Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 2:49pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
“Discipline and fear” Are talking about married partners or an authoritative father and an wild child? Even kids shouldn’t fear their parents much less a woman fearing a man she willingly married. Some of una need brain scan sometimes Dami12345: This is horrible and bad advise. This will only lead to divorce eventually, because someone out there will apply a firm hand to her and that the end of the marriage. She should find a job and start sleeping around abi? Am nota saying she shouldn't work but there must be some discipline first and fear of the husband, " even the bible says we should fear God"
Self control comes from such a healthy fear, she has to know that their are repercussions to her actions, besides I would rather have to replace all her clothes than have to visit the grace of my child, look at dbanj now, am guessing the op doesn't want to feel that way. |
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 8:30am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Hahahaha  Coco, na your paddy you dey yab o. He's your bestie na  There’s something off about that fellow One minute sweet and one minute sour . With eye-hurting grammar to go with it. |
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 8:28am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Nothing in my post is expensive to do. Because it’s not a common practice doesn’t mean it can’t be done. Maybe we need to talk about it more so people can know about those options. And I didn’t say to not check on them. It’s just impractical to expect one to have an eye on the child 24/7. If he’s working and there’s no house help, will she cook, go to the toilet or even bath? That’s when such things come in handy. With a simple plastic child fence, a toddler can be quarantined into one section of the house with their favorite toys. while the Mom takes care of the house or even takes care of herself instead of being 100 percent exhausted all the time trying to prove good mom that no one is going to give her an award for. Many of us survived not because our mothers were perfect. We survived because of sheer good luck. ImaIma1: You think an average person in Nigeria does child proof in their houses? What of those that don't have the means to do all that you mentioned?
A mother cannot afford to be careless. Tragedy strikes without warning.
Some Sundays back a neighbour lost her son. A faulty standing fan shocked her sons. One jumped up and she told him to sleep elsewhere and she failed to check on the other son till daybreak not knowing that he had been electrocuted. People blamed her for being careless especially knowing that the fan was faulty.
Even with child proof, we can't just allow them wander without checking on them. I have seen mothers like the Ops wife. In my former street (ghetto setting) a child crawled onto the street and was crushed by a Coca-Cola truck.
People need to mind their children. Though ultimately, it is God who protects them. |
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 4:27am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Learn to type legibly I can’t tell if you’re having a seizure or not. What’s this? jaksmillioniar: just shut up hippocrate dont let me get mad at u is it not a stupid mother dat born and yet refuse to take care of d baby u neva see were d guy type d housegirl d wife alwz beat her is it right coco. d guy is worried about his baby u are sayin rubbish wat if she swallow tin dat poison her or cause sickness d man shd live his work and be clearing house abi why madam carry leg up to watch tv. |
Family › Re: Is Adultery Forgivable by cococandy(f): 4:24am On Jun 28, 2018 |
jaksmillioniar: a man must cheat is normal is eida dat or we marry anoda wife. Yea it’s only natural  That’s why y’all raising other men’s kids. Because sleeping around is normal |
Family › Re: Is Adultery Forgivable by cococandy(f): 1:51am On Jun 28, 2018 |
What is tradition? royalguy123: Good, It's not easy in the case of the Husband,cos he is the one that our traditions (Africans)permitted to have as many wives as possible. Biblically its not permitted, but in the case of the woman traditions DO NOT permit that a woman should cheat on her husband,The only way you can divorce your wife according to LAW/BIBLICAL reference is when the woman is caught in Adultery. |
Family › Re: Is Adultery Forgivable by cococandy(f): 1:50am On Jun 28, 2018 |
nanauju: It's not easy especially for a man. But a woman who loves you might overlook. Speak for yourself |
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by cococandy(f): 1:34am On Jun 28, 2018 |
I don’t always carry my baby every time she cries too. Neither do I run after her every time she wanders away. There’s also no need to rush to her rescue when she falls down. Unless she’s about to fall. But if she’s already down, it’s okay to call her to come to you as long as you can see the kid is alive and still breathing. Come on, they are not made of glass.
It’s not helpful in raising kids well. Plus it’s very very very very exhausting. Get the idea? At 17 months your baby’s senses are on full blast. Unless asleep or distracted by something, it is almost physically impossible for a kid to stay at a place for 20 minutes straight until around age 4. You’re probably complaining because you’re tired of running after her (or him) and you want the mom to do it. That’s how you should know it’s not easy.
Having found balance in her steps now, the baby will EXPLORE. . They want to see and touch everything. It’s not possible to rein them in without dropping everything else you want to achieve for that day. It may not seem like a lot of work but it is if you’re still expected to do other things in the home. So maybe look at it from her POV.
Your first priority now should be to baby proof your home. Remove harmful liquids, powders and small objects and lock up them up in cabinets with child proof locks. Seal up the unused electrical outlets that are within the baby’s reach. Use baby gate (it’s a short plastic gate that can extend) to seal of the areas you don’t want him/her walking into. I used it to stop my baby from going up and down the stairs and used it to cordon off the section where the TVs and stuff like that are. We had to remove all of our moveable furniture especially the glass center and side tables. Your house won’t look pretty but it’s worth saving yourself a trip to the emergency room.
After doing that, your baby can walk in the home wherever she wants and your wife will have time to do other stuff.
Many of life’s stresses can be avoided. Avoid this one |
Celebrities › Re: Iheoma Nnadi Exposes Lady Who Begs Her Money For Insulting Ighalo's Wife by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
The beggar got what he or she deserves
Reminds me of those hateful nairalanders that hide behind anonymous accounts to spew hate on those who have done nothing to them out of jealousy.
But in their other life they are beggars.
