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Someone explain

British accent is not necessary

Butterflyleo:
Bloggers are the bosses of the devil when it comes to lies.

The woman said her face / head was superimposed on the body of another woman aka Photoshop so as to push the story.

She said her friends and colleagues sent her the story and images and that she has lived in the UK for 13 yes and has 3 kids.

The only problem I had with the video and all she said was that despite living in the UK for 13 years her Yoruba accent is still very strong.

How can we yorubas live still go around pronouncing things like appointment as happointment and apology as hapology even even after 13yrs of exposure to daily proper pronunciation of such words?

Some nairalanders sounded like they were there when she had the affair, took the picture and then followed her to where she killed herself.

Those of you that rejoice when supposed bad things happen to others will always get your due reward.

millionboi2:
u d wicked 4concludin without hearing d man side of d story.

He’s a murderer. Nothing to hear from his side. Go and tell that dead kid to wait and hear from the man’s side before she dies. I guess you can’t because she’s already dead

I like don jazzy but he should go and marry. He’s getting old

Boooring

Wa wa wa

Your tears are pathetic

Espada10:
As they say the guilty are afraid. No be you again wey dey notorious for owerri before jamming an american mugu.A wise woman would have cooled her olosho behaviour down but not you...a runs girl remains a runs girl.

Moreover,
No evil is greater than a married woman sucking other men's dick outside and bringing another man's child to her naive husband.

Your husband may be naive But it is just a matter of time...one day is one day


As I said ...your headline

Female nairalander clubbed or shot to death (In America) after husband discovers her cheating ways and divorce plans and also that he is not the Father of his son.


Then don already kill your Cameroonian sister.

In your wild wet dreams . The good thing about life is that the evil you wish others always comes right back to you. That’s why you’re currently a loser. Will probably remain a loser for the rest of your life. Hating on women on NL and refreshing your feed to see when something bad has happened to any of them. Keep it up.

I used to do Olosho runs with your mother. She is an expert. I’m a good olosho because I learned from the best

Espada10:
Continue your olosho behaviour. ..I thought you would have stopped all this after your notorious days in imo ...I can already see your future headline for nairaland and other blogs

Female nairalander clubbed or shot to death (In America) after husband discovers her cheating ways and divorce plans and also that he is not the Father of his son

zeenaman:
If you investigate this deeply, you will see that it has to do with infidelity. Maybe the man discovered the kids were not his

Here’s one. Victim blaming without knowing the true story. And so fvcking what if the kid/s aren’t his? Why couldn’t he drag his miserable ass out of the marriage? He took the easy way. He should have stayed alive to suffer the consequences of his wickedness.
Someone that can kill (and kill a child too probably deserves to be cheated on). I have no sympathy for him if that’s what happened

He should have killed himself alone and died miserably. Wicked man.

95% of violent crimes in the world are committed by men. Something drastic needs to be done about this. Any stupid guy who can’t have his way takes up a gun and kills those around him. Ranging from school boys to old men, they all have the same thing in common. Which is asinine entitlement that causes them to think others owe them a certain reward/behavior or they will destroy things around them.

And the funny thing is they turn around to blame their victims for their behaviors. If she didn’t do this then I wouldn’t have done that.

Espada10:
That your naive husband accepted a bastard child from you (without knowing ) does not mean other men should or should not protect their intrest

Wa wa more weeping and gnashing

Can you even afford a DNA test?

Empty barrel making the most noise

annc:
As in eehhhh! I can't wait for you to come and visit spoil me with GOOD food

I’m going to eat yours

hensben:
Before a man can go extreme cursing women know that he has been hurt badly. And the worse thing to happen to a woman is a man curse . You ladies better change your ways. You guys take men love for u lots for granted and pay him by betraying his love. Men curse on women has a big effect according to Mother Nature, tell your lots to change their ways I repeat instead of been defendant here.

No it’s not. The worst thing that can happen to a woman is eating the same or less than everyone else and gaining more weight than everyone else.

You people give yourselves too much credit. Worst thing indeed. Stay there and be wasting your saliva thinking your ranting will affect any woman.

He poisoned one to death in his wild wet dreams .

Does that mofo sound like someone a girl would get close enough to the point of getting poisoned by him? Unless he dropped it in a random strangers food or drink.

That’s a loser right there. He’s the type that takes a gun to shoot up his class because no girl wants to give him pucci.

salt1:
You poisoned a girl to death! I had to go and read your other posts. You're a psycho. Her blood is haunting you. After confessing openly on an anonymous forum like this, you need to make your peace with your God. You should also seek out and apologize to the family you destroyed their daughter.
I think that's the way to regain your mental health.
I pray that you find peace, because you're mentally and spiritually troubled. Hooking up with a non Nigerian lady will not heal you. Confessing to God and man will.
May God deliver our daughters from your type

Wa wa wa

None stop weeping from so many guys these days.

If you don’t want kids from other men, stop sleeping with other men’s women

Na una dey do unasef

We are going along the lines of men and women have fixed roles in the families aren’t we? You’re a traditionalist who believes women should know their place and act accordingly. e.i being the home keeper and bla bla bla

I’d bet my jimmy choos that you won’t have any sympathy for a woman who fails to be a good house wife thus ‘pushing’ her husband to cheat.
She didn’t cook for him, she doesn’t keep the home, she’s not submissive, she’s wasn’t being all the traditional things a wife is supposed to be hence he cheated and it’s her fault.

Now all he had to do was be the traditional husband aka provider but he couldn’t and I’m supposed to be sympathetic?

Y’all can’t keep speaking from different sides of your mouths when it suits you.

Feminism will benefit you guys if you put your egos away. For now, suffer the consequences of your rigidity.

I won’t do the same to my husband. But guess what? He’s not a 17th-century-archaic-set-in-the-patriarchy-way kind of person.

If he was the type who expects that my life purpose be to serve him hand and foot, he better have the money flowing or ojo is gonna be the father of baby number 2.

Daboomb:
So losing one's job is PUSHING one's wife into anothe rman's hand?
So it is all about the MONEY?

What if it was the woman that lost her job will you say she pushed her husband into another man's hand, if he starts fucking his scecretary?

Would YOU do the same thing to your own husband or is it "Do as l say, not as l do"?

Well he already pushed her into her bosses arms

He shouldn’t make it worse.

Daboomb:
Somebody who already slept with her Boss, what other men's hand will she be pushed into?

As for praying for her, even prayers directly from jesus our Lord, did not save Judas!

Some situatiosn are best avoided, to avoid stories that touch, in future.

As for satisfying her, he will just kill himself trying.
Women are not wired to be satisfied, you can only try and plead for mercy, before you collapse.

mimimile93:
Cocob!tch stay off my mention..
God will punish all you u women..
Y'all will die a shameful death..

Sorry

Who hurt you?

mimimile93:
Kimbraa you are you prostitute.. Stay off my mention..

God will punish all you u women..

My y'all never see good thing in all that y'all do.
Since y'all have decided to be leeches and unfaithful heaven will be unfaithful to y'all ladies.. Y'all females will die in ur youth..

Why do you want to take a two year old from the mother? Are you okay?

You think your mom will raise her better than her own mother? Get out of your feelings and ego and do what’s best for your child. I was reading your post feeling sorry for you and I was about to type a long consolation post for you until I got to the part where you wanted to take the small child from her mother.

Why do people loose their senses when they get hurt by their partner? Many children get abused physically and emotionally because divorced parents want to play power tussle with the children. No sane judge will grant you sole custody of that baby. The best you can get is shared custody. Yes you may not want to see your ex again but that’s your cup of tea. However you’re gonna have to deal with seeing her for the sake of your child until she’s old enough to take care of herself. Then you guys can cut ties for good.

Until then, you both have to learn to be civil around each other even if you both remarry while doing your best to raise the child you made together.

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

He should pray for his wife and try to please her instead of pushing her into the arms of other men

Daboomb:
So, what exactly are you trying to say, with all these your diatribes?
That he should just soak it up and pretend as if nothing has happened or that he should go jump into the Lagoon because he caught his wife cheating with her Boss?

Dont carry-over your "burdens" to these thread!
Advice the Op on what he can do or Gerroutahea..... all the above rant cant solve your issues.

annc:
Isi ewu (home made)

I need to come visit you

iPopAlomo:
I'd rather she cheating with your husband though... seeing you burn with rage will be a madness...

Unfortunately, Your ego won’t let be your first reaction.
The need to prove that you’re better than her and that you are naturally designed to get away with some excesses while it’s an abomination for her to do the same will always take prominence. Anaghi amu aka ekpe na nka

iPopAlomo:
with your husband...?

who knows except Jehovah?
But she’s doing it and it doesn’t matter with who.
What matters is that you’re none the wiser and even if you do find out, the most you can do is to come to NL or go to igando marriage court and make noise

Your woman is currently getting away with cheating on you

iPopAlomo:
I thought women can cheat and get away with it...


la feminists... you've nothing to say...? a woman is a woman... very emotional and unstable... it's why you women don't know what you want... best among women are the ones that recognizes their roles in the home...

Who thought this was funny to do to this child?

neonly:
Na dis kid treatment dem for give am