.

And even if the poster is seeking validation, What’s wrong with it? Humans are social creatures that’s why we tend to come here to vent when feeling bad and also come here to share the happiness when it’s overwhelming. You don’t have to know the people personally.

That’s just me though.

Klass99:
Cruelty and meanness wasn't my intent or motive at all, but from the way you are reacting and taking offfence, you ought to understand my post/point better and why posting on a public platform for strangers is not the best.

No one says you shouldn't post what you want on social media platforms, but why not post on the platforms where you are familiar with the people you are sharing your life with and who may actually care about you?

You see what posting on a public platform with strangers is already doing to you, right? You don't like the comments you are seeing and now you feel like it's a personal attack on your person when it is not.

You expected to receive only positive reviews but this is a diverse community of people you don't know and who don't know you, so don't take it personally if the views differ.

Is your baby cute? Yes, but so are most babies you don't need validation from strangers to make you feel good about a fact which already exists.

You can post wherever you want, but don't expect everyone to react or respond the way you want. It won't even be bad belle or cruelty, just different mindsets on display and a difference of opinions.

dacblogger:
Everyone that advised him to take down those pics are 100% right...
O.p if you want to show how cute your baby is,then enter Facebook. You're just exposing your child that you're meant to protect to a whole world of evil by posting this on Nairaland...
DNT argue rubbish and see reasons with the advice.

What’s going to happen to the baby if nairalanders see him?

Cutie

I’m convinced many of you on this forum are mentally deranged

vineyardfarms:
they dated 5 years, yet she did not carry out deligent finding about the man's back ground? She does not know where the man comes from, to ask fundamental questions? Why wait until he establish business with N1.5M for her before finding out about the other woman with a child? GREED, GREED. Don't reap where you did not sow. Warning to gold digers in the house. Do not be on an equally yoke with an unbeliever. Always check for short fuse characters,( anger ) aggresion, authoritative, loose screws head, before sliding into that union. I pray she comes out of this to tell her story in the land of the living. I hope the authority will investigate deeper the source of his income been in the SARS UNIT With history of killing innocent victims for their possessions.

Vickyvice:
Women in Nigeria and entitlement mentality.

Aren’t you xtupid for this?

Fahdiga:
After eating the man's money she want to clean mouth abi. If reverse was the case these vagina people would have bayed for the man's blood. Why don't you tell him in the beginning that you aren't interested instead of wasting his time and money.

What an idiotic thing to say

SmartPolician:
Some women no sabi talk
When you see a visibly angry man, avoid him because you cannot physically fight him.
Sometimes, silence is the best answer. It doesn't make you weakling.
Yes, the guy will be prosecuted but she will bear the pains

Matthewdan:
Shutup... Women should take full responsibility for their actions

ransomed:
If you can bad mouth be ready to take bad jab. If you can cut with razor tongue, be ready for upper cut.

incogni2o:
Because all of them know say the woman no try,

Is she his aunt.

Even two known people don't appreciate public correcti.

Talkless.

Obviously, the man will pay, but the lady definitely learnt the lesson the hard way

nurain150:
What kind of woman abuses a man.

i

kuntakinte01:
If you want to be treated like a woman, talk like a woman. But when you begin to run your mouth, then you are asking for a punch. Its nothing bad, afterall on the other hand, feminism is like trying to measure up to men in every aspect. So she should take a power pill and retaliate. And na black man self. It then remind me of the film "God father of Harlem " where a character said "when black men get angry, white men get scared "

Well then let him go to jail and punch every man there who tells him to chill.

Y’all know how to tell women what to say and what warrants a violent response. No one sees you react the same way when another man supposedly talks to you in a way you don’t like.

Mercychen:
Was that the only reason for his existence? Hmm..

So it seems

Acidosis:
Also involve yourself in your family budget and expense. It doesn't make you a SIMP. What's the purpose of studying economics, finance, and accounting from basic school if you can't put those lessons into practice in your home?

110%.
That way, he can actually know if she mismanages stuff or if he’s unaware of how much things cost now.

Sonnobax15:

I really remember when I was little...Dad would give mum of blessed memory just 3h because na wetin he get be that, to buy soup ingredients... With a smiling face . Momsy go collect the money from am and even add small money from her okrika business wey she dey do to go market......
Sometime when momsy go dish the food put for table,you go hardly differentiate between food wey dem cook with 5k from am .

Op,no be say wife Material no dey,but it all deprivef on how you take package am.....Na you be the man and head of the family,why not kukuma sit her down and talk sense into her.....Even though say we know say our money no get value for now self,but at least that money wey you dey give her for foodstuffs reach to sustain a family of that size

Does this your fantasy consider today’s economic situation?

pocohantas:
No mind them. Once they hear multiple dating, they start having palpitations and reminding women their toto would suffer. One would wonder if their pricks are cursed or built to inflict pain and ruins.

Vaginà matters.

Olumighty123:
Please define dating? Truth is, no man would date you without having sex with you, else y'all are just friends.

During dating, you’re getting to know each other. It doesn’t have to involve sex.

Like the lady said, if you find the person that’s the one, then you can exclude everyone else because ultimately the goal would be to become their permanent partner whether through marriage or some other form of commitment.

Now let me ask. If men can’t date without sex. And men can’t stay without dating. Why are guys expecting women to be virgins or have no sexual experience?
Aren’t y’all confused like this?
Does that make any sense to you?
Don’t answer me. Just think about it for yourself

Olumighty123:
No be your tohtoh go Suffer am?

You can date without sex.
Many of you don’t even know the meaning of dating.

Sonnobax15:

Any guyman wey insist on say him woman must chop belleful first before marriage,I no go too blame am.... Because the rate at which young ladies of nowadays take dey voluntarily dey offer their wombs to Yahoo boys for fetish reasons reach for any guyman wey get sense to draw that kind rain

Fantazy:
Don't u think u would have been the one pregnant, if u were not busy trying to consult the Oracle before saying yes.

Anyway, someone else didn't waste time like u

cerpvad:
The guy did the right thing. He already knew that you are a time waster so he quickly grabbed the alternative available to him.

Many ladies have taken birth control drugs for a long time and this has affected their fertility. Guys please insist on pregnancy before marriage.

Calitoscassius:
Total rubbish! the guy is a real man, i woulda done the same, i remember one nigerian girl who claimed to be 3 weeks pregnant for me, i was really happy, i wanted the baby, she started asking me to rent flat for her, open business for her, buy her a car. No problemo! I said, i remember giving her 30k just for pocket money. After few day asked her for proofs of the pregnancy she sent me some clinic's paper's. Then i mentioned that i will do a DNA, after 2 days of me mentioning DNA she rang me crying that....... whait for it......


She had a miscariage.


So i don't blame the man. Dey dia de wait for Prince charming to come marry you without been pregnant.

Why do you people support evil? The man clearly had evil intentions for her.
And you all will still have the most to say about single mothers.

Your wife didn’t ask your parents to be poor.
Hater

Okay

ojasweb:
Taking blue pill doesn't justify your claim.

For several years i have managed advertising selling supplement for people in different countries and conducting research.

I have access to people's search queries on Google and i know what both genders at different ages are looking for.

When you talk about blue pill, the question you should ask is what for?

Most men buy blue pill so that they can last longer. Take note, not that they are not sexually active. They mostly want to go beyond their usual 3 minutes. For a fact, sexual act doesn't have any allocated timing.

Wanting to last longer is a different thing, and that doesn't mean a man is not sexually active. Without the pill, they still perform, they only wanted to enhance their performance, reason for pill.

What i see most women looking for is libido booster, complaining that they don't have urge at all and get dry quickly. Men rarely look for libido booster.

So compare and contrast. The discussion here is active. The discussion is not duration. Do your research. The majority of people who use pill are doing so to prolong their performance. Women buy pill to get in the mood.

Most of them don’t realize that many old men who recklessly go after sex and young women do it in a last ditch effort to hold onto what they consider their masculinity. They’ve been convinced that how manly they are is directly reflected on how many women they can get. So even when they are not feeling it one bit, they still want to pump themselves full of dangerous pills and prove points that don’t matter to anyone but themselves.

I wish someone would do a better job of educating them that growing old is okay and a blessing.

pocohantas:
Lol. It is on Nairaland I see that men can keep firing till 100. Why then do they see old men with younger brides and ask how he is satisfying her? Is it jealousy or the truth?

Why do we keep reading “Man dies while having sex with younger lover in Abuja hotel.”

Anyway, their opinion changes depending on what agenda they are pushing.

ojasweb:
Uncultured. Stinks.

Around 40 and her son (not first) is 40 plus.

Love when it’s women it becomes uncultured but when it’s men it natural.
Keep lying to yourselves.

Your opinion doesn’t change that fact though. Men decline sexually before women. Past 50, most of you need a blue pill to keep it up.

Women have the highest sex drive around 40
Shut up. Lol

ojasweb:
Woman and men are different sexually. Not every issues should be addressed with emotions. Face reality, you won't die.

Most women start hating sex at 40. The men on the other hand still like sex and active at older age.

A woman who can't satisfy her husband again at certain age is the one you are claiming equal rights for to go see other men.

How una dey reason self?

RodgersAkpafu:
I'm sure if the gender was reversed
The comment section would have been quite different

An 85 year old woman philandering. Oooof. The forum would be ablaze by now.

But in this situation, they are treating him like a child who doesn’t know better.

mariahAngel:
Only a foolish woman will still be doing all that for a philandering old man.
When I said retirement from wifely duties, I meant all that, including sex.

mmm

Disrespect? Seriously, we underestimate the power of indifference.

She might be indifferent to it. Which is cool I guess
But he’s still disrespecting her though.

mariahAngel:
Seriously, if I were the mum, I'd be relieved and relish my retirement from wifely duties while living.
Women bother way too much over men matters seriously.
I simply won't be bothered.

She’s still doing his laundry and finding viagra in his pockets. Probably still cooks for him and cleans up after him. So obviously she’s not being relieved of wifely duties. Unless you mean sexual relationship “duties”. To that I’d say, not everyone views it as a duty. To some it’s an important and intimate part of their relationship not a duty or a chore.

Also not all women should be okay with disrespect. Yea some are fine with it but not all. Just saying.

Icouldhave:
no matter what he's still the head of the family.

He needs to act that way then.
If you’re fine with financially supporting the outside woman and her kids, then keep sending him money the way you have been.
But the advice greenie gave you was sound

Bola146:
The old man is not in his senses unless you relocate him to a far distance. God will punish the woman unless she is not using juju, but if she is using juju God will spoil her jazz

Right. It’s not his fault. He’s innocent huh?

Cute little old lady.

Food

ZooOga:
He's a kept husband that knows his way around the inside of an toto.

Where do you people find words like these?