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smartmom:
Better wife and better mum. Thanks for sharing the perfectly presented meals. Every thing looks delish. Kudos. Craving goat meat now

He’s been making his bed. He’s finally got to lay on it

alakhumeorobo:
O my ! This guy is my neighbour when I was in abaji, God have mercy
But this man can beet his wife's until one ran away and remain this that finally killed him. Rest in peace man

Seems you are a rapist

donbachi:
Nobody came out in protest of this..as if rape is worst than murder.

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Breakfast for the hubs. Eggs on crumpets served with coffee.

Lunch fried rice, grilled peppered goat and fried plantains.

You could post a food picture for once you know.

I wonder if being an asshole pays

IamD18:
Na you fit this thread.

I can't wait for them to come scream "Yummy dummy" at your graphic picture.

cuteguy14911:
I shouted yuck sef

Jagaban880:
blood of mercy

wat is dis na

Ube kwa? That one na another story

jnrbayano:
Ube no dey that side?

Which one is óka na groundnuts esiri esi?

Very bad habit that I need to kick

sassysure:
This corn

Òka na ube, the best

I can eat that continuously for a week as long as the ube is sweet and fleshy

U eat midnight snacks?

Interesting!
My cousin does that and introduced the husband to it
She is so very addicted. During the day, they don't eat much but in the middle of the night,
She is like bonga fish while the husband look like he is 9 months old pregnant.
If u complain he will say, tell your sis to stop

They are both wrong.

If you’re going to use someone house for a party, you should ask permission not just host the party and put it on social media inviting all and sundry. Exposing the private home of his brother. Something that the guy probably wouldn’t have done by himself.

He obviously has no respect for his brother and his sister-in-law.

If I were her, I’d stay away from the name calling.

Midnight snacking on boiled peanut and corn . I bought coconut for this corn but found out t was bad when I got home. Sigh. I still enjoyed it anyway

Good

Why do you assume the woman must talk too much?

Richy4:
I'm glad for u man..... I'm guessing your tolerance skills and hers were compatible... But you should have also enlightened the people based on the strategy you were using to make it work... So that some people will start beliving...

Eg... When she starts talking none stop, what do u do?

When she says she doesn't feel like entering the kitchen to cook , What do you do?

How do you handle in laws issues and how does she handle her inlaw...how do u handle financial matters..etc.

If u really wanna talk, then lend people your wisdom and experience... u really have to tell us why you feel or think that your marriage is great... or I'm I asking way too much buddy?

Congratulations to you both. I wish you many more happy years together

Another day. Another group of whiny boys creating threads all over Nairaland to cry about women. And validating each other’s weaknesses masked in pseudo
‘alphaism’
It never ends. Wah wah wah

For people who can do it all by themselves, you sure do spend a considerable amount of your lives crying over women.

Amusing

Reprobate scumbag

thesicilian:
So a presumably innocent man should be condemned so as to encourage other rape cases to speak up in future?
I'm amazed at how little the reasoning of women is affected by education.

Congratulations to your auntie

You actually believe some married women were taking him up on his offer?
I have a bridge to sell you. My grandfather built it and it belongs to my family. I mean since you can believe anything.

This is evidence that you’re cursed. You and the fools that liked your post.

cucumbae:
He was joking. Afterall,na borehole.

Comedian2019:
I'm very sure the guy will not try it. Who wan fall inside well?

For me, finances don’t come into it like that because it simply says that if the man isn’t able to provide, then he shouldn’t be given his due respect. Is that what we are saying?

Everyone deserves it whether you’re the one providing or not. There’s more that makes a family than money.
The person making the money isn’t doing the most work.

Also don’t know what an African wife means in this contest. It could mean anything based on who’s saying it. (Respectful? Doormat? Industrious? Meek? What?)

dia4iam:
Feminism is not a problem. In all sincerity, it is inevitable minding the shift in narrative about the concept of "bread winner". Men simply have to understand this and adjust. However, in cases where the man still carries the load of providing for nuclear and extended family almost exclusively, the woman should do and be a good African wife. No story.

Never doubted her too.
I remember the long epistles by coogar, sagamite and co. Endless debates and round abouts

freecocoa:
I never doubted Ese, I know in my gut that useless thief, who calls himself a pastor is guilty, But this is Nigeria, Justice doesn’t live here.

Just don’t rape or molest anyone

LOSKYXANDER:
God please when I become rich and famous, protect me from any fool that might appear from nowhere to accuse me of nonsense

Let jah come because women are no longer the Mary Amaka you used to know?

Why didn’t he come when guys were running amok in immorality

Johnkay01:
Hmmm...

Gone are those days when ladies do have little moral

Women of virtues has now gone into extinct.

Corruption is being celebrated in high places

Those not privilege to government purse take solace in prostitution, drug trafficking, cyber crime and kidnapping.

Only Jah knows how next generation will look like

Jah let thy kingdom come

I don’t know what you meant.

And this confusion stems from reading comments of people (like you) who accuse feminism of breaking marriages and “against good values” yet the greatest value of love, fairness, oneness and togetherness isn’t something they agree with based on their comments.

Iogobenz:
she can have hers,i don't mind and would not bother at all.
But that thing called alimony is what gives me goosebumps.
Don't play dumb with me coco.you know too well what I meant.

No problem.
I’m sure she will have her own house too. You guys can arrange when to visit each other.

If you’re against women owning property or having anything in their name, make sure you marry someone who’s willing to work and put it all in your name. So that you feel secure.

Iogobenz:
lol @ co-owners.
No na.na me get my house o!maka na Adi ama ama.
I hate losing property.

Feminism means your house is her house as well. Nobody dictates. You interact as co-owners.
Anything more than that is definitely not feminism. And you’re saying that because you have a wrong understanding of what it means.

Iogobenz:
yes o.it's our house for Sure.
But no carry feminism come my side dey dictate to me or make me feel not good enough.that's what I meant.

Is your house also her house? Or is it just yours? Can she claim it as hers as well as yours?

Iogobenz:
loyalty means;
No come dey drag my house with me.
No nag me.
No give me orders and ultimatum.
No look down on me when I no get.money can be hard at times.
No cheat on me.
If you get and I no get,please share with me because I will do same for you.
If there is a way you can build us,please do.
If you do these,I go reward you ×10.
That is my definition of loyalty
When you dey come naija this girl

You know it.

armyofone:
the cray cray ones still dey get 2019 Tesla model X bo

I’m bitter because idiots like you run amok and spread woman hate like it’s a normal thing. Get some sense

bluefilm:
I wonder why she's so bitter.

It's not just about whether she's getting enough dick or not.

It's something much more deeper.

That’s exactly what loyal means to a Nigerian thinking male

ibkayee:
What does being 'loyal' even entail in this case though? Because we know to most Nigerian men being loyal means putting up with their shvt like a ragdoll

A 'rebellious' one could be one who did not put up with his cheating for example and 'broke the home' by retaliating negatively like a normal human being and/or leaving. To Nigerians the home was broken because she did not forgive him, not because he cheated

Not saying this is what happened between them, I wouldn't know, but this is just how a lot of Nigerians think

Mental case

Fuckthamods:
Cococandy is a very bitter woman.. Probably she ain't getting enough dick from her mumu husband so don't pay attention to her words.