Successful people don’t hate. |
Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Her Friend Gave Her Serious Injury (Graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 8:19pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
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Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Her Friend Gave Her Serious Injury (Graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 7:57pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
Well you didn’t create it but you’re certainly helping to reinforce it, even though it’s absolutely untrue. Men do worse to other men. Everyday xynerise: I wasn't the one that created the saying "Women are their own worst enemy" 
Well, inasmuch as it happens to both sexes, men have a way of curtailing their jealousy. What we can't control is our ego. |
Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Her Friend Gave Her Serious Injury (Graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
xynerise: I have a female friend and I treat her like a sister Well I have a problem with one saying that women are better off with male friends. Like women aren’t capable of being good friends to each other. Are men also better off with female friends? That’s a sexist thing to say even though you may not realize it it didn’t mean it in that way. I used to believe that too based on how I was conditioned. Guys do bad stuff to each other all the time . No one is calling make friendships into question. Let’s not make one woman’s crime all women’s crime. |
Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Her Friend Gave Her Serious Injury (Graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 5:20pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
xynerise: I was talking about sensible guys not fuckboys  Mmm I see |
Crime › Re: Lady Cries Out After Her Friend Gave Her Serious Injury (Graphic Photos) by cococandy(f): 4:34pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
xynerise: Jeez!
Sorry o.
For the records, Girls that keep more of male friends are smarter and less disturbed about life Yea until they start wanting to sleep with you |
Crime › Re: South African Man Shot Himself After Murdering His Cheating Wife (Graphic Pics) by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
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Family › Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do? Matured Men Only. by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Jun 27, 2018 |
pocohantas: When I said it that sex is a collateral to some of them in a relationship, they came for my head. If these guys ain't fcking you, they feel they are being cheated  I don’t even have a problem with a guy who admits that sex must be a part of his relationship. You know, let the lady know where you stand before hearts and feelings all get involved. There are many ladies who like that too. But when a premium is put on being a virgin and at the same time sex is a requirement, it just makes for a biased situation that damns the lady if she does and damns if she doesn’t. Like whatever she chooses to do will never be good enough. |
Family › Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do? Matured Men Only. by cococandy(f): 9:24am On Jun 27, 2018 |
What do guys want?
In one moment they are desiring virgins for marriage and in the next moment they have a problem waiting for the so called virgin.
Unserious |
Family › Re: "My Wife Secretly Married Another Man, Tried To Poison Me & Sell My Duplex" by cococandy(f): 10:44pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
plessis: modify your post and applaud the woman for attempting to kill her husband.... No that’s evil. I won’t applaud that part |
Family › Re: "My Wife Secretly Married Another Man, Tried To Poison Me & Sell My Duplex" by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Men marry two wives secretly all the time. No sympathy there. I for pity this guy if he didn’t start his post by labeling all women bad. Oga sorry |
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Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 10:08pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Mindfulness: We have a report button on this forum and I am going to use it for the first time. Step one. I’m taking screenshots before the posts get hidden. This mofo will not understand what’s coming to him when and if he thinks he successfully stalks anyone I know off NL. |
Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 10:06pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Espada10: Stop panicking ... I can smell it all the way from here.
Relax ...go back to cooking for your lover
The real action is coming in your life. Onye apari. You bore me. There’s not one thing you typed I haven’t read before. Move along |
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Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
shaybebaby: The broke, hungry and bitter ones shall die from choking on their own bile.
If the shoes fits, begin dey choke!   |
Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Well I wish I knew who jilted him or forced him raise a child that’s not his. I’d buy the girl a drink.  She did well. It’s obvious all over him that he’s miserable JoannaSedley: ;DYour new eboyfriend sounds so pained as if you jilted him or something. . I used to be free with my old monicker but now i am mainly here to dispel unwarranted onslaught to my chosen profession. No time at all. E jolosi and e baddu belle pepu...muche che che |
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Events › Re: Man Receives Beating After Throwing Alligator Pepper Into Burial Grave(video) by cococandy(f): 9:11pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
PRESENTATION: I believe the people felt throwing alligator pepper into the gravel was done for some diabolical reasons.
Alligator pepper is believed to have some mythical power in African religion. ah I see |
Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 9:11pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
I’m not denying any of it Start the getting in touch please Espada10: Yen yen yen
Do I look all those yahoo boys that used and cum on you..this lauretta girl ..you are delusional sha.
The guilty are afraid.
Since I started flogging you
a)I noticed that you never denied having an affair and fucking another dude in your matrimonial bed.talkless of sucking another man's that is bigger than you poor husband.
b)You never denied that you child does not belong to your naive husband.
c) You never denied that your non -attractive husband has a small dick and can't last more than 5sec.
But see the way you are panicking over an email adresss even to the point of threatening ..dont worry your cup is full..
he will snap and your headline will be
Female nairalander clubbed or shot to death (In America) after husband discovers her cheating ways and divorce plans and also that he is not the Father of his son.
Another randy cheating naija wife killed by her husband in America |
Family › Re: DNA or Divorce: Is Now Important Since Some Women Are More Harmful Than Snakes by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: They will first of all single you out on a thread then move in for the kill.
If you really know all without knowing the contacts then it is all bullsh!ts 5 years on NL. Nothing new. I’ve actually retired from responding to them When I was new I used to reveal a lot about myself thinking humans were on here not knowing it was full of criminals . Now everyone claims to be my close paddy One used to curse me and my husband so much I wondered what we must have done to him. One day he sent me a message and I accepted thinking maybe we would make peace. After a few days he started begging for money to add to his business  Omg. Any means to try and get into your contacts. When they get inbox, they repent and their true agenda shows. |
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