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lofty900:
I call it roasted BUM BUM

how is this funny to you?

victorazy:
so the guy should go childless?

Doesn't answer my question.

But To answer yours. Yes He should go Childless or adopt.

Would you accept your woman getting pregnant by your brother if you guys aren't able to have a child together?

Now you're going to go on rambling about how it's okay if you do it but an abomination if she does.

Disgusting hypocrite

Her having a boyfriend or not is irrelevant in this discussion. Until her boyfriend comes forward to complain about her cheating on him, then I'll call her a cheater.

And yes I'm aware of how much more inappropriate/reprehensible it is that the man she chose if her brother in law and not just any other random married guy out there.

DarkRebel69:
And Cococandy, you said, "The married man and his mistress aren't both cheaters. The married one is the cheater."

Well, I think you're wrong. The mistress cheated her sister of her marital joy, so in a way she's a cheat too. You can fück another woman's husband, but to do that to your sister is to me the height of familial betrayal.

And, how do we know she wasn't in a relationship while having assignations with her brother-in-law? She could also have been cheating on her boyfriend or fiance.

victorazy:
na me marry her no be she marry me.

does that even make sense to you?
So she's married to you but you're not married to her?

DarkRebel69:
I already knew this would be your response.

So, if a civilian robbed a bank with the help of a police officer and gets caught, we should absolve the civilian of his crimes because – unlike the policeman – he/she did not take any vows to uphold the law? I hope you know I'm tying this analogy to the comment you made about the man being the married one?

The analogies aren't related

The civilian and the police officers are both thieves

The married man and his mistress aren't both cheaters. The married one is the cheater.

While the mistress' action is immoral, She's not the one breaking a marriage vow.

Fake Gucci
Nigerians and fake designer products

DarkRebel69:
Emmm, sorry, but it's, "Some humans can be really disgusting". It wasn't a solo affair, but one aided and abetted by a "more than willing" accomplice, so why should she be precluded from blame?

This seems a tad biased.

I'm not absolving her of any blame

He's the married one in this case

Some men can be really disgusting

I thought there's no possible way people could get dumber.

I stand corrected

humblenature:
LISTEN EVERYBODY. let me educate u all before some ignorant ignoramus come here and spew trash. SATAN is the ruler of this world . and he hates anything male. he loves females so much because eve obeyed .since then he has formed a relationship with women that has flourished over the years. why do u think there is mammy water , queen of coast? do u hear king of coast?.why is the word witch popular than wizard? why is jezeebel and delilah very popular in bible? listen God uses men , satan uses women . believe it or not. thats why u hear pastors and reverend fathers and nkt pastoresses and reverend mothers. devil is not happy with man(male) because man is Gods direct creation. woman was only made from man. hence d weakness. let me educste u more. why do u think we celeberate women more than men here on earth? womens day, mothers day, different music eulogizing women even after men have suffered too.? its because devil supports them once you serve devik devil will promote you here on earth. whenever u see a man and woman quarelling, never support the woman. woman are not meant to talk were a man is. they were made from the bone of our bones and from the flesh of our flesh. we are lord and master over them . they dont have a say when we are around .and in family matters , they are under thier husband. and that is were they belong. even when the man is bad. they shuld either pray to God for chsnge but never stand uo to him. and so also his offsprings.. so pls dont decieve yourselves that times have changed. Gods word has never changed. the life woman breathes is not directky from God like he did to the male, but they breathe the life of the male through his rib.. woman be warned. una dey talk too much.

Dumbfvck

humblenature:
I thank God for using you to vindicate me.. foul mouthed creatures. evil like their mother eve. tell me. did God create woman? did he breathe life into her? the answer is no.. woman was formed from d rib of man. she is breathing the life of man.God never created her like he created man. so listen man is the bringer of life so u belong to ur dad. the air you breathe is your dads life. bro i repeat, never ever you succumb to womens ways. they easily evoke pity but dont be decieved. many people are in prison today because of the wily ways of women . beware. even adam was destroyed by a woman and everything the world is facing today is because of eve a woman. bros.. i advise you to call your dad aside and ask him to tell you what he knows dat u dont know.. i am sure he will tell you enough to full your ears. instead of running from him, move closer to him.

Many Nigerians have fathers like this. Wonder why the half of the society is in disarray. No worthy leadership.
Sorry OP. I'm sure you've gotten enough advice by now

How nice

Minimize distractions

When the girl or girls you impregnated during your sojourns while running away from home and your responsibilities start coming out one by one, then your real problems will begin.

Until then bye bye

She was all this good yet you didn't hesitate to abandon her and your child when she didn't behave perfectly?

Go on

Avsegzy:
I'm not perfect and not trying to portray her as the "baddest" but I'm a cool person who don't love much arguments and try to avoid confrontations but i notice if someone offend me or do something wrong if i don't tell the person about it or try to correct him or her ,it won't get off my mind easily. She was the best girl,she wasn't demanding i did force her to take money from me then but she wouldn't,when she came to visit me she would buy many things yet she would refuse to even take money for transport.
The only time i gave her money was when she wanted to buy goods into her shop and needed 4k to complete it,i gave her 10k instead but she returned 6k
she was very good and decent, a very devoted Christian,so respectful,in fact all my siblings and parent accepted her wholeheartedly at first meeting but none of them she take serious anymore,anyone that try to intervene takes his or her own insult my mum inclusive.her mum and sister had tried their best.
Her mum and mine once concluded im too cold. That i need to handle her with iron hand cos she's ever right and not submissive to anyone.
The major problem is pretense she should have let me known who i was taking.Some women pretend to get what they want and change later

A190:
This is not feminism, but stupidity. No offence aunty

I wish you a husband like the OP. Those likes you're looking for, you'll get them plenty from nairaland misogynists. Keep it up

A190:
This is not feminism, but stupidity. No offence aunty

None taken

Mentally unbalanced people living like normal people among the rest of the population. All of you who have supported or encouraged this wicked attitude rampantly displayed by supposedly normal human beings will one day face such loss. people will look at your social media page and decide that you deserved it.

