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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Aug 09, 2020
A salad for mommy

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Aug 09, 2020
Breakfast for a little girl

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:03pm On Aug 09, 2020
BlueRayDick:
I prepared this yesterday evening for someone's daughter. The man of God Sat back and watched the woman of God devour it all....She couldn't resist thanking God for leading the man of God into her path cool

Stir fried veggies noodles + fried egg + chicken
grin
Romance › Re: Lady's Sex Life 'Exposed' In A Congratulatory Message On Her Engagement (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:53pm On Aug 09, 2020
pocohantas:
How many of them will date without sex? They want to fck, but don’t want women to fck them. They should go fck cows or goats. Nonsense grin
the cognitive imbalance of it all grin
Romance › Re: Lady's Sex Life 'Exposed' In A Congratulatory Message On Her Engagement (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:52pm On Aug 09, 2020
Sore loser like most of rest grin
Family › Re: My Sister-In-Law Staying With Us Atimes Knows When We Are Making Love.Pls Advise by cococandy(f): 4:36am On Aug 09, 2020
OP your marriage threads are very interesting. How long have you been married?
Celebrities › Re: Ufuoma Mcdermott Celebrates Her Daughter, Kesiena's 5th Birthday by cococandy(f): 3:56am On Aug 09, 2020
pocohantas:
When I born baby girl, I will close third mainland bridge for 1yr. Such a cutie... kiss kiss
smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:23pm On Aug 08, 2020
Hathor5:
Mashed potatoes
Fried cauliflower
Salad
Egg
Loving this smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:02pm On Aug 08, 2020
Akposy:
Breakfast! Rice and stew

Pics 1. Beef stew
Pics 2. Rice and stew.
cry this stew
Romance › Re: Pharmacist Dies During Romp With Lagos Sex Worker In Brothel by cococandy(f): 2:59pm On Aug 08, 2020
Hathor5:
grin

Me too.

cheesy
Something beautiful and majestic about it
Romance › Re: Pharmacist Dies During Romp With Lagos Sex Worker In Brothel by cococandy(f): 2:57pm On Aug 08, 2020
Kriss216:
We've lost another brother to these vagina people
Vagina people. What a name. I approve
Travel › Re: 325 Nigerians Return From US, Total Now 1,739 by cococandy(f): 2:57pm On Aug 08, 2020
I don land naija. What’s up people?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:17am On Aug 08, 2020
mariahAngel:
I wasn't going to post with this monicker, but for this, I'll make an exception smiley

Have these for breakfast
Good morning
kiss
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 10:33pm On Aug 07, 2020
truthsayer009:
Two people? LMAOO! I can bet that average Nigerian Woman [with or without a great job] thinks this way. Only Women online argue with this reality & It's very funny to me. There are evidences every where & it has nothing to do with how much the woman has.

Let's just move on & not argue this lipsrsealed
be betting rather use the everyday women you see around you.
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 2:34pm On Aug 07, 2020
Nope. That wasn’t my reality. Isn’t or outside Nigeria.

People should stop perpetuating these falsehoods because that’s what they are . Lies

You’re Using two people’s posts on a thread to judge the situation of millions of women in Nigeria. Meanwhile I’m sure in real life you know many women who contribute financially to their families.


truthsayer009:
You know, It's always easier to say this when you live somewhere outside of the African continent & or not in Nigeria lol. At least before you left you should remember "My money is my Money" is the mantra of Nigeria women living in Nigeria and a married woman should be taken care of, even she can still afford everything herself. Baby girl lifestyle woop! woop! woop!.

Just scroll up & see the comments from fellow Women, no need to speak further.
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 4:36am On Aug 07, 2020
No wahala.

I’m doing alright. Life’s been wonderful
Iogobenz:
Nne shey you know for here girls no dey gree say them get money na.
For kids I know women won't even wait for you before they do things for their kids,so definitely in that aspect I know it won't be a burden the moment she starts birthing for him.
He was just worried about unrealistic standards to be met especially in their early marriage times.
They can claim that they are good without your help but them moment you don't provide,some kind of attitude will start to come up.
He just wanted to know the basic standard for a woman like that so he can see if he can do it or not,assuming she is not someone that want to work together with the husband as regards to finance.
That's all.
Iogobenz:
lol no be me ooo.
Just a good friend from wayback. cheesy
E don tay sha,I know you are good. wink
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 11:04pm On Aug 06, 2020
Iogobenz:
She works in a drugstore,you know all these fancy and polished ones.
My guy say If she can make say 400k a month,then he thinks she can foot her current lifestyle effortlessly though.
Those were just some of his thoughts he shared with me not so long ago.
What’s she supposed to be doing with her earnings?

You people better don’t start off on the wrong foot. Or you start a pattern you can’t continue if something small should go wrong in the future.

You’re supposed to be looking resources. Helping each other out. Planning for your kids together.

If you want to foot her lifestyle based on her income that she makes now, is there consideration in there for the best options for the kids as they come along? What about other expenses that don’t revolve around her or the future kids?
Is she going to contribute as well? Or ‘your friend’ wants to carry NL sole provider rhetoric into his real life thinking it works that way?

Be willing to help and accept help.
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Aug 06, 2020
Good luck and happy married life in advance smiley
Iogobenz:
No I don't think he is insecure because I know him for long now.
He knows if it is by going by what the girl is used to,he won't be able to cope.
First the girl uses a brand new car bought by her parents,big house and all those rich kid things.My guy will really struggle to keep up with that.
But he thinks if the girl is doing good from her job(drugstore pharmacist),maybe she might not bother him much with unrealistic demands that need to be met.
They are both young,my guy is 28 and she 25.
So if he starts rooting large bills from an unrealistic woman now it might mar his dreams a lot.
So he wants to know what she earns possible so he can judge If she is self sufficient first or not.Shey you understand?
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by cococandy(f): 10:56pm On Aug 06, 2020
Hathor5:
Shouldn't the two of them discuss such things together?
it would seem
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:46pm On Aug 06, 2020
Hathor5:
Fish for dinner.
Mmm smiley
Family › Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by cococandy(f): 6:03pm On Aug 06, 2020
What shall we call this manner of idiocy?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:50pm On Aug 06, 2020
Akposy:
Suya noodles| Dodo| Tomato| Plum.
Pass or smash?

I just wasted my 200 to buy the plum. It was just slapping my mouth anyhow.
Akposy please pass me these noodles. Na beg I dey.


BTW sorry about your sour plums.
The last ones I purchased were so unexpectedly sweet I was wondering if they soaked them in sugar.
I guess it depends on luck . Although there are also various species so that might be part of the reason why.
Family › Re: Nigerians And Poverty: Certain Acts That Perpetuate Poverty In Nigeria by cococandy(f): 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2020
pocohantas:
They say it is better in the long run, because you don’t get to be changing it as frequently as the cheap(er) ones.

Despite his shortcomings, one of the best financial lesson I got was from my former boss. He will tell me “Take your salary, divide it by 21 working days. Ask yourself if you earned today’s own” grin grin I apply same rule in spending (whether mine or his cheesy), I check what fraction of my monthly pay it is and advise myself.
I understand. Only if they can afford it.

Otherwise their own hair is good enough wink
Family › Re: Nigerians And Poverty: Certain Acts That Perpetuate Poverty In Nigeria by cococandy(f): 4:24am On Aug 06, 2020
pocohantas:
Gerrard my friend, why this one come face only men na. What of my sisters wey dey use all their money buy wig, makeup and bleaching cream?

grin grin grin
Girl I’ve seen ladies save up to 200k just to buy human hair. I don’t grudge people on how they spend their money. But if you’re spending millions to buy something that won’t bring returns, your salary or side business and/or whatever else source of income has to match that spending. As long as the money is coming in, buy whatever you like whatever it costs.

But not with your savings and no guaranteed source of replacement.
Family › Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by cococandy(f): 4:12am On Aug 06, 2020
OP when you do get to a bigger hospital, listen to the doctors and their recommendations.
Family › Re: If I Could Survive Domestic Violence And Remain This Happy, You Too Can? by cococandy(f): 4:01am On Aug 06, 2020
I wish her the best in all her future endeavors. Nothing but positivity
Family › Re: I Have Phobia For Pregnant Women. by cococandy(f):
This bit in bold and the post in general tells me you won’t treat your patients with respect.
I wouldn’t want you as my doctor, nurse or midwife.
No Thanks smiley
Ogbonnaa:
I have helped many women give birth on so many occasions, it's not a big deal. My sister owns a hospital, so i help her deliver babies for pregnant women.

A 19 years old girl and her mother visited my sister's hospital to deliver baby, when it gets to her turn, she refused to remove her clothes, the student nurses on duty ask her why she refused to off her clothes, she said that guy should leave, she was referring to me, the student nurses laughed at her, they told her I'm the one the will help her deliver the baby.

I got angry and ask the mother to take her daughter out off the hospital with immediate effect, but the mother and student nurses on duty pleaded on her behalf. The girl never new I don't tolerate nonsense, but finally I helped her give birth.

Women don't do guy for my side, wetin you wan use do guy for me, something I always insert my hand inside and bring out babies. I have seen it all, both old, young, wide and tight V, I always insert my precious hand inside.


No big deal about women
Politics › Re: FG Pampers Repentant Boko Haram Members As IDPs Suffer by cococandy(f): 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2020
People who voted Buhari, what’s up?
Family › Re: I Have Phobia For Pregnant Women. by cococandy(f): 2:47pm On Aug 04, 2020
Shanklee:
Omo me I dey always feel like how are they comfortable with the swollen stomach?
they are not
Family › Re: A Scorned Woman Takes To Facebook To Launch An Attack On Married Lover & Family by cococandy(f): 2:43pm On Aug 04, 2020
You will believe anything that soothes your bias,

I wonder if for a moment you even think the man did wrong by denying his wife and children for a piece of flesh.

spiceadole:
Thank you very much.

I believe 99% she knew he was married.

How does a lady not do background checks on a mam she intends to date?

Social media has made this CID work very easy.
Family › Re: A Scorned Woman Takes To Facebook To Launch An Attack On Married Lover & Family by cococandy(f): 2:40pm On Aug 04, 2020
spiceadole:
A decent lady does not indulge in premarital sex..Its not something to be proud of.
Premarital sex and decency are not related.
we know your type. Selective decency.
Family › Re: A Scorned Woman Takes To Facebook To Launch An Attack On Married Lover & Family by cococandy(f): 2:38pm On Aug 04, 2020
angelfallz:
When people say, saving yourself for marriage (virginity) is the best, ladies won't hear.
When people say, get to know the man you are going out with, ladies won't hear.
When people say, know what you want from a man, ladies won't hear.

Now she is angry and bitter and issuing threats, for what? She should be arrested for threatening to kill the man and his family!!!
anything but blaming the actual culprit

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