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Breastfeeding is not by force.
That was very stupid of all involved to try to force her.

As for the woman, you left your children? Mmm mmm. I don't have pity for absconding parents. Don't come back when the kids have grown to try and reap where you did not sow. That who has sailed. I won't forgive you if I'm your child. Eff off

beardlessdude:
come to my house let me tell you why. Oloriburuku. Stupid question.

Lmao. Not a single intelligent response in sight.

beardlessdude:
If you wake up every morning fantasizing being penetrated by a fellow man, you don't deserve to be alive.

why?

KingEbukaNaija:
If incest is between two consenting adults , does it make it right ?

It makes it none of your business that's what.
I know minding your business is a very very hard concept for many Nigerians.

Ronaldinnioh:
Lesbian spotted

so?

Xda59:
Because the satanic act propagates an evil votex over us. Who wants that?

How does this make sense to you?
Psychiatric patients taking out their paranoia on every one else. That's what you lot are.

Retardd

Angeleena:
na today,I know say,silly anus drillers,are much on Nairaland, upon all the boobies, and ass,wey lalasticala dey try,show una..I choose,to reply u,out of the countless mentions am having.. coz urs,is so emotional, and pained...I know,it's not about sex,and pussy,but it's about feelings, but you must be a dumb ass,to fall in love,with a man like u..the same husky voice and everything.. and,hey cry no more,coz am not snatching ur partner, I ain't twerking my ass for him..stay off,my mentions, lest u lose,ur loosened anus,for life!!!!

So everyone will become gay? You're so smart

DerideGull:
There is no progressive society that embraces suicidal endeavor. If everybody should foolishly accept this your so-called new changes, the earth will end in a period of 80 years because there will be no production of human beings to continue warming the greatest creature in the universe. Homosexual is antihuman period. I agree homosexual is not a disease but selfish dead-end life style that has no place in a progressive society.
A society is meant to reproduce its kind biologically. Can homosexual society be able to continue a lineage?

Xda59:
Well if you suffer from hormonal imbalance, then get a doctor to treat it or rather commit suicide. What the hell do idiots like you enjoy f.ucking another man's ass? Tufiakwa, I swear this is a curse.

If your ass isn't the one being fvcked, why does it matter to you?

Ronaldinnioh:
Can it be possible to kill available homosexuals in Nigeria. Pls am ready to sponsor it.

I hope you die a very miserable death

Or you're secretly worried that you like dikc.

Akalia:
Lol, this is a welcome development, let the trend be entrenched in our society. I am homophobic. A full blown crusade should be declared on homosexual men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgenders.

Shut the fvck up

Akalia:
the reason for my hard feelings toward these set of perverts( homosexuals, bisexuals and transgenders) is simply because they are not remorseful. They are unrepentant and they are stiff necked. Worst still is the fact that they give credence to such perversion. I hope to see the birth of a strong crusade that will discipline this immoral vermins in our society.

Barbarians

I wonder why his daughter would want to marry a man who cheats on her. She will definitely say no to marrying someone like her father.
Guess what? He will blame his wife for it (as he already is doing). He will blame his wife for his behavior and blame her for his daughter's decisions. Like kids can't see.

dominique:
How won't you have hypertension when you're busy cheating around? If you have issues with your wife, you find a way to sort it out with her rather than exposing both of you to STDs. If she's upsetting you in any way and you can't call her to order, report her to those who can. Rather than squander money on side sluts, book some therapy sessions. If those doesn't work, then go your separate ways. The way you men glorify infidelity is sickening. If your daughters say they don't want to marry a man like you now, you and your ilks will start foaming in the mouth. Nigerian men, change!!!

Even some men are saying NO.
So it's not a daughter thing really. I know the thread is looking for women's response .

jagugu88li:
The one thing that scares me in this thread is the realization that daughters dont love their fathers....this much. Very Sad

The relationship between these two people can be so strong even a husband or boyfriend would be jealous of the father. I won't say maybe its because I grew up with only a father, but fathers are a ladies best confident.

My high school graduation, sporting weekends, summer camps, driving, standing with a boy (the yelling that evening ), university, first day at work.....He was there, smiling and bragging about his job well done. He will be there when I get married....and give that dude hell . I can just imagine that crooked thumb he points with when he is about to talk out of line

Soon, just soon, I think being born male will be a problem.

You're the one who's cheating, yet she's the bad person?
Talk about deluded.

atakamus:
Before you blame your pop, access your mom's behaviour at home. I am married and has cheated on my wife ones and doubt if I will stop. Her behavior is unacceptable. Not that she cheats or well I have not caught her though but her attitude stinks. I am strongly contemplating polygamy. I love my children very much.
My dad was the best. I know too that it was because my mom was and is still a wonderful woman. Dad is dead though. He was a great dad and husband. My mom always tell me to take his ways. Well I did before but I have become a loser for it. I am barely 38 and is how battling hypertension now. I basically live on drugs daily. My wife's attitude contributed to it.

Nofuckgiven:
Actually, it is the women who have failed to raise responsible men who treat women the way they want the women to treat them. Even the Bible said,do unto others what you have them do to you!

Actually men have a role to play in raising their sons too.

As for the question, mine is no

Nofuckgiven:
Same stupid defensive statements useless misogynistic fools like yourself make when a smart woman points out your errors! Pathetic!

I just ignored the retardd.

That's nice

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Onegai:
Eh, I just got my own tongue lashing. I reacted to very obvious wickedness and it was met with shrieks of "Are you being rude to me?!!! "when the actual thought was" At last, an opening! I can finally break her down, I thought she would never snap, whew, now whom do I report her to so they can finish the good job of demolishing her, I need to protect my own at her expense". I cannot WAIT to fvck her daughter up one day in a likewise manner.

