₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
True. Young Nigerian men are embracing white women these days. Most of these women might only cheat on them with menopause or the grave. Way better than an erect penîs.

Prestonn:
This is Beautiful Mami

Sexyjigga:
You gon make me come down to your house

Hathor5:
Troll or not you have passed an important message so your energy is not completely wasted.

Nwaotu:
I have heard all of you, as if the persons criticizing me are perfect. Some may even be worst than me. Which ever way I am going to court, if the court grants me visitation rights, then fine. If they don't, I move on. This family really intimidated me, now is the time to show them I am not a small boy. They will pay legal fees and they go hear am.

MondayUche:
Yes, not really rich but think were okay then and I used to be a businessman in Abeokuta dealing in Coca-Cola, Then someone I trusted so very much known as coach and I have known him for over 14yrs+ this man used to take people abroad, mostly Dubai. So he came up that he saw a job for me in Canada because I told him I will love to travel out to hustle for my family. So he came up with the Canada job and traveling working documents including flight ticket fare. This man started coming up with different stories and documents. I sold everything I had to chase this traveling stuff because I was so happy with the salary and everything he came up with. Someone I trusted and accommodated for 5 months with his wife and 4 kids when he had issue with house rent a Yoruba man. Well, to cut it short that is how this man disappeared after collecting not less than 2.150k from in 2017 since then my life never remain the same. Since then I never think forward I have been ups and down struggling. My wife shop was demolished by Ambode then saying it was under powerline and since then she has been working at home. But orders are not coming like that until she lost her phone at Iyana Ipaja then during my son's birth I almost lost her through bleeding so we had to pause on so many things. So since then life has been so hard for me if you also go down down to my other posts you will see some of the hustles I have been doing here even seeking for a driving job and car dealing hustle also sienna on a hire purchase too. This life is just a mess

LadySarah:
I would have told you men have been doing it to their wives but I won't even though you know it's the truth.My neighbors wife left since Easter leaving him with 4 under 8 kids. Their state alone is pitiful. His wasn't finances though. Arranging to send them to his sister who has 5 kids already. I don't even want to imagine the suffering that is before them.

My concern is your children and you must do right by them whether she is there or not. Apportioning blames will not solve anything.

Think outside the box and make arrangements for babysitting while you go out n hustle.Your mom, her mom or female siblings or even elderly female neighbors.

The reality of single fatherhood is staring at you.

Prestonn:
In English~ I need to be in your house.

michlins:
They're one step away from bedding. You have every right to be worried. Bear in mind that soon,he will start comparing you with her.

But some guys eh. Your fellow man already warned you to stay away from his wife and you no hear. Na this thing dey kill person

Prestonn:
This is really Beautiful Mami


Necesito estar en tu casa

cyberghost23:
He was also right by saying Jesus was a feminist?

GuyInTheMirror:
This is an example of what I am saying, when people see Job as the ultimate thing in life that they put job before family.
Then you know there is problem, how much is the salary.

I have seen people quit jobs and relocate without an assurance of job cause of family.
A good family comes before a job, you can get another job but if you loose the chance for a great family or spouse, you might not be able to get another.

Gloriagee:
After quitting the job, he'll call her a leech. Na today?

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Note:

●Most restaurants chef use scissors to cut off those long strands you see when you left the tweezer up to get a perfect plating.

●You can also use a small spoon if you don't have the type I used.

Very simple, try it several times to perfect it.


Make I quick run enter inside market this morning...Happy Sunday my Beautiful People ❤

Liftmaster:
Let me give you some candid advice. I know this will be a difficult pill to swallow, but do not let your emotions cloud your judgement. I think you are putting the cart before the horse. First, you need to start thinking like a parent. This is no longer all about you. The "I wants" need to stop. You need to do what's best for your child. It is not yet time for you to leave your aunts house, at least not under the circumstance of having zero income. You want to start living on your own, but you first need to be in control of your own destiny. Start your business while under her roof with free accommodation. Work hard at it and let it grow and flourish then when you have steady income from it, you can rent your own place. Do not rely on any employer, person or charity to provide you free accommodation. Has this approach not failed already? Ensure you have an income to pay your own rent so you can provide a steady accommodation for you and your child. Start thinking about your child's future. School? What are your plans in this regard?

Your aunt has been very kind to allow you to come and go with your child as you please. She may be rough around the edges but she does have a goood heart. You even trust her enough to leave your child with her and relocate. For the sake of your child, stick it out there a little longer while she still has the will to accommodate you. And pray for this woman. Pray that God blesses her for her kindness towards you. Your prayers and gratitude may just be the key to your breakthrough. Finally, attitude matters. God sees the heart. You said and I quote "This aunt of mine thinks without her, I am nothing, I really want to prove her wrong." Take this as constructive crtiticism, but this is nothing but prideful and egoistic. Why is this your motivation as opposed to wanting to provide future opportunities for your child in a stable and conducive environment of your own?
Please provide details of your plan. There are folks willing to help you succeed.

Hathor5:
Show yourself more.

konkonbilo:
this is your area of specialization.. Having to cook for friends and family

GboyegaD:
Dinner is set:
Greek Salad,
Potato-Plantain Porridge,
Chicken.

Hathor5:
Where have you been dear? I miss your pictures and comments.

Liftmaster:
No offense taken. It's not an issue of inconvenience but the issue here is the husbands lack of discernment. Regardless of whatever the reason for declining is, the wife has a right to do so. Her declining may be being inconsiderate but she has a right to it. I marvel at those on here that think that because a husband asks his wife to do something, she must always say yes. A wife has rights too. I hate to say this, but wisdom does seem to be in short supply In some of the antagonistic responses.
One further point. You said "Don't we all host people from time to time? We are a people and I think we have some communal sense, why act as though it is strange?" Why do you speak like we are all together in his marriage? Everybody is different. We may have certain customs as a people but it doesn't mean everyone agrees with these customs and willingly participates. Every individual has rights. She has spoken her mind and we as a people need to learn to respect other people's rights and opinions.

The wife was glad to do the hosting when she was 5 months pregnant. I personally think that was inconsiderate of the husband to ask her to do so, but regardless, she gladly oblidged. This time around she said no and is vehement in her refusal. There is something going on here. A sufficiently wise husband should discern something from this. Regardless of what path he takes, the issue will,still remain. He will be wise pick his battles, drop the issue and move on. At a later time when tempers have cooled, he can come back and try to figure out what exactly the issue is.