₦airaland Forum

BluntTheApostle:
Don't forget to sow a seed in my ministry when the money starts rolling in.

invest with the seeds you’ve been receiving

BraniacX:
you can make more money by making it cheaper, that's my point, with demand at a high, affordability will affect your profits

Not a bad point. Quality also matters though. This is honestly not a bad idea for someone who’s serious and not joking

Miracle1991:
I think your husband should go for DNA of his children when ever you get married.

explain the physiological process for us.

BraniacX:
please do mbok! We need to make it more affordable

I’m after my pocket biko. Affordable ko. I look like federal govt?

A young queen

ericsmith:
I am not surprised, same old candy .... if you agree what led to the stroke ultimately led to his cardiac arrest, moyo left tunde 2017 as at mid 2018 tunde recovered from partial stroke do we still need an omniscience graph to connect the dots, definitely tunde stroke started 2017 same year moyo left that is way beyond coincidences.

Fortunately medicine uses measurable data. What led to the stroke leading to the cardiac arrest in this case meaning measurable things like hyperlipidemia, ischemic changes, atherosclerosis from smoking etc. not “wife leaving him”.

If truly tunde was in america 2018 to chill with children obviously not his, we live in a mobile/sm age there is no way he won't av taken pictures with children he as not seen in awhile, can moyo provide any evidence to substantiate he was with them.
Moyo is quarter to fair, tunde is black but the two kids are looking half cast bororo .. from the picture & comparism alone any one in a right frame of mind knows who there father is so glaring ... must you play devil advocate

This is your assumption of what you think I think. I haven’t made any case for who might or might not be the father. But here you are. Already assuming you know what I’m thinking

Read the first line (died of a heart attack over wife’s infidelity). And I knew, Here comes the nonsense. You’re not a doctor. Don’t give internet diagnosis
The following parts didn’t disappoint. But couldn’t finish it. Too long and nothing worth reading.

WetSmoke:
You are believing this internet warriors

You don’t think I’ll make money?

Sigh

bigpicture001:
Depression can trigger irregular blood flows and when ur fluid passage is blocked...it may trigger a partial paralysis.....a lot of ppl are managing a lot of ailments..which may b triggered by different state of mind...


Youths always argue their is no covid19. But unknown to dem. Most age ppl managing one ailments or the other are killed by the virus because their age and weak immune makes them vulnerable

I would like to invest in the Nigerian DNA market.
Seems some cool money is up for the making

bigpicture001:
Coco, dt woman' lies got u...lol

What lies got me then?

1) I’m not convinced she didn’t have a relationship with the MD
2)I’m not convinced the kids aren’t the MD’s.
Those can be proven or disproven but it’s not what I’m actually drawn to in the story.

It’s the part where they said finding out “killed him”. Neither a stroke nor a cardiac arrest can be caused by bad news.(long diversion if I choose to go into it).
Just because I won’t ignore anyone who says cause of death is “paternity scandal” doesn’t mean I’m swearing on the lady’s behalf. It just means I can’t go along with an impossible school of thought.

Okay there’s some more context. That’s helpful.
Thanks
Can I clarify and tell you that bad news does not really cause heart attacks? At least not the type that kills men.

I wouldn’t bet my money that the lady didn’t have relationship with the MD. Or that the kids aren’t the MD’s. I just have a problem keeping quiet when someone says it’s caused a heart attack or stroke . Sorry.

generationz:
She didn't tell him, he found out through mails sent between Adamu and the wife way back in 2012 during the reign of blackberry. He even ordered cloths for the daughter when she was born and he saw all the bay stuff in the mail.

The email promoted the DNA test and subsequently the heart attack.


This woman can't deny that those kids are Adamu's own. The resemblance is too uncanny. Any other thing about calls or visits she's saying is just damage control. I'm surprised you don't know how manipulators lie easily.

sowilli:
A good man can’t hate kids he had known to be his from their birth. Love is beyond blood and that is what that man got for the kids. He didn’t love them because he thought they were his seeds. Christ loved us even when we were sinners.

This is a great point

femi4:
The unfortunate news led to the stroke

bad news doesn’t cause stroke. Only in the nollywood movies

erico2k2:
The Spanish flu and the London black death

to name a few

Got it. If a man is hard on his luck and his wife provides, then he shouldn’t be upset when she has kids for other men.

With the current state of world economics where men can hardly be the sole providers, why should anyone worry whose kids the woman brings into the family?

Excellent point??

RisenPhoenix1:
It would be proven to the father, yes, but no man is an island on his own. We live in a society where self respect is essential for success and even optimal survival. Children of a woman who is a known cheat will always be suspect by society, and the husband will be disrespected as a cuck. Of course, pasting the DNA tests on every doorstep and on the children's foreheads whenever they go out is an option, but it's not very convenient in today's society, nor would everyone accept the results as genuine. So it's far easier to get rid of a cheating wife.



Oh absolutely. I'm a strong supporter of equality based on assumed roles. If a man decides to relinquish his role as the sole financial provider and protector, it is my opinion that he has no right to retain his authority as the leader and controller. Nor does he have the right to dictate who fathers the children which she chooses to provide for. It's her money after all. And he who pays the Piper gets to dictate the tune.

Men it must be tough to be y’all.

What was the agenda behind the 1918 flu pandemic? .

cucumbar:
the elites . It used to be termed conspiracy theory, but the world elites are no longer hiding their intentions.
It’s openly discussed in the world economic forum and even talked about by the main stream media.

Look for for the books : Covid 19-the great reset , and the fourth industrial revolution written by the chairman and founder of the world economic forum, Klaus Schwab. You’ll be shocked. It’s really scary.

Biden’s slogan ‘ build back better’ is referring to this Great reset they have been talking about. The British and Canadian prime ministers have also been using the same slogan

The plan is to do destroy capitalism and practice communism on a global scale, where you will own nothing and the government, of course, a global or one world government controls the world with the use of technology.

The meandering around the obvious answer is funny.

Saccharine:
Number one is obviously faulty logic ,if there's doubt about paternity, there is DNA testing to the rescue which will remove the doubt and will that then make her infidelity okay?

People should just say that they can't bear the thought of their spouse moaning and writhing under the ministration of someone else but want to do the same without repercussions.

Its human nature to be selfish..its not a crime.

Numbers don't lie.

RisenPhoenix1:
No. Because even then, it would still cast doubt on the paternity of any progeny which come as a result of the union.

And it is immaterial whether a man gets kids from a side relationship; as long as he doesn't bring them home for his wife to take care of, or uses her money to feed them.

1) moot point because the paternity will be proven. If you really mean what you’ve been saying, then it shouldn’t matter if she only cheats but has no kids. With proof that she has not kids from outside source. I don’t see it should matter going by your ‘logic’.

2) if she’s the provider for the family, then it means her having kids from another source is immaterial. She’s providing right?

Hehehe

They? Who?

cucumbar:
you want to know what is going on? They are bent on destroying the world economy using covid 19 as a cover. The world is never going back to the ‘normal’ we knew pre COVID-19.
They are talking about the GREAT RESET...the Bible called it the GREAT TRIBULATION . This reset will change the economy and all facets of life from what we used to know.
Get ready, the world is about to enter a dangerous phase.

Whatever led to the stroke probably led to the cardiac arrest too. Hyperlipidemia is a silent culprit.

If he spoke with the kids just this past thanksgiving, that means he probably was still having a good relationship with the kids. How do people know she told him he wasn’t the father? Only her knows who the true father is.

People should stop saying that’s what killed him when that’s not an empirical measure of cause of death.

By this understanding, if they both cheated without getting kids from their side relationships it’s equal then. Right?

A simple yes or no would suffice.

RisenPhoenix1:
Whether you like it or not is not important. We are looking at the ethical equivalence. Forcing a man to raise a child that is not his all his life and depriving him of progeny by deceit while having a sexual affair with another man is not equivalent to his mere having a sexual affair with another woman with no material loss on his wife's end. How can anyone even think they are the same crime?

No marital loss?

Who will take you seriously when you consider a man’s infidelity as no loss to his wife? You think he just goes and dips into a hole in the wall? There’s no investment to get the side chic?

I always find your nerves amusing.

Let’s say the woman is a breadwinner too, does that grant her equal cheating power then? Since we are making everything about money.

RisenPhoenix1:
Whether you like it or not is not important. We are looking at the ethical equivalence. Forcing a man to raise a child that is not his all his life and depriving him of progeny by deceit while having a sexual affair with another man is not equivalent to his mere having a sexual affair with another woman with no material loss on his wife's end. How can anyone even think they are the same crime?

Being a good person never goes out of style.

But Nigerians mean something else when they say “good girl”.

Well now DNA tests are a dime a dozen. You can easily verify any paternity you question. Your wife doesn’t owe you exclusivity then.

Ihukwa nonsense. No implication of exclusivity from a married man.

This is why none of you deserve sympathy when you end up raising other men’s kids.

RisenPhoenix1:
There is no implication of exclusivity from the man's side. Why a woman is obliged to remain true to her husband is to prevent any doubt concerning the paternity of the children which he is obliged to provide for. It is not merely for the express possession of her body. Maternity fraud on the other hand is an impossibility. And unless the woman is providing for his children from other women, there can be no fraud in such a situation. He fathered them, he provides for them and their biological mother nurtures them; where is the fraud? But when someone else fathers them, and he is tricked into providing for them, it is very obviously fraudulent. Women just do not understand the concept because paternity fraud seems emotionally and naturally acceptable to them.

Women can absolutely retaliate by having their own bastards and that is not the issue. The issue is foisting those bastards upon an unsuspecting husband to waste his emotional, financial and time resources on. It also deprives him of his right to progeny. Look at this Tunde Thomas person for example. He did his best for what he thought was his family, yet he has been permanently deprived of progeny through no fault of his own. Is that not fraud? Even if he had had extra marital affairs (just a supposition), do you think that what she did to him was equivalent?

All of the above. People are different and will react differently to stuff.
What they mostly have in common is that they are not okay with it like some men like to tell themselves to make themselves feel better about cheating.

Lol. Just flaunt your chest without excuses. It’s your body and you don’t have to justify anything. What’s the connection between nearly dying and showing boobs??

I want to lie and say I’ve eaten it with salt before. Just so I can have your back but sis not this time


MAYBE I’ll try it ??

pocohantas:
What is going on here? You mean you guys have never seen someone do that?

Please I need someone on this Nairaland to agree with me. I can’t be the only one that uses salt to eat my avocado pear naaaa!

Ryan03:
My appreciation goes to cococand pocohanta woundedLam Lordk BRATISLAV Tellemal kneehighboot Willybos Richy Hathor and so many I can't mention, you have no idea how much your comments impacted on me

happy new year

BRATISLAVA:
You may not believe it, but a misogynist described how he murdered his girlfriend in a long post, and astonishingly, many men came out to sympathize with him. The posts were never censored. That same guy is on almost every FP threads spilling his hate. And he gets a lot of chest bumping on them. It makes one wary of these men. Very soon the dark web kinds of posts here will yield a danger to sane people in the society.

Yep. Incel haven

He cares about his money.

The vast majority of posters here are young, mostly male, hormone-driven woman-hating posters. They are the ones with the amount of time on their hands required to be available for every front page post and response with tens of accounts each.

If he successfully censors the vilest of them, his traffic will be low. That’s his money going down. Money over everything. After all this is his business. I don’t even know if I’m mad at that. But he can definitely do better. Some Other forums I believe have community values with checks in place that don’t allow certain posts to even make it to the board.

This one is just a breeding ground for abusers, murderers and rapists. And such threads are quickly pushed to front page for the boys to feast on because it ensures traffic. They don’t care if it’s promoting murder or rape.

BRATISLAVA:
You've got their number. Especially the ones who claim to be logical, and asking questions because they need two sides of the story, though they know there's only one side they will justify.

The main proponents of the misogyny now sit back and claim that their red pill movement isn't about hate; but it is only about hate. And Seun is the king of that toxicity. His rules don't matter.

BRATISLAVA:
The number of Grindr women-haters on this forum is interesting to note. Going by the comments, there are a lot of beasts in human skin roaming Nigeria.

I noticed that years ago. The worst ones are those who pretend and try to hide their misogyny under ‘sensible’ posts.

It’s a toxic environment for women