It makes no sense to them that they can be a better way. Change is hard, especially when millions cannot do it. That is why they will tell you "Marriage is not easy, Love covers a multitude of sins" whilst glossing over the fact that not only did God abhor Adultery and Abuse so much, He put it in the 10 commandments but the Bible is filled with scripture telling men how to act better. However, who's in charge of most churches? So why fight the status-quo.

@bold, bingo!

Onegai: In the North, it is women who celebrate child marriage loudest. They went through it and survived, how dare you think things should be different? Peju Alatishe made a statue to it.

Exactly. 'It happened to us so it has to be continued'
Sigh

Onegai:
And when you have problems and want to leave, they will fight you to the bitter end to make sure you stay, armed with biblical passages, browbeating and ruthless emotional blackmail. They will swear to you they are now happy after 10 years of sorrow, so you should get in line. They are also the chief procurer of the movie "War Room".

Forgive my laughter. It's just funny.

I've an older female related to me that this describes perfectly. And sometimes I just keep quiet so that someone won't go report me to my parents for being disrespectful.

I've always wanted to ask her in a not very nice way. "What did you gain from your marriage and why are you always on the case of single girls"?

It's true. What I wonder most is this.

I did notice based on personal experience that it's even the women in unhappy marriages who are usually loudest about enticing other girls to get married.

It's almost like they have a secret joke that I'm yet to find out.

Onegai:
Why are you laughing, it's the truth we can scream all we want about what will happen after (the terror, anguish, heartbreak and dumb acceptance of their jail and sorrow and clinging desperately unto prayer and the Church), but they are too busy fantasizing about the asoebi, how pretty they will look, the attention they will get and how sweet it will be to start every sentence with "my husband said/did...". Idiotically, they don't realize that is why weddings are all about the bride: because you should always dress the animal to be slaughtered for sacrifice in a nice manner and pet it, you wouldn't want it bolting in fear now, would you?

I mean, the happiest married Nigerian woman is usually in her 40s. Let that chilling remark sink in as you wonder what happened to her 20s and 30s.

Juzzybabe, relax your child won't grow up and hate you. My cousin doesn't care about his father (he loves his mum), I don't send my dad, infact I won't even name my child after him (and he left me property sef), and as you can see, there are a million threads on NL stating how they love their mothers, not their fathers. So ignore all these people trying to scare you. They have to try so that when you break down and go back to your marital cage like a dumb and broken animal, they can high-five themselves on a job well done and hope when it is their wife's turn, others will help break her down into dumb acceptance.

Have to find a way to blame the woma don't you? Stupid

tosyne2much:
I believe this should serve as a lesson to other girls that are obsessed with abroad based guys.

I really learnt a lot of lessons from her story tho

Fvck off. Nobody cares about what any man wants here in this particular case. The world does not revolve around you people.

She wants to be with and raise her child. End of discussion. Her life decisions doesn't have to be about improving her suitability for a future dude who probably another self conceited asshole.

LexngtonSteele:

Just 1 single question :

Is it the norm or the exception for a man to want to take care of another man's kids?

Answer before I start yawning again.... YAWN...

I know your type, after ranting here, you would be the first to say an "after-1" has lost market value in real life


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Lmao

Onegai:
Marriage for women is like chickens voting for Christmas; they know they are gonna die but they still want Christmas to be celebrated and are happy when it comes around.

Where are all hospital, creche and school fees receipts? Get your bank statements for at least 6 months. More than enough proof that he paid zilch for upkeep. Then get a shi.t hot lawyer. You may need to start a social media campaign.

Wow. So scoring another man (who's probably another idiot BTW) is more important than being with and raising her own child? Mind boggling

LexngtonSteele:
This won't be a popular opinion. ..

I would say give the baby to the man and exit the relationship.

That's the ONLY way you can ever be rid of him.
What are the advantages?

1. He doesn't have any right to see you again.

2. Your chances of settling with another guy improves. Believe me, no matter how diplomatic guys would want to appear, NO MAN WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN's CHILD.

The only disadvantage I can see is that you lose your own child. If you keep the child, no matter what the courts say, you must accommodate the father at some point.

Question is....do you dislike the man enough to pay the price?

So you think a man can give a two year old the type of dedicated care a mom can? Or don't you realize that if he gets custody of that child, it will just be for him to send the child to his parents or his new woman who will use the baby as a punching bag. Please apply reason when commenting

majekdom2:
You've been on his issue for a longtime.... More than 3 years. That dude is a roadblock to where you are going. Many people will tell you to fight and keep the child.. Yea great right. I'd like you to think twice about this. He might not be able to take care of the child but trying to frustrate and give you sleepless nights cause he already knows the advice you'd be given. For the sake of the child, do you think he will be able to cater and provide for the child more than you can? I don't want to buy the 40K gist.. he has spent more than 40K on this case. Just so you don't have regrets tomorrow.... you know the dude more than anyone on this forum. The child might grow up to know his father and have this thought his father could have done better than you are doing. Have a real thought, don't just follow any advice asking you to keep a child if you know it will be more than tough for you. These days, it's not about food but good food, it's not about education but quality education. You need to give you child the upper hand from childhood if you want him to do well in life. I am sorry, I see many things differently.

jakandeola:
is the truth d fact he beat u dont mean he dont love u like I put in my blog u women act like baby and dont respect a man. his beat is a love beat to correct u

I wish imbeciles like you would not quote me

I hope they get the death penalty

I'm really happy for this lady