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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:16am On Nov 30, 2021
armyofone:
Final corn bread and eggnog. I think i will still bake cornbread.

Thanksgiving don ova.
I need to get to Costco for some eggnog
Celebrities › Re: Didi Ekanem's House On Fire In Lagos (Photos) by cococandy(f): 8:32am On Nov 29, 2021
Houseofglam7:
She’ll get another before she exhales undecided

If it happened to a guy, I’d sympathize with him coz guys really are having it tough, if they broke, they broke AF cry

Guys are the real MVPs
masterflowx:
She should calm down those her sugar sugar abuja politicians have noticed and heard her cries. Another beautiful mansion will flop internet before the first quarter of 2022.

Hoe masquerading as nollywood atress.
Spit!
ImoleNaija:
Eiyah, e no easy,,, pele, dear.

With this kain curve, she's sure to bounce back better. This gonna bring her lots of attention wink
ou
Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

After years of working and acting a ton of movies Yul Edochie finally managed to buy a house in Lagos. Diswan wey I never even see her movie has already built one. Hmm, I'm not saying anything o. grin

Anyway, what she did to buy the house, she can easily do it again because the source no go expire yet. Do you gerrit?
are you people sure you’re okay?
Health › Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by cococandy(f): 5:09am On Nov 29, 2021
I experienced it and that’s why I’m never doing it again.
I literally sobbed so much. Said goodbye to my family just in case and was always so anxious about it.
I’m done. Done!!
Celebrities › Re: Sound Sutan’s Wife, Farida Fasasi Celebrates His 45th Posthumous Birthday by cococandy(f): 9:48pm On Nov 27, 2021
I actually forgot that this guy died . So sad
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by cococandy(f): 7:52pm On Nov 26, 2021
Buliwyf:
grin grin grin
May God forgive you for making me embarrass myself with a sudden burst of laughter inside a crowded bus. cheesy
That’s it
My job for the day is done
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by cococandy(f): 7:23pm On Nov 26, 2021
thesicilian:
Everyone who has a close brush with death always comes back to sell books
they have to profit from the situation somehow. It’s not easy to almost die.

And…..there’s a bunch of gullible folks for them to market to anyway
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Nov 26, 2021
Not to mention this woman’s drug induced psychosis made her see aborted babies suffering in hell.
My question is what did the so called babies do wrong in this situation? Why did they deserve eternal suffering?

Also to answer your post.
Don’t think about any of it. Just believe.
The ways of the lord are mysterious.
Or something like that.

Abeg leave us o cry
hopefulLandlord:
Christians and their fear fuelled hell preaching again?

Hell always sounded like a cynical marketing ploy designed to make people afraid to leave or displease the particular sect. And it seemed to really kill empathy - 'god says they burn, they burn' doesn't make me think of someone being full of love and compassion and all that.

Eternal punishment for finite transgressions always seemed abusive to me. How can someone look at the idea of a being who would condemn people to that and call it love?

Even when I was a Christian Hell was just too weird for me to accept. Infinite punishment for finite offenses is an eye for an eye on steroids. Punishing people for disobeying nit-picky rules makes God an abusive parent. One reason often given for punishment is to teach the offender not to offend again, but if punishment is eternal then how can the offender benefit from this teaching? Jesus is supposed to be into forgiveness but forgiveness shouldn't involve eternal suffering. Hell isn’t redemptive, it isn’t leading to repentance, it’s simply pain for pain’s sake.

I love this quote: “Heaven and hell seem out of proportion to me: the actions of men do not deserve so much.”

and of course I get the rationalisation of hell by Christians saying its moral accountability and saying bad people go to hell;
that's nonsense and they know it!!!

If Yahweh is real and omniscient, that means he already decided that we're going to hell before he even created us. But if this omniscient deity allows for deathbed conversions, then it doesn't matter what kind of life you lead. You could be a brutal dictator who massacred tens of millions of people, yet still get into heaven if you tell Jesus you're sorry. Your victims could all go to hell for eternity if they never repented. That's how bleeped up Christian morality is.

Maybe Christians can answer a few questions for me. The Bible says that there is ONLY ONE way to get into Heaven: by accepting salvation through Jesus.

So it follows that the Christians who ran the Nazi death camps can get into heaven. But their 6 million Jewish victims must burn for all eternity in the pits of Hell. I've talked to many Christians about this and they just pretty much accept it.

My questions are:

1. How f***ed up do you have to be to believe Nazis can go to Heaven but their 6 million Jewish victims must burn? That's just sick. But Christians believe it. What the f*** is wrong with you people?

2. Why would ANYONE willingly worship a god that would act like that? Is it just a fear thing (better known as cowardice)? And

3. Even if you get into Heaven what makes you think you'll be safe with a psycho god like that running the place? What's to stop your god getting a wild hair up his ass one day and sending Christians to a place so bad it makes Hell look like an ice cream parlor? He used to like the Jews too. Or so the story claims. What makes you think you're safe?
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by cococandy(f): 7:15pm On Nov 26, 2021
ICU delirium
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On Nov 26, 2021
armyofone:
Corn bread and collard greens.
Yes o . This combination is always a hit.
Thanks for sharing
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On Nov 26, 2021
armyofone:
Corn bread and collard greens.
Yes babe . Thanks for sharing
Crime › Re: Married Man, Bride-to-be Found Dead Inside Car In Kano by cococandy(f): 12:03pm On Nov 26, 2021
Pierocash:
A bride to be married by December yet still sleeping around.

God just delivered the groom to be from the hand of daughter of Jezebel,the twin sister of Delilah
ogododo:
She go marry for December still dey do home run.
De future be truly female. Kpekus finished Ayika.
Raph82:
The news came out about three days ago, it's a case of adultery. They were both found naked in the siena car, meaning they've been having sex rump. Women? They are second in rank to Lucifer. Imagine, few days to her wedding, even if that idiot is pumping millions into your pocket, must it go this length? That groom now will be the target of police over this case, he's in trouble.
We know the already married man sleeping around means nothing to you guys.
Focus on the about to be married lady. But for the already married man, it’s just another day in the life.
Rolls eye
Family › Re: Ok by cococandy(f): 11:46am On Nov 26, 2021
Saintmary:
Oga, I've read a lot of your topics and I must say that I'm shocked you would run into challenges after you made up with your wife.

Mind you, things turned out well for you when you followed the advice that you should leave the woman.

I think, since you want to keep your family together, and it seems your wife has a spiritual problem, join hands together with her in prayers and fasting.
Pray for forgiveness and mercy.
Don't go to ANY prophet or cleric.
Do it alone with her. Then the battle will be won and you can be together.

It will be hard but it's definitely worth it.
cococandy:
His wife didn’t make him sell his thriving business because he wanted to go abroad. That’s bad decision on his part. His own doing. 100%. Now he realizes he could have leased it instead of selling it. Why did the think of that earlier?
His wife didn’t cause his brother abroad to get sick. And she certainly didn’t make the decision for him to sell all he had and borrow to send to the brother.
If he’s in the habit of making bad decisions, then that’s his thing that he needs to own up to.
Also OP seems like one those people when things start looking up for them they don’t take it easy and plan ahead with baby steps knowing that misfortune can always happen and it’s better to be prepared.
He goes all in like he has millions stashed somewhere to fall back on when the current plan doesn’t work.
I wouldn’t blame his wife for that.
I might blame her for quitting her job to come back and start afresh with him without securing a replacement source of income first. She would have been better off making sure she has another job before quitting the one she had
Family › Re: Ok by cococandy(f): 11:42am On Nov 26, 2021
Mariangeles:
You've always reiterated that you suffer major setbacks/misfortune every time you go back to your wife, right?
So, why did you go back to her?
His wife didn’t make him sell his thriving business because he wanted to go abroad. That’s bad decision on his part. His own doing. 100%. Now he realizes he could have leased it instead of selling it. Why did the think of that earlier?
His wife didn’t cause his brother abroad to get sick. And she certainly didn’t make the decision for him to sell all he had and borrow to send to the brother.
If he’s in the habit of making bad decisions, then that’s his thing that he needs to own up to.
Romance › Re: Lady Refuses To Sleep With Man Who Took Her On Expense Paid Vacation-He Did This by cococandy(f): 8:35am On Nov 25, 2021
For people who are obsessed with body count, y’all sure do pressure women into having sex with you.
Which one is it? Do you want women who are experienced at sex or do you want virgins? Because the stupidity and lack of coherence that you guys display when it comes to sex matters is mind boggling
Nairaland General › Re: Man Narrate What He Did To A Lady Who Refused Him Sex While On Vacation (Photos) by cococandy(f): 6:53am On Nov 25, 2021
What a vile disgusting post.
As usual, the typical inbred ones are on the front page lauding it
Sports › Re: Ronaldinho Faces Jail Time Over Unpaid Maintenance To His Former Girlfriend by cococandy(f): 6:49am On Nov 25, 2021
So she was basically his wife.
Romance › Re: I Am In Love With A Married Woman Who Runs A Spa In Lekki by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Nov 24, 2021
Stylishly looking for money
Science/Technology › Re: Anthony Loffredo: World’s Most Modified Man Has 2 Fingers Chopped Off (Graphic) by cococandy(f): 9:28am On Nov 24, 2021
It’s his body. Peace out
Family › Re: Would You Abort A Kid With Down Syndrome? Why And Why Not. by cococandy(f): 7:23am On Nov 24, 2021
I’m sure everyone knows that Lady in the first picture below. Popular from American horror stories.

I could go on.
But Down’s syndrome like many other disabilities and ailments is no longer a life-ending diagnosis. One can live a full productive life if they are loved and supported.

We have an inherent need to stigmatize anything out of the ordinary amongst us. And that’s what we must unlearn. Thanks for the topic OP

Family › Re: Would You Abort A Kid With Down Syndrome? Why And Why Not. by cococandy(f): 7:18am On Nov 24, 2021
She’s a Down syndrome teen who’s aspiring to be a famous actress and model

Family › Re: Would You Abort A Kid With Down Syndrome? Why And Why Not. by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Nov 24, 2021
Ellie is a model for Gucci.
She has Down syndrome

Family › Re: Would You Abort A Kid With Down Syndrome? Why And Why Not. by cococandy(f): 7:08am On Nov 24, 2021
@OP would I abort a fetus with Down syndrome?
No. The answer is no. After a baby is born, if they have the syndrome it doesn’t mean they can’t have a relatively normal life. If you have resources to improve their lives based on that disability, they can even have as much a normal life as someone without the syndrome. And to think of it, I would love him/her as much as I love my other children.

I’m an advocate for women’s right to choose or not choose abortion in situations that being pregnant or becoming a parent would be detrimental to their wellbeing. But if someone wanted to be pregnant, planned for it and does in fact get pregnant as they wished to, they really can’t say that pregnancy affects their wellbeing negatively just because the baby has Down syndrome. Unless it’s a high risk pregnancy, it can’t really be used as an excuse.
Family › Re: Would You Abort A Kid With Down Syndrome? Why And Why Not. by cococandy(f): 7:01am On Nov 24, 2021
And you know a funny thing, it’s the people who are deeply against abortion and women’s right to choose that will be the first to abort a fetus with Down syndrome. That’s why I read all the hypocritical and religious garbage they spew here daily and shake my head

Hathor5:
How do you know you would despise this child?

I was always saying that I can't bring a child with down syndrome to this world. When I was pregnant, I did the test to check if the child had the syndrome. You can't take the test until after the first trimester or until the end of the first trimester (I don't remember exactly). It was only then that I realized that it is easy to say such things before your child has been conceived. When I was waiting on the result, I realized that I can't abort my child no matter what.

By the time the test is done, your baby looks like a baby, with arms, legs, a heart and everything else. It's still very small but it looks human and it's yours.
Romance › Re: Lady Blocks Her Boyfriend & Disappears After He Sent Her ₦2M Instead Of ₦200k by cococandy(f): 11:29pm On Nov 23, 2021
odinson1:
Exactly!

They "give" out sex in return for favours,money etc. Even those ones who cloak under the guise of Girlfriends/wives are also PROSTITUTES.

But no one wants to talk about that
some woman got pregnant, used her body to create and birth this male individual. Smh
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:02pm On Nov 23, 2021
armyofone:
Knock knock knock, mom are you in there ? please can I come in ?

Response: where is dad ?

Response: He is downstairs watching basketball

Under your breathe- see me see trouble o
grin
I’m convinced all kids are the same
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:25pm On Nov 23, 2021
armyofone:
Lol, I understand dear!

I just want to watch Netflix and Amazon movies that day and drink Eggnog.
Amen to that.
And lock my children inside their room do nobody will bother me
Business › Re: Ebele Iyiegbu Launches Handbag Collection In Abuja Amidst Fanfare (Pictures) by cococandy(f): 5:22pm On Nov 23, 2021
Aufbauh:
A wise woman who wants to capitalize on her husband's fame instead of the usual nagging about side chicks.
I just knew one of you would be around to say something extremely xtupid
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On Nov 23, 2021
ThisisIkemefuna:
Eba and ikere soup. Ticket is over $2000 grin
$2000 that’s nothing.
But the jollof has to be worth it.
Not paying 2k for ikere soup.

Also what’s ikere soup?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:15pm On Nov 23, 2021
Petyprincess:
Plane ticket to my side isn't expensive o, but make sure you pack jollof and asun when coming grin
You’re not serious. I’m looking for who will do the cooking instead
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:14pm On Nov 23, 2021
armyofone:
I plan to make collard greens.
Bought collard greens and turkey neck as I don't like pork.

I'm coming to pitch at your tent with collard greens and southern corn bread.

I will do that Ocean trip with a mix of road trip through the Atlantic and avoid plane due to COVID-19.
Correct southern babe.

Except my place will be quite disappointing this thanksgiving. Unless someone invites me to theirs
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:51pm On Nov 23, 2021
Quiet morning. Lit candle and a morning espresso. #perfect!

Who’s cooking for thanksgiving?
What are you cooking and how much is plane ticket to your area? I’m just checking something.

Celebrities › Re: Kim Kardashian And Pete Davidson Are Dating (Pictures) by cococandy(f): 11:55am On Nov 23, 2021
pocohantas:
Kim is short na. Very short.
Same with Nicki Minaj. It is heels and angles making them look average. cheesy
I never knew that.
Now I have hope

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