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Hathor5:
The biggest hypocrite that ever walked this earth.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Everything you said here... And especially the bolded. I've mostly used it sarcastically, and for other women I've seen used it, too.

But yeah, appropriating slurs men use against women... the line can become blurred between bants and actually disrespecting oneself - without the self even being aware. I've never seen men appropriating slurs directed at them - for MOST of them.[/color]

airsaylongcome:
Very generous rating. I would say minus infinity

t2luv1:
Invading the Capitol while congress is in session !!!! are you telling me this is justify? I love my country, and respect the constitution. I will never forgive you people for doing this. I f you don't like the outcome of an election guess what you have four years to plan and vote at next election. I will never vote for a republican again. Trump need to be impeach right now. I know he only has 14 more days in office. Impeaching him will make it impossible for him run in 4 years.

poshestmina:
Same person typing and replying 'itself'.

Liposure:
on a scale of one to ten, rate trump's regime

Ishilove:
Coco gerrarahere

oloshun:
You there too? Just on my phone on his handle and watching live the joint debate MSNBC. Today go sweet die.

Ishilove:
Animals also have vaginas. Are we animals?

pocohantas:
I have noticed some guys use those terms to make ladies feel uncomfortable. On Nairaland, they expect you to backoff once they come with certain words- pussy, fck, vagina people...etc

The second you make peace with it, they start clutching at straws. Even the ones in my office, before they say one f-word, I have said thirty. Now they are the ones begging me to stop. No o, let’s all be mad.

Mariangeles:
OK. I'll try that exercise some time...let's see how it goes

God knows I'm not ready to be the "bigger person"

Ishilove:
I hate this new and totally disrespectful term 'vagina people'. It doesn't make sense and it is downright degrading. It's a gender slur which sadly even females are latching on to.

Mariangeles:
You're lenient, I sweeeeeeaaar!

TransAtlanticEx:
This is the beginning and end of it.
You nailed it!!!
If you keep up with this speed and doggedness,I'm sure you will get a girl like cococandy's daughter effortlessly and society will endorse it.
You've got good eyes man!!kudos.

ethicallyright:
I said it earlier. I know what I want - To gap my future wife with over a decade. My future wife should be in the age range of Coco 's daughter (not a pedophile, just futuristic).

I know you guys think I'm stupid but I have a plan.

The other two girls throwing tantrums up and down in this thread have soft spots for my master , only if he would dignify them with attention...

wilblanc1984:
The issue is too much family interferences from her side and they want to control everything we do in our marriage. They want to have me under their control. There is nothing that happens or decision we need to make as spouses that her family isn't aware of and tries to influence

wilblanc1984:
I have never cheated on her too....

RisenPhoenix1:
The burden of chastity and morality has always lain squarely on the woman's shoulders. Women had class when they had shame, and even prostitutes carried out their profession with decorum. Then came modern woman.

When women became rotten, they taught their sons and daughters to be rotten. They said that a woman's place was in the streets hustling with her male counterparts while the children are brought up by equally promiscuous nannies. Women said a woman must not be submissive and lenient, but aggressive and forward. She must empower herself with whatever she has (pun intended) to achieve financial independence. They lifted slogans of "her body, her life", "legalise abortions", "bare the nipple". Little did they consider the consequences of their teachings.

You sleep with everyone you meet, to you it’s nothing, it’s part of the Constitution of our generation. When you’re dating someone, it’s a written law that sex must be part of the equation. When you & your friends meet, your rate each other sexual prowess, and body count.

ethicallyright:
I've known these for quite a while. I can't even marry a lady in my age bracket. There's time for everything and for me , time to marry is at least 14 years from now if things do not go as planned. If things go as planned maybe two or three years earlier not more.
I pity my friends who think otherwise.

I want an age gap of at least a decade between me and my wife. I know you dropped out of school and I must commend your decision as a very timely one.
I got admitted into a Prestigious Law Faculty in a competitive Federal University at 16. Just a semester left for me before Law school. I couldn't take the dropout path even though I found it necessary in my third year. That was me living my father's dream (He's a senior and respected lawyer and would love to attend my call to bar ceremony for bragging rights).
I've started a massive Internet project before but failed woefully after investing a lot. I learnt from my mistakes and started working hard and saving for a comeback.
I made a little above 1 million naira last year despite the pandemic. It was my highest earning year through my online trade. It was neither forex nor cryptocurrency- I don't follow the multitude.

I realized the confidence that comes with a million naira in your account. There was a girl , my mate , I loved. She was definitely my first love. When I saw I was making more money last year than I ever did , I ordered her gifts just to make her happy and spent on her birthday.

I went back home after her birthday and imagined how stupid I was even contemplating about marrying her in future despite my business/investment plans. That's how it ended. I never spoke to her again. I rejected her calls and told her through SMS to figure out her life.

pocohantas:
Naso. If it were that easy, he would have found one. The thing about the kind of ladies he seeks is, they are usually from close-knit homes and are not looking for the nearest man to marry. So they will check every. Those kinds of girls wouldn’t marry an erratic, insulting and condescending liquor merchant, just because he has “money”.

Last last, something has to change- his attitude or his spec.

TransAtlanticEx:
Well,men are the ones paying the piper,so they deserve to dictate the tune.
We own the house or cater for those expenses and make the ground comfortable for the woman to come squat in,so tell me,don't we need more time to be able to build all these for y'all to come cling on?
So that's why we usually are past 30 before thinking of marriage.
But for you people,what's expected?Nothing.Just be self sufficient is all men ask from y'all and be below 25 or less,yet it is such a big deal for your gender to achieve.
In SA,it is different.Their educated women are achieving this at that age,no sweat unlike Nigeria.
And they are more feminine and romantic,more than this people,maybe because they aren't starving and living in lack like their kinds in Nigeria.
Now tell me,what will a young man that has toiled so hard to achieve stable income,a house(or decent rented accomodation),mobility(cars) ,etc..gain from marrying a woman past 25?
Because he clearly don't need that meagre support Nigeria women claim to bring(which doesn't exceed stocking up the fridge and cooking 5k okro).
This man will pay for this effortlessly,So tell me,what will he gain being with a woman who has lost her youth all in the name of working class?
Old women come with a lot of baggage which I wouldn't wish for any young,succesful man.
They are overly jealous(because they feel inferior),moodswings,diminishing libido,body marks(stretch mark and all sorts of skin burns),some even start showing varicose vein,difficulty getting pregnant,loss of lustre,etc...
So why would anybody who has achieved in life want this?
Honestly this people are meant for men with limited options,if you look around you'd see that men who are worth their salt hardly go for these people,mostly struggling ones.

TransAtlanticEx:

wilblanc1984:
she is trying to force separation and divorce on me

RisenPhoenix1:
It's just that they do punch a little above their weight sometimes, and a man has to gently remind them to retake their rightful position at the back every so often.

To nicer climes, I trust.

RisenPhoenix1:
You keep contradicting every opinion I take. I don't like to be contradicted by a woman.

By the way, on your dp, is that Nassau? Buy yourself a large Goombay Smash and send me some of the vibes you're feeling while drinking it.

karli4nia:
Wonderful..
This is the soup I am ganna try and make next.
I can't believe I didn't taste this soup the whole damn 2020.

Very nice one NNE..!