Deranged fvcktards.

Logging off to go mingle with normal 'uninsane' people.

PDPGuy:
Really shocking how people can issue flippant comments about the dead. Smh

Like a Virgin Mary couldn't have been kidnapped and the same thing done to her.

Judgmental assholes everywhere on NL and they are in no way better than the victim.
It's so disgusting

Reference:
You advertise your body all over the place, they take it. Why not advertise your mental acumen instead. Lazy lots.

Even you

Toks2008:
Believe it or not,, many slay queens will still be slain this night either physically or spiritually.

They never learn.

I wouldn't expect anything better from you . So no surprise here. Dimwit

Mintayo:
Now she has a lot to tell her maker. How she spent her life on earth.
A yellow paw paw now turned white, lifeless stone.
Nothing last for ever, not even pleasure.

Stupid fvcker

Phew. Thank you for restoring my sanity

MadCow1:
They wanted a Woman's tongue and Vagina.. They would have gotten it one way or another. If it wasn't her it would have been someone else. That Girl didn't get killed because she was posting photos on Instagram, she got killed because sick f.uckers who also "BELIEVE" (like you) in imaginary things killed her.

STOP being a judgemental C.unt.

People posting photographs on Social Media isn't a Sin. Does not hurt anyone.

Even if she was a Prostitute, the agreement is to have sex for a price not to kill and mutilate her.

Religion really does becloud common sense. I would rather have them on Instagram posting pictures all day than be on the streets commuting an actual crime.

In all the foolishness contained in your post, you didn't once mention the actual reason she died, you just latched on to "Instagram" and "Slay Queen" which obviously are your trigger words and ran with that.

Learn to focus on the things that actually matter in life lest you end up chasing shadows. That could have been you killed returning from a motherfucking Night Vigil. Did that thought even cross your mind you simpleton.

And yes I am Madcow (not a Mad Cow as cows can't read or write English) cos that's the first shiit you cun.ts pick on.

You think this can't happen to you because you're productive?

You're living in a fool's paradise if you think so. Anyone can end up like this. You're not better than her. Her death is to supposed to be an avenue to mount your moral high horse.

It's saddening that you're a foot soldier of misogyny who will always blame the female victim for her predicament even when the evil person in the situation is not her.

Disgusting .

MissCokie:
She finally got slayed. I cry all day on my Instagram page, and offline telling girls to change and be productive. All I get is insults, private DMs filled with hate and disgust towards me. Some times warnings. But I ignore them all.

Now that she got slayed, where did her slay queen mentality lead her to? , to the grave, early grave. God have mercy on her.

SirJeffry:
How can you have plans without your wife's input, abandon her, and above all not provide for her financial needs and you say she is a nag.

My major anger is that you have the guts to play the victim here, if I catch you eeh.

Phew. Someone else has some sense here.
I was about to give up

If you're not biased , then call op out on his wicked attitude.

I don't see how his wife is even as bad as he is.

Cladez:
I hope you know you are biased?
common sense doesn't tell that waking someone from sleep to dress the sheet is outright disrespect.You faulted the man in everything and even went ahead to call someone you don't know a terrible person.I believe you could do worse to your husband thats if you have one.

Avsegzy:
and mind you my work permit didn't fail i went to another place to work cos there they pay per day so that i can send the money to her to stop the pressure

Let's clap for you because you're providing for your family to reduce pressure.
Like you're supposed to be told to do that in the first place. You sound irresponsible from your story.
You've been trying to run away from your responsibilities since day one. From seeking transfer to running abroad without your family.
There is nothing commendable about any of your actions as stated in your first post.
Your wife may have issues with inappropriate attitude but she's not the devil you came here to describe.

And you're the one who's not biased?

Take her matter to god when he is going against every commandment of god about marriage. Birds of a feather

myking95:
Seems u are new to nairaland. Never answer cococandy. She will support anything with a vagina even if it/she nuked the whole planet. Don't expect logic from a biased faulty misandrist non-existent mind. So her advice shouldn't count.

On to more important things. Take her matter to God. Commit yourself to God,build your life, apply wisdom and keep your distance from her for the time being. If she tries to harm u (which is likely) she will just end up shooting her own foot. If she comes back to her senses...then u have got a testimony.

The principle is simple, commit your life and ways to God(not religion o), separate for the time being, carry her matter to God(she might be paranormal, who knows? Let's hope not) and apply wisdom to minimize your dealings with her

There are more important things to do in life, than to put up with a woman bent on being evil. One thing I do know is I always try to make positive contributions to every life I come across, male or female, poor or rich, mighty or low, sick or healthy, fit or disabled. Every human being deserves that. But I'm also smart to commit myself to God(not perfect) and apply little spiritual principles of protection. The hearts of humans are evil.


Even if na witch I marry by mistake, I'll just do the above, give it a year or two, na she go wish say she no be witch.

Avsegzy:
If you're a man and still single I'll just pray for you to witness same thing as practical not this theory you're reading,..then you'll come back and give a better comment

you abandoned her and your kids.
Who plans to travel abroad without telling their spouse? If you're a good person, both of you will be in on the travel plans together.

ikemesit4477:
your wife is evil, the best thing for you to do is to divorce her before she kills you!

How's she